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must choose either girlfriend or best friend (I cheated on the best friend w/benefits to be with my gf)
Posted Saturday January 14 2012, 5:45 pm
I am a guy and I had an 7+ year friendship with benefits with my flatmate also a guy, for the last 3-4 years it was supposed to be exclusive.
I recently got caught out sleeping with other people and had to tell him (who had been faithful to me) that I really like a girl I’d been with for the past 8 months and wanted to be with her and not doing ‘benefits’ anymore. Now my friend wasn’t happy that I’ve been sleeping around and was extremely hurt and betrayed about it all he said I’d broken his trust and loyalty, though he was ok with not having benefits but felt I would have to rebuild the trust and loyalty and what-not back up to save our friendship. When we discussed about the girl I had been going with he said that I cou...
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What does it mean when a man says he really cares about you a lot?
Posted Saturday January 14 2012, 3:47 pm
wha does a man really mean when say he cares about you alot
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tell or not to tell
Posted Wednesday January 11 2012, 11:41 pm
my friends and i haven't be as close as we used to lately. my friends have been having issues with this guy (call him L). L has been a jerk to my friends so they say. I won't get into it too much but they basically got mad at L for petty reasons and wanted to get him in trouble with the principal. What my friends don't know is that L and I have been getting slightly closer and talking more and when I found out that they were gonna get him trouble, I showed no emotion but I went and told L because I didn't want him to get in trouble at all over some so stupid. Am I wrong for wanting to do this for him? Also should I tell my friends that I have been talking to L more? I don't know if they'll get mad at me or not.
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Okay here's a big question I need your help please!?
Posted Monday January 9 2012, 11:48 am
Okay, here it goes.. I have a bestfriend he's a male I'm a female we are both 15 he is amazing I can talk to him about anything and he trusts me with his life, recently he's come out of a serious relationship which obviously involved sex, and now he is really lonely, we always use to talk about it but recently it's become more personal he says he really likes me and that he wants to be with me, but I dont wanna ruin our friendship ?? I do think of him in a relationship way but he is my bestfriend I don't know what to do, plus I live 3 hours away which bugs him spot cause we use to live 10 miniutes away... Help !?
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What does "place special emphasis on old friend" mean?
Posted Sunday January 8 2012, 3:22 pm
What does this mean: place special emphasis on old friend?
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friends r fighting
Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 11:33 pm
First off, please call me ice. Anyway,all my friends are constantly fighting for no reason whatsoever. Like here is an example: one of my friends said i got my homework done so free afternoon for me. The other said now you sound like you're bragging. This went on for i don't even know how long. I started to get really sad and i would have cried right there on the spot,but i made it to my mom's car in time. How do i make them realize their fights are worthless? I already tried walking away-that just made them run after me and they were like where are you going?! HELP!!!
From Ice
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Does he like me or is this because of closeness?
Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 12:36 pm
This person makes me feel like he likes me but I'm confused because I'm not sure if he likes me or does he act this way because of our closeness.
I have this guy friend. We're very close but we often fight.
He's very sweet, biased, and thoughtful when it comes to me.
I think he likes me because..
1. He likes playing with my hair and writing things on my back using his finger.
2. He overreacts when I get mad at him.
3. He randomly hugs me.
Wait but there are more. :(
There are times when I tease my friend about being in a relationship with him and he goes like... I'll rather date (my name).
He really likes playing with my hai...
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my bff is moving :(
Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 12:26 pm
My bff is moving away how am i supposed to cope with her leaving me FOREVER?! We were bffs since 3rd grade or something. And now it's 6th grade and she is leaving the summer before 7th grade! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! :(
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I Need New Friends
Posted Thursday January 5 2012, 10:09 pm
Hi everyone, I know this doesn't belong here, but in this case I need help with friends. I am looking for anyone's help with it, I need a bunch of emails of people who are online everyday, and just always want to talk. I can email them, and have a new friend.
All help is appriceated.
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Sometimey Friends
Posted Wednesday January 4 2012, 11:15 am
What do you do, when you are learning that a friend is not so much a friend?? I have been friends with my daughter's father since high school. That has been since the year of 91... Now I have been a good friend to him through out the years, but he is an on & off kind of friend. I have feelings for him & always have, but he doesn't see me for some reason. He say he cares, but whenever he is going through somehting I have been there for him. He calls me we talk & we have good commnunication, but whenever he is involved wit someone he tends to treat me as if I am his conveniece. He needs someone to talk to when things are not right in his relationships, but then when they are fine he doesn't want to be bothered. I am fed up & i...
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Is it just adolescence or am I doing something wrong?
Posted Monday January 2 2012, 4:45 pm
I know this will sound cliche, but I think I should just ask you people for advice than keep these thoughts to myself. Well, I'm a girl and I'm 15 years old. I am greek, so I apologise for any vocabulary or grammar mistakes I may have made. For the last 5 years, I haven't had any friends. Most people would either avoid talking to me, or brutally make fun of me, or talk to me for a while but forget my name after a week! I always emotionally bonded with everyone I met too much and all these people eventually disappeared. When I was in the 5th grade, I would talk to a boy that sort of encouraged me, and he was like family to me. This person moved to another city years ago and I never heard from him since. After that, every girl or boy I met di...
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how to deal with a broken friendship
Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 11:55 pm
a few months ago, I became really close friends with a guy who I was in band with (he's a senior and i'm a freshman). we would text everyday and sit together on bus rides. it always seemed like he was flirting with me but nothing ever really happened until one bus ride where we held hands. i started to trust him more and i ended up telling him a big secret of mine a few weeks later. he helped me through a hard time and he asked me if i liked him...i wasn't sure but i told him yes. later he told me that i shouldn't like him. i kinda covered it up but after that, we started talking less and he started hanging out with my best friend instead of me. what hurt me the most was seeing them hold hands and talk and how he stopped talking to me. lo...
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How do I cope with a long-distance FRIENDSHIP??
Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 8:44 pm
So one of my best friends lives over an hour away from me. He used to go to the same school as me but moved. I wasn't friends with him then, but we're really close now. I've only gotten to spend time with him once over the course of the two years or so that we've been friends. We're both gay, and last year, I had strong feelings for him, but he told me I wasn't his type. Anyways, I don't think I have a crush on him anymore.
When we text, I feel fine;I feel like I'm talking to one of my close friends, not some guy I like... But for some reason, whenever I look at pictures of him, I get extremely depressed. Whenever he's flirting with someone, I get really upset. I don't why I feel like this, though. In September, he's moving t...
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My parents take their aggression TOO far
Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 2:46 pm
Okay, so I need advice on how to deal with my parents' extreame aggression.
Here is the thing, I am not a perfect child, and I know I can do wrong sometimes, but sometimes my parents get mad for littlest things. Their way of dealing with situations is not pleasent. Whether I deserve the trouble or not, this is usually their dealing process.
1. Extreamly loud shouting (not bothering to listen to explanation)
2.Hit me/Throw stuff at me (they have punched me, pulled my hair, whipped me with a cord, slapped me, etc. I wouldn't considerit child ABUSE, but rather excessive force.)
3.Threatening to kick me out/police station (I've been taken their, and kicked out of the house on a cold night)
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He Called Me A Tease!
Posted Friday December 30 2011, 7:03 am
I'm 17, my guy friend were talking and he called me a tease yesterday and today. I think he's joking we Ushually mess around about stuff but yesterday I told him me and my friend made dancing videos and he asked to see and I said maybe, then when I have him the choice of seeing them or not and he said u don't have to show him I said "fine then it's settled:P" and he said I was a tease. And then tonight it was raining here and not at his house and he said he wished it would rain there so I told him he could just come stay here every night (he knows I'm joking) and I said said but then you probably wouldn't be thinking about the rain(; and he said but that's just a big tease and I asked how and he said how isn't it? And I said it's ...
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how should i feel about my friends hanging out with my crush without me?
Posted Thursday December 29 2011, 9:13 pm
i have a couple of friends who hang out with this guy i like they know i like him i feel jealous and hurt cuz they have a lot of fun with him and he talks to them and pays more attention than he does to me theres nothing romantic going on but still they get to hang out with him and i dont and im the one that likes him what do i do?
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my "best friend" only talks to me when she needs a ride.
Posted Tuesday December 27 2011, 9:08 pm
I'm a junior in highschool, during the school week I take my best friend Jessica to school and home ai dont charge her gas money. At the beginning of the school year we would hang out on weekends and basically every chance we got so I didn't mind giving her a free ride. but, recently she has only talked to me when it's convenient for her. She doesn't text me on weekends, like i'll text her on friday and ask if she wants to hang out and she'll never reply but then she'll reply to my text messages that involve her getting to school that following monday. Right now, where on christmas break I haven't hung out with her once! i've texted her so many times and she doesn't reply, i'll get on twitter and see her tweets. If thats not being used, th...
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I am 13 so should i go out with a 16 year old or not?
Posted Tuesday December 27 2011, 4:59 pm
well, me and this guy have been like close friends for a while, im 13 and he's 16, he asked me out on a date and i dont know wiether to go or not, there is a couple who are going to be there but im going to be sitting next to him and i think there gonna be sitting somewhere else in the pictures(movies), i was thinking of going but he said we could always munch(snog) if im up for it, i havent agreed to go of anything yet, but he says that he likes me and everything, should i go or not?(oh i do like him back but im wondering what yous think about it) and my bestfriend thinks i should because he is such a lovley guy and very good looking, its just the slight age gap?
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I am having sex with the boy my best friend likes and she walked in on us and now she hates me! how do i fix this?
Posted Monday December 26 2011, 8:31 am
well, im in love with this guy, were not dating but were fooling around, my bestfriend told me the other day that she likes him, i havent told her anything that weve done or that i like him, he wanked infront of me a couple times, then i dont it for him, then like the next day we were in the movies cause there was nothing to do that day we were sitting down the front middilish and i gave him head! and then he took me back to his house and we had sex, it was amazing, i lost my virginity to him and he's a gentleman about it. i made a stupid mistake by going to his party he had for his 14th in his house and i got mega pished, and me and him went upstairs and ended up having sex again and my bestfriend walked in, she burst out in tears and ran ...
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FRIENDSHIP OR MORE THAN FRIENDS?
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 8:14 pm
ok so last year i was in grade 7 and i liked this guy he was in grade 8 so my friends told him but the problem was i was really shy of him (i really am not tht shy)whenever he came around my heart would flip a beat and my plams would get sweaty so i always ran away.
So tht guy moved to b.c. and like months past by and i finally got over him.
now im in grade 8 and 2 of his friends failed 1 of them is in my class(richelle)and the other one is in my friends class(christian)whenever i try to talk to christian i cant i dont like him or anything and i told myfriends tht were just friends.
i cant talk to him i try and just cant i dont even knoe him and im loseing him as a friend.
what do i do please help,i also did try praticing in a mirrior help.
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