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My grandma choked me. What to do? Please help fast.
Posted Monday August 26 2013, 5:54 pm
My grandma choked me Sunday night and I did not do anything. I am 17 about to be 18
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recovering alcoholic calling me c,,, for looking on his phone
Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 7:01 pm
Hi Joe,
I have been with a 52yr old man who got a dwi 2 yrs ago we have been together for almost 3. he went to terrific rehab after i told him i would not be a part of that kind of life..he has not drank in 2yrs. he is overpowering to my personality and has called me the c word and did a few mean things to me while he drank. well he is now sober and recently got mad because he felt i betrayed his trust by viewing his phone( i confessed) he moved out and said i would never see him again after cursing me spitting in my face (a little spit as he says) called me c... again,slut and this last word while he was on the phone with his ex-wife, said i was fat....then hours later called me crying that he had no where to go and he was sorr...
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die
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 3:01 am
how can a man die with a essay way without any pain ?
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My friend and I Need help with being bullied and disrespected
Posted Saturday July 20 2013, 3:05 pm
So im 15/f and my friend is 15/m. However, im gonna be a junior and he's gonna be a sophomore in hs. And he gets bullied a lot! He's short and small and has some issues like if you met him you could understand why he gets bullied. These douchebags at school always pick on him, beat him up and no one does anything about it. Hes also very sensitive and I Just want to help him get tougher skin and to help him stop getting bullied
However, i dont know how to do this because i also get picked on all.the.time. I get racist jokes, jokes about my name, these guys always pick on me in class. Its never ending torture, i mean tbh i dont care and i dont really get upsrt cause theyre just idiots and i just laugh with them cause i think some r ju...
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Irresponsible/ Non Caring Husband
Posted Tuesday July 9 2013, 10:48 pm
I am married for 3.5 years now and I am just not happy with my husband. I am sure he has same feelings as I do. I really dont know were the problem is. Is it my mental stability or its our understanding issues.
Initially when we fought, the conclusion was that i have some mental disorder and i am reacting for small issues. But this is going on for ever. Every 4th or 5th day we fought, the situation is sooo bad that we have started hitting each other. We physically abuse each other. We dont want to do this to each other but we get out of control when we are upset or mad about anything. Most of the times the fight gets started because of me, i lose temper for very very small issues (according to my husband, these are small issues and ...
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My girlfriend beats me and verbally abuses me, HELP I don't know what to do
Posted Monday June 24 2013, 2:21 am
My girlfriend of 1 month just recently started abusing me physically and verbally. She really seemed like a cool person at first, but recently she started hitting me with items such as her high heels, purse and back of her hand. She also calls me names such as "FATSO", "LUMPY HEAD", "MUCHO RETARDO", and "HITLER". I really don't know what to do. I work out a lot and people would say I'm pretty good looking, but I just cant see myself without her in my 12 year old life. I cant take my eyes off her when I see her playing kick ball. I know its not right for her to treat me like this, but I think she might be possessed by a demon or something. Seriously, she likes the Dolphins and she used to like the Char...
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please help
Posted Saturday June 1 2013, 2:22 pm
I m weak and have been being called that for 20 years I can't take it I'm ready to leave this place nobody likes me I give people my last an I'm always the one being hurt I fuck hat myself
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my sister is harassing me and it is becoming life threatening
Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 2:17 pm
hi, i am searching the internet for help and thought i would at least let someone know what is going on in my life. i am 54 years old. my twin sister has mismanaged money left to us by my mother. she is now going to try to have me evicted from a home we own together based on any excuse she can find. i believe she is bipolar or schizophrenic. all of this started when she got married 12 yrs ago to a very narcissistic man. they have depleted my sisters and mines money instead of leaving it invested to draw interest to support 2 properties in our estate. they also took out a home equity loan which they need to get rid of in their lives. she is beyond manic. she visits me and destroys my life. she will not stay away. she is threatening...
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Highly abusive / dysfunctional family dynamics
Posted Friday May 17 2013, 12:05 pm
I miss my family. I miss what it used to be. I miss the feeling when we were kids and everything seemed wonderful. I had my sister and my brother as my best friends. We got each other.
Now, I am in college. My sister has vanished for 3+ years. My brother gives me the cold shoulder every time I come home. My father is a block of human flesh that cannot understand what it means to care for another, to have sympathy. His head is in the past and does not realize it. He expects women to be servants and men to do the heavy work. When one thing is said to him, he acts like he listens, but responds with his own self centered opinion. He is impossible. My mother is a mad mess because this is not what she envisioned her life as. She f...
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i want to know the cause of heavy bleeding when a virgin is fingered
Posted Thursday May 16 2013, 5:41 am
I went to visit a guy who was just a friend,in an attempt to rape me i told him am a virgin he did not believe me forcefully he fingered me and there was a pool of blood.i ask some of my friends who were disvirgined they told me is just a small quantity of blood that will come out i am afriad mine was a pool.i dnt know if any damage has been done to my virgina?
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im 12,my boy is 12 but he does sexual things i dont like?
Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 11:33 am
im 12 and my boyfrienis 12, ive been with him about 4 months now but i have a secret... when we r alone he touches me and i feel uncomfortable. i move away or tell him to stop but he just hurts me, so ive learnt to just let him do what he wants and noone gets hurt, i cant tell any of my family because they wont be able to imagine their little girl going through this, im not sure if he thinks this is ok or not! he lives in care so maybe thats why but i know he should stop when i tell him! he touches my boobs,bum,my Vagina. he always talks about sex and everything so i dont know what to do, i really need someone to talk to or give me advice.
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my ex will not stop harrasing me
Posted Tuesday May 7 2013, 1:11 pm
sometimes I feel like it's my fault because I gave in
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i get raped
Posted Tuesday May 7 2013, 7:58 am
shonakhargosh@yahoo.com my id
i get raped when i was 16 and bleed.... it was an attact to me. so i noised and he didnt get chance to insert again. now i am 19 and getting married . will i bleed at first night... and no one knows about it except my mother . we are scare now because if a girl will not bleed at first night then the husband give divorce .. i never had any bf. i am a loyal and true girl plz help me
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What can I do if I see or hear animal abuse happening?
Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 1:20 am
i hate animal abuse it makes me too sad to think of anything what can i do if i hear or see it
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New step-dad being really perverted.
Posted Tuesday April 16 2013, 5:58 am
My mom recently got married to a guy who's 15 years younger than her, and lately he's been acting very unfatherly-like towards me. My mom goes out to work and when I get out of school its just me him and my other siblings. At first he wasn't so weird...I mean we'd say good morning, and then pretty much avoid each other all day. Then he started sitting with me at breakfast, trying to converse. After, we started talking more and more and I guess we opened up more to each other. However about a month ago, things started getting really weird. He started asking me really awkward questions like "are you a virgin"and "when are you planning to lose it"...he also kept asking me about my relationship status, and things I j...
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I tried to stop him from touching me, but I couldn't. What do I do now?
Posted Monday April 15 2013, 1:56 am
Alright, so a few days ago I went to see a movie with a friend. I'm 14(female), and he's 17. As we were watching the movie, he put his hand over my mouth and started playing with my tits. I tried to stop him, but I couldn't. Well, he made his way to my pussy, and started fingering me. It actually really hurt, and I think he broke my hymen. My pussy kind of hurts, what do I do? Like, when he fingered me, he used two fingers, which I've only fingered myself once, but I used one finger. It's not like I can tell my mom or dad.
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I can't get over being raped
Posted Wednesday March 27 2013, 11:11 pm
20/f last year I was raped by my ex boyfriend, long story short we drank (he led me to believe he was drinking but in actuality I was the drunk one,) when we went to bed I remember waking up to him doing the act. To this day I have not told anyone except a good friend, and my new current boyfriend (of almost 9 months) at the very beginning of our relationship, but I toned town the story a bit. Nobody actually knows everything that happened, and I can't seem to get over it. I have brought it up once to my boyfriend, and he consoled me (as well as wants to kill my ex) but I feel badly about the topic if it is to come up again, I don't want him to think I still think about my ex. Should I be over it by now? It makes me feel dirty and sick to think about it, I could cry.
Thank you
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My cousins ex-boyfriend is threatening to kill her & make her miserable
Posted Tuesday March 19 2013, 2:44 pm
My cousin broke up with this guy and he was very controlling and he cheated on her with his ex girlfriend. He didn't like for her to have family over their apartment and he didn't like for her to hang around her very close friends. He has been abusive to her multiple times, one of the times he stalked her to a grocery store and hit her and stole her purse, she had witnesses but she never pressed charges, she got back with him. he choked her & hit her and broke the window out of her apartment and trashed it. She called the police and pressed charges, then dropped them.He has stalked her numerous times and hit her while she was places with friends. He verbally abused her and she already has low self esteem. I'm afraid he wll hurt her badl...
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Boyfriends additude
Posted Saturday March 2 2013, 2:31 am
My boyfriend and i have been together for a year &1 month i really he has anger management issues and he agrees but he doesnt like talking about it so he takes it out on me but at the same time i deserve happiness to i really want to keep him he IS the one i know it how can i be a dream girlfriend?
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My boyfrind makes me feel a burden.
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 6:15 am
I'm with a guy I've been with for 18 months, who is usually a dream guy.
However, he has a very short temper, and with snap at me over nothing. He also calls me annoying to other girls, and has said to my face multiple times that he's sick of 'having to handle me' and 'I'm Impossible to deal with'. His favourite things to call me are delusional and ridiculous. He will happily reduce me to tears and then say 'you can't just cry every time you have to face the truth'. He is usually this nasty after I ask him to control his temper, which he claims is 'baiting him' so I 'bring it on myself'
I dont feel like I should have to put up with this, but I love him so much, and we can have wonderful times together
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