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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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i keep getting ditched!!!


Posted Friday February 11 2005, 2:37 pm

ok, i am a 17 yr old female, and my best friend, Ashley, is,or should i say WAS, in this relationship with this guy to where everytime we had plans, he would mess them up. like make plans or say thigns like "well, i gotta work the rest of the week" so she will hang with him. we have tried hanging out as a group, the three of us, but he gets so...controlling...of ashley and i dont even get to spend tiem with her!!! well, they split up about 2-3 weeks ago, BUT, she still sumtimes ditches me like we have plans and she juss doesnt show, so i call her house and she is with her friends (used to be hte guy) and then hse claims she "forgot". what can i do to get this to stop

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Posted Friday February 11 2005, 2:28 am

Every time someone says I wanna go to Mardi Gras, I'm always like "ME TOO!" but the truth is, I don't know exactly what its for and what you do there. I've only seen clips of people partying on the street... I think it would be fun, but what is it your doing and is it some type of celebration of some sort? It looks fun, but what is it?

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 11:04 pm

My best friend in 5th-8th grade, Charles promised me that he would go to our Freshmen dance no matter what! And now that it's ninth grade, it's in like 2 months. My friend Amanda asked me this morning on the bus who I was going to the dance with and I said Charles and then she goes and asks him 1st period if he'll go with her!! HE said he'll dance with her! That makes me so mad. Me & Charles haave talked about it, and he said if it gets that big of a deal he's not going to go anyways. Should I take him? even though he might dance with Amanda? - thanks alot

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Drifting friendship


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 10:34 pm

i'm 17 years old. i have been best friends with my friend for about 3 1/2 years. All of a sudden she just changed...she started cheating on all her boyfriends, but the most rapid change came when she got her most recent boyfriend. she has totally changed. she just wants to be like him, she acts stuck-up, and i feel like i'm being replaced by someone else. after this i just felt like i didnt like her anymore. i talked to her about this after we a very in depth conversation (for the first time in weeks, maybe months) and now i want to give our friendship a try but i'm not sure. we've talked a little more but i know her and i know it won't last. is there anything i can do?

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 9:38 pm

i have a friend that copies everything i do and I HATE IT!!! but somtimes we have fun and somtimes we absoultly hate eachother!
what should i do
sgined jealous?

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 9:12 pm

i liked this guy and i think he liked me too. He acted like an idiot so, now i dont like him. My friend started liking him and then he asked her out. I feel jealous but, why?, i dont like him. it hurts so bad to think of them. why?

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My "friend" wont leave me alone // I


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 8:54 pm

My friend and i have been friends for about a yr. I dont know if shes always been like this but shes gotten really really boring. I was talking about it to my other friend, and she agreed and said that she cant continue a conversation. Also..she hates *all* of my other friends and its annoying me. At the beggining of the school yr we were really good friends but lately shes gotten on my last nerve. Theres this one dude i like and he doesnt like me back and shes all mean about it and says..well ur mean to him and you annoy him. Shes SO friggin negative about everything and i dont know what to do, i dont want to stop being her friend completely...i just need a lot of space from her. I have other friends too and when im with them she comes up ...

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 8:36 pm

I've been best friends with a girl named Kaitlin for over 11 years now and we're both 16 (I'm a girl too btw). Lately she's been so consumed with her social status that she doesn't even talk to me or even look at me anymore because I'm not "cool enough". We both play on the volleyball team and she really isn't a very good player, but she gets really jealous because I always play all the time and I got moved up to varsity this year while she didn't. I get the feeling that she talks behind my back because now the whole volleyball team hates me and I'm naturally a very quiet person so I don't know why they'd have any reason to dislike me. I don't have very many other friends. It's really hard for me to talk to other people, and I don...

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Which guy confused??


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 6:11 pm

Okay there is this guy named Justin which I am going out with him. And there is this other guy that I like named Michael. Well, Michael doesn't like me, only as a friend. But I am going out with Justin and he likes me alot but i don't like him. Should I stay together with Justin(even though I don't like him) or should I brake up to try and get togehter with Michael(even though he doesn't like me ?).


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friend needs to learn


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 5:15 pm

My friend always is so depressed. He never has his luck in love. I always tell him we're barely even teens yet and he doesn't know what love is. I always send him links to some good columns o here but he always says he is too depressed to click it. It is getting really annoying. Some of my other friends (including me) talk about how annoy it is and that they don't really know what love is. What should I do to show him this? I rate pretty high.

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Friend


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 5:10 pm

I have a friend. I think theres something wrong that she won't tell me. She is always mad at me. she always takes it out on me when it is somebody elses fault. How can i stop her from yelling at me when it is not my fault? Should i not be friends or should i and should i stop her from taking it out on me?

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 4:25 pm

okay well today at breck fast at school..i was talking to this kid Pat..and i was talking to him...and my good friend that im in t fight with and i love...was trying to talk to me and i sceam to him DOMINIC DON'T EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN!!! it sliped out and i don't no what to do..now he wont talk to me!

PLEASE HELP!! I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH!! I RATE HIGH!!!

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Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 3:41 pm

My two best friends are in a fight. I used to be in it but I got myself out. Today Friend #1 tried to settle it by talkin to her but she made her cry. What should I do to help them and not get myself in the fight again?? PLEASE help
Thanks sooo much

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help plz


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 3:41 pm

my friend has a crash on a boy at school after alot of time the boy had the guts to ask her out to a valentines dance but because of her parents she couln't go! now she is sad that she couldn't go and she really wanted to go!she's asking me all these question what should i tell her that its okay or not give my some advice plz!

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my friend


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 12:20 pm

my friend dos not lesin to any thing i say and she was yaling at me for somthing i dednot do bout she wold not let me say that she was wrong kos she sed that i was wrong what shold i go to tell her how i fell

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hey


Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 1:07 am

Alright.... there is this guy that I wouldnt have sex with.. so now he is mad at me and is always calling me names... but I'm not going to stop going over to where he lives because that is my friends house.... the other night his cousin came up to me and got in my face so I pushed him on the ground.... he got back up in my face so I hit him.. now this guy thinks that he can nag at me whenever he wants and get aways with it because they told there mom and she got mad at me for it... and I forgot this guy grabbed my wrists and shoved me up against these bars.... but now I'm not allowed over at my friends house unless there mom is there.... well please help thanks ~ monkey girl~

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Physical attraction


Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 11:51 pm

I am a recovering, 47 year old, alcoholic who's only been sober for 1 year. In the past year I have made alot of changes in my life. I have always known, but could not accept, that I am a lesbian. So my whole life I have lived a lie. That was the reason for my drinking. Now that I am sober, I have come to the conclusion that in order to stay sober, I have to accept this about myself and be honest with myself and those around me.
My question is, I am attracted to my best friend
(girlfriend that is). Should I tell her? She knows about my problem and has been there to support me all through it. My other problem is that she is straight. I am afraid to lose her friendship but lately it is all I can think of.
Can you help me?

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my friend


Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 9:09 pm

whenever my friend talks to a guy i get really jelous.. its really wierd. and its only with her and nobody else. i don't get it. do i like have a crush on her or something or am i just a little protective?? help.

-confuzzled

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Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 8:54 pm

Ok well theres this girl(will call her lucy) and shes liked me for about a year. I want to go out with her but i guess i get shy and i never asked her out. Well now im going out with this girl (will call her choppy) and i like her becaues she reminds me of another girl i went out with and i cant really explain why i like her its just something you have to look into my eyes to understand. Any ways i dont know what to do because i like both of them and the other girl "lucy" has liked me for a very long time and we have a pretty goood relationship. So, what do you think i should do?

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Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 8:41 pm

(15/f) Okay so my bestfriend and I are on the tennis team and we're doubles partners, and we do really well in doubles. Earlier last week she told coach that she had a dermatologist appt. *wich she did* so she wasn't able to go the the tournament. So when she told me i already was like what?! You can cancell a dermatologist appt and re-scheudle it. And you just don't not go to a tournament for an appt, it's just not done! But now her appt. is cancelled but she says that she already bought tickets for a concert and isn't going to tell Coach that she in fact is able to go the the tournament. Basically, when coach finds out she was there the entire day she can and most likely will be suspened for the rest of the season from all tournaments. So...

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