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Should I talk to my close friend/crush
Posted Thursday August 20 2015, 7:55 pm
I'm a 11th grader female. I got a crush on a close friend and he kind of found out. It was awkward for a while but we settled things and decided dating wasn't for us and we still want to be friends. We were still friends and he willingly talked to me a lot even though I did feel things weren't the same as before... but both were okay with that. Anyways, now the new school started and he doesn't talk to me. During the summer we only spoke once when he asked for my snapchat username but even then it seemed like he didn't wanna talk to me too much. I really haven't made an attempt to talk to him either because I don't know if I should. I don't like him as a crush anymore but do as a friend. He is a great person and I want to resume our friends...
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Confused about my romantic and sexual orientations?
Posted Thursday August 20 2015, 5:10 pm
Hi everyone! I'm new here and have been struggling with my romantic and sexual orientations. My feelings seem to be very contradictory and so I was hoping for some outside perspectives.
I'm 22, female, and for a few years now have identified as biromantic bisexual, though I am not sure how accurate that is. I'm just gonna reel off relevant information to try and give you a thorough picture of my experience with romance/sexuality thus far (it's pretty long but I don't know how else to explain everything fully):
As a child I experienced infatuations with both boys and girls, which generally involved a desire to be with, to touch (non-sexually) and to kiss that person. However, these were often quite fleeting and...
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How can I stop being a slut?
Posted Thursday August 20 2015, 4:55 am
So I lost my virginity at a young age. I will be 15 soon and I lost my virginity to another 14 year old about 6 months ago. I'm not ashamed of this at all, he was my boyfriend, we'd talked about it before and I felt ready. However, as much as I'm okay with what I did, he was kind of an idiot and it ended quickly and that was it. I was upset about it, and his best friend who was angry at his friend partly for the reason he treated me, comforted me about it. We then ended up getting close and we did most things but sex. He was really lovely and I liked him a lot, and we weren't actually in a relationship but we were more than just sexual stuff. But he ended up wanting to get back with his ex girlfriend. That wasn't his fault and it just ended...
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Posted Tuesday August 18 2015, 2:16 pm
I want to die.please help me.my husband praises my sisterinlaw I just can't bare.I can die instead. I explained this to him.but he did not change.I'm working and have 2kids.so I'm always busy.and tht lady has no kids and stays at home.he praises for everything. I want to kill myself
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I have a crush on my friend's HUGE crush!
Posted Friday August 14 2015, 9:38 pm
Ok, so my good friend has this HUGEEEEE crush on this boy, and she's had it ever since they met, which was pre school, (we're in middle school now). And just a couple months ago we were all hanging out when BOOM! I started to have a crush on him, too. No way am I telling my friend, she would never talk to me and literally kill me. Please help me! Please give me answers as to what I should do! What if he asks me out?!!?!?!?! HELP!
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summer love, were both going home. how do i confront him ?
Posted Friday August 14 2015, 8:17 pm
Hello,
So I met a guy at my internship that i got for the summer and we really hit it off. We have been hanging out a lot and becae really good friends. We have started having sex but nothing about our relationship status has been declared.
In a couple weeks we are both moving back home, which is about 6.5 hours away from each other. I really like him and would like to make it work so that if we were to start dating we could stay together and see each other as much as possible.
Before a couple days ago he hasn't really said much about going home but the other day he brought up how close we are to the end of summer, i asked if he was happy to be going home and he said will be sad he doesn't get to...
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How Far is Too Far For Christians?
Posted Friday August 14 2015, 3:02 am
So I'm a strong Christian and I'm 15 and going to be a sophomore. I have been a Christian for years. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he is a Christian also (17 and senior). As Christians we don't believe in marriage before sex but we have already been to third base together even though we say we won't go further. Is that too far? Inside I feel like it is but I don't know how to slow down sexual but keep up in the relationship. What should I do?
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committed but crushing
Posted Tuesday August 11 2015, 11:35 am
I am in a committed relationship (3yrs) and we have a 16 month old son together. I love him more than anything. We have a couple issues but are open and communicative about them. One is that he is a workaholic and his current job requires minimum of 12 hour days. The second issue is that he had a low sex drive where as mine is insatiable. Add that to the fact that he's never home and our love life is pretty much nonexistent.
I met a guy and he has become my best friend. He is an amazing person. I know that he is not someone I would likely end up with but I can't help but feel this insanely strong attraction to him. I don't want to cheat but I am finding myself wanting to spend all my time with him and I desire to be intimate with ...
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my mom is completely against my bf and wants me to stop talking to him
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 1:16 pm
I am 17/f about to be 18 next month. I have been talking to this 21 year old guy since December. It was such a random thing, he messaged me on fb very politely, we had a really nice conversation and havent really stopped talking since. Hes always been very kind and sweet to me, always consistent. He asked me out in January but I didnt start liking him until around March/April. In the meantime he always treated me very very well. We got into to a relationship around April and weve been getting stronger and better and my feelings have grown a lot for him. And the way things went with meeting him and all that has been truly amazing. He can sense how im feeling, synchronicities always happen between us. I do not believe in coincidences and I fe...
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Am I being too selfish/unreasonable in my relationship?
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 8:44 am
I've been dating my older boyfriend for 4 years. He had commitment issues (took him 2 years to actually say I love you) because he was hung up on his ex-wife and wouldn't admit it. Two years ago, she died (cancer). He says he is complete and over her, yet I found a poem he wrote her recently saying how he loves her, and how he does everything in his day to make her proud, and how she's his best friend, and he can't wait till he sees her again. We had a fight about it, he said he wrote it so his girls could read it so it would help them. But he put I love you at the end.. and what was in it discredited me. Saying he did everything for her and still loves her, and nothing past tense. He still has her death card on the fridge after 2 yea...
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Confused
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 6:01 am
I have never dated before because I was always to focused on my education *20 year old female. Now I like this guy and he likes me. Problem is I don't understand him. When I give him attention he makes me feel like I'm bothering him. When I ignore him he wants to be clingy. And every time we see each other there is an awkward vibe. He says we need to talk about our relationship because even our friends are confused, but when we are alone he does not want to talk. PLEASE HELP.
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girlfriends lied about age
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 12:58 am
Ok I'm from pa my girlfriend lied to me about her age she said she is 17 and November she be turning 18 but she's really only 15 and about to turn 16 in November and I'm 27 years old and we been with each it here for just about a year and and she might be pregnant now sense the baby wouldn't be hear until after her birthday would I go to jail sense she would say it was consistentual and would I be able to marry her. I just wish she would have told me but. I would like to marry her cause if it wasn't for her age and finding out I was going to marry her I know this sounds crazy but I was really going to purpose to her on what I thought was her 18th birthday. So if any body could help me with this thank you
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Summer love, hes moving back home will it last
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 12:46 am
Hello,
So I met a guy at my internship that i got for the summer and we really hit it off. We have been hanging out a lot and becae really good friends. We have started having sex but nothing about our relationship status has been declared.
In a couple weeks we are both moving back home, which is about 6.5 hours away from each other. I really like him and would like to make it work so that if we were to start dating we could stay together and see each other as much as possible.
Before a couple days ago he hasn't really said much about going home but the other day he brought up how close we are to the end of summer, i asked if he was happy to be going home and he said will be sad he doesn't get...
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Boyfriend going to college... How to cope?
Posted Friday August 7 2015, 2:11 am
This whole day I've been crying on and off since my boyfriend(19) is going to be leaving for college in less than a week... I'm a senior(17) in high school and I'm really looking forward to graduate... But not the in between. I cant imagine going to school without him and I feel like I'm going to be so lonely. We are still planning to date throughout this coming year and I'm planning to go to the same college...
However, on top of all of this I get really scared he will find someone more prettier or more positive than me. He says hes not but I get really scared. I just really love him.
Please do not say that its just young love since its way more than that... I've lost my virginity to him and we've been dating for a while and ...
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i need bleeding my first night
Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 6:10 am
i rate hight
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What do u THINK " U 👉👑👈" means ??
Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 12:57 am
my boy friend just send me that I think it means I'm a queen but idk what do YOU THINK it means feel free yo say anything
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what to do when my bf is acting somehow?
Posted Monday August 3 2015, 4:24 pm
hi.im a girl of 19 years and im in a relationship with my bf for 3months now.it is a long distance relationship.i love him so much and he is my everything.i messed up and i dont know why i did what i did because i love my bf.few days me and my bf we were fighting but we sortes things out.he asked me to forgive him and i did.so now i messed up but dont think we will be fine again.i kissed his roomate on june but he found it out now.so he is angry but he said we should give it a try again.the problem is things are not the way the used to be.it is like he is pretending now.dont know what to do now.im trying to make things right but it is still the same.when i tell him how sorry i am.he told me that im like his exes and he will not forget he is...
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How can I stop myself from doing stupid things at parties?
Posted Sunday August 2 2015, 7:07 pm
I really cannot understand myself, and why I keep doing things I regret.
I am in relationship with an amazing man, and I am ready to commit for life...
really, he is amazing and we are really great together.
And I just cant understand why when on occasion I go out to clubs without him, I tend to just go with what others are doing.. and I end up doing things that I know my boyfriend wouldnt like and I am so ashamed of it.
(Ive never really properly cheated,
but Ive let guys hold me and stuff and I dont think its ok, so maybe it does count as cheating??)
I am bad at saying no, not because I want anyone else or really want to do these things..
but more because I'm not quite sure at the...
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Is it a break-up or no? Confused
Posted Friday July 31 2015, 4:01 am
Hello,I've been in a long distance relationship for quite some time now,as of a week ago,I didnt hear from my guy,due to some personal problems and his dad being in the hospital. Below,I have written the text message he sent me:
''Dear___ ,So it's been long enough and I think you deserve an explanation for my absence.I've been drifting apart. mostly because I dont know what I'm doing right now.I need to get my life back on point and I just cant rely on you right now.And when I say rely on you,I mean for you to be okay with whatever life we would live together.There's a dream and then there is reality and right now its looking difficult for me becauseI cant seem to find a stable job.But Ive made a commitment from today and fro...
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My Boyfriend Gaming
Posted Friday July 31 2015, 12:34 am
I'm gonna keep this short and sweet. Why does my boyfriend always play video games with his friends when I'm over. I realize he has friends. But why can't me and him just spend time together. Everytime I come over, his friends will ask him to play a game (He talks to them on Skype while playing)(PC). Sometimes he'll ask me if he's allowed to play because we've got into before about this and I'll tell him to do whatever he wants. If I say no he's gonna do it anyway just like any typical man. What am I supposed to do while plays. I can't watch TV because his desk is right beside it (his body is in front of it) plus he talks. He wants me to watch him play,come on now. Sometimes when I try to talk to him he won't even hear me because of his hea...
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