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What Do I Do? Since The Divorce I Don't Think My Mother Loves Me Anymore.
Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 11:10 am
Hello, My mother and father got divorced about a year ago. I am a 12 year old and that was very tough. My mother and father did not get a long. She says "I feel more alive now, free! She has been on some dates and some people have visited but I feel that she feels free from mothering. She feels like she can just take a break from mothering now. It has a very strong affect on me. She does not want to hear the truth and shes one of those people that always think thier right. STUBBORN! Dont get me wrong I love my mom, I just wished she loved me back! What do I do, she never wants to talk?
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Confused on joining again job as we live together but job of mine not here
Posted Saturday June 30 2012, 5:57 am
Hi ..
I am from India.
Me and my husband has our job place located at different places. I need to travel 1 full day i.e 15 hours to reach his place. We both are in very good job. We are married recently on 2011 november. He tried many jobs in my place and whereever my company branch is there but still its hard to find.
My problems :
1. I have H1 visa and i can travel to Onsite. I am a software professional.
2. My husband is basically from electrical i.e from power plant industry.
3.I am not sure if i go to US and i can find any job for him through consultancy there.
4.I dont know what kind of opportunity is available in power plant there at US for Indian.
5.My H1 visa wil expire by ja...
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I'm on fight with m family then m sis tempered So I insulted her she's sad
Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:59 pm
so here my story I am fighting with my parents everyday .Because they never let me go out and also they never take me out to hav fun like other teen So when my sis came from work .She talked 2 me and I was sitting in the living room:((you remember me my friend she is short and wear like you)). Me in my mind :((short ha)) then she walk away.I was sitting and doing nothing so she came again and said:((y your sitting like a zombie)).So I got angry and said :((leave me alone I swear the god I will beat you if you don't)) then she said:((drawf))because I am too short SoI stand and insulted her said :((oh your height is very useful to yourshelf .Where is your husband?!)) because she is old and she don't marry until now lol then she get angry and ...
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How do I tell my 7 year old and 4 year old that I had another baby by someone else while I was using drugs?
Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:38 pm
I'm 30. Years old and I have a 7year old and a4year old about 10 months ago I got clean from drugs I had a really bad year of using and I left my husban he took the boys down south to get a way from everything so now that I'm clean I have had the boys up every few months the thing is I have another child 7 months ago and the ex husban has wanted me to not tell the boys fearing they would not understand. Well my boys are going to be coming up on Monday and I have already told my ex I can't hide him anymore so when they get here I'm going to stay at my Moms and leave the baby with his dad and spend a day with just them my question is how do I tell them about there half brother I just don't want to hurt my boys anymore then I already have but I can't hide there brother from them please help
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Letter to my father - Long an I apologize
Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:25 pm
My father and I have always had our differences. His wife is my step mother whom I never truly got along with I just always tried to be mutual. My step mother has a very obnoxious her way or the high way type of personally. Over time I grew up and realized that little by little she was controlling my father. My relationship with him slowly drifted apart, He called me less and less. I moved out of my parents house and got my first apartment back in 2009 and my father only came to visit me once in the 11 months I was there. My eldest sister was also on rocky terms with him as well as my step mother and my sister never got along because she always tried to walk the whole "This is how you parent your children" and there was a...
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Anger and feeling stuck in the middle
Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 12:21 pm
My parents divorced when I was 15 months old. My mother had custody, while my father had visitation. I remember times not seeing my dad, some because he never showed up free he said he would, other times there was just limited visits. After I turned 5 I completely stopped seeing my father an stepmother. Growing up, I was told my father did this or that, whether my brother and I asked or just information thrown at us. Now I am 27, and have slowly begun to form a relationship with my father. I have had about 4 visits with him in the past year and a half. About 4 months ago I've developed a relationship with my stepmother also. Her and I have become close. My stepmother informed me of my fathers side I the story of why my parents split. Evid...
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My dad. Always picking my brother over me. ):
Posted Sunday June 24 2012, 10:52 pm
Okay, well I have six brothers and sisters and I am the third oldest out of seven. Well, my oldest brother is 15 and I am 13. Well, my brothers name is Dylan. So, my dad always spends time and money on Dylan. I mean Dylan does Football and stuff. So, he is always with him. I do sports to. And the main reason that I do sports is to get attention from my dad. Well, I have this Volleyball camp Monday through Thursday and my dad was supposed to take me. But guess what. He is going to take Dylan to a camp instead. The only day that he can take me is Thursday.The last day. It just makes me feel like my dad loves Dylan more than me. I mean I kind of get it because Dylan is his oldest boy. But, HEY I am his oldest girl. So, why shouldn't he spend t...
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Not allowed to go anywhere.. even for a walk!
Posted Sunday June 24 2012, 10:39 pm
I'm 19 years old, and I feel as though I'm treated like such a child.
I live with my Dad, and I usually stay at home all day unless it's to go to the YMCA or work but other than that, I can't really go anywhere!
It's summer now, and I'm not in school. I want to wake up in the morning, and take a walk by the lake, and in the park. My father doesn't want me going.
I've gotten into a fight with him over simple things like taking a walk around the block, or going for a run. He gets so suspicious and thinks I'm up to no good.
I'm not a house hermit, and I hate staying inside. I've always been outdoorsy since I was a kid. I love going out, I love adventure, I love exploring.
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Broken Family.
Posted Sunday June 24 2012, 6:51 pm
I have two step-brothers that choose not to be a part in my life. They are both about ten years older than me. I was adopted into their family. Before that, I was in a foster home and before that, I was living with my family as an abuse victim. They both were grown and out on their own when I was adopted. All those years with that family, they never tried to get to know me. One of their wives, several times, made slight accusations that I was into drugs when I was around 12 and 13. She shared her worries with my parents and I found out through my parents, like always, what was said. I was a good-girl and it upset me that she said those things and I believe it was because my background before she knew me. She also told my parents that she di...
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I choose death instead living my life .say something stop me from doing this
Posted Sunday June 24 2012, 9:44 am
I am teenage girl turning .Before 3 days I left my only lovely place (my school)the school end and I will move 2 a new 1 I love my school ,my whole class and my teachers AND The most beautiful things is My family are horrible .My brother beats my mother every 3 or 5 mins .Because she was keep insulting him and said 2 him wish you die .When he was 8 ysold .Because he is walking strangly (disease) .I stand in front of her everytime 2 protect her So my brother beating me instead of my mom when I tey to stop him.So my whole body is hurting me now.And I cry all the day because of I will move 2 a new school.Plus I wake up in the morning everyday by my mother screams & crying out. Plus ain't go anywhere my family prevent me to go out even to t...
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Hope
Posted Thursday June 21 2012, 2:26 pm
Two nights a go I screamed in horror as I watched my dad choke my mom and then chase her with a knife. I cant stand this anymore. Alcohol is killing him and he doesn't want to admit it
he needs help but if he doesn't want it I know he won't get better. Im holding on to the last thing I have,hope. So far it hasn't helped. What can I do?
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me and my brother are wierdly sexually active.
Posted Tuesday June 19 2012, 2:57 am
Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!!
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Daddy Problems.
Posted Sunday June 17 2012, 9:48 pm
Long Story Short; my mom was 17, my dad was 15 when i was born. they fought, she cheated, he left. She hasn't let him be in my life. AT ALL. since i was 3. I'm going to be 17 in less than 2 months.
so. Yesterday I went with my boyfriend, to meet him. & it was a good experience. My boyfriend says he can tell he loves me, that hes a good guy and that he wants to be there for me. I told my mom today that i met him and she WENT OFF. and told me if i want to see him i have to get out. Is there something I can do about this?
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Mom advices against going with my boyfriend when he is with his sister
Posted Saturday June 16 2012, 8:57 pm
Ok, so my mom says that my boyfriend and I are a two people relationship. Which is true. But my boyfriend's sister 15s are coming up and she's going to a LMFAO concert and I would like to go. So that would be the three of us plus one more person, a friend of hers. My mom has made it clear in the past that she advices against me going with my boyfriend and his sister. Should I pass up going?
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I am very sure my dad is cheating on my mom...AGAIN. read!:(
Posted Thursday June 14 2012, 7:19 pm
I am very sure my dad is cheating/ being unfaithful to my mom.....AGAIN! from what I know this would be at least the 4th time. My mom and I went to go pick up my father from work yesterday. He asked me to come inside his job to help him carry a few things out, so I did. I was introduced to his boss, he seemed very friendly and comfortable with this man like they are friends. I then started walking ahead of them and I heard them laughing his boss said "please introduce me to your wife, so I can tell her all ur antics and the things you do around here!" My dads whole mood changed after he said that, he became nervous and uncomfortable and said" you dont need to go there, no you do not need to go there." I could tell he kne...
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My daughter will be going to jail for five months, how will this affect her
Posted Wednesday June 13 2012, 11:47 pm
my 21 year old daughter will be going to jail for five months (Jail not prison). I wonder how this will affect her life. She was going to college and had a job in her college too. Will she be able to go back to college when she gets out? How will this affect her employment opportunities?
also, I fully support my daughter going to jail (because she committed the crime so I feel she must do the time, also it might be a good learning experience and toughen her up)I will make sure she serves her sentence no matter how much she kicks, cries or begs, but I do wonder how it is like there. I hear that jail guards turn a blind eye to prisoners who get assaulted or attacked, is this true?
Is the...
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Always walking on eggshells around my sister
Posted Wednesday June 13 2012, 1:09 am
I'm 14 and I have an 18 year old sister. I love her, that I know. But I feel like I can't trust her. Everytime she comes home from college I am very careful about what I say when talking to her. Everytime we fight (which is often), I can never defend myself or fight back because I know that whatever I "trust" her with, she threatens to tell everyone. I talked to her about it already, and she said she's more mature now and she won't do it anymore. But we just had an argument and it ended the same way I thought it would end, with her saying "I could say so much about you, don't mess with me." I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to live my life not being able to confide in or trust my sister.
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Mom is out of control
Posted Saturday June 9 2012, 1:03 pm
Hi. I know that I've put a similar question up before, so those of you who have read it, here is a continuation. For those of you who haven't read it, I will give a brief summary. I'm 21/f. Living at home and finishing college in December. My mom is obsessed with hair extensions. She makes me put them on. Whenever I don't want to put them on, she will throw a tantrum, including throwing, crying, throwing herself on the floor, etc. whenever i go to the hair salon, they are all telling her that i have baby fine hair and that i need it and everyone telling me that i'm so lucky to have a mom that buys me hair extensions. OBVIOUSLY... THEY ARE TRYING TO SELL AND MAKE MORE MONEY. My hair will ALWAYS be fine... and I am not ALWAYS going to wear ex...
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Should I Move Out of My Parent's House Now?
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 1:59 am
Long story short, I chose to stay at home the first year of college. At the end of the first year, my grandmother (who lived in town) got sick and I decided I couldn't leave because my family needed me. She died in October of my junior year and I really couldn't leave then. Now, I've gone after my masters and I'm finally done with school. I feel it's past time to move out of my parents' house, but now my granddad is sick and the doctors say his heart could go out at any time. I feel bad because I still want to move out. I need to be on my own for a while before I get married next summer and want badly to have that experience. My worry is that my dad won't want me to or that he'll feel bad that I stayed home for my mom when her mom died, but...
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Persuading parents to let me do kung fu
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 1:49 am
I'm a girl in high school. My schedule is light and I have all A's in my classes.
I really want to learn kung fu but my mom is completely against it; she hates Chinese culture. I happen to have some Chinese friends and am taking Chinese because it's the only language that fits in my schedule, but my mom thinks I will be too influenced by "unsophisticated" Chinese culture and kung fu is the tipping point.
For certain reasons, kung fu is the only martial art I can safely learn. My mom knows this and tells me to do something like track instead, but I love martial arts. My dad is ok with kung fu but he's scared of my mom. I could maybe learn it secretly by begging my dad to drive me but I would rather no...
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