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my boyfriend is no longer emotionally intimate with me
Posted Wednesday October 14 2015, 12:19 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and up until a year ago everything was great, I nightstart out with our biggest issues we have in our relationship. my boyfure/d relocated with my to my home state of Indiana from nc and he hATES it here but I can't move back to nc because I have a crazy baby daddy that is obsessed with me, not our child, but me. anyways he was angry at me for a while because I didn't want to move back and along with that he had a really bad drinking problem it got so bad when we moved that I rarely saw him sober he was turning mean and constantly aiming to hurt my feelings so I told him to quit drinking or leave. he has been sober for three months now. we've been in countless arguments about his drinking and whe...
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Why would he do that...
Posted Monday October 12 2015, 4:08 pm
Hello,
22/F. In a 3 year relationship with a rocky stand point. Met a guy at a bar on of the nights that I was out with a couple friends and we were just friends getting to know each other and we started having feelings for each other. Similar life and both very ambitious. We both have very good jobs. We’re both family oriented in fact both our mothers passed with the same disease. But that’s not why I’m asking for advice. After us completely stop talking for a good month which was also the last time we saw each other. I saw him again this weekend. I was drinking my coffee and happened to look up and he had just walked in and we both made eye contact. He looked at me and he made a sad face (literally frowned) and I lo...
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any problem with friend with benefits??
Posted Sunday October 11 2015, 8:13 am
I am 17 year old girl and is having a bestie from almost 4 years and I share each and evrything to him and last year on my bday he asked me for liplock and as I feel whatever he does is right so I did it and moving onwards we started being physical but not exactly sex and now he wants to fuck me and he says I promise their would be no harm and I wont do it that hard that your vagina would bleed...I want to know should I go for it or is their any harm?? And he knows my family as well ..he is even one of my faraway relative.but he never ever did anything wrong with me and I trust hi more than my parents.
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In love with best friend please help
Posted Saturday October 10 2015, 8:23 am
I have this friend... my best friend, actually. Karlyn is her name. From the moment I met her, I felt something more than just friendship. It vaguely resembled love, but I didn't know exactly, and didn't want to face it, so I suppressed the feeling, not knowing that Karlyn was dealing with the same thing: Karlyn loved me.
It wasn't until after I experienced a bad relationship with another girl that I realized how I felt about her in full: I was in love with her. I confessed to her shortly afterward, and she told me she felt the same and had for a long time. However, she had lied; while she had at one point felt the same, she'd gotten over me when I was in the other relationship. Now, she's interested in some other guy, and I don't wa...
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i have a crush
Posted Saturday October 10 2015, 2:56 am
So long story short I like this girl and I know that she likes me back but how do i get to 2 base where there's touching I kissed her and she liked it but I want to see her privet parts how do I get her to let me
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Does my crush like my friend?
Posted Friday October 9 2015, 9:20 pm
So I have a crush on this boy at school his name is Matthew and I sometimes catch him staring at my friend and they sometimes talk to each other and I wad just wondering if he liked her.
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Dating Again
Posted Monday October 5 2015, 6:05 am
21/f
So I recently started dating again and met someone I'm interested in. We've gone on two dates so far but seem to hit it off well and have plans for another.
That stuff doesn't really matter though..
My mom passed away a month ago. She had a stroke and was in the hospital for a month before she passed. It was heartbreaking. The doctors told us she was going to live. She would open her eyes and smile and was responding and all that. They were looking for homes for her to go for recovery. But she ended up having another stroke.
Anyways I'm rambling..
My friends were shocked when they found out that I'm dating. My dad doesn't seem to see any problems with it.
I think they th...
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confusing breakup aftermath
Posted Sunday October 4 2015, 3:49 pm
Oh Gosh... I'm so confused...
I was in a relationship... And my guy ended it... I miss him... So I made my Snapchat private and post different things and he is the only who sees them... He has never missed seeing a single one of my postings.... Also he's been screenshoting my photos that I post there... I also got a few emoticons like these from him 💏 and ❤ and I am so confused... Why is he screenshoting my photos?? And all that? Look... He's the one who broke up with me... And I am just not sure what is going on in his mind. I made my Snapchat private so I could tell him how I feel without contacting him directly because I still love and care about him... He won't speak to me at all... Is he afraid to talk to me? Is he just not ready?? Please help!!!
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How to tell someone you like them
Posted Saturday October 3 2015, 1:52 am
I'm in my last year in high school and there's this teacher I've had for 3 years who I've had the craziest crush on since the beginning. We get along great, we always talk and laugh together and we've had a few deeper conversations. Unless if he's stupid, I'm sure he knows I like him, I always talk flirty, and visit him all the time, but I don't think he minds because I know he likes me (as a person). But I'm graduating and will probably never see him again, and even though I know nothing will happen (he's married), I really want to tell him I like him! I just know I'll regret it forever if I don't and really whats the harm? I tell him, embarrass myself a little, and never see him again. But how should I tell him? I just want the perfect th...
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How to get someone in bed
Posted Thursday October 1 2015, 10:11 am
I'm an 18 year old female and I recently started college. I have found someone that I'm strongly attracted to, but I just want to sleep with him. How do I get him into bed without sounding too forward and without encouraging a relationship?
I've never done this kind of thing before, and I'm really bad at seduction, any advice would be appreciated!
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Are my feelings toward him something that can turn into a relationship?
Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 6:20 pm
Okay, so there is this guy I really like. I've liked him since like October. We never really started talking until like January, but after that we became really close friends. Let's call him Derek. Then around easter time we were talking like all day every day, we never seemed to run out of things to talk about. But then for some reason we just kind of stopped texting. Like we are in the same friend group so we still hung out and stuff but we weren't a "thing" anymore. Then this other guy (let's call him George) started talking to me and stuff so that never helped either. Then in like the end of May Derek just started to completely ignoring and treating me like I never even existed. So I confronted him and we got into this huge ar...
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Boyfriend won't walk to the door or call
Posted Sunday September 27 2015, 2:28 am
I'm a 20 year old female and have started dating my first (slightly younger) boyfriend. He's kind, patient and understanding. However he's told me that he refuses to be the one to call me or go to the door when he visits, and was vague when I asked why. My boyfriend is talkative and outgoing-not a shy guy at all. He also walks outside of the sidewalk when we're together, is polite to my family (who I'm living with for now), and is affectionate. I even told him I would make sure no one but me answered the phone or door, but he still said no. I'm not his first girlfriend either. Is this something I should be concerned about? This may sound naïve coming from someone my age, though I can't help but wonder what it could mean.
Thank you for reading this~
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how do i act normal around them?
Posted Saturday September 26 2015, 2:42 pm
Hi so i am 16 yrs...i am female.i rarely have friends that are girls... my closest friend is a guy, i will call him Mike. Mike hangs out with a guy(lets call him Sam) .The three of us have most of our classes together and on evenings we go to a public place to study. To be honest Sam and i had not be really close until a year ago. Before he would talk to this girl named Liah. It turn out though that liah had a bf and like Sam... Last week liah and her bf broke up and she had an arguement with Sam..so they dont talk as much.
I told Mike that i liked Sam and i was going to tell him in a year or so because i was afraid since Liah liked him. Then recently mike told sam that i liked him and he was friendzoning me. i didnt know all tha...
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Are their really men out there who are real "Sugar Daddies"?
Posted Thursday September 24 2015, 11:59 pm
I know this sounds like a dumb question and please don't judge me, but do "Sugar Daddies" as in wealthy older men who financially assists a younger female for her company and takes her on extravagant trips and shopping, exist? By exist I don't mean are there one or two out there who do this because of course there's going to be a couple, but I mean in the broader sense of the term.
I was interested in finding one because I'm a college student who wants to be a doctor, but I come from a lower class family with poor credit and I'm worried about being able to get more loans to cover the rest of my schooling. I read stories online and they seemed really amazing, but also too good to be true, so I decided to test it out ...
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Between a rock and a hard place on love
Posted Wednesday September 23 2015, 12:19 am
Okay first of all I have been married 8 ye ars and we have 2 amazing kids. Well In April of this year I had a miscarriage and well at the end of july i ended up dating and then seeing someone. Well now i am pregnant by him and he's staying with us in the mean time. I feel like such a crappy wife because i want my marriage to work but yet I want this relationship with this other guy to work because their is a huge possiblity that I am pregnant for his child. I wish I knew what to do but I don't anymore. I want to do what is best for me and my kids because they are my life. I know I am not the best wife in the world because I have cheated before but I have always used protection this time that i just sleep with someone because I felt unwanted...
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How do I go about looking for a lesbian girlfriend better?
Posted Tuesday September 22 2015, 6:59 pm
I just turned 21 and I feel like I'm finally in a good place where I can go about dating another woman. Before I always had extremely religious family members around that I know for a fact would disapprove (they are very angry that gay marriage is legal now and think shows like OITNB should be taken off the air) and I didn't want to upset them so I just kept it to myself.
I've always had a strong tendency to be drawn towards women instead of men. I dated a few men just to make my family happy and through that I realized there's a strong chance I'm lesbian,but I might just be bisexual.
My problem is that for one, I can't find anybody local and there are no lgbt places in town. I tried a few gay friendly dating s...
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Boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as often, worried he's cheating
Posted Tuesday September 22 2015, 3:17 pm
22/f, 28/m
Lately, my boyfriend hasn't been wanting to have sex as often. He isn't as "touchy-feely" as he usually is. I told him that I needed some space, so he gave me some and realized that he enjoyed the space. He said it's because he could do the chores and errands that he needs to do, write his research paper, walk his dog in the morning, etc. He liked being productive because of the space that he was giving me. The tricky part, though... Is that he doesn't want to have sex as often.
I told him that I felt as if he doesn't want to have sex with me very often. And he told me that he loves sex, and likes having sex, it's just that he doesn't want to make it his priority everyday. He said that he m...
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My mom and grandma won't stop sticking their nose into my relationship.
Posted Tuesday September 22 2015, 8:08 am
21/f
So here it goes. I have a boyfriend,age 23 who is hearing impaired and wears hearing aid. His hearing loss was due to a bad cold and the fluid in his middle ear clogged the inner ear. Point is it is not genetic. I will explain why I mentioned this a little bit later.
We have started dating this April. Almost six months together and still going strong. But my mom and grandma are giving me hell because I told them about his hearing aid. They also mind that he is from a village whereas I'm from a small town. And they mind about his lack of college degree as well and that he is not rich. According to them I deserve better. I don't agree because I don't look for degrees and money,I look for honesty,intelligence,love an...
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kissing and not feeling anything?
Posted Tuesday September 22 2015, 6:26 am
is it normal for a girl not feel anything when kissing.
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a confusing breakup
Posted Monday September 21 2015, 8:17 pm
Hi... I was in a long distance relationship... After texting and calling for what seemed like forever,a few years we saw each other...... We did this week... And we had a long talk.
And he broke up with me.. Saying we couldn't be together. That he couldn't give me 110% and that further down the road he would cheat on me. And to not wait for him anymore. And I was wonderful and all that crap....
Now,here is the confusing part..
He said right after 'don't wait for me' that he isn't 100% giving up on him and I... Us... Later he went on to say... All I needed to do was move out here (in the bay area) and get a part time job..
I asked him if he could do better than me.... He said no..
He said he didn't ...
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