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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Posted Thursday January 13 2005, 12:23 pm

Since September, I have been friends with a girl, we are both 13. I really like her but I am very worried about her. Before she came to our school, her Step-Father, she hasn't seen her biological father in 10 years, threw her, her Mother and her sister out of their house and they had to move back here.

Since then, she has been cutting her wrists and talking about how she wants to kill herself. Recently, she has started taking paracetemol everyday because she says that she gets headaches and feels ill if she doesn't have any. She used to smoke and I know she still has cigarettes at her home in case she needs them, I'm worried she might start again.

She hates her Mother and yesterday she told me that her Mother ...

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being sexual..


Posted Thursday January 13 2005, 9:14 am

I am soo horRny. I have been very sexually frustrated and idk what to do. I have not had sex but have done other things and I havent gotten any action or anything in like 6 months. Its very depressing bc I want it. I have guy friends but I am not a slut and I dont like messing with just anyone. But my guy best friend and I ARE very comfotable with eachother and we kiss and I wanna do more with me. What should I do? I want action!

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helping a friend


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 11:01 pm

ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx

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adding..


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:14 pm

hey it's Becky..I asked about Adrian..yea well I am adding you to my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY!

xObeckyOx


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He is ignoring me!!!!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:36 pm

I have 2 bestfriends that are guys and I told one of them that i liked him(which i now regret) lets call him john ok well now he is ignoring me and i told him i didnt want him too but he is.and my other bestfriend lets call him dave me and him have a past well dave and john are really close they tell each other everything and now that i like john he feels odd and i feel horrible bout this should i tell dave or just let things go with them... thank on adv.

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Should I Stay friends or NOT?


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:31 pm

Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not??

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My Friend


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:21 pm

I'm 13 and I need some help with my friend "Kelly"* I've been best friends with her since 5th grade and now we're in middle school. She has always been a very competitive person but lately she has been plain nasty. She insults us and makes comments that really hurt. She has even said something insulting about my mother. She always likes to win and makes sure she is right in everything. She is pretty self-centered and thinks highly of herself. I've been her friend too long to totally drop her but both of my other best friends agree she has been acting really horribly lately. What should I do?
*Changed name for privacy.

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Bff???


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 9:19 pm

My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help

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Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:26 pm

I have this friend and i always tell her who i like and she talks to him about me, like not in a bad way but in a good way, but every person i like they end up likeing her! what do i do!?

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Help!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 6:29 pm

Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!

plz help me!

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My friend likes this guy


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:38 pm

This might be a little long. Ok, my friend and I got invited to a concert with some guys from our school and some of their friends from another school went also. It wasn't like a date or anything because we're all just really good friends. Anyways, I knew all the guys there from other social activities and stuff. But my friend didn't. Let's call my friend Ashley. Well, there was this one guy there. I know who he is, who he hangs out with, what school he goes to, and he's a really great person. Anyways, Ashley started to like him, because he hung out with Ashley, me, and this other person guy from school. And, he's really cute. So the other guy hanging out with us told Ashley that the person she liked (we'll call him Josh) thought that she w...

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So my best friends going out w/ my ex...


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:26 pm

Well it all started it november wen i was going out w/ this guy. Anyways i dumped him (i have alot of regrets now)i was going to ask him back out the next day because i had realized after he said he loved me he meant it and i didnt think he did and after 2 days he had said he loved me and i realized the next day that i loved him 2... Then he told me to ask out my best friend out 4 him!!! and i somehow agreed.but now he is always mean 2 me and ignores me and acts like im flippin not even there it makes me so sad to see him like sum1 else as i am liking him.but he just acts like we arent friends and wen he screws up like that he always appoligizes and it always happens again and i try 2 tell him how i feel but i cant i cant put up w/ his crap...

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BF


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:10 pm

My best friend is really starting to wear really nice clothes and wear expensive makeup and straighten her hair with expensive straighteners and when im around her i feel really imature

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Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:29 pm

I have these two friends one doesnt like the other and the other wants to be the other ones friend what should I tell both of them?

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hi


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:07 pm

i have this friend and she wants to kill her self bc she thinks she doesnt deserve to be in this world and she is like always tellin me and her other friends that she is gonna kill herself and everytime she goes in a room she looks for sharp stuff to kill her self with and i get freaked out.. so if you have any advise plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me i need help! me and her other friends are tryin to make her eat, not kill her self, think positive but nothing is workin plz help

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Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 3:46 pm

Me n my two friends Lizzie n Jess are going to the movies. Lizzie is riding with her cousin, and is going to be hanging out with her the whole time. Me n Jess hate Lizzies cousin, and don't want to ride with her, because we've had trouble with her cuz in the past. So, me n Jess have a ride there BUT not a ride home. We're meeting Lizzies boyfriend, and Lizzies like one of my best friends.. We asked her bf to take us home n he said sure. But Lizzies pissed and doesn't want us to. I'm not like that, and I'm not going to do anything with him, or act like a whore around him n stuff. I don't think she trusts me. She acts like she doesn't care, but you can tell when she does. What should I do?

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please read frindships!!!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 11:57 am

what should I do I had this friend named Matthew and latly he has not been acting like a friend he sits around and let people talk about me like I am nothing right in front of my face he try to play stuff off but I see right thru him and he talks about wanting me to be his girlfriend. he show off in front of people like that inpresses me he acts like a jerk
plz help me Christine15 I am 15 and a female

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boyfriend and friend


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:47 am

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. lately, he has been talking to one of my best friends on the phone all the time. i know there is nothing going on but its bothering me really bad because now it feels like i dont even talk to my friend anymore .. she tells him her "girl talk" and secrets now...like she used to do with ME!!... and last night me and him got in an argument because i confronted him about it. Right now, i am not talking to him as of today. He also tells me not to call his house late, past around 10 because his family goes to bed...but last night he called me around 1 in the morning and while i was on the phone with him...MY FRIEND clicked through...on his line..at ONE in the morning, when he tells me not to ca...

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meow!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:27 am

ineed sum advice.........muh friend or was my best friend is all mad at me for going out with sum1 she dosent like and she thinks that if i keep goin out wit him he is going to hurt me but she dosent no him lik i no him and i love him and she wants me 2 dump him n i told her no and now she wont talk to me what should i do?

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Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:51 pm

Theres this girl whos my age and stuff. I'm 14/f. And my best friends grandmother just died today so she wasn't in school, and this girl actually told people she was glad her gram died. and I FLIPPED. One of her friends was like, you shouldn't flip out, it's not like it's your grandmother. & I'm like dude wtf I know, but she's my best friend, its not like I'm just going to let her say that. I'm doing the right thing, right? I'm not going to tell my best friend what happened because I don't want to get her upset. But, yeah. Thanks

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