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did i do anything wrong?
Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:05 pm
ok so 2 of my best friends are mad at me because i keep hanging out with my best guy friend. The one friend told my friend melanie that i always talk about him and the only person i ever hang out with is him and i dont care about anything else but him. And that's not true. Am i doing anything wrong by spending so much time with him?
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Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 6:31 pm
this summer im moving from PA to Chicago. i need some tips to help myself get through this. like how to handle this kind of a change. thx a lot!
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my upcoming birthday party
Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 4:39 pm
im having an upcoming birthday party at water conutry in june and there are these 3 girls who arent very nice to me at times but they are sometimes and i was wondering should i invite them here and there storys are please tell me yea or no
( lets call this girl mary ) okay mary she doesnt like me that much and every day when i was standing next to my friend she said to my friend she doesnt like me so why should i invite her if she doesnt like me
( lets call this girl sue ) sue talks to me mostly but only when we go out somewhere or on the phone when i call her in school she barely talks to me and at my school we still ahve recess even there we in the 7th grade and were 13 and at recess she dont eevn sa...
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Sordid Love Polygon: What should I do?
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 8:11 pm
I’m a (female) high school senior, and I'm "one of the guys.” For a while now, I've had a big crush on Alan, my best friend at my school, the quarterback. He’s a jerk and a player, but a great friend.
For about a year he dated a popular younger girl, Bella. Recently, he asked our mutual friend Naomi to Prom, and Bella dumped him. He and Naomi immediately hooked up. However, he began leading me on big time, and I kissed him. It was a dumb move, but it doesn't seem to have damaged my friendship with anyone, not even him.
Now, though, he's dumping Naomi to go back to Bella, and I’m going nuts. It's not that I want to be with him--I know it'd never work out, and I'd rather stay his friend… but he’s...
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anemic/aids
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 7:35 pm
My friend was raped by a bunch of guys. Now she's pregnant and she also has AIDS because of them. She's anemic which means she's already really tired all the time and gets short of breathe really easily. Well lately she's been really tired, like more than usual and it's really scaring me. Her parents don't know about what happened to her, they really don't care about her she's basically living with me. My parents take care of her and we give her a place to stay. She has a job but lately she's been skipping it and she just seems really tired. It's like she's a completely different person. She'll usually try to do things and not let the fact that she's anemic stop her but she hasn't been doing anything lately and she seems really sick. She sa...
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my best friend cuts and carves
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 7:26 pm
okay heres the story. my best friend cut really bad at the end of 7th grade(were in 8th now) and over that summer. the school, both friends and the administration, was aware but she never really got any kind of help. seh always carved peoples names who had hurt her or someone who was really important to her. okay this has to coem out to. shes bi so these people are girls. one was a best friend who stopped being friends with her another was a girlfriend and one is an x girlfriend. okay sorry that was kind of irrelevent. but anyway she got a lot better after this girl broke her heart. (i know you would think she would get worse) anyway she only cut maybe three times the whole school year. i stopped really worrying about it. but then in the pa...
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stressed
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 6:49 pm
hey im one of those people who really likes helping other people, you know helping them with problems whether serious or not. well some times i get overwhlemed by all of their problems and i become depressed too. and sometimes it feels like they start to expect SO much out of me and i cant do everything...then we get into a fight! what should i doooooo???
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Posted Monday May 16 2005, 6:22 pm
me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~!
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Friendship/Love life
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 6:14 pm
I have a tough situation but I don't think it is that big of a deal. My friend (Tl) didn't get to go to our schools formal dance. He was in the hospital with a asma attack. But his grandparents had bought him this suit to wear and everything. They said to make up for that, that they would take him out to eat to wherever he wanted as long as he took a girl with him. And he asked me if I would do him the favor and go as a friend. It isn't a date. Just a friendly dinner, with him, and his grandparents. The thing is, my boyfriend hates this kid. He doesn't want me talking to him at all. So I cut down on the talking to him and such. Should I go with my friend? I don't see what the big deal is. It isn't like we are going to do anythi...
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Posted Monday May 16 2005, 5:36 pm
i live in Pa rite now and over the summer im moving to Chicago for my dads work. does anyone have any tips for me? i think im going to hurt myslef cuz i dont believe i can get through this
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best friend hates me
Posted Monday May 16 2005, 5:15 pm
i feel terrible, because my friend told my other friend that i like him and now hes mad at me. im really mad at the friend who told him because i didnt want the one i like to know because i already knew i couldnt have him and i didnt need proof. I dont know what to do, how can i get him to stop being mad at me?
And my other friend, i thought he was mad at me but hes not, and when i said i dont have anyone left he said "you got me" and i said not really because i feel like your slipping away" and hes like, "well im not" and now i feel like hes so sweet, so i dont deserve him.
also, i feel really sick, like im holding it all in and i just wanna let it go but i can't, anyone know how i ca...
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Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 11:05 pm
school is full of bitches, i know....this one girl who is my 'freind' walkes around wispering to people. she yells about how she and her bf are on 3rd base. then she critisizes you. she should not be talking...(this is gonna sound soo mean) she is so fat that she takes up 2 bus seats. no boy will go near at her in our school. i think she makes it up. she is acting really bitchy to people w/out boyfreinds, (or people like me who keep them secret) when she found out about my bf. she started being nice to me. she wants me to walk around and.....u kno. i want to get rid of her, but she followes me around. she also asks deatails about my bfs kisses. i really hate her. how do i rid myself?
ps: i am 13, and she is almost 14..
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Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 10:55 pm
my freind is ova, and we are bored. do u know any good sites we can go to?
-thanks
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party delema!!!
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 9:36 pm
for my sweet 16 im inviting 100 people and we are gonna party in a big party room at this hotel. afterwards we are swimming in the indoor pool for an hour..problem is on my invitation it invites everyone to come to the pool after, and a few of my friends think its a good idea to only invite a certain amount of ppl to the pool so it isnt crowded and it will be funner. Problem is the invitations are printed and ready to be handed out tomorro..i would have to redo all the invitations and only select my close friends to come..im worried people will be hurt and it will cause drama. what are your opinions? should i invite everyone, only a certain amount of people? my mom says not to "discriminate" and that everyone should go to the pool...
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the words get twisted
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 8:26 pm
me and my friend, lets call her Sarah, got into a huge fight over a little misunderstanding. I tried over and over again to tell her that i was sorry...but what ever i said it came out soo twisted and messed up!! she is my only friend and now she hates me...how can i tell her im sorry without screwing up?!?!?!
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How Do I Say...
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 8:17 pm
I go to an all girls Catholic School, except recently I was accepted into a co-ed boarding school. I'm going to go to the boarding school, except how do I tell all my frieds that I'm leaving them? Even more so, how do I tell them that I won't even be around?
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Should I dump my friend aside
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 3:54 pm
Well I guess I should start by saying im a cheerleader . My friend Chelsea wanted to be a cheerleader to so she tried out the same place I did ... which really annoyed me ! and then she calls me and stuff and says which team did you make and I tell her and she goes O! the good team since your so good * it was said in a smart way* and im like yeah i guess but i never said i was good then i call her today and she answers the phone and goes YES IM GOING TO PRACTICE ! and i said i wasnt going to ask you that and she said well what do you want ?.... she is just so mean to me and she dosent even realize it ... and i dont know what to do .. none of my other friends like her either because we all skateboard also and they think chelsea is preppy so ...
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I'm too shy
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 2:51 pm
I need help. When I get around people I never know what to do. It dosen't have to be a big group just one or two people but for some reason when I'm around them I just freeze. If they try to talk to me I just stare at them or walk away. It's getting really bad because now my friends are getting mad at me becasue of this. What can I do to get over being shy.
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friend???
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 12:20 pm
i have heard a or that one of my close friends doesnt really like me, but we still hang out every day. but i heard this from a lying "friend", who doesnt really like the i first started talking about. would she make it up?? what should i do???
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this might be long
Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 7:43 am
Ok, well i've been best friends with this boy since like the beginning of this year, which might not sound long, but we're really close. So anyway, i liked him at the beginning of the year before we were friends, but i stopped before anything happened. Then we became best friends, because he found out and we started talking more. So then just a few days ago, Friday actually, I wasnt at school, because i went to Maryland, so i left him a comment on his xanga that said, I'm gonna miss you today :-) im sorry i couldnt come to you LAST baseball game, i REALLY wanted to. <3: so my friend mel wrote him a comment that day that said; what's going on with you and her(me)? and then she started talking about something else. So anyway i come online ...
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