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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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overreacting?


Posted Tuesday April 5 2005, 2:06 pm

i emailed my friend to tell her some really good news (i finally got something i worked really hard for) like three nights ago and now shes finally emailed back. its a reply from my original email and all it says is 'dya know the school website'.
am i overreacting to be hurt like i am? it seems like she doesnt care. there wasnt even a 'congrats' in there.

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complacated


Posted Tuesday April 5 2005, 5:44 am

i am geting annoyed from my friend i like him but he sometimes folows me copy's me and he doesn't care about anyone else but me and poeple are complaning and blaming it on me he ditched his old friends and became friends with me so poeple are blaming it on me!!!!




what should i do

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Forgot a name


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 10:46 pm

Ok, so over spring break I was on a cruise, and well, while I was on there i met a girl. We kind of talked but didn't really hang out until the last night where we messed around (made out more or less) and then she went to bed and it was supposedly over. Well since then we've been talking over email and IMing and such, but I didn't hear from her for about a week and I kind of forgot her last name. It's really been bothering me, but I don't want to just ask her because it just seems kind of horrible that this girl messed around with me and I don't know her last name, or don't remember it at least.

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lost my bfff


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 10:23 pm

Ok so ive been freinds with this gurl fro about 2 years,weve helped each other through soooo much stuff...its insane how close weve become. Well over the summer she got introduced to one of my bros freinds...and he eventually ended up asking her to homecoming, and they started hanging out...which was cool at the time. But then he asked her out..and thy started spending alllll their free time together....and everything she used to call me for she now calls him..etc etc...and just recently i found out she lost her virginity to him...and told at least 3 other ppl...and didnt even tell me till i asked her...((she lost it about a month ago..i asked her 2 das ago)) I mean shouldnt i be the first person she tells..she waas the first person i told...

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!*AfRaId To GeT iNvOlVeD*! PLEASE HeLp!


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 10:01 pm

ok...one of my BEST friends is very flirty! I'm not sure why...but she is! It seems like all she wants to do is flirt and be ually active with guys! I havn't been hanging out with her as much because of this...If she happens to get pregnant or any type of thing, I don't want to be apart of it! She always wonders why I don't hang out with her as much and I tell her...but she always denies doing the things she does. How can i help her realize that i don't want her getting hurt and hang out with her more...WITHOUT her getting upset with me?!?!?!??!?!

Thanks a bunch!
-*Marissa*-

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Our Friendship is Fading!


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 10:00 pm

Ok, well, me and my 2 friends, Emily and Zoe, were in the same class in 4th grade, and now this year Emily is in a different class than me and Zoe. She only has 2 friends, and some girl bullies her sometimes, she is so stressed out all the time because she has dislexia, and she cant "tell me and Zoe any of her secrets becuz she doesnt trust us" (?). Dont get me wrong, Emily is nice, and me and Zoe really want to be her friend still! Our friendship is fading and me and Zoe r pissed off. Please, what can I do to keep our friendship going?

I am a female and 13 years old.

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confused


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:56 pm

What do you do when people tell you that you've changed, because i've been involved in alot and i've lost two of my really close friends because of that. What should I do? I don't even think I changed. I'm just being myself =]

xox !MaDiSoN! xox

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Bff ..


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:50 pm

Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out ...

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My friend is a lesbian!


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:18 pm

Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get o...

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aerry


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:17 pm

how do u get this in to ur pro


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Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:15 pm

Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...


My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls th...

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My friend won't get away from drugs!


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 9:00 pm

I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.

~Nokomis~

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Rich girls


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 8:32 pm

My best friend is really rich and she always likes to brag about her $3.2 million mansion and how mine is only worth $1.2 million. I never really had a problem with her being so "Oh mine is better than yours" because shes done it with our cars, our clothes, etc. But its beginning to bug me because she wrote me this really long email about how she went to Hollister Co. and bought $3,000 worth of stuff. She began listing it one by one. 37 logo shirts ($721), 7 pairs of capris ($276)...and she listed it all the way to underwear, flip flops, mini skirts, shorts, bathing suits, and fragrance. Is that just a little too much? Because I think so. See my family is rich, but we like to save our money. But her family, blows it all on stuff t...

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Dani


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 7:36 pm

Okay first of all natalie IS NOT UGLY!! She is so0o pretty and hott!! And i loooveeeeee her s0o0o0o0o much! Who ever wrote that (cough cough) i know who (cough cough) is a bi0tch! and it wasnt a guy...it was a gurl...HmMmm u prolly KNOW THIS girl!! just think....
Anyways i love you nat!!!!!

Love Always,
Dani

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Jealousy


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 6:33 pm

My friend, lets call her L, is a pretty good friend most of the time. But if I get a good grade or a good grade point average that is better than hers, even if hers is good too, she takes it out on me and ignores me for the rest of the day. She did it once in the morning, and in the afternoon!!! Now she is mad at me!!!!!! What should I do, I'll rate EVERYONE who is not rude!!!!

~Devastated

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sweet 16 conflict


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 6:01 pm

ok so my birthday was like a month ago..i started planning my sweet 16 but couldnt do it the date i wanted because one of my good friends is having hers that day. I was ok with that and decided to wait until June because my aunt who works there said i can get a deal this one weekend. I checked with everyone to make sure i didnt interfere..my one good friend is having hers the day after mine..im having mine on a friday. Today she asked me if i can change mine because she was talking to her mom and her mom doesnt like the idea because she said it will be hard for people to go to to parties in one weekend. She asked me to change mine because she cant change hers. I was like WHTA? her dad works at the firehouse (thats where shes havin hers) an...

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Posted Monday April 4 2005, 3:46 pm

okay well i was friends with someone online for a few months and we got really close - we told each other like everything and stuff. I showed her like one pic maybe and my face wasn't showing that well and I'm not really comfortable showing pics online anyway because I knew that she saved them on her computer. Well, we grew apart, and then a month after we did I found out that she was even bisexual. the problem is.. she ims me every once in a while and asks for my pic, saying that she has all these pics of her friends saved. am i wrong for not wanting to give it, or feeling that im only imed so she could see my pic?

[ 15 / f ]

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how do i find out?


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 10:47 am

i want to know my friend's username so i can ask her a questain on this and she can not talk to me at school beucase there is not time in between classes is there a way i can find out her user name?

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friends


Posted Monday April 4 2005, 4:16 am

ok. I almost lost my home yesterday because of a huge flood. and i was to call my "best friend" on the phone. and this is the conversation.
me: hey
her:hey I heard about the flood
me: yeah, they might not let us back in our houses for 2-3 months.I'm basicly homeless.
her:oh well I have 2 friends over and I don't want to be rude
me: *scoffs* yeah ok bye
her:bye

....there were only two friends of mine that said "hey well if you need a place to live you can come here" if my "friend" was actually my friend why did she blow me off in my time of need?

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...BEST FRIEND BACK?


Posted Sunday April 3 2005, 11:09 pm

My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much j...

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