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I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 7:21 pm
I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out with him, but i don't want to ruin them because then I will feel bad I am best friends with my ex his name is james. but my friend told me i make her feel werid when i am hanging out with him and all our friends which include her. How do i stop making her feel this way?
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PLEASE HELP!
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 7:13 pm
ok so i am 7th grade- 13 and i like an 8th grader.... we aren't going out (yet) but i really like him......my friend asked him he said he liked me..... tomorrow we dont have school and its suposed to be like 88° well he lives really close to me..... i he was like what are u doin 2 maro and i was like bored and he goes well maybe if you can you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend) and he was like i have a pool and its supposed to be hot so swimmin !!! i was like sounds awesome.....well i really wanna go but im afraid what my mom will say if i ask her she isnt home 2moro shes at work and i wont sneak out.... but im afraid she'll be likes im not letting you go over to a boys house ur 2 younge..... WHAT DO I DO OR S...
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!@#$%^&*
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 5:53 pm
okay .. so i have this friend named kristen and kirsten .. well we're all 3 of best friends but .. i was sitting down on my computer when i clicke on my away message and my freind selena left me a message i saw it and it said "smoking cig" and i was like wth .. and she sais " not me i'm sXe ..but kristen and kirsten are" and so yes i bitched them out because i dont want them being like my other friends that smoke/drink/ and do stupid shit like that,Its pointless i think. and well i think their only doing it because they wanna be cool .. and she told me "why are you getting mad at me ..your friend krystal does it " and i said "i dont get mad at her , because she's been doing it since the 8th grade and she'...
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Keep or Hang
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 5:48 pm
I have this friend, she's 2 years older than me (I'm 13 and she's 15) but she says I'm mature and she always wants to hang out with me. She went out with my bro's bff twice then after he broke up with her the 2nd time, she was depressed and I helped cheer her up, that was last summer, then when school started she went to the high school and i'm in the junior high, she became friends with my bros and their friends, it felt like she used me to get to my bros, cuz she'd come over talk to me for 5 min then be like where are the guys? Now she and this guy are going out again, and everytime I hang out with her she's cool but when the guys come back home, she ditches me and hangs out with them.. I know she's older than be but I love her to death...
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Still Friends?
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 3:58 pm
OK...
i want out with this guy, he was cool and stuff and yeah..then after we broke up my friend (lets call him billy) well billy told me that he talks crap about me all the time and then when i talk to (ex) he says" No i don't" but billy is a really good friend of mine...and my ex lets call him joe..well i still like joe but then billy and other people say he's stupid and a fag and stuff and says all this stuff about him, i still like him but like he thinks i'm stupid or something and he told me he doesnt like me...i told him everything one night and he never anwered me back...i just let it go...anyway billy keeps telling me stuff about what joe says about me, i dont wanna get worked up into things but i dont wanna loose a...
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in the middle
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 12:18 pm
I'mm stuck in the middle of my two friends... they always get in fights and its extremely annoying...i m better friends with one then the other, but i dont wanna take sides... wat do i do to stop this?
thx.
annoyed & in the middle
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PARTY!
Posted Sunday May 8 2005, 7:31 am
hi im 15 f and going to my friends party this aft, shes also going to be 15. we are having a meal and then going back to hers. what kinds of things could we do back at hers that she wont know about. i want 2 make it fun for her and the people who are going.
thanxz xxx
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weird convos
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 11:55 pm
When my friends and I are in a group and talking, it's easier for me to make a conversation and i'm comfortable talking to everyone. When I'm one on one with a person, it's very uncomfortable and I don't know what to talk about so there will be this awkward silence. Why is this happening? What can I do? (All girls by the way..) I have no boy-friends..How do I make them? I'm incredibly shy and soo insecure!
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Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 10:10 pm
i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything
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should i ditch her?
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 8:24 pm
we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore?
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ex boyfriends new girlfriend
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 7:40 pm
I went out with this guy name josh for 3 months then we broke up. When he got a new girlfriend, we hated each other. We didnt even know each other, but just the fact that she went out with him i hated her adn she hated me because i used to go out with him. Well 2 weeks ago me adn cheyenne(his girlfriend) started talkin and became good friends. Well she wants me to go to the movies with her next weekend, but josh is gonna be there too. I still have feelings for him and me adn him dont talk that much anymore. So i think it would be really weird and uncomfortable going. She really wants me to go though. I do wanna go .. but when they start kissing i am gonna get sad and my face might get red or something. Should i still go? What all should i do?
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let see
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 6:43 pm
okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk...
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Please understand!!!~~
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 11:54 am
ok we'll call my bad friend Sarah,my other good friend Tiana and my ex David
*******: im just desdprate right now and asking any losers ....so its okay..i know
*******: yupp
me: ok
*****: well dats wutt Tiana sed to mea da otha day i sed do you no "me" and she sed yea...and i sed is she hott or nott..and she sed idkk...and i sed well..is she kool..what is she like in skool..and she sed she can be a reall loser sumtimes cuz she thinks shes cool and then she sed that you always follow her around and dis gurll named anne.
*** is "mark", sarah's friend. Well the thing is , sarah wasnt on when mark harbor was on,but when mark signed of, sarah signed on. Anot...
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Does she still like me?
Posted Saturday May 7 2005, 11:25 am
I have this friend, and we were really good friends at the beginning of the year. Literally every guy in our school thinks shes hot, and i think its gone to her head. She goes out with people shes not really friends with on friday nights and never invites me and acts like im a total freak all the time. on the other hand, shes always really nice to me and stuff when shes not around those people who think shes so hot, and i like to be around her then. i dont want to tell anyone how shes treating me because theyll tell her because they want to be friends with her. i cant talk to her because shes so mean when shes mad at someone and no one will be on my side of the arguement.
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Friends For Never?
Posted Friday May 6 2005, 8:49 pm
Ok, so lets call the girl Alicia....
Alicia was getting on my nerves alot. I felt like she thought she was better than be and was ignoring me so I decided to take action. I really regret this now, but I decided to take action. I wrote a mean e*mail to her saying how she was ignoring me and how she didnt match sometimes. There were no curse words and no name-calling, but she got really mad at me. She printed out the email and showed to atleast 10 of my friends. Some people turned against me calling me mean, which was true! I said sorry by leaving e*mails and messages and I even made this card by cutting out letters and pictures from magazines for her but from gossip, i heard she doesnt want to be my friend at all. I miss her a...
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Beauty over Brains?
Posted Friday May 6 2005, 7:59 pm
Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think?
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A follower?
Posted Friday May 6 2005, 7:18 pm
my friend said i was kinda a loser and i follow her and her friend. When i never see them until lunch!im hurt,really bad by this.Ok this is were it gets complicated,we'll call my friend [[that is a girl]] K,the other girl B,and the boy we'll call him R. Well,R is my ex and he said that my friend [B] said i was a loser and follows her other friend. K is like "aww i feel so bad" but the thing is,when i check the time on aim K has the same time as R,ex [[R & K's online time is the same each time]] so K probably is pretending to be R,and make up a lie because she dosent want me to be friends with B.But i only see B and B's friend at lunch,and we laugh and have good times. So i dont no who to believe!! And if B really did say that,...
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Posted Friday May 6 2005, 6:10 pm
My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again!
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is it more than just a friendship?
Posted Friday May 6 2005, 5:51 pm
15/f something tragic happened to someone who is friends with a good friend of mine, a 15 year old male, who told me about it. well, my good friend was really bummed and about to cry, it was really bad what happened. anyways, it felt right at the moment, so i gave him a hug, and he held me so tight and it felt really good, it made me feel safe and secure. i really wanted to kiss him, but i didnt. i dont know if it was because of what happened, or if it is because i like him but dont know it that i felt this way today. the thing is, he is my ex and tried to get me back and i said i thought we would be better off as just friends. but i'm not sure if thats how i feel anymore... what do you guys think?
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i need help!
Posted Friday May 6 2005, 5:14 pm
so lets call her summer.
me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high.
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