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Boyfriend's sis is dating my ex? Weird jealousy?


Posted Thursday September 3 2015, 12:28 am

Hi!
I've been dating the same guy for 5 months and before it was official, we had a thing off and on. I feel for him
Very strongly and can't see myself with anyone else.
However. His little sister started dating my ex boyfriend . Him and I only dated for a good month. But he's been chasing after me ever since. We're super close friends but have been on rocky roads lately. And I guess ...I'm scared to lose him? He's dated other people before my boyfriends little sister, and I didn't have any jealousy
Problems with those girls. And I am truly happy
For him.. I just.. Idk. Am jealous?
I guess what I'm asking is.. How do I cope/deal with this? I'm
Very happy with my current boyfriend and wouldn't...

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How many times is normal to see your boyfriend per week (early 20s dating)?


Posted Tuesday September 1 2015, 11:53 am

I'm 21 and earlier this year I ended my relationship with my (now) ex-fiance who I'd been living with for 2 and a half years.

I've started dating somebody new who I've been on two dates with. We really hit it off and it's crazy how well we just "click" compared to the other guys I've gone on dates with. After our second date he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend like officially and of course I said yes.

Now his parents want to meet me this coming Thursday which I feel like is a little fast but I really really like him so I don't mind terribly. To be honest I've never fallen so hard for somebody before in my life and the feelings seem to be mutual by the things he says and how fast he wanted m...

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my girlfriend lied and said she was 18


Posted Monday August 31 2015, 11:19 pm

Well she lied to me about being 18 and she is 16 and she 2month pregnant and im 27 but i dont think her parents would allow me to to see are kid and plus i think i could get in trouble for this cause its my fault for not asking for id i just didnt think girls do that and i just need help to see if i will in up in jail or can i still take care of them once she has the baby please help Me and this in the state of pa

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One of My best mates slept with my daughter.


Posted Monday August 31 2015, 3:16 pm

sorry if this is long i got some really messed up news recently one of my best mates called me and told me he needed to talk he seemed really urgent so we met at my place and we started talking and he was almost crying and he never cries and just so you know he's a 25 year old 6 foot 6 bodybuilder so seeing him cry was also definitely a sign that something was not right but he told me that about a week ago after a BBQ at my place we both got kind of drunk so i let him sleep on the couch i have a daughter she's 11 and she has a crush on him i thought it was an innocent little girl thing anyway he told me that that he doesn't remember anything but he woke up in her bed with her and they were both naked and that he had taken her virginity then...

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Trying to get a lesbian girlfriend


Posted Monday August 31 2015, 12:24 pm

So I'm a 12 year old female and i recently met this awesome girl...I'm not sure if she's lesbian but she acts tomboy and when we were face timing her younger brother was yelling about lesbians, and i know she supports gay rights but the kids at her school don't. Anyway i want some good signs that she's a lesbian. So i have some questions: how do i know she's lesbian? How do i know she likes me? And hoe how do i get her as my GF? And if your going to condemn me to hell or tell me it's just a phase i don't want those answers so fuck off.

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What is love?


Posted Monday August 31 2015, 11:32 am

Hi guys, I've been with my boyfriend for a little more than three months now. He's very great to me and I love being with him. I know love is different to everyone but this is my first real relationship and I've constantly been thinking about what love is, how it feels, when it's time to say it, etc. I know for a fact that I've never been in love before and I don't think I'm in love now. I was just curious to ask everyone how and when they knew that they were in love with their significant other. Did it kind of just hit you? Was it a gradual progression? Was it love at first sight? Is there even love at first sight? When is too soon to say I love you? I'm not looking for you to tell me how it should be for me, I want experience and how it w...

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Self-Esteem / Insecurity in a Relationship


Posted Sunday August 30 2015, 5:22 pm

22 years old, female, in a serious relationship with my boyfriend of about 2 years. Our relationship is serious enough that we are thinking about getting engaging and/or married in the near future but I often have doubts now.

I love him, and I'm sure he loves me as he tells me all the time. My issue? I feel extremely insecure and I have low self-esteem, especially since he is always telling me how hot other girls are, about their bodies, and how much he wants to bang them and drawing comparisons on my body. I don't know if he is oblivious to how it hurts me or if he's even doing anything wrong but I feel like I will show him that I am weak and insecure by bringing up the topic and talking to him about it.

He o...

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Crushing...bad


Posted Friday August 28 2015, 1:18 am

I will take anyones opinion im in a 5 year commited relationship with my boyfriend i love him but i dint feel like its the same as before i feel like if i balance the good and the bad the bad definitely outweighs the good thing about our relationship im 21 hes 28 i work he doesnt i maintain everything in our home all the bills are paid by me when i come i also have to do all the house chores or they wont get done im exhausted i cant gi anywhere with my friends without it being a problem so i just stay home and me and him do anything outside our home ever. And now on top of things im crushing on a girl i met at work a few months ago currently we are friends but when we just met there was alot of flirting going on in the beginning she let m...

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My boyfriend is a slob.


Posted Thursday August 27 2015, 11:15 pm

22/f, 28/m

My boyfriend is a slob. And I mean it's terrible. I have dated guys who were organized and were clean. They cleaned up after themselves, etc. This is the first guy I have ever dated to be this messy. How messy? I'll try to give you the gist of it without ending up venting.

He has a pile of random crap (papers, napkins, receipts) in the corner of his room. His dog even comes in, looks at the pile and tries to avoid it by laying elsewhere. He was unable to find his nail clippers once, and I found it under a napkin in that pile. The bathroom is a mess, the kitchen has food stains on the counters, another pile of papers in the corner, and the dirty dishes keep piling up, even after I wash them. He has a ...

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looking for people who share an unusual fetish


Posted Thursday August 27 2015, 2:48 pm

Please don't consider this a frivolous question, I am dead serious....I would love to find people who share my unusual fetish, I enjoy endless fantasies about Hillary Clinton and find her pics very hot, my feeling is not the way most people think, but there must be men and women who feel like me and would enjoy messaging about her....how do I find them ?

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Posted Wednesday August 26 2015, 9:07 pm

I have so much trouble combining my worlds. I'm really into school and serious about myself and my work, but I also have been getting into guys lately and I really want to start having sex. Btw I'm not in high school, I'm 23 and my body really feels like it's about time! I'm not hoping for a relationship because when I think of guys in that way I just get disappointed. I'm pretty nerdy and as I've been told, extremely intelligent and I don't click on a personal level with most guys and always feel like I have to make myself cooler and dumber to get on their wavelength. But those same guys I find myself intensely attracted to. I'm not sure if all of this makes me really insecure or overly confident. I just really want to get in touch with m...

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I need to ask something


Posted Wednesday August 26 2015, 7:55 pm

Ok so I have been talking to a boy who is 18 and living with his grandma and i'm 19 and his grandma supposedly broke his phone and so he will not be able to talk to me until he gets a new phone and so he said we needed to take a break until he gets the new phone so does that mean that he is going to break up with me or is he really telling the truth.

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Does she really love me, if she doesn't mind me seeing other women?


Posted Wednesday August 26 2015, 9:49 am

I'm a guy, 41 (although most people think I'm in my late 20s) in a long distance relationship with a girl, 30, whom I've known for about 10 years, dated on and off, as she had broken up with me like twice previously due to the distance, and had apologized and I took her back in both instances. We got engaged early this year and planning to get married before the end of this year. She says she loves me but she has said in a number of occasions that she doesn't care if I'm having a fling with other girls because she has better things to worry about. I find this strange. Should I be worried that she might just more in love with the idea of marriage than she is in love with me? In my society (Africa, Nigeria) a lot of importance is placed on ma...

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Running out of options


Posted Tuesday August 25 2015, 7:19 am

Okay so like i have this high school ex boyfriend and we dated a couple of months in 2012 then broke up for a while got back together in april 2013 and broke up again in june 2013 and then last year april 2015 we starting speaking and seeing each other again until now august 2015 but just as friends..we startd speaking almost everyday whole day he is way different than wen we dated his acting like boyfriend material..and yes we do have sex we would see each ouher once or twice on a monthly basis,he would always say things like how he wants a baby or when am i getting married or asks questions like how do i think we would end up if we had to meet for the first time,he would b so sweet and everything would just be perfect like we are meant to...

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Runing out of options!!!!


Posted Tuesday August 25 2015, 4:06 am

Okay so like me and my high school ex boyfriend are seeing each other on once or twice on a monthly basis since april 2014 ntil now august 2015 but before that we broke up twice and then startd speaking last year..Wen we together everything is so perfect i could see that he changed from how he use to be when we dated coz now he would be more of a boyfriend type,cuddling,holding my hand,gets excited to see me etc to speaking to each other almost everyday whole day eventhough we are just friends,he kept on hinting bout wanting a baby or asking me when am i gettin married or telling me that im showing of his property cause im wearing tight tops and yes we do have sex he would always say things like i can get attached to him or i can use hm for...

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Runing out of options!!!!


Posted Tuesday August 25 2015, 4:03 am

Okay so like me and my high school ex boyfriend are seeing each other on once or twice on a monthly basis since april 2014 ntil now august 2015 but before that we broke up twice and then startd speaking last year..Wen we together everything is so perfect i could see that he changed from how he use to be when we dated coz now he would be more of a boyfriend type,cuddling,holding my hand,gets excited to see me etc to speaking to each other almost everyday whole day eventhough we are just friends,he kept on hinting bout wanting a baby or asking me when am i gettin married or telling me that im showing of his property cause im wearing tight tops and yes we do have sex he would always say things like i can get attached to him or i can use hm for...

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Is she playing hard to get???


Posted Monday August 24 2015, 7:57 pm

I'm in a long distant relationship. I met a girl who is also in a long distant relationship. We were honest with each other about our relationship status. I thought she was ready for us to be friends with benefit until she won't let me have sex with her the day she slept in my place, sleeping on the sofa in the lounge and insisting I go sleep in the bedroom. I cut things off of her. She keeps texting asking why I cut off. I told her I find her attractive and want us to be friends with benefit. She says she doesnt want that. And that she doenst find me attractive. I keep cutting her off but she keeps texting me. Came around once, keeps feeling at home, eats my food, even once asked me to buy her groceries. I feel like she's just a gold digge...

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How to tell if a guy like you


Posted Monday August 24 2015, 3:29 pm

There's this guy that I really like and I'm not sure if he likes me back. He's friends with the guys that are mean to me and just like to tease me about stupid things. If I tell him how I feel than he'll probably tell all his friends and it would be awkward for me. I really like this guy and I really need help !

Thank you,
Jenna

I'm from the U.S.


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My Ex is texting me like he did before we dated?


Posted Monday August 24 2015, 1:17 pm

Less than two months ago my ex broke things off out of nowhere over text, things were starting to disconnect and the hype of summer about to start. There was never exact reasons it was just the most messy breakup and he just flipped on me and was done with relationships. Earlier this month, less than two months since our serious relationship he's dating this new girl who he said he didn't like and they've been posting over social media together. It's just weird and hypocritical...We were at a running camp together last week where he grinded and slow danced with another girl and then texted me apologizing about hurting me.. Since then we've been texting like our usual close friends way like we did right before we dated. What is he doing?

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Telling someone who's in a relationship I like them


Posted Friday August 21 2015, 1:58 am

First off I am a girl who's 19 and I have always liked men but a while ago I met a new coworker who is also a female and instantly felt a connection with her and I’ve had a crush on her ever since. Were freinds on social media and it seems like she could be bisexual because she has posts of her with another girl that other people commented things like “your such a cute couple” but she also has posts with guys. I’ve liked her for about 6 months now, and she recently got a boyfriend. I’m not sure when or if either of us is going to leave the job but I just got a better one and if things go we’ll I’ll probably be leavig in a few months also, I have a feeling she might be leaving too. But I still like her and need to know if she e...

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