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otherkin awareness


Posted Tuesday March 29 2011, 9:55 am

Okay so I'm an adult female who believes they are an otherkin. how do I explain my otherkin self to my family? I have some unusual reactions to certain things they do or say...which makes me scared. One time my best friends step brother was being verbally abusive to me and I became so upset my "tail" lashed out, tripped him over and I pinned him down and did not let him move unless he crawled. I sometimes get alot of stress at the docs and im also scared I might attack them too. I'm not into lying. and im not a alternative reality seeker. Being an otherkin is very stressful sometimes and I've tried online groups and many of people are into the occult which is against my Christan ways.

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Depression?


Posted Monday March 28 2011, 10:30 pm

latley ive been really down and i avoide talking to people but when people talk to me i change my mood quick to happy . but im really not lately my friends havent been there for me and im losing alot of them . ive been sleeping alot and i have a loss of appite . me and my ex stopped talking last week and ever since then it seems like everything is coming crashing down am i depressed? and i really dont feel like doing things lately what can i do to stop being this way or feeling this way and my heart has been hurting i have also had thoughts of hurtng myself bt i wont do it :P

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Why dont I feel emotions anymore?


Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 9:27 pm

Im a 15 year old girl and for some reason i dont really feel emotion anymore, I dont feel sad or depressed. but nothing. Usually i just wear a fake mask of happiness and everyone buys it. they believe im the happiest person ever. I enjoy mimicing peoples expression and studieing what other people do. Its shocking how people are so easily fooled. I dont really understand much of why people get so upset or how they can express emotions so easily without feeling stupid. I dont really care about anything. Especailly my school work. Ive lost complete interest in it, since i no longer feel the urge to do well. They think ive gotten lazy, but i just dont feel the need or push anymore to do well in school. Most advice columbs about realated topics ...

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Do I Need to Seek Professional Help?


Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 4:40 pm

17/f
I have very low self-esteem. People tell me I'm smart and nice, but I don't believe it at all. It started with my sister putting me down for years and I never quite recovered from it. I even applied to a university that is much below my capability just because I don't think I'm smart. I let guys use me and the only guys who I had relationships with, had just of a low self-confidence as me. I also have incredible social anxiety problems. I get depressed frequently. Do I need professional help? What can I do to better my situation?

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Can you get pregnant from humping a bed


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 2:59 pm

im 12,well i hump me bed , i know it sounds weird but im skared if im pregantnt i mean when i was little i used to do it and i didnt get pregnant and im also skared cause i got on top of my brother when we were fighting and i dont wanna get pregnant but i didnt hump him or touch his pinis (p.s i know im not pregnant but i just wanna make shure im skared) when i was humping my bed i had clothes on?

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I woke up and I couldn't move!


Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 12:20 am

When I woke up today....iCouldnt move nor could i really speak...And after I had an image in my head vanish I was again able to move,So What is this called and should I be alarmed ?

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overdose effects


Posted Friday March 25 2011, 12:31 pm

Hi!am the 50 piritons dude again,i live in kenya and my contacts are +254720729441.before the piritons i had tried many poisons.some are cockroach chalk,petrol,and others i cant remember due to issues i had with my wife and i have never gone to hospital cz am nt financially stable.physically i feel ok

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I Have a Big Problem Trusting People...


Posted Thursday March 24 2011, 2:03 pm

First off sorry if this is long.

I have a really big problem trusting people, I know your probably thinking "baby" or something but ill try and explain. Well since I was born ive been lied to left right and centre by supposed friends, adults and family members, people who I thought I could trust have just blatently lied to me.
Too be honest its got me really depressed. I cant feel I can trust anyone anymore, people say "Oh not everyones the same." But what the people dont understand is that everythings been a lie, I cant trust anyone... Now ive met this girl and she says I can trust her, I dont know what did it but I believed her, I trust her more than I have ever trusted anyone in my life, I dont ...

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Overdose I have taken 50 pills


Posted Thursday March 24 2011, 12:16 pm

Hi,i have taken 50pills of the yellow and the white piritons in colour bt i ave not experienced any side effects.am i safe?

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how do you just sit back and relax?


Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 9:42 pm

hi guys, i have been very stressed lately and i raelly dont know what about. I guess relationship things, family stress, and school stress. Does anyone have a good way to just sit home and relax? Just to let everything escape from your mind that you havent been able to go a day without thinking about in a few months. To have a completely empty head. I've been thinking so much for the past few months, the things i think about follow me to my dreams when that was the only place i could escape them, and ive had a constant headache for about 2 or 3 weeks. how do i compltely relax my brain, and my body and forget everything just for a day while staying at home? Thank you so much to who ever answers this, it will be highly apperciated!

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concentration problems


Posted Tuesday March 22 2011, 2:30 pm

how can i concentrate in studies

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Scared and paranoid


Posted Sunday March 20 2011, 9:31 pm

14/f
After watching some really creepy stuff on YouTube I'm really creeped out and can't get it out of my head. I feel paranoid especially at night. I can't take it anymore, what do I do!? Thank you

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Am I going Insane? Am I crazy?


Posted Friday March 18 2011, 11:43 pm

I'm M/15. lately I feel like I've been going crazy. I want to change. I think girls don't like me because I'm weird. I talk about Aliens, underground military bases, alternate realities and weird types of science. I always say that nothing is impossible. I yell at my stupid internet connection. I've been being racist lately (not extreme, just jokes & stuff) I like saying things backwards like "The mirror looks at me" "The test got 100 on me" "Ball Basket plays me" "Outside hot is very" . Aso last 2 weeks I've been slackin' off in classes. I do accents constantly. I avoid people because I think they're daft, or too slow to understand me, but same time I tend to be slow. I'll say random stuff like, ...

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Is my friend a sociopath?


Posted Friday March 18 2011, 2:00 pm

My husbband passed away two years ago and a long time friend of ours/ electrician we used on jobs contacted me and my children acting so concerned. After awhile i was taken by him emotionally not exactly love cause no one could take the place of my husband. A different comforting feeling. Anyway he always text me daily asking what im doing and wanted me coming over there anytime I had free time. Most of the time tho i was helping care for my mom and my mother in law cause she had lost her husband too my husbands dad eleven months after mine passed. Anyway this man would say things like your husband knew his mother did not care for you like that and wanted yall to move far away from his family. Also when that didnt work he tried to say my hu...

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Strattera for ADHD


Posted Thursday March 17 2011, 1:36 am

Has anyone ever used strattera for ADHD? i've been using it for about 2 weeks and it hasnt helped or changed me at all.Or made any difference whatsoever

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Dream's from years ago.


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 3:20 pm

Recently iv been having some mental issues (looong story) and now that im over the depression and feeling happier generally getting back to how i was a few months ago, i was telling my freind what was on my mind and remembered a few things about back in school like when i had these dreams about Dark figures pulling me towards them without resistance no matter what i tryed.

If you'v ever seen the game "Shadow of the collosus" you'll get what i mean when huge shadow'y figures pull me towards them, the main figures outline were like those monsters on the game.


There was also another dream i had when i was with one of my old school mates outside his house doing somthing and this car drives past a...

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Feel like I'm fading


Posted Monday March 14 2011, 1:20 pm

I’m writing to you out of desperation after months in a sad, cloudy haze. I’m a 29-year-old woman who has struggled with depression since childhood, but my condition has seriously declined since a series of troubling events. I have lost interest in my friends, my old interests
and even in planning for my future. I know the signs of depression, but this feels different, somehow. My sadness is like a physical veil
that hangs over me. It makes me feel ugly and shrouded and hidden. I haven’t smiled in ages, and I think people are starting to like me less for it. Please help!

Last summer, I brought up marriage and kids with a man that I loved dearly and shared an apartment with. He did not react well, and I was...

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whats ur opinion on scuicide


Posted Friday March 11 2011, 10:01 pm

im not saying im scuicidal but just wondering what other people think on it. Do you guys see it as a person going thru so much that decided to end his misery. Or do you see it as some shallow uncaring jerk that decided to end it. I dont know i just kind of want peoples opinions on the subject whatever it may be.

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PTSD, mood swings, and nightmares - oh, my!


Posted Thursday March 10 2011, 11:59 am

Hi there, 23/f. I escaped an abusive man with whom I was living back in October, luckily with my life, most of my health, and my cat-baby.

Now, almost five months later, I have full-blown PTSD. I find myself having flashbacks, but not to the abuse. I think I'm still slightly in denial regarding that. The memories of what he did to me feel as if I'm watching it happen to someone else, and they're not that bad...

No, what I have flashbacks to is the good part of our relationship. Hugging him, kissing him, laughing with him, being with him. I recently heard he had been planning to propose to me. I'm getting teary writing this even now. I loved him so much, but he hurt me, and I was afraid for my life, so I left h...

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I keep having nightmares about my former friend-turned-worst-enemy!


Posted Tuesday March 8 2011, 7:46 pm

I met my best friend in high school. We got along like sisters. But my friend made lots of poor choices. She had her first 3 kids while we were still teenagers. She drank heavily, had abusive relationships, was promiscious, etc.
When my friend had her fifth child, I agreed to move in with her and her newest husband to help care for the kids.
It was a bad idea. They were always angry with me, wanting me to watch the kids longer hours, keep the house cleaner, train the dogs better, etc.
When their dog had puppies, they gave me one... but then would torture me by yelling at and hitting the puppy, locking it in the cage for days, threatening to take it to the pound, etc.
I stayed mostly because I was very attache...

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