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Dating the wrong guy?
Posted Saturday November 28 2015, 2:34 am
I am a female in my early 20s and I have been dating this guy, Trevor, in a different city than me for a while so I typically spend my whole weekend up there so I spend a lot of time with his roommates, Brent and Riley. Trevor and I went camping with his roommates not too long ago and I realized that I click with his roommate Riley way better than I do with Trevor. Since then Riley and I have become super good friends and innocently chat all the time. I can tell that he knows we have strong chemistry too and Trevor knows it and gives me a hard time about it. How do I handle this? Do I confront the situation with Riley or just stick with Trevor?
(Names changed for privacy!)
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clingy??
Posted Wednesday November 25 2015, 9:34 am
Me and my ex bf have been seeing each other for the past 1 year and 7 months Once or twice on a monthly basis and yes we do have sex i saw him oN the 20th nov but did not really have sex anywayz i havent heard from him since sunday 22nov until now so its been like 3 days,he is almost alot online but he dont chat to me..i thought id send him a text askin if hs ok,been quiet.thought id see if hs stl alive and i hope to hear frm hm soon..do u thnk i shouldv sent that text or shouldv just left it and stay away so he wl be able to miss me and text me first..does that text make me seem clingy
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Flirting while in a relationship
Posted Wednesday November 25 2015, 4:53 am
19/F
Iv been in a relationship for only 2 months with my boyfriend, we get along amazingly, when I'm not with him I miss him, and when I am with him I just want to stay with him all day!
But.. Iv started to become close with a guy I work with, we flirt occasionally and he knows I have a boyfriend. I was on a work night out with this guy and our other friends of course (my boyfriend was not there) and me and the guy from work ended up getting a cab together because our friends got in the other cab, we were both really drunk and flirting hard, he would try to wrap his arm around me and continued to tell me I was the best looking in the job, I told him the same, I feel really guilty because we almost kissed, I stopped it because...
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Posted Tuesday November 24 2015, 9:39 am
Im 25 and my boyfriend is 24.
We've been dating for a couple months now and things have been great except one issue - his ex girlfriend. She will not stop texting/calling him even after he has told her that he's moved on. I was uncomfortable with him still speaking with her and he told me he understood and would take care of it.
Well last night his phone was on my night stand and I see his phone lighting up when he was in the bathroom. I peeked over and there was a text from his dad, and a missed call and text from his ex. His ex texts him dumb questions its like she just finds a reason to text him. But I didn't say anything when he came back in the room about her texting him. I just said you're phone was blow...
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How to go with the flow but stay true to your limits
Posted Sunday November 22 2015, 1:53 pm
How do you go with the flow when it comes to sex but stay true to the limits you set for yourself? What if you are a virgin and really would like to have sex but want it to be with someone who is actually committed to you so with guys who are not fully committed to you don't let them get fully in your pants, how do you deal with your sense of frustration following that. I had an amazing make out session with a guy I'm very attracted to but didn't let it get to full sex and now I feel like I cheated my body out of what it naturally wanted to do and am worried I gave him blue balls (from dry humping?). Ideally I'd love to just have sex but in my head I fear the emotional repercussions of doing it with someone I dont have a strong foundation o...
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Why did I get rejected?
Posted Sunday November 22 2015, 11:34 am
So I was at a robotics competition (I know it's nerdy) and a team chose us as an ally and we competed and ended up with 2nd place. Anyway the team captain was really nice and funny and smart so I kinda had a crush on him. We're both captains so we got a lot of time to talk and hang out that day. When I thought his team lefti decided to tell my friends that were also on my team but that was a mistake. It turns out he was still ther and they were like "we're gonna tell him!" So they did I was terrified to death and I literally stood frozen behind a fake plant as they told him. His reaction was that he lifted up his head from what he was doing and just walked way. It's really his reaction that bothers me. What's wrong with me? Am I n...
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I told my best friend I liked her and she is straight
Posted Saturday November 21 2015, 2:34 pm
I am a 15 year old girl. And my girl best friend (who is straight) knew I was lesbian but didn't know I liked her and I just told her about a month ago and I feel like she is pulling away from me and I don't know what to do?
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I dont know if ive cheated?
Posted Saturday November 21 2015, 8:33 am
Hey, so basically, I'm a guy and ive got this friend who I a girl. We were both talking about like sex and stuff, and what it would be like and she gave me a blow job. I didnt do anything to her, at all, but now I dont know if I've cheated on my girlfriend, even though I didnt do anything, only my friend did something...
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Help please
Posted Saturday November 21 2015, 2:06 am
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up twice and then started seeing eachother on a monthly basis it has been a year and 6 months now and we do hav sex..i saw him yesterday but things werent the same we kissed and got undressed and he fingerd me bt wen we got to having sex nothing happend i was ontop of him and he was in me bt weneva i wna ride him he takes hs hands off my body and wnts me to do it alone bt im scared i do it wrong or wen i start riding him he ask me why im being so sexual i mst control my hormones..so then we stopped and watchd movies i thought we wer gna continue to have sex mayb it happen ths time but instead he went and played computer games i felt like shit cause it was like his computer entertained hm more than i did..bt all ...
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Boyfriend smothering me
Posted Monday November 16 2015, 10:35 am
I'm 25 my boyfriend is 23. We have officially been dating for a month now. I've never been the touchy feely kind of person. My ex boyfriend would never hold my hand, kiss me in front of others or anything like that. barely would hug me. So i was kind of used to no affection.
Well now my current boyfriend always wants to be touching me. If we're watching tv he always wants to hold my hand or lay on me. I feel a little smothered. Sometimes I back off a little and he's like "youre mean" I dont know how to approach this. I do like him - I like kissing him. But sometimes the touching and constant contact can be too much. He knows I'm not really like that - I've told him before. But if hes touching me or something he's li...
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Posted Monday November 16 2015, 1:36 am
I'm 23 and there is a guy I hung out with a few times and fell for like crazy but we didn't see each other for a few weeks and I thought it was over and felt devastated, but then we started texting again the other day. Of course I've welcomed it with open arms, but I'm also trying to play it cool, and I'm not totally throwing myself at him. I do sense he may be a little insecure and tentative so that prompts me to want to initiate conversation and try a little harder for him, but I don't want to fall into any kind of trap. At this stage in the game, how do you find the balance between playing it cool but also being warm and inviting? I don't want to throw myself at him but I don't want him to think I'm uninterested either!
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My close friend asked me if i would kiss her?
Posted Sunday November 15 2015, 8:14 pm
Okay so yeah. My close friend asked me if i would kiss her! We are both bi females in high school.. but have talked about feelings in the past and agreed that it would be best to stay friends. But, she recently messaged me out of the blue asking if I would kiss her. I was reluctant to say that I would, but I had to be honest. I tried asking her about the randomness/abruptness of the question//why the thought even came to mind and she avoided the questions. She said she would make out with me and I thought, okay cool! But then remembered that we wanted to stay friends, but doing this could potentially change that. I just want to know why she suddenly thought this would be a good idea haha and also----do I kiss her?
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getting married
Posted Sunday November 15 2015, 4:31 pm
Hi I am an Indian girl going to get married next year...i had a serious relationship with a guy for 4long years and it was going good for first few years and then his mother manipulated him and eventually our relationship became rather disturbing mental trauma to both of us...he had tried to break it up with me, acussed me for his own drinking habits....his mom accused me for the same, whereas he was addicted before entering relationship..anyway I was still trying to working it out n stay with him...thought of giving up on him but couldn't because of my love for him..but then he n his mom insulted me n my family in such a way I found no way to forgive them n got hurt intensely...n decided to go for typical Indian arranged marriage...so my ...
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Advice on a first relationship?
Posted Saturday November 14 2015, 10:34 pm
Hi, I'm Katherine and I'm 14. I'm a month into my first ever relasonship with this awesome guy...and it's super awkward. Honestly, it's just composed of us smiling at each other when we're hanging out at school because we never know what to say, saying "hi" in the halls, and, rarely, texting for about 15 minutes.
I'm kind of scared he might end it. I mean, we've held hands once, and I was fine with it but he seemed uncomfortable. does that mean anything? How can I prevent things from being so awkward? Please answer and I hope you have a good day :)
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I'm in love
Posted Saturday November 14 2015, 7:47 pm
12 year old female. Crush on girl in my classes. I am in an LGBT support group cuz I'm lesbian. I know she's Jewish and we're having a potluck at a Jewish community center, she could totally be there! My chinese zodiac (I'm a ram) says I'd meet someone this year, and I KNOW she's the one! Not like the last girl I thought was the one who wasn't. No she isn't my type anyway but this one on the other hand !!!!! What should I do?????
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does he love me or just saying it like that?
Posted Saturday November 14 2015, 1:23 pm
Hi, do cancer good friend ever says i love you and i want to marry you one day while he's bit tipsy and joking in front of other friends?? he spoke in a different dialogue with his friends and i obviously didn't understand and when i asked him what u saying he said those words. i know that he likes me and we've been flirting casually.
Help guys!!!
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Not over my ex?
Posted Friday November 13 2015, 11:09 am
I'm 25 and my ex and I were together for 4 years. I absolutely loved him. I thought he was going to be my husband one day.
After 4 years he completely broke my heart. He said it was because he just didn't love me anymore and the feelings weren't there. I tried everything and he just couldn't get his feelings back. But in reality I found out he was interested in another girl. He started dating this girl 3 days after he broke up with me. I had a weird feeling about her towards the end of our relationship but he would always deny it. When he broke up with me I asked if it was because of her and he denied it again. So he blatantly lied to my face after I thought I could trust him. When I confronted him about it he shoved me to t...
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His ex girlfriend...
Posted Friday November 13 2015, 10:59 am
I'm 25 my boyfriend is 23. We have officially been dating for about a month now. We both came from long-term relationships with our exes. I do not talk to my ex at all, no contact, no social media - nothing. On the other hand my boyfriends ex will not leave him alone. They do have a dog together but the dog stays at his exs house and he will go pick him up when he can or when she needs him to. When she found out we were dating she texted him saying that she can't believe he moved on and that shes mad he didnt ask how she would feel before he asked me out. It's not like they were only broken up for a week - they had been broken up for about 6 months already. She's constantly texting him and recently she texted him saying she wants to talk wi...
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im so sick of hearing this
Posted Thursday November 12 2015, 3:22 pm
I'm tired of men telling me im too good for them.....how is someone too good for someone? i have a level head, i stopped partying at 25, im 31 now..... i have no kids, a good job and im still single....wth...what do men want?
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Being with woman for the first time with husband
Posted Wednesday November 11 2015, 11:12 pm
I would like to know how to bring and please another woman for the first time with my husband?
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