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Am I being pushy?
Posted Monday May 28 2012, 12:04 am
Okay, so I have a friend Dan that I didn't used to get along with at all until about a year ago. We became friends and talked occasionally, but it wasn't a close friendship. We were talking on Facebook last night about graduating and all, and the weird life transitions we're going through right now. After a few minutes we talked about the scary future and how everything we are up till now is coming into question and doesn't matter as much in the big picture. At that point, I said I think it was a good thing because I think we were meant for greatness. Now, I didn't mean to imply that he should agree with me but when you think about it, does it sound like I'm trying to force faith on him? We've had arguments about stuff like that before and ...
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My parents say I should have friends my own age, but I get along better with older people... who is right? What should I do?
Posted Sunday May 27 2012, 8:22 pm
I am seventeen years old and most of friends ad adults from church. I prefer adults over kids my age, I don't know why, but I do. I view most kids my age as associates. Anyway I invited. My adult friend, Kim , to my house for memorial day with my parents ' permission. But my mom keeps nagging me that I should be friends with other kids my age, but I do not want that. I feel so frustrated and bitter. What can I do? Who is right in this situation?
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Issue with dealing with neighbourhood kids, cute but annoying
Posted Thursday May 24 2012, 3:53 pm
I am pretty nice to the kids in my neighbourhood, and I think they're adorable and all. But I'm starting to get REAL annoyed, it's like I'm a kid magnet and they won't leave me alone. Seriously, no joke. They ring my door-bell right after they come home from school and they want me to play with them or take them to the park.. or they want to come inside my home and watch TV together or bake something together.
I don't mind it sometimes but I can't spend every minute of my day with them EVERY DAY. I go to school, I have work, and I need my own personal time. I think my issue is that I don't know how to say "no" and I feel like I'm being a bad person if I say no to them. But even if I say "oh no, not right now.&q...
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Should I put in for the birthday gift?
Posted Thursday May 24 2012, 10:21 am
Hello All.
Me and 4 friends used to do this thing for each of out 18th birthdays. We would each put in £40-50 and get the a large gift for whoever birthday it was. got a silver bracelet, a friend got a pure gold + diamond earring, another friend got an iPod touch, and the other got a silver and diamond chain.
When it came time to the 5th friends 18th birthday, I asked, "what do you want? Because we're unsure of what to get you. It has to come up to £200". They then said to me "I don't want anything big. I'd prefer a lot of smaller things, rather than one big thing that i'll probably never use'.
So we settled on it. Everyone was left to their own devices. I got a box, and fill...
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Making friends in college
Posted Wednesday May 23 2012, 8:39 pm
18/f
I'm commuting to school next year as a college freshman and am worried that I won't make any friends because I won't be living on campus. What can I do to make a lot of friends even though I won't be living on campus?
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Answers from introverts only, please.
Posted Tuesday May 22 2012, 5:36 am
I'm an introvert, and I just got back from a four-day trip with a friend of mine. We spent a lot of time together on the trip and I didn't have a moment to myself. Now that we're both back home (we don't live together, but nearby), I really need a break. Not only was I with this friend the whole time, I saw a side of him I'd rather not see (angry, mean, critical, selfish, proud). Although I know he can be a really good person and I want to remain friends with him, I need space now and I also kind of want to distance myself from him since I've seen this side. The problem is that he thinks the trip has made us closer and he's not the easiest person to talk to.
He's very, very confrontational over the most trivial things. He ke...
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Does he love ME?
Posted Sunday May 20 2012, 9:18 pm
I'm a 22 year old girl.( my question is long but your answer mean alot )
It's about 4 months that I entered a group of friends and I like one of the guys. He is 22 as well and has been so helpful to me and really kind and understanding. But I am so attracted to him especially because it was feeling like I've known him for ages even the first day I met him. We have the best time when we are together and He said that he thinks of me as a mature, strong and kind girl that he likes to show to others. He respects me a lot.
I am a very tough girl in a way and I have reacted to some guys when he was around and he knows no one should cross my comfort zone and flirting is not my way and he also knows that if I get offended th...
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Get Unlisted Number
Posted Sunday May 20 2012, 7:57 pm
How do you get an unlisted phone number?
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I feel alone, like no one cares
Posted Sunday May 20 2012, 5:44 pm
Lately I feel like my friend just complains to me about everything. She has it really bad, to me at least. She's anorexic, and is in a "relationship" with a guy across the country. She sexted him and her mom found out and it's not so good. She's been going to thereapy btw.
Well I cut myself, because of alot of things. I hate my stepmom, myself, I'm worried about my friend. My mom knows I used to cut, but doesnt do anything about it. But I have no one to talk to because they all seem to have it worse than me and I feel selfish talking about myself. So instead I cut and hide my scars. It's really hard to explain. I wrote a poem, explaining it better
You always tell me I should talk
But I feel selfis...
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how do I get help with bullying at school?
Posted Sunday May 20 2012, 12:46 pm
well at school every 1 hates me and wanna die and they buly me talk about me family ect. what do i do to com down or how do get help
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I want to fix a relationship with a friend but don't know how to forgive.
Posted Saturday May 19 2012, 1:42 am
This might be very long but it's the only way I can explain it clearly.
I have been living in New Jersey for a year now and I'm completely used to my school and the small town. I'm in the eight grade and I was expecting a horrible school year and on my first day someone walked up to me and asked me if I was new. I responded yes, and she said she was new to and that she had just moved here from Alsalvador. Her name is Nikky and as you'd guess, we became best friends. We shop together, eat lunch together, share interests, and know things about the other that know one else's knows about, I've really never had a better friend.
Now, this is the part the smooth sailing through eighth grade gets fuked up be some bitch...
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choosing between my boyfriend or a close friend to go to a dance
Posted Friday May 18 2012, 8:29 pm
Okay so there is a school dance coming up semi formal and my boyfriend hasn't asked me..but my close friend did and I kinda wanna go with him but I asked my boyfriend and he suddenly wants to go! Who should I choose?
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My friend won't accept my request
Posted Tuesday May 15 2012, 12:06 am
Ive been super close with my friend for a long time and we talk ALOT but I don't get why she didn't accept my friend request on instagram. It makes no sense. I know her mom haws me for no reason but I'm her only friend that doesn make her feel worthless and like crap. Anyways we talk alot and hang out and text and she doesn't accept my instagram request???
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Two people where everyone thinks they're in love but themselves. Are we foo
Posted Saturday May 12 2012, 7:25 pm
There is this girl who has been a great friend of mine for about 6-7 months now. We were basically great friends from the moment we met and everyone keeps telling us that we should date, some are even suspicious that we're secretly having a relationship. Yet neither of us really feels that way, I can't be sure about her but there were times when I thought that "hmmm, maybe..." but there was never this 'little push' that makes you actually fall in love.
We all know the stories of two people where everyone knows they're in love but themselves. Those stories got me thinking...
I mean, have any of you been in this situation and what happened then?
When we are confronted with it we b...
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not sure what to say about this
Posted Saturday May 12 2012, 1:46 pm
My old ex best friend's father passed away almost 2 weeks ago. My Grandfather passed away 3 weeks ago. I was going to visit the family and take them some dinner or something before he passed away but it was the same time my grandpa had passed. I was just beening nice cause i knew he was sick. I didn't get too. Cause my family was together for the death with my family and Now, I don't know what to do since i found out their dad died. Should i try again? We stopped beening friends about 2 years ago. What should i say while i'm there if they want me to bring them something?
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justifably angry?
Posted Friday May 11 2012, 6:31 pm
so ive come to the conclusion that i hold my friends to a really high standard. i get really mad when they flake on plans on ditch me or anything like that and in my mind it makes sense to be mad about these things but the are always surprised and never see what they did wrong. im starting to think i just get mad too easily and id love to fix this but i dont know how. i want to just get over it and move on but i know deep down im still mad and if i pretend not to be im just being fake. how do i actually get myself to not get so mad?
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Do you think i didnt matter to him?
Posted Friday May 11 2012, 10:32 am
I have best friend which is a guy, he did something that upsets me. Well, he just made me look like a foolish girl. He wants me to be his BFF again but i made a condition.He will write a letter to me of how important our friendship is, He didn't wrote any but we are normal friends.
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My friend won't talk to me.
Posted Wednesday May 9 2012, 9:40 pm
Hi. At the beginning of this year, my best friend went to another school. She won't answer my messages, texts or calls (or anybody's in my class, for that matter.) I also told her I liked her and i'm just really depressed. Plz answer. Thanks.
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Boyfriend's dad considers me unattractive?
Posted Wednesday May 9 2012, 3:44 pm
Hello all,
To put it shortly: I am very close to the family of my boyfriend (we've been together for more than two and a half years) and I am also friends with his dad on Facebook.
With this "latest" newsfeed you also see pictures that people like and whatnot and I see his dad liking the pictures of a page called "Startup needs lubricant" (Translated from German) Which doesn't really bother me. But this group uploads pictures of young women mostly showing off their breasts and asses in lingerie, etc, or just covering their nipples with the bare minimum.
I get it, they are sexy, provocative pictures, men are men, etc.
It just bothers me that I see his dad liking most of them. These are ...
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what should I tell my friend
Posted Tuesday May 8 2012, 2:53 pm
I startd chattin with a guy and when I askd my close friend about him she said she knos him and I should stay away from him she also called him some names.. When I asked her why she's sayin all these she didn't give me an answer.. So I continued talkin woth dis guy to see if his really what she says he is.. One day he was goin thru my phone and saw her picture and this was the conversation,he said "so you kno dis girl, and I said yes and den he said I don't like her and I said she doesn't like yhu eida infact she didn't want me to hang out with you" now my friend knos that I told him and she txt me did you tell him what I said what should I do I am confused
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