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Posted Wednesday September 7 2011, 5:13 am

ok so i have my ex best friends and ex boyfriend saying crap about me and spreading it around. im 15 and i feel like people are starting to talk about me behind my back? i dont think my current friends are but i definitely know that my ex best friends are because they keep giving me really bad looks. i dont care what people think about me i never did and never will because i always know the truth but still i dont want this getting out of control because it's starting to a bit. what can i do about it?

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Framed and sexually harassed by my Boss's daughter?


Posted Monday September 5 2011, 5:47 pm

Well I'm 23 yr old guy that finally got his first serious job. My dad's best friend helped me out to get involved with their company. But I was transferred to a different state so I packed up and moved.

Now I won't get into big detail, but my Boss's secretary quit all of a sudden so he asked me if I was interested. I ended up taking it and it was a pretty o.k job. Paper work, answering calls, setting up meetings and such, everything was going so well. Until he asked me to take care of some "personal" business.

He had me pick up his 16 yr old daughter from school and take her home then babysit. Their nanny never called or showed up and he was in an important meeting. So I figured, he's a nice a guy wh...

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How do i stop being so nice to people?


Posted Saturday September 3 2011, 8:32 pm

how do i stop wearing my heart on my sleeve? all my life even when i was little i would try and still befriends with some one that has done me wrong, i always wanted to believe that people just make mistakes and not believe that the ones i care about would be this hate full towards me.
how do i teach my self not to care?

but as far as relationships go. and friend ships how do i stop being a push over? how can i toughen up and stop letting people walk all over me? my dad my mom and sister always tell me im to nice and people treat me the way they do because i allow it. and that nice people finish last, but how can i stop being who i am? my grandma always tough me to treat people the way i want to be treated but that d...

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Do word dear have different meaning?


Posted Saturday September 3 2011, 7:18 am

I just wondered word dear have different meaning?
for instance when american person use it or english person use it do they have idfferent meaning? i just want to know

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He dosent like me but i like him....


Posted Friday September 2 2011, 9:52 pm

I go to this school with a guy (let's call him justin) so, we dated once for about 2 months and he dumped me. It is now a few months later and I have the same feelings for him again. I asked my friends boyfriend to ask him out for me... he said ok and asked him.... he said no...of course....so, I went and stood by a flight of stairs...and her and her boyfriend followed me to comfort me. A few minutes later he came over and sat behind where I was standing. He kept looking t my butt... but didn't say anything. After that, it has been a few more days, so I asked my friend to ask him if he likes me.... he said he didn't, and she asked him why..and all he said was idk, I just dont..... how can I get him to like me??? I think I'm obsessed with hi...

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my last year teacher


Posted Friday September 2 2011, 7:43 pm

I'm 11 and i'm going to 7th grade.A lot of things are changing in my school.Well last year my teacher was really innapropriate.During class he would stand next to my desk while he was teaching.He was always talking to me when he is not teaching the class.When he started teaching sex ed he would stare at me the whole time.The problem is he is now my 7th grade classes computer teacher what do I do?I start school in 3 days please help

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I want the guys to chase me, and I am sick of lacking self confidence


Posted Friday September 2 2011, 2:37 pm

Im 16f and I'm not shy around people I know but others I just seem to forget how to talk I want to have the courage to new guys and I want to not be afraid to septal in front of s class and no be completely freaked out. I want the guys to chase me as in like texting me first but how please I'm sick of being unconfident in myself

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showing people i've changed from shy to more outgoing.


Posted Friday September 2 2011, 8:15 am

so i'm going to sixth form next year... a new school, hopefully new friends... but the thing is i ALWAYS used to be the shy quiet one and just about everyone keeps commenting how quiet i am. i'm not nerdy or anything like that though. i feel like before i move on to another school i want people to believe i'm not the passive shy girl they used to know before summer, but i don't really know how. i'd appreciate any tips to be more outgoing and to stand out more in a crowd then just blend in.

thanks :)

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Does he like me??


Posted Wednesday August 31 2011, 4:58 pm

Hi, there is this guy at my school... me and him used to date but arent anymore. I'm in my schools marching band and I aw him at a game yesterday.. he was in our "tunnel" that we make with the band so that the football team can run through it. So, he didnt see me until halftime. I was walking around with my friend and her boyfriend. We saw him and her bf called him over. He asked him out for me and his nswer was no, but a feq days earlier he said yea. This is the part i don't get, we were sitting oon the stairs an he sat right behind where I was. He kept looking at my butt... we never really talk, only once in a while and when we do i alwaYs Blush, and he says I'm cute. so, does he like me? And if so, how can i get him to date me?

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two different countries! :/


Posted Wednesday August 31 2011, 4:40 am

so i like this guy. he was in my school and passed out this year. i am a year junior to him so i'll pass out next year!
i have been talking to him for quite a while now.. and i really like him. he likes me too. he asked me out recently.(though we both are confused on what to do because.. the problem is he is going to another country :/ for his college! and yeah well he would come back to where i live cause his family is here, but still i mean i dont know what i should do?)

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two different countries! :/


Posted Wednesday August 31 2011, 4:37 am

okay
so i like this guy. he was in my school and passed out this year. i am a year junior to him so i'll pass out next year!
i have been talking to him for quite a while now.. and i really like him. he likes me too. he asked me out recently.(though we both are confused on what to do because.. the problem is he is going to another country :/ for his college! and yeah well he would come back to where i live cause his family is here, but still i mean i dont know what i should do?)

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Haters: How do I survive all teh rumors?


Posted Tuesday August 30 2011, 11:05 am

ok i have this big issue with girls at school all because of a boy that ie een dateing for about 5months now. well these girls are starting to hate meh because i got something they dont have. so they began to tell him all these lies saying that i am fake and he should leave me for some other girl crazy right. so he told meh he he would never leave me and he dont believe what they are saying. but all i want to know is what am i supose to do at this point let them keep talking or shut them up and how do i bear threw these rumors thankxx

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What does it mean when a guy thinks your too innocent?


Posted Sunday August 28 2011, 8:52 am

When a guy tells friend that he thinks you are too innocent what the hell does that even mean?

My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future?

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Problems with the Boss


Posted Saturday August 27 2011, 2:23 pm

hey guys. i need some advice. here is the thing. most of you in college are familiar with the work-study program. if you are not, let me explain. if you are going to school full time, they allow you to work at school. You are on salary, so usually you are not allowed to work more than 15-20 hours. there are certain rules. since you are on salary, they cannot give you work to do outside of the office because they can't pay you for it. it's funded by financial aid/scholarship money. and basic stuff, of course. they can't make you do things that don't have to do with school. for example, you boss can't make you go pick up the kids. now, if you were working in the university (not in work study), then you can stay extra time, because they can pa...

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Posted Friday August 26 2011, 11:00 pm

my girlfriend is super shy around me and i dont kno wat to do and she likes me alot but i can nevr tlk to her wat shud i do.

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Do you think my teacher is acting inappropriatly/harrasment


Posted Friday August 26 2011, 8:25 pm

Ok well 15/f I have put this off long enough well we got a new male teacher at the beggining of the school year, and well like its an all girl class of about 10 people, and well sinse the first day he says innappropriate things like the first day talking about balls, another day bringing up dicks and yes the bad way, btw hes a young teacher not married no kids. Any way me and my friend Cali were like wow. Then the next day he came up to me in the hall way while i was on the way to the bathroom and walked biside me and he goes heyyy and i was like woah you scared me and he was like I get that a lot then he raised his eybrows up and down at me over and over, then he followed me all the way to the bathroom no joke not sayin anything then when...

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Need Ideas for a Date


Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 1:32 pm

I need help with an idea for a date with a girl i met at school. I'm 16, and she's the same age, she's very creative and likes to be in the outdoors, what should I do for a first date? P.S i want to make a good impression.

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I have difficulty to maintain friendship :(


Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 11:24 am

i, I'm a 19 years old girl currently studying in university. I have no close friends since high school and now I'm finding it hard to find friends in uni. Im not shy to initiate conversation and tried lo lift up conversation. However, most of the time people don't seem to be interested. I used to have a friend who I met at uni orientation. We are not close but same classes made us see each other frequently. She is smart and serious type of girl, and I always be very careful not to say anything insulting. But since I start second semester, she avoids me. I can't ask her what happen because I'm too scared and I'm finding myself alone. I know something must be wrong in my personality because this problem always happen. During high school, in f...

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Do you think he actualy meant this or you just think he was teasing?


Posted Wednesday August 24 2011, 7:34 pm

Ok so the othernight at a baseball game I got to hang out with these guys I always have dreamed about hangin out with and well I actually got to the other night(: the boy jami he is one year older than me, me 15 him 16 almost 17 but like this boy came up to and started talkin and he goes "Why are you hanging out with her noone does" But he didnt sound serious and I do hang out with a lot of people. Then before I left I hugged my friends Nicole and Layla bye and he goes "Girl don't even expect to get a hug from me". Well I over react about everything so I was just wonderin do you think he really meant that or do you think he was just teasin like boys do kinda like boys will be boys? Cuz he is like a goofy person anyway so...

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I feel like a failure


Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 11:38 pm

I've always strived to be the best that I can be. I get all 100's but it just gets so old staring at them everyday. I'm not good at anything else. Not good at sports or arts or music or singing or dancing or anything. I was so wrapped up in books as a kid that I never learned to swim! I always feel like a failure compared to girls who are not only decent students, but have rich parents that engage them in lessons and every sport that exists and are just good at everything! I don't know to compete, and I get so angry and frustrated with myself because I'm just a nerdy student and nothing else. I'm not pretty, I'm not popular, and I just feel like a mess. It doesn't help that I have braces, pimples, and I'm tall and just plain ugly! And I'm ...

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