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shy guy and making the first move with him
Posted Wednesday September 28 2011, 5:56 pm
so i go to ventures (level above scouts) with this guy, hes younger than me im in year 10 and he is in year 9... not that, that bothers me , he towers over me. But hes so shy, everyone seems to think he likes me, but im not sure, i think its because im the only one he actually talks to. but i like him. So were going on camp soon and im not sure if i should make a move, what should i do.
i have had bf's befor so im not totally clueless but this guy is different .. hes shy and i know ill have to make the first move ... suggestions???
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I don't think he will take this anywhere.
Posted Wednesday September 28 2011, 5:17 pm
Hey, I am 17 and female. The boy I will be talking about is 17 and male, obviously, haha. At the beginning of the school year, he was kinda rude and sassy to me. I think that's joking to him but it was rude to me. Now, weeks into school, I see a significant change in him. Every time we see each other in the hall, we say hi to each other, every time.. it never fails. We are both in the marching band, his friend was asking him who he wants to be on their bus for travelling to cavalcades and this boy said he wants me on their bus. Out of everyone in the band, he chose me, I was flattered. So, my friend and I signed up for that bus not only because of the boy but because the boy has friends that are my friends as well and we all mesh together a...
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my question is describing on what our song should be on how we were and are
Posted Wednesday September 28 2011, 10:49 am
What should be our song on how we were, we were enemies to friends to lovers? Can you please help me find a song?
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hes cute...now how do i talk to him?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 9:38 pm
so this guy in my french class isreally cute..but i dont know him at all. how do you approach and talk to a guy you know nothing about?
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Pursuing a work relationship?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 6:13 pm
Hello. I have somehow stumbled upon this site and wish to pose my problem to all of you.
I'm twenty one years old and working to put myself through college right now. At my current job I met this guy that I am really into. He's a sweet guy, and he likes to take his lunch breaks with me (he has a twin brother he usually takes his breaks with, but lately he's been around me mostly).
Well, see, he's nineteen. I'm not sure if that matters too much (I mean, how much does it matter that there's a two year difference, right?) But I want to admit I like him but I feel like that might turn things awkward.
Neither of us are above the other in work. We're both on the same level. Our job went over in orienta...
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What I want to be!
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 3:58 pm
I really, really would like to do something to do with modelling. I don't think I'm pretty, or have that great of a figure, but I really would enjoy it. Everytime I see models on TV, I wish I was one. My parents laugh, they don't believe I'm serious, but I really am. What should I do? I want to pursue this, and I have told my mum and dad I'm serious, but they don't think I am.
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is it normal to feel this way?
Posted Monday September 26 2011, 2:05 am
i have been single for a little over a year and it's my senior year of high school. i just got over a crush and i'm feeling great and free about not having guys in my life to distract me. but my friends are all complaining about how lonely they are and how badly they want boyfriends. i feel like i'm the only one who's not upset about being single. for me it's like this; i have a job and a ton of homework. i have to worry about where i'm going to college and things like that during the winter cheerleading starts and that takes up all my time so i don't think i'll have time to keep a boyfriend. if i can't have time for myself, how am i going to possibly have time to have a boyfriend? i won't be opposed to having one if the right guy comes alo...
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not sure what this tension is..
Posted Monday September 26 2011, 1:59 am
well. during my freshman year of high school, second semester, i started to like this guy and my crush went on for about 1year. during junior year of high school he got a girlfriend and i was pretty hurt so i tried to stop liking him or convince myself that i didn't like him anymore until i believed myself. so during the summer time, i wanted to ask him some question over something that had happened a while back. i didn't think he would actually respond since ever since he found out i liked him he would avoid me while before he would come and talk to me and joke around with me. anyway ever since school began (senior year) and after i asked him that question, he would start talking to me more and started to joke around with me a little bit. ...
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My teacher is like a father figure
Posted Friday September 23 2011, 11:19 pm
18/f
OK so here's the deal. I'll try to keep this fairly short while still encompassing the whole situation. I've had a teacher for a few years and I've always felt I could talk to him about things... so I do. Not really personal stuff, I just love to talk to him. He's a fascinating person & he notices me and takes the time to pay attention to what's going on in my life. That, to me, is huge because my dad has not been present in my life (to put things nicely.) He notices little details my own father didn't. So as I got to know him better I would go after school & talk to him a lot and we got pretty close. Nothing inappropriate though, he's not like that at all! And I don't like him romantically. But what bothers me is that l...
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What's with my teacher?
Posted Thursday September 22 2011, 10:08 pm
Hello, I hope this doesn't end up being too long! Here's my problem. I have a teacher of one of my classes I've considered myself to be pretty close to for all of high school. I've gone after school to talk to him about random things before and sometimes I stayed for a good hour or so and we had great conversations. But that was last year, and lately things have been strange. When I talk to him or ask him about an assignment he can't look at me, and gets really nervous. Maybe he thinks we're getting too close? But he appears to have similar relationships with other students, as he likes to get to know everybody. Also, he's been putting off my letter of recommendation for quite some time now. I'm not sure why because I've always gotten A's i...
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I have 2 questions, would appreciate if answered :) Guys are more preffered
Posted Wednesday September 21 2011, 9:14 pm
I just got out of a really bad relationship, the guy hurt me so much, ive been upset about him for 4 months all in all, and ever since those 4 months i never really had time to heal, because he was still in my life til i decided to cut him out of my life so i can move on, because i dont want to be in love with him anymore, anyways, theres this guy in my school that has always been trying to talk to me ever since last year when i was with my ex, and he would look at me alot, i never really cared because i was with someone and i loved him, but anyways, since im out in the opened now, i decided to write the boy, just to be friends not more honestly, but seems like its turning into something else, correct me if im wrong, i was talking to him on...
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Stolen Crush
Posted Saturday September 17 2011, 5:07 pm
My BFF and I went to a party on Friday night and expected to have a great time. We'll call her Reilly and me Carol. Reilly knows that like this guy ( we'll call him Steven). So she went ahead and asked him out. HE SAID YES TO HER!!! I thought that she could have told me about what she was going to do but she said that I would have hurt her. I would never have done that over a guy but she didnt believe me. She avoided me the rest of the night except when 2 guys got mad and it was leaning toward a fight so she comes up to us like:
"I need my B****** cuz there's about to be a fight."
It really ticked me off and I need to know what to do about the guy and my BFF.
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How can I not be so nervous when I have to present in front of my class?
Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 5:26 pm
Every time I have to present something in class I get nervous standing in front of everyone. My knees shake and my voice starts trembling and changing. I had to present yesterday and my knees were shaking in front of everyone and my voice was shaking. It was embarrassing. I know most of my classmates, I don't know why I get nervous. I can't just pretend Im presenting to one person either. Sometimes I get so nervous people Laugh at me. I have to present something again on next tuesday, so how can I stop my knees and my voice from shaking?
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So sick of being the constand outcast
Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 8:02 am
Ok so im a 18 male and in college. Im so sick of people always thinking im a weirdo or mean or something. I try to be the nicest person ever and when ever i try to talk to people (girls mostly) they wont talk to me and if they do they talk once then ill go to talk again the next time and they blow me off and dont answer. Last night people were saying they need help in a class *a girl* and this one guy says ill help you and she didnt say anything then i said the same and her friend was like hell no..like why do i come off as such a creep. all the asshole guys get all these girls and nice guys like me get screwed over all the time im so sick of it. people always look at me as a weirdo when i try to be nice and help people? what the hell. it seriously gets annoying...help
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Does he like me??
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 9:24 pm
So there is this guy in my class at school who is really shy..not like...shy....but I mean REALLY SHY... he dosent really talk to anyone other then his closest friends and his brother. So for about two years we have just been looking at eachother... like mostly it is, he looks at me,I look at him, I look away really fast because if he is just looking at me cuz he thinks I'm weird...that would be embarassing.. so, we never talk, but today when he looked at me...it was lke 24/7. Every time I would look at him, he would be staring at me... and today, he cracked a little smile at me. I don't know if he was looking at something behind me or what...but I can't conjure up the courage to talk to him. I like him a lot, but i don't know if he knows ...
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I usto be popular now im just losing my friends
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 9:12 pm
Okay im 14 in the 8 th grade. in 6th grade i wasent popular 7th grade i was popoular and now 8th grade im just loseing my friends , i hang around certain people sometimes i just feel like im following them and i dont want it to be that way cause they end up leaving me going to talk to other people one of my friends say i dont know how to include myself in coversations but thats being nosey and none of my business and they arent really talking to me. also i dont wanna be a loner and be just all bye my self loooking like something is wrong, i lost two of my most important bestfriends over a dumb sistuation caus e she yelled at me telling me that my ex boyfriend dosent like me and she told me to the only way we could be friends is if i cry i k...
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gifts - teachers day
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 9:05 am
okay so our school will be celebrating teachers day on the 17th because of the ongoing exams
as it is going to be my last teachers day in school
i want to give something to each of the teachers who have taught me for atleast two years now
i have a maths sir who teaches me and the rest five subjects are taught by women
any sugestions???? i need help.
i don't have a very huge budget. but i can splurge a lil'.
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Am I being Bullied?
Posted Friday September 9 2011, 10:21 pm
I'm a 10th grader so a sophomore in high school (a private high school) and only 3 or 4 people like me in the whole school (its a VERY small school) I notice that a large group of people (the popular people) whisper to other people about me when they see me. I don't know what ther'ye saying, but i can tell that they're talking about me because they look and me and laugh when they do it. Is this considered bullying or not? How should i handle this? I already have way low self esteem and I know that's bad but I don't know how to get a higher self esteem... It makes me feel really bad and I often go home and cry in my bedroom about it I've told my mom and she just said that I need to ignore it...and I've tried but it seems that there is no way...
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crush at work
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 6:26 pm
There's this guy at work and we have insaane chemistry.. lustful and sexual. We have joked around a lot about sex and stuff. He doesn't know that I like him. I'm not sure if he likes me but I'm scared I will be rejected. How do I hint to him that I want to be with him? After all is said and done I don't want it to be weird because we work together..
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I'm switching schools, HELP
Posted Wednesday September 7 2011, 2:11 pm
Hi everyone. I'm twelve and I was supposed to start the seventh grade at my private school tomorrow, but today I found out I'm starting school at the town middle school!!!!! Not only that I'm starting the eighth grade!!!!! Everyone is older than I am and I don't know ANYBODY there!!!!!! Help!!
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