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just friends?
Posted Sunday February 26 2012, 12:37 pm
13 year old f
ok me and my bf(also 13) just broke up and before we went out we were good friends like he was my best guy friend and we had the same class schedule and we talked all the time. we then started going out and we barely talked. we texted and decided we wood just b friends again. will it really go back to normal though???oh and in the play we play love intrests so ya it will b a little awk.
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Friends?
Posted Friday February 24 2012, 5:14 am
I am 12/F and there is this guy that I was best friends with for 4 years. But on my 5 birthday, WHEN I TURNED 5, he kissed me. He always gives me presents like he's raided his mom's jewelry box for presents. Now he will text me and ask stuff like "what level are we at" and I don't like him I mean he's kinda rude and he likes to show off. I'm confused so help. Please?
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I wonder if we are more then friends or what . . .
Posted Tuesday February 21 2012, 5:09 am
I had a crush on a twelfth grade boy and I am only a ninth grader.
I am still suffering for that because I don't know if we are just friends or . . .?
Like, he is really nice to me and sometimes pokes me, messes with my hair . . .
Dad thought that he's an/a intimate/careful(I don't know if I should this word here) boy because . . .
1. He went to my house once and I was sad about the truth that he would be leaving soon, so he asked Dad to give us more time to stay together(we were going to dinner).
2. He bought the MOST EXPENSIVE ticket of my choir's concert and went to listen to it.
At the concert night . . .
During the fifteen-minute break, we talked for awhile, and when he first saw me, he ...
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I think I finally figured out why I am so shy... can you help me?
Posted Monday February 20 2012, 11:15 pm
Ok so today I made I huge discovery! I found out why I am so shy! But I need your help to overcome it. I think the reason is that I want to be who others want me to be, in other words, I want everyone to like me and be my friend. So until I know them well enough, I am shy! This doesn't only effect my friendships but it effects my relationships. I have had three relationships and they all went badly because of me...mostly. I close up and only text them, I get scared to talk to them in real life! Then they get tired of that and they break up with me. I am SUPER DUPER UBER determined to stop that! But how??????? I am sick of sitting around being the shy girl who nobody knows! I mean you can kinda see my personalitly through this right? Am I aw...
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ok i have no friends
Posted Monday February 20 2012, 2:40 pm
Hey I'm 19 and a single parent I have no friends at all I spend my days with just my child parks play centres etc..I don't really know how to make friends jus needing advice of just some kind words would be nice :) I am a brilliant mum my child comes first before everything but once my childs asleep I'm alone noone to text ring or talk to hope sum1cud help :)
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Telling my roommates I am moving out.
Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 9:03 pm
I want to transfer colleges for family reasons next year. I am really bad at confrontation and for some reason I just cannot work up the courage to tell my roommates that I don't want to be here next year. They are my good friends and I don't want them to be mad at me for leaving them and our apartment next year. We have all been getting along really well and I just don't want to ruin the happiness. I really need to tell them I just don't know how to force myself. I know its just something I have to do, but when it comes down to it I tell myself that everyday, and every night I go to sleep without confessing. Please help me, I don't know how to force myself. I also don't want to write a letter or anything like that because I feel like that would be even more rude... Thanks
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i don't know what to do anymore: How can I make new friends?
Posted Sunday February 19 2012, 12:54 am
Lately, I feel so lonely. My sibling and my neice moved across town. I don't talk to my family alot. I don't have any friends. I just go to work and home and stay and go to work and visit my sibling and neice and go home. How can you make new friends? Nobody ever texts or calls me anymore. I lost all my friends after i graduated high school. We just didn't talk anymore and got into so so so some arguements. How can i make new friends?
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Jealousy.
Posted Saturday February 18 2012, 3:19 pm
Me and this guy have been really good friends for like 2 years now, I thought maybe he had feelings for me before, but i don't know now. He flirts with me a lot, and we talk all the time. I do have feelings for him, and he recently started hanging out with his best friend's ex girlfriend and everytime they hang out, he tells me. I don't know why he tells me this, although i would like to know. it does make me jealous. Like last night he didnt talk to me at all like he ushually does, and then this morning he told me he was hanging out with her till 1am. -_- I think i'm just hurting myself by liking him still if he's obviously more interested in her? I don't really know what I should do, clearly there isn't anything I can do about it. But sho...
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i need to talk to someone who will care to listen
Posted Friday February 17 2012, 9:36 pm
I am 16 years old and im a girl.im a really depressed person and i dont know where to turn.i have no one to talk to.i dont really have any friends.and i dont have any one to talk to in my family either.i have decided to turn to talk to strangers.Can anyone tell me a specific site to go on to be able to really talk to someone and vent all my feelings?and maybe if one of you guys would like to talk to me?
Thanks.i would really appreciate any useful advice.
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is this considered leading a guy on?
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 11:44 pm
is it leading on if i continue to talk to my guy friend even though i know hes trying to get with me? i know i shouldnt talk to him at all but i want to still be friends uk!!
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socially awkward: i get really tense and can't ever think of what to say!
Posted Thursday February 16 2012, 1:32 am
for some reason, i get really nervous talking to certain people. im fine in groups of 3, but when it comes to one on one conversation i get really tense and can't ever think of what to say. sos! feels awful
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Good questions to ask guy friends...
Posted Wednesday February 15 2012, 9:38 pm
Ok so me and this guy play truth alot. He is not my Boyfriend but a really goood guy friend. Most questions are like "What do you rate me: A.cute B.hot C.sexy" or "Do you like me?" or "If i kissed you, would you..A.kiss me back B.pull away C.make out D.hate me" So I'm kinda running out of ideas, we do not flirt or play dirty and talk about sex. The dirtiest we have ever talked about was making out. We rarely talk about it though. So ideas on questions please, thanx :)
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My friend always sounds bored?
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 7:57 am
This year my best friend has become quieter. She's not very responsive and usually sounds bored when talking to me. I'm not the only one she does this to since our other friends have noticed this. If I'm trying to have a conversation with her, she responds with "K" or "That's cool" to nearly everything in a dull voice. I think she may be getting a little depressed and I want to be there for her, but lately it's becoming such a chore trying to talk to her.
If I tell her a story she'll respond unenthusiastically but if she tells me a story that isn't interesting to me, she'll pout and be like "FINE." I try to tell her things when I'm bothered or hurt by something, but she just offends me more than ...
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Make friends
Posted Sunday February 12 2012, 12:32 pm
Hi 16/f
So I have a few friends that go with me to college from high school, but I want to make more. I really don't know how as I'm so shy and it never gets beyond meeting anyone outside college, which gets me down.
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My daughter spending time with friends and boyfriends
Posted Saturday February 11 2012, 4:51 pm
My daughter was dating a guy & had 2 best friends (sisters). The bf wanted to spend time with her as well as the friends. They tried hanging out together but the friends & bf didn't like each other. It became very stressful for her to manage her time with each group. Every time she turned around someone was mad because they felt like she was ditching them. All of the relations ended when the bf cheated with 1 of the friends.
She now has a new good friend & a new bf. She hangs with the bf about 3 times a week & usually for a few hours. Her friends is now mad cuz she feels replaced. Although in the last week my daughter has asked her to hangout 3 times but was turned down. Now the new friend is suddenly friendly with th...
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Best friend being selfish
Posted Friday February 3 2012, 11:45 pm
I'm a guy and had a best friend w/benefits with the understanding that if one of us met someone they liked we would tell the other so the benefits bit wouldn't continue and complicate anything. My best friend of 9 years didn't tell me he was seeing a girl for 7 months while still sleeping with me with was against what we agreed. Now I've lost all trust and respect for him and instead of apologising and making our friendship right he's went off with this girl and wants space from me as he's convinced himself I'm jealous which is far from the hurt and pissed off feelings am feeling. We are/were really close and I love him to bits but he is too focused on himself to see what he's doing to us.
Advice anyone please.
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Friday hangout
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 6:58 pm
So me and my close friend are hangingout. She's e my only friend and she asked if she could invite people to come. I said sure. She didn't tell me wat people she invited. It's worrying me because I think she'll invite her other friends or my ex-friends. What will happen if they come? They're super mean and will make sure I don't talk, look, or even hangout with my close friend. This always happens when it comes to hanging out with my friend. They find out and ruin it for the both of us.
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My friends talk about me behind my back
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 12:24 am
My friends talk about me behind my back, and they end up dissing me for this other girl.
Ok, so here's the deal:
Me and this girl(Lucy) used to be the BESTEST of friends back in elementry school. But, after I met 2 other girls,(Hannah and Mya) she has been trying to seperate all of us. Now, Hannah and Mya diss me for Lucy! We ALL have all the same classes together. So, how do I get them to hang out with me again?
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My Friend Wants to Tag Along with Everything
Posted Monday January 30 2012, 10:04 pm
So we are best friends and all but I don't want to spend everything freaking day with her and do every SINGLE thing with her. We go to school together, take 5/7 classes together, no including lunch, we work together everyday after school, we carpool everyday after school. Okay, last Christmas my parents gave me a trip for my birthday present so I invited her as one of my guests. Now my family is planning on going on other trips and she assumes she is automatically invited. I don't know how to tell her that I just want family time. My dad didn't explicitdley say she couldn't go, but he didn't say she could either, he just avoided it. How can I tell her and my dad that even though she is my best friend and I love her, I need family time and s...
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Friend is a friend of an enemy.
Posted Monday January 30 2012, 3:34 am
A good friend who I have known for 5 years introduced me to one of his childhood friends a while back. Everything was fine at first, and we got along fine, but everyone told me that his friend is actually a huge racist. I didn't really care since he wasn't all that racist to me.
Then one day when our mutual friend was gone, he started being really racist to me, calling me the n-word and whatnot with no instigation whatsoever. Needless to say this got me really upset and I left. Later my friend came to me and told me that the other guy didnt really mean what he was saying, and that he just said all that because he had bad experiences with black people in the past (Im only half black).
My friends still hang out w...
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