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I wanna help my friend but can't
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 11:09 am
I have this friend who I am very close to, and I don't know what I'd do without her. After being friends with her for 7 years, I think we know eachother quite well. However, recently she's had a boyfriend who has a 3 year old child and is still fairly close to the child's mother (his ex fiancee). Today, we saw them together with their child just walking around town which he never does with my friend, even though theyre going out. Also, this guy always seems to make more of an effort which his ex fiancee than with my friend. I gave her some advise and said to ask him up front whats going on, and give him a choice- his ex or her (because i think they still have feelings for eachother). I don't think my friend is going to take my advise becaus...
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He said he wanted to be friends again but he ignores me.
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 1:19 am
Me and my friend was best friends til about 2 years ago and now i don't know what happen and now my friend has a new friend and he likes to do everything with his "new friend" and he is apart of the same sex. He said he wanted to be friends again but he ignores me. What should i do?
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Anger Issues
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 12:21 am
what could cause a man to carry a grudge towards a female acquaintance for 4 years, when he did not even explain to her what she did to hurt him?
Why does he seem to sabotage her and outcast her on top of it? Why does it take him so long to move pas things and just let her know what she did?
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Back and forth
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 12:08 am
Sam is 40, Tina is 30, Pat is 38, and Rebecca is 26.
1) Sam is friend with Tina and Pat.
2) Sam was first friends with Rebecca.
3) Sam was nice to Rebecca’s sister and family and
engaged in activities with them. Sam also wanted to help Rebecca when she
Seem to need it.
4) Rebecca seemed independent. So Sam started to slow his help towards her.
She seemed to not want him to help her too much
5) Pat moved in the area and Sam now becomes friend with her. She tries to attach herself to Sam needfully. She has a lot of resources
that can e of use to Sam, Tina, and Rebecca. So he asks her for favor from time to time.
6) Tina was always very close friends with Rebecca. They li...
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Good or bad frienship
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 12:05 am
How would a guy usually treat a girl he's not suppose to have interest in cause he's already in relationship?
what if he treats all his female friends good and are close and outgoing with them. But, for one of them, he shuns and talk differently with.
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I like him... but I don't know what he wants from me?
Posted Wednesday January 25 2012, 1:49 am
So I don't really know what exactly i'm asking, but here it goes.
I'm 17/F I have a really good guy friend and I have feelings for him. He doesn't know this (that i know of) And i don't know if he has feelings for me either, though he acts like it sometimes. Anyways, we're pretty much best friends i would consider it, although we've never hung out outside of school we talk a lot online every night, share a locker, and hangout in all the classes we have together. I trust him completely and he's just a good person and whatever, but we used to have really good convorsations all the time, but now its like he doesnt put in much effort to have an actual good long deep convorsation, which i like. i feel like im always the one who has to do...
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what to say & how to help a friend who suffers from depression?
Posted Tuesday January 24 2012, 9:13 pm
I have a friend who goes through depression..frequently. Her boyfriend is an ass, and that's basically the root of it. Anyway, when she gets depressed, she completely ignores me. She isn't mad at me or anything, this just how she reacts. This will sometimes last for a month or two. I really miss her, & I want to help her, but I have no idea how. I've never really suffered through any kinds of continuous depression/sadness so I don't know what to do.
I know the 'obvious' answer is to just be there for her. But, besides that.. I know she has her phone, because she plays games & I can see like that she goes on it sort of thing. & that she just isn't taking my texts. What do I say to her?
I can't go ov...
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I want to help but things got confusing and I feel I'm the one left out
Posted Tuesday January 24 2012, 12:44 pm
Last May 7 my friend Alex Introduce me to the girl she liked named Dayan through texting and facebook and we three started to become best friends. I tried to keep our friendship strong and sacrifice all of my time for them but things started to change last November. I found out that Alex lied to Dayan about having a girlfriend without telling her or even telling me and both of them stopped Texting. I wanted to Fixed things so our friendship will not be affected, I tried to tell the right things to do with Alex and I always remind him to be responsible with girls feelings. He started not to listen and he wont even talk to me. I don't know what to tell to him right now. I'm the left out . that's what I feel..But I just want to help but I don't know how for now.. do you have any advice?
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Our friendship is falling apart what should I do?
Posted Tuesday January 24 2012, 12:00 pm
I have a Friend who introduce me to his Girlfriend and suddenly we bacame friends also but he started cheating on her and I told him the Right thing that he should do. Then he Got mad at. What should I do ?
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Boy Girl Friendships!
Posted Monday January 23 2012, 5:40 pm
Hey, this question is something that I get a lot and used to get quite frequently because my best friend is a guy. I just want to know what your feelings are on guy/girl friendships. Do you think they can just be friends forever? Will they eventually fall for one another? Will sexual tension get the best of them? I've heard them all, my friend and I have been best friends since third grade and are now seniors in high school and everyone, even outside our circle of friends thinks that some day, some how, we are gonna date because guy/girl friendships are impossible. I disagree, as does he. What do you think?
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Ex-Friend: I just wish she would apologize to me, what should I do? Try and be her friend again?
Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 11:13 pm
17/F
Me and this girl were really good friends, I told her things about a guy i used to be friends with a few years back, a lot of "secrets/personal information" And she promised not to tell anyone about it especially him. Well she ended up texting him all the time, and tried to become his friend. Then one day when I wasn't at school went up to him and said "you really need to text her she complains to me about you all the time" My best friend told me that he overheard their conversation. So i texted her after i found out to ask her why she did that and she freaked out saying that my best friend was a liar and all this stuff. then went to bed. I was going to forgive her if she said sorry within the next few days, ...
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on and off friendship!!!!!
Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 6:30 pm
Urgh! I have a friend who truly is an on and off friend. over the course of 2 years, whe have fought, fought fought. Sometimes she is super nice and fun. Other times she is an absolute jerk and hurts my feeling exstensively. For example: She attented a ballet class with me, and I emailed and thanked her. I got a snide, " I didn't come for you, I came for the teacher ( she goes to the studio)Another time, I was having a sleepover, and when we went shopping, she begged me to buy her something.When I tried to explain that had nothing to do with me, she said, you're not a real friend, and I would do that for you ( which she wouldn't...) Also, instead of giving friendly advice, she tells me what to do and not do. or, if for example I say, ...
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Best guy friend
Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 11:34 am
Hi I'm 16/f and I work with this guy who is one of my closest friends ever and one of the only people I trust. There's nothing I wouldn't do for him and he knows me better than most people, including my family.
Right well anyway a few days ago I was over his house and we kind of got with each other, which isn't a bad thing because we both we equally into it. As far as I'm concerned, if it never happens again I don't really care and if it does then it was a bit of fun. The only thing that I won't be happy with is if he makes it different between us as friends, cause I know for me it hasn't changed anything. In fact if anything it's made me more comfortable with him.
Anyway, I saw him yesterday and he didn't say ...
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MY frustration .
Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 3:24 am
Its this boy name Alberto, me and him became close over a couple months & over the summer of 2011 . He was the only i SORTA expressed to on how i felt or what was going on with my life besides my first love <3 The reason we became so close was because one night on Facebook he put he was sad & i texted him that night. He talked to me about everything that night, since than we became like best friends. We will flirt like oh, your cute ; would you ever date me, type stuff. There were feelings there but just kid around when we expressed them to each other. So one night, not to long ago i was a bit upset i dieceded to text him, knowing he's up & he could talk to me a little. I knew he was up, because of Facebook status.& Me ...
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Should I invite them? Please help!
Posted Saturday January 21 2012, 2:19 pm
Okay, so I have these two "friends" that I've known for a long time now. One of them has always been really jealous of me, dated every guy after I did, always tried to sabotage my relationships, etc. The other one was the same way, but slightly more sneaky about it and her thing was making everyone feel bad for her. So anyway, we were friends throughout high school and I always forgave them for everything they did and acted like nothing happened because I hate drama. But then Senior year, they made up a HUGE lie about me and everyone believed them. For about 3 months of my senior year, I had no friends. No one would talk to me, even teachers believed them. I was completely by myself. When I would walk in the room, they would make ...
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Wrong Friends?
Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 10:04 am
Hi.
So it is freshman year of high school and i go to a private all-girl school. I became friends with a group of girls which was originally a group of 9 including me now. Then two of the people in this group are no longer our friends because we don't agree with their values and do not enjoy their company. But then, two others are fading away a little bit to get away from the drama our group has. Now we are a group of 5. Now, in our group there is drama CONSTANTLY. One of the girls, Nicole, gets angry whenever someone doesn't put her first. For example, if you have plans with someone else and she wants to hangout too. Or, if you sit somewhere else at lunch and not by her. Or if she can't go to something and so you invite someone els...
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very VERY obsessed friend :/
Posted Tuesday January 17 2012, 5:35 am
im friends with a girl a couple months older than me. she is over obsessed with me. buys me anything i mention i like, even if i tell her no several times. she offers to drive me anyway and tries to get involved in my relationships. even flirts with my bfs... shes tried to turn me and twin sis against each other and backstabs me but puts me on a throne too. idk how to confront her. she is very fragile. also im in another country atm...return in 18 days. shes nice, but i dont want friends i cant trust.help?
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Best friend is breaking my heart
Posted Monday January 16 2012, 6:37 pm
Best friend is breaking my heart
I had a seven plus year gay relationship with my best friend in secret until recently as we have just broke up. What we had was 'friends w/benefits' which went exclusive. He is an extremely selfish person and gets tunnel vision with what he wants but he never used that side of him with me...yet. He didn't keep to the 'exclusive' bit and cheated, he then wanted to end the benefits with me and go be with a girl he was sleeping with. I wasn't too bothered about ending the benefits side but it was killing me just how much he had damaged our close relationship (as in the friends side of it) to get what he wanted. He said he really wants to be with her, but I know that that would be super arkward and painfu...
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how do i get a girlfriend
Posted Sunday January 15 2012, 1:43 pm
how do i get a girlfriend i cant find one
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What should i do about this friend?
Posted Sunday January 15 2012, 3:41 am
This will be long and i would like to thank you for your time and patience. First, i'm an introverted type of person and i generally have difficulty making friends. I tried to become friends with one person. I hanged out with them several times. I really don't know where i stand with this person. Sometimes they are friendly. Other times they ignore me with their friends. I ignored them only to find that they were very unhappy and a little saddened. Recently i ignored them in class and they smiled and were trying to say hi.
I found them later talking to a friend and they seemed quite unhappy. I don't want to be a fake friend to them, and yet i don't want them to be a fake friend. How does one act maturely in this situation?
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