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how do i get out of this hole?


Posted Sunday October 24 2010, 4:25 pm

in 2007 my husband was sot and killed in front of my 3boys in that same year my mother lost her life on my birthday in one year ive lost everything my childeren , my life. i think of offing myself daily. the aunt that has my boys refuse to even let them see me. im alone an scared i need advice on how to dig myself out of this hole before its to late

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Please help me! I have everything I want and I am still unhappy.


Posted Friday October 22 2010, 1:00 am

ima 17 yr old fm i got everything i could possibly want and so unhappy and idk y someone plz help me

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Is it safe to hump my stuffed animal? (teddy bear)


Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 2:24 am

I swear I'm not a freak but ever since, well, for a long time now I've been humping on this teddy bear I have. Today I was thinking about it and I was wondering if this is safe or if it's going to affect my health badly? I hump on his nose, usually, and I wash the bear like once a week or 2 weeks at the very longest. Do you think this is dangerous?

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does it hurt to get braces taken off


Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 5:38 pm

do braces hurt when you put them on take them off.

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panic attack feelings


Posted Sunday October 17 2010, 10:04 pm

I have been having anxious feelings/ pre panic attack. Im in college and when i went home for the weekend I had the feelings like every day there which was 4 days. Because i had so many, now i am freaking out trying to figure out what caused me to have it and makes me want to avoid those situations. My boyfriend came up here and i was fine all week, now that he left today and went back home and i might go home next week, i already feel reallyyyyy anxious and it makes me not want to go home. Im not sure why i feel this way, because normally i would be soo happy to go home, but my fear is knowing i have to say goodbye and leave.

My head and my bodys reactions are ridiculous and unnecessary, i just need some help or advice on w...

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I haven't got a clue where to go from here. I am so lost!


Posted Friday October 15 2010, 12:22 am

Lately alot of people have been treating me like dirt, like after I leave some where they go and party it up I don't go because they only invite me if I overhear them talkin about it, I also get thrown aside after I do somethin to help someone in need of it. I'm not the most handsome of guys in high school but when I meet a new cute girl I like I usually introduce her to some friends within days her and someone close are together already. I have lost self will to go on I've tried to stick up for myself grow a back bone but it's all the same, making new honest friends isn't easy in school so I hardly have anyone to talk to. How should I approach my problems?
-Thank you

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so many panic attacks for no reason


Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 10:36 am

Ok so i used to have anxiety attacks after my friend died.. for the most part ive been better its been 3 years.. and i havent had many. now that i am away to college, when i went home this weekend i started having the feelings of a panic attack everyday, which is 4 days. I would feel like i was losing control of myself, i got dizzy, sick to my stomach, a feeling of dread, and i couldnt think at all and felt like i was in a daze. I never had a full out panic attack. but the feeling alone was just horrible. Now that i had so many for no reason, ive had anxiety over having another one because i am back at college. I have zoloft from the past, but looking at all the side effects freaks me out more. I dont know what i should do, if they will nat...

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How could i become more emo?


Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 1:14 am

I was just seeing if anyone had any suggestions on how a nerd could turn into a emo im not a huge nerd thats just the best social class i fit into so if anyone can help me please do so

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ADD is destroying my life.. are there any alternatives to medicine?


Posted Monday October 11 2010, 2:01 am

Every single thing for ADD symtpoms is true for me. Im very smart but its just so hard to concentrate and due to my extreme procrastination I am very behind on all of my homework. When I try and tell my parents I think I have ADD they don't really take it seriously or they ask if I'd want to be put on pills but I really dont want to because of the crazy side effects. Also they don't know of my extreme procrastination.. I've had this problem for years but now Im 16 and its even worse cause I get harder and more time consuming work every year.. I cant finish work in "all nighters" anymore. I have so much potential and I dont know why I keep doing this. Im very afraid to tell my parents cause they think Im doing fine but they really ...

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How to recover from extreme procrastination?


Posted Monday October 11 2010, 1:47 am

Sorry this is pretty long but this is the root of all the problems in my life and I'll love you forever and won't forget if you can help me.. I have nobody else to turn to, and my life has been going on the wrong track for years. Please get me on the right one, I want to be there so bad but I just don't know how to

Gosh I've just messed everything up. I'm a high school junior and this should be my year but so far I'm failing 6 out of 8 of my classes, because of procrastination! I've been doing this since 6th grade but every year it just seems to escalate! And this year Im in honors and college classes and im smart enough to do these classes but for some reason I can't do the work! over the summer I was so stupid and put off m...

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Insecurity


Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 9:58 pm

I use to be very insecure and if i felt like i looked so good something would always change that and i would only see flaws,ive changed but theres still some insecurity there what can i do to change that?(:

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Emotionless


Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 9:29 am

I'm an 18 year old male who has suffered from a lack of emotions for a long time. I'm curious to know why that is. The only true emotion I know is anger. I don't have any medical history of anger problems or anything. My grandfather was a schizophrenic, my dad has shown no signs of schizophrenia. When I went to therapy they said I would "open up" in a few years. That was when I was 12.
I've always been intelligent, High School drama never effected nor has any family drama, I was the only one not crying at my grandfathers recent funeral.
Just looking for advice.

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Fear of doing bad in school sports


Posted Saturday October 2 2010, 11:36 pm

I play basketball and when I go to the gym to play I get scared because everyone yells if someone isn't doing good. I know I can do good but the fear gets to me, what should I do?

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guilty feelings


Posted Tuesday September 28 2010, 2:10 am

For some reason whenever I am enjoying a perfectly happy moment and then my mind starts to analyze and go all..."why are you so happy, remember when...or what about this overdue bill or that mistake you made 10 years ago or..even...the dog needs a walk and you have not taken him and he is probably wanting to go...blah, blah, blah. I mean, insane stuff that makes me laugh out loud sometimes at the ridiculousness of it, but still, that little voice pops up and drives me nuts...why is this always butting into my happy space? I'm not Jewish or Catholic (joke) but it would be a great excuse, but is there some normalcy to this or should I just pack my Bin bag, as in "Looney" and maybe take up herion or extasy....dang, anything to shut that thing up, dude.

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Depression =/


Posted Sunday September 26 2010, 7:26 pm

okay so what does it mean when i'm always tired and i lost intrest in many things? but when im around people i always laugh and "act" like im happy but im really not what do i do ? i dont know whats wrong with me? i just feel like im not excepted by people for some odd reason i feel like im not good enough for them why do i feel this way?


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blah depressed and everything


Posted Sunday September 19 2010, 11:52 pm

19/f i am in college i have a few friends i go to church with. Well i don't go anymore because i don't feel comfortable. well anyways my friends that i went to church with are always busy, and i do have my one really good friend but ever since she's converted she's become really self-righteous. I have made friends in my classes in previous classes but after a while i stopped talking to them because i found out they were fake. i talk to kids in my class but i feel awkward if i tried to be friends with because im paranoid if they'll judge me, talk about me behind my back, or just pretend to be my friend, because it's happened before. And plus most people i got to school with just go to school and that's it. People in my class are just classm...

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Self Ingury


Posted Friday September 17 2010, 9:47 pm

i wnt to stop cutting myself but i dont know how i really need advice any reccomended support groups i dont care what it is as long as it helps me stop cause i dont want to hurt myself anymore
15f

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I'm a girl who likes girls


Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 3:47 am

I'm fifteen,right.and I'm a girl. I can remember ever since I was like seven years old I've found myself attracted to both males and females (bisexual).plus,I'm really embarrassed to say this,but I have a porn addiction problem too,and that's the reason I've been liking girls for most of my life.
First of all,I really want my porn addiction to go away AND I really want to overcome my lesbian urge...BUT HOW?!

Thanks

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I want to go down on my boyfriend but I can't!


Posted Wednesday September 15 2010, 1:08 am

My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job and I really do want to but I feel weird every time I try to do it. It's not that I feel bad about it but I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job. We've talked about it a lot and he's even given me "tips" on how to do it right. I still feel weird. I want to make him happy and I love him a lot. I over think this entire thing a lot and even have had dreams of it. It's something I DO want to do. How can I get over this hang-up or whatever you want to call it? It's horrible because I can work him up to it and then...I just...can't go all the way through with it. It just feels too weird then. :\

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Bad isomnia from depression.


Posted Friday September 10 2010, 4:37 am

I have really bad isomnia from my depression. Every night, my body constantly aches inside and out. I usually resort to crying during the time I lie awake in the dark.It's all just tearing me apart because it hurts so much... I don't know what to do...

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