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Should his response about his dog be concerning for me?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2021, 11:57 am
28/f, 32/M
My boyfriend has a dog and like other dogs, she’s afraid of fireworks. She would have panic attacks and sit at your head for 30 minutes. Fireworks has been happening in his neighborhood everyday since I’ve met him and based on my past experiences with other dogs and have taken care of other dogs myself, I said “have you thought about those thunder vests? I’ve heard great things about them. You should give it a try.” And he’s said, “maybe.” When I stayed at his house for a month, even his mom said that when his dog freaks out about fireworks, putting pressure on her helps significantly. So I told him once again to look into it. And even after I left (it’s long distance relationship), I kept watchin...
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my boyfriend hugged me today for the first time, twice!!
Posted Thursday May 20 2021, 12:43 pm
So my boyfriend hugged me today for the first time, twice!! One was a dare and the other was normal. When he did it for the dare, did he do it just for it, or he did it because he loves me??
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I Feel like I was Groomed
Posted Thursday May 13 2021, 12:53 am
When I was 16, I met E. E was around 24 when I met him. E was my coworker at the time, and we seemed to hit it off. We became very good friends. We would joke around with each other a lot, and a bunch of that joking was inappropriate jokes. I didn't think too much of it at the time since my humor was a bit immatur too. We would send each other porn as well. At first, it was just funny stuff that neither of us found arousing, but then it got to actual stuff that we both liked. At this time, I knew he had a gf. I also had a little crush in him at the time, bit it does pretty fast after I found that out, and was happy just being friends.
Fast forward to age 17. He invites me over to his house for the first time, and we decide to...
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Different sex drives in marriage
Posted Sunday May 9 2021, 5:05 pm
Hi,
My husband and I are very happily married. One thing that's surprised me though is our different libidos. When we first started having sex, we were about evenly matched for the first year- we basically did it whenever we were able.
Now though, I (the wife) am finding that my drive is much higher than my husband's. I want to do it about once per day, while my husband wants to do it once every 1-2 weeks. I've heard that most couples are reversed, with the guy usually having the higher drive.
There are many days when I feel frustrated and undesirable. But when I ask my husband to have sex more than once a week but he gets really tired and I feel guilty afterwards. What can I do to reduce my frustration?
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Leaving an abusive relationship
Posted Tuesday May 4 2021, 1:20 pm
I am desperate for validation and for someone to tell me that I'm not crazy.
I've been in a relationship with someone for about a year and half. I started to realize that that there were major issues last June, when my grandmother passed away. Those first two weeks after her passing, I couldn't even eat. I couldn't get out of bed. I physically was unable to move. I would sleep, wake up, and cry. I had such a severe migraine that I lost vision from one eye for a few days. The grief was just so intense, I couldn't bear it. It was during this time that the person I had known for the past 9 months turned into someone I no longer knew. He was angry at me for every little thing. He was snapping at me constantly. His response to my ...
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Should I kiss on our first date?
Posted Monday April 12 2021, 4:21 pm
I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm from India. I have been talking to a girl since a month and a half. We like each other but we want to meet to make sure if we want to be totally serious and date. So should go for a kiss on our first date itself or not? If it's a yes, then how should I go for it? If it's a no, then how do I deal with it? I don't want to force her though. I need your advice on this one.
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advice fr married man who cheated or “other woman” only please
Posted Thursday April 8 2021, 2:47 pm
I am a 40 something year old female, recently divorced. I met a married man through work. I did not work with him but he worked for a vendor we bought supplies from. We became friends and he told me about his family and I knew he was married with children at home. I’m not sure how it happened but our friendship turned into a flirting relationship. He started texting only during the day and never on the weekends. We begin exchanging photos and even Sexting and before long hurting turn into a physical relationship. I never had any expectation of him to leave his wife and we really never discussed her. He is six years younger than me and I’m recently divorced so for me, this was just a good time. The affair lasted about nine months and I w...
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I’m not sure whether to leave him or keep him at arms distance
Posted Monday March 15 2021, 12:52 pm
I have been dating this man for 7 months now. But it doesn’t feel like that long because we don’t see each other very often. About once a week throughout this whole time. He told me that his intentions with me are to be in a relationship. He also told me I’m his favorite woman out of everyone he’s dating and he does special things for me and no one else, the other women are just sex.
My problem is not that he’s with other women. My problem is that i feel like he doesn’t like me as much as i like him. I’m afraid “I love you” will slip out of my mouth before he says it to me. And i will feel like i care the most. Which has always hurt me in the past, and those relationships have ended because I’ve become cl...
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My ex/ friend is starting to make me uncomfortable. 17M
Posted Friday March 5 2021, 10:48 pm
For me, I've always had issues from telling crushes apart from just idk appreciating someone? Well a few months ago It turned out a friend, which I've known for a few years at this point and had an "I like her, no I don't" mentality about her, that she liked me and a close friend pushed me to try it out, so we did. It was very awkward and it turned out I didn't like her so I stopped it after a few weeks. (Bearing in mind the furthest we went was holding hands.) But now she constantly texts me things like "are you okay" if I don't reply to the group chat for a little bit, then will rant to my other friend about me ignoring her when I only reply with "yes I'm fine". Which was whatever- I pictured it as she was ...
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Married but still think of my college ex fondly
Posted Tuesday March 2 2021, 3:06 pm
Is it possible that my ex thinks of me at all? We were friends for 6 months and then dated for another 8 months. While not the longest relationship...they were formative years. we were eachothers firsts and we were both mid-college. We are both married now with families but a few times a year she pops in my head and I can't get her out. We are facebook friends but outside of saying Happy Birthday, there is no contact. Do I just keep trying to forget?
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Clingy non-boyfriend won’t leave me alone
Posted Monday March 1 2021, 1:06 am
I’ve been talking to a guy for 8 months now. I haven’t met him in real life yet. At first, I was mutually interested in him up until I saw him interacting w/ other girls (through social media). I asked him about this, his response was “I only talk to them for a max 1 month”, followed by “you’re the only girl I’m serious about/want to spend my life with. And, "You’re the only girl who could break my heart, if you leave me I’ll be devastated”.
He drops the L bomb very frequently. Which didn’t make sense to me. He’s always texting me, & would often times ask me if I was talking to someone new if I had replied too late, to which I told him I wasn’t. His response would be “No.. it’s fine if ...
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Escaping the friend zone
Posted Saturday February 27 2021, 9:32 pm
I’ve developed really strong feelings for one of my friends, but it’s hard because he doesn’t see me in the same way. I met him a year ago through a Bible study group at my university. We got to know each other really well because he gives me rides to church. To start with, I had a little puppy crush on him, but I pushed it aside to keep from getting hurt. Last semester, we started becoming pretty close friends and my feelings developed even more. Unfortunately, I found out he likes another girl from our group. She politely turned him down, but they still remain friends and he still likes her. Also, last semester another girl joined our Bible study and me and her have gotten really close. Her and my crush went to high school together ...
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Boyfriend and his sister are too close for comfort
Posted Sunday February 21 2021, 11:40 pm
I’m 26 years old, my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for 2 years, recently we decided to make the big step of moving in together, he told me that his sister would move in too,she’s 17 about to be 18. At first I was fine with It bc in the other house they lived in before she was always in her room or she’d be with her dad who lives with his girlfriend. I also didn’t take the time to really think It through, i was just ready to get out of my toxic stepdads house. I’ve always known that my boyfriend and his sister are close, but I didn’t realize HOW close until I started living with them. I have noticed that they go into the bathroom with each other when one another showers or pees/poops. Private parts are covered when they...
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Disrespecting
Posted Friday February 19 2021, 7:35 pm
Is it ok for my boyfriend of 4 years to call me a fucken bitch I know it’s not all right but what should I do.
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I think I'm in love with my college roommate
Posted Wednesday December 23 2020, 9:26 am
My roommate (F/20) and I (F/20) have been friends with benefits since we began college two years ago. This arrangement started because we were both a couple of dateless losers in high school. Neither of us had ever had sex and were curious, so we decided to experiment.
From the beginning, we agreed this was just for fun and that we weren't a couple or anything. We both agreed that if a guy ever asks one of us out, then that person should feel free to accept.
Now, I don't consider myself to be gay or even bi. My roommate doesn't either. So when she recently got asked out and said yes, I was surprised by my reaction. I felt heartbroken. Course, I didn't say anything because of our deal, but I realize now that I...
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I’m lost: Tells me I'm the one... but he regularly talks to other girls?
Posted Sunday December 6 2020, 5:54 am
I’ve been talking to a guy for about 5 months now (haven’t met yet). He constantly tells me that he’s certain I’m the one he sees a future with. Always treating us like we’re in a relationship. However, he’s regularly talking to other girls & even tells me about it. When I ask him if he wants to move on from me, he’s very firm on not letting that happen. He also has a very strong visceral reaction towards me interacting with other men. I’m not sure what I should do...
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How Do I Get Guys to NOT Look At Me?
Posted Monday November 16 2020, 7:50 pm
It sounds like a weird question, but I will be sitting in class sometime in the day, and i can just feel guys staring at me, and it makes me very uncomfortable, and i want them to stop. it feels weird asking them to, because when i do they just deny it, its very annoying.
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Still trying to start a long-distance relationship.
Posted Wednesday October 21 2020, 7:06 pm
Back in May, I posted a question about me being interested in starting a long-distance relationship- my main concern was the age gap of 16 and 19. We both turned 17 and 20 in August, and the age gap honestly doesn't concern me that much at the moment (I checked and it's legal in both of our areas). My main concern is trying to start the relationship in the first place- over the last few weeks, I've said to her that there's something I want to tell her (that being how I feel), however have never manage to quite send her a message about how I feel. I've given her a few vague hints, explaining the type of 'situation' for want of another word but nothing really which signals that I'm interested in her. I think there might be some interest on he...
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What can I do?
Posted Thursday October 15 2020, 6:07 pm
hello i work with this guy who looks at me all the time. one day he came up to me and introduced himself to me and i got kinda nervous, i didn\'t say much haha. \r\ni was wondering what kind of signals to send to this guy at work to talk to me but with being very busy at work i find it very hard to approach him. there are times i\'m not near him to say anything to him.\r\nwhat can i do? he\'s always staring at me so i\'m thinking he\'s interested. it\'s really hard to approach him when i\'m in different areas at my job and may not get a chance to see him.\r\nthe most we really have done is say hi to each other and after that i\'m not sure how to go about it more lol.\r\nhe\'s probably in his 30s like me and it\'s really impossible to get ne...
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Should i move in with my ex?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2020, 2:06 pm
I am a 22-year-old Dominican female, and ever since I was about 5 years old I wanted to get married and have two or three kids and a variety of pets (cats dogs and guinea pigs) with a man.
I met my ex while I was at work, through a mutual friend who was coming to visit me. She introduced me to him, and after like 4 months of dating we were in a relationship for almost 3 years.
I was going through a tough time with my mom where I got kicked out, and he was there for me the whole time, making sure that I had a place to sleep while I was homeless for two weeks, (as I could not sleep over his house because he had 9 people at the time living in his home already) helping me move, etc.
throughout the t...
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