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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Lost


Posted Tuesday January 25 2005, 5:34 pm

Okay well I am a 17 female and i will be 18 on Saturday. Lately i've had really low self esteem which is really strange for me. I'm a good athlete and I have no problem with my looks or my body, and I have lots of friends. But for some reason lately I just get this vibe from EVERYONE that i'm just not wanted. And it is for no particular reason, nothing has changed and i haven't gotten into any fights with my friends or anything. Its so weird, like for example, if one of my friends calls one of my other friends when i am with her i will feel hurt becuase she didn't call me, which i know is really silly and i've never been like this in my life. One of my teachers didn't agree with an opinion i gave in school today and she agreed with one of m...

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My friend is a really big flirt!


Posted Tuesday January 25 2005, 5:09 pm

Ok one of my best friends is cool in all but shes kinda of a really big flirt..and i mean i dont think she means to do it but she flirts with like every guy..and i mean she flirted with this one guy that i liked and she knew i liked him n then he stoped liking me and started to like her..it got me really upset and im over it now but now i think its happening again with a differnt guy ...shes supposively talked to him about me and he said that he liked me and that he wanted to ask me out.. but the last couple of days i have seen her go and flirt with him and she will come into our class and talk to him as if she liked him..and im like wtf i dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME!

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Posted Tuesday January 25 2005, 11:00 am

Hey ok well theres this dance comeing up and i really want to ask a friend of mine if he wants to go to it with me but, i cant dance, and i mean i dunno if he is a good dancer but even if he isnt i dotn want to make a fool out of myself. Also, i dunno, maybe it would be awkward if i asked him toit and he said no...cuz we are really good friends, i just want to go with him lol as friends.


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my friend


Posted Monday January 24 2005, 10:47 pm

My best friend is really been acting weird what could it be i tryed asking she ignored the question!

help...

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CRUSH ON FREDO


Posted Monday January 24 2005, 8:22 pm

about a month ago, i asked how to tell my best guy friend of 7 years Fredo that his evil blood-sucking cant-wait-till-the-full-moon vampiress of a girlfriend Lupitalili was going to dump him. the advice was great and it all went well, but now i have a new dilemma: i just recently realized that i have the HUGEST crush on him! what he hell do i do? this is a different kind of crush because we're really good friends...JUST really good friends (who by the way established that with each other and everyone else a couple of years ago). if i tell him, he wont totally freak out like maybe other guys, but things will defenitly be different, and i cant risk our friendship. telling other guys i like them is one thing, BUT THERE'S A TRUE FRIENDSHIP AT S...

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Posted Monday January 24 2005, 4:39 pm

ok i go to babrizon modeling skool and i've had this friend we've been tight since tyr-outs......shes 16 im 13.....and i never knew anything about her boyfriend not a name or an age nothin.......ok so i go to my dads house like everyother weekend and sometimes when im over there i go to the neighbors house to hang out.....well his neighbor (15yrs)had a few friends ova(ranging from15-16yrs) and i know im young but i was just havin fun and i kissed a few and then got forced into givin head to one of them........i can always tell my friend everything and since this was a scary thing to deal with i told her about it and it turns out the one who forced me to do that was her boyfriend.....shes mad at me and got everyone in barbizon to think im a ...

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Posted Monday January 24 2005, 2:49 pm

Ok well I used to be like really popular, like the most popular girl in the school, and im not just saying that. Like some of my friends who weren't popular were alway like i wish i could be like u ur so popular and stuff even some kids i dont no that well would say it. And like every guy thinks im way out of their league. But this year things have changed, my best friends from last year who i hung out with everyday barely talk to me anymore. We used to be so close like they would even call my mom "mom" or "mommy" we used to have so much fun together and now we barely speak to each other. And i used to tell a couple of them everything and im still friends with them but not as good we only hang out in school. but like now...

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friendship groups


Posted Monday January 24 2005, 2:03 pm

I hang out with a big group of friends who used to be really nice. My boyfriend and I split up and now our whole group of friends is kind of split down the middle. I don't talk to my ex and he doesn't talk to me and it's really uncomfortable. I still have friends there but I find being around my ex hard and most people there seem bitchy now. I would go and make new friends but there isn't really anyone else that I get along with or click with. What should I do?

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both friends take one side


Posted Monday January 24 2005, 9:55 am

okay i keep haveing the smae problem with my friends. This one girl always takes the other ones side because she is like obesessed wiuth her and she doesnt want the girl to get mad at her and then i am left with no friends what do i do.

p.s. this happens about every week

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Friends


Posted Monday January 24 2005, 8:27 am

My friend Brittany keeps on lyeing to me and weve been friends scince preschool and just dont wont here to lye to me any more but i stillwant to be her friend. thanxs

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confused


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 10:42 pm

lately i feel like my freind doesnt wanna make any effort to thang out with me and quite frankly i dont know how to deal with that. We've been tight for about 3- 4 years already and it always feels like she never makes any effort to hang ot. I get the vibes that her parents dont like me for some reason and are in a way influencing her.. ITs like a big deal whenever we wanna hang out and usually it never bothered me so much but now im just so irritated with everything. I include her so much and its just like "Whatever" from her...what am i suppose to do. I tried talking to her about it and she reassures me that we're bestfreinds and always will be..but somthing doesnt feel right> Part of me doesnt even know why im posting. No on...

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He cut himself and didn't know what to do


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 9:34 pm

A year ago my friend cut himself and almost died. He lost a ton of blood. He passed out for more than 3 hours. A little info about this guy. He likes me ALOT, he has made an effect in my life, and i have started to love him but in a family kind of way never anything more. Well, when he told me i was really hurt not only because one of my good friends might not of lived because i didn't know anyone my age 12 years old would do that. We Have a whole life ahead of us. I tried to confince him to get help but he didn't want anyone knowing cuz he would be thouight less of. I am wondering if i should tell someone and get help for him even know this was a year ago and he'll hate me or should i not help him and go on with life??
Signed,
scared friend

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Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 9:23 pm

do you ever feel like you dont fit in with your friends? well i do and like there all a little different than me. well me and my 2 best friends are pretty much the popularist girls in our grade. My best friend Katie is in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend of 1year and hes cheating on his girlfriend Kim with Katie and its been going on for 2months now or so and hes causing her a lot of pain with hiding behinde Kims back and shes been cutting her wrists i tell her not to do it but she says she cant help it and everytime she does it she promises she will never do it again and everytime she breaks the promise and i cant get mad at her or stop being her friend bc that would lead her into even more pain bc weve been friends since we we...

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i like my realy good friend


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 8:48 pm

OK ther is this guy at i like . but he is like on eof my bvest guy friends. and he is relay cool ad popular had has only had one girl friend but he siad he was done with girls at my school to one of m=his friends. 1 what do i do?2 how do i get him to start likeing girls at me school? any advise?

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Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 7:22 pm

A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting t...

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Valentines Day


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 6:34 pm

There are 16 people (all girls) who I'm getting valentines day gifts. What should I get them? Don't make it too expensive.


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hooked up with my friend's crush


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 6:06 pm

Last night I had a party because my parents were away. This guy that my friend has a crush on was there and we both made out with him multiple times while she was there.
After she left we were both lying on the floor together and started making out again. Then it started to get a little more serious, and he put his hand up my bra. We went into a bedroom and continued to make out more, and then he sucked on my breast, and then we made out more.
Afterwards I felt horrible and guilty and bad. I talked to my friend and she asked me what happened after she left so I told her that we made out and left out the second part and she wasn't pissed. The problem is that she's going to be hanging out with him and he's probably going to te...

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I need a good username for AIM


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 5:49 pm

any reccomendations? I like nature sort of screen names and I want one that will last forever

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split friendships


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 5:38 pm

ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?


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Bestfriends Vs boyfriends


Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 3:30 pm

my best friend has a boyfriend who she thinks is more important than me. when i say something about him, she gets mad at me!does that mean she doesnt care about me anymore?

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