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Posted Monday May 2 2005, 9:08 pm
im losing my best friend what do i do?
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Back Stabber
Posted Monday May 2 2005, 7:55 pm
my friend is goin out with the guy i like and my other best friend likes him. how can i win him over the other 2?i rate high.
p.s. the other 2 girls are mad at me for certain reasons
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I want someone out of my life ... forever!
Posted Monday May 2 2005, 7:29 pm
This might be a little long since I'm giveing you background info.
Ok, This girl named Dee (fake name) needed a friend at the time. I decided to take that role in her life. Every day there would be something new, example: "I hate my life", "Nobody likes me", "My stepmom did ______________ and made me __________". And it never ends!
So one day I decide to break the fake friendship tie that I had set up. And I went through with it. The thing is that she keeps coming back. She tries to be nice to me, says a perky "Hi!" everyday. The reason she does that is because she thinks she can fix it, but its way to late for that.
My question is: What can I do so that I have no kind of contact with her?
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want more friends
Posted Monday May 2 2005, 6:56 pm
(15/F) I have two best friends, and I'm either with one or the other. I don't have any other 'good friends' in school. Everyone is already settled with their own group of friends and I feel so alone when I'm not with my best friends. I think girls view me as a snob though, because I do have more guy friends and honestly I'm attractive. How do I get more friends and find people my age that I have stuff in common with? I don't want to come off as desperate or dorky but I do need more girl friends to hang out with.
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Posted Monday May 2 2005, 5:57 pm
SORRY THAT IT'S LONG
Today my friend and I were sitting together in the gym and we were getting in our groups for our graduation trip. We promised each other we'd stay in the group together - just us, we actually even needed 2 more people in the group -since about three months ago. Well, we wanted to be in a group with 3 other girls, but you were only allowed four per group, but they made an acception of five if you really had to. My friend and I asked if we could room with them- they said no - two of the three girls like me.
About 5 minutes later.. she gets called over by them. I'm sitting there by myself talking to other people and she "sends a message down" saying that she's gonna stay in their gr...
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To trust or not to trust?
Posted Monday May 2 2005, 4:35 pm
I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I st...
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Posted Sunday May 1 2005, 9:20 pm
Is this Caroline or not?
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Boyfriend and friend too close
Posted Sunday May 1 2005, 8:57 pm
Okay, me and my best friend have been friends for about 5 years. She has always helped me with my dating problems and I hvae always helped her with hers. But somethings scaring me. See, my boyfreind and my freind use to go to school together. They wern't good friends but they didnt hate each other. He was the kind of guy that EVERY girl wanted. But now I'm dating him. They have just recently became like really really really close. I don't mind them talking, but he talks to her more then he talks to me! And everytime I confront one of them about it, they just say their talking about me which I don't believe one bit. Sometimes when I get on AIM and my friend and my boyfriend are on and my boyfriends not talking to me, I'll IM my friend and as...
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prom
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 9:31 pm
17/f
I'm not going to prom b/c i have an AP physics final test two days later and i don't want to get distracted. But, my friends are mad at me b/c they are seniors and its our last year to go to a dance as a big group-their being mean "subtley"-like they'll slip in some mean things-wat do i do? and how do i not feel so miserable?
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friends in a diff. country
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 9:22 pm
my bff lives in a diff. coournty and resentlly her soo called friends over there were talking crap bout her and were being really REALLY snotty to her! Well i emailed them both and told them off with my friend here (she is also that girl's bff). Well i think that it got them into even a more fight and they h8 her even more now we apologized but now they are being really REALLY horrible to us!! What should we do????
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acting
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 5:45 pm
ok my best friend jayla thinks she's pretty and acts like she the prettiest one in the world. I don't like the way she acts. Her personality I don't like. She be calling other girls ugly at one minute and then the next minute, she sees her givng someone eles candy, she(jayla)holds her hand out, and expects that girl to give her candy. Now I don't know if I should be her best friend and I don't know if I shoudl even be her friend at all. She sometimes be calling me and my friends ugly, and I hate that!!! I sometimes feel like saying something mean back. But any thing that comes out of my mouth that is mean, it sometimes goes too far over the limit. she think I forgot all the things she be syaing but I don't!! and she also don't be having my ...
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annoying!
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 5:30 pm
Okay..Theres this girl...her name is Chelsea..and shes 15 (like me). Okay..so in the begining of the year..i met Chelsea..and everything was cool. But now, shes like, been making me mad. Shes wayy wayy too clingy and stuff. I tried to hint to her that shes annoying before..but it just didnt work. Ugh. How could i tell her that i dont like her..and that shes annoying without straight out telling her that?? Thanks..i rate high for good advice!!
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I just want it to STOP
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 5:03 pm
I am completely obsessed with my friend. I moved to where I am now when I was 12, just before 7th grade (I'm now 15 and in 9th grade). There's this one pretty, athletic 'popular girl' that I saw and befreinded. We became friends, and I had her spend the night at my house and all- I also became friends with her best friend, and had both of them spend the night quite a few times. I thought everything was going good, but in January- it was then I noticed that neither of them had ever invited me to spend the night at their houses at all. They had never invited me to do anything, or ever called me. I thought in time they would. At camp that year, it was terrible. They had friends there they ignored me for. All of them would sit on Her bed, leavi...
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bOrEd !
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 4:41 pm
My friend is sleeping over tonight. What are some fun things to do? P.S. We cant go out OR outside - :)
<33 Rachel & Chelsey!!*
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Shyness
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 4:14 pm
I don't really understand it, but whenever I meet a guy for the first time now, I always feel like I'm crushing on him. My heart will start beating fast, my stomach will flip, and I'll turn bright red around them. I have some guy friends, but they only became my guy friends when they excluded me from something or got girlfriends themselves. I don't know why I like everyone...Any ideas?
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Death
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 3:43 pm
I was friends with this girl named Tina for a whole grade before we grew apart. REcently, her mother died from cancer, and whenever I saw her after that she acted like she was fine, so I always made sure to act cheery and bright around her, and to pretend as though it never happened. My other friends all tell me I'm heartless and pretending like it never happened to her is just going to make it worse. What do I do?
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Should I even try any more?
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 3:32 pm
I'm a girl, freshman in highschool- my group of friends at school do all sorts of things almost every weekend- and I've never been invited once. I'm tired of wondering every Friday if thier making plans, and hoping I get invited. I'm sick of everytime it's one of their birthdays having to sneak around to find out wether or not their having a party, because I KNOW I'm not going to get invited.
Here's the thing, though- I go to a very small school, less than 50 students in my intire grade and so it's not like I can just ditch them and find new friends.
What can I do?
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Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 3:08 pm
ok..i have a friend who wants to have sex with this guy but she doesnt know when she should because shes afraid her period will come shes not a virgin so she knows how it is. but what if u are a virgin and when u have sex with a guy your cherry will pop will the guy know or can he tell if you never had sex before how does it work.
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Losing touch
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 2:50 pm
My best friend and I have been really close since the beginning of this school year. Back when we first started to become really good friends, we would do everything together. Lately, shes been wanting to hang out with her boyfriend and her other friend all the time. And she always points out the bad stuff about me, like what I say, and how my personality bugs her and stuff. But I really wanna be friends with her it just hurts that shes nice to me sometimes and then so mean other times... I don't know what to do.. please help?
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abuse
Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 1:09 pm
My friend has been acting really weird lately ever since her mom started going out with her new boyfriend. She jumps back when people move to fast towards her or swing their arms near her like she thinks they're going to hit her. She's also been waring clothes that are really baggy which isn't like her at all. I talked to her about it and she started crying. She told me that her mom's boyfriend has been beating her and even raped her. He told her that if she tells anyone or tries to runaway he'll kill her mom. She asked me not to tell anyone but I hate seeing her being treated like this. I want to go the police but the thing is he has a lot of money so if they do arrest he can just get out on bail and then go after her. She's really scared ...
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