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Friendship
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helllppp !!


Posted Friday May 20 2005, 3:32 pm

okayy well mee nd mii x-frend got in a fight cuz she was talkin shiit behind mii bacc....now wen i went upp to tell herr how i feel...everyone is still on herr sidee nd now liike everyone thnks im meen nd they make funn of mee !! wut shOold i dO!!! help pleassseee !!!

siGned
X- pOpular gUrl

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last day of school


Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 11:19 pm

well my friend that i liked this year asked if i was coming to school the last day of school ...i said that there was no point becasue we get there at 8:00 and leave at 9:30 and were only going to be allowed in are first hour class and watch a movie ..he said that it would be my last time for me to see him and that he wanted to see me.i like him alot ..i was gonna kiss him but i think that would be to werid wat can i do ?! please help me

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discussing a loss...?


Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 9:01 pm

ok my best friends (who is also my boyfriend)dad just recently passed away.i no its been hard for him but hes taken it so well, way better than i thought he would. i told him i was always there if he needed to talk to anyone about anything and he said he appreciated it.im kind of hesitant about talking to him about his dad or bringing it up but it seems like he sometimes wants to talk about it.he'll bring him up in our regular conversations and he'll write about him. the thing is, im not sure if he actually wants to DISCUSS about it or not.should i let him do the talking on this topic or talk about it w/him?because maybe he wants me to ask about it and maybe he enjoys talking aobut his dad but im not sure.... wut should i do?

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cutter


Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 5:38 pm

well my friend to,d me the other day that she tried cutting and she showed me the scar. i told her it was bad and everything..i was like yelling at her not to do it again and what it could do to a person. she told me she would never do it again and so far she hasnt i made her let me see her wrists..and i know there are other places that she could cut too like her stomach and stuff..but im not going ot do a full body search on her everyday and im really worried about her. she made me promise not to tell anyone else..but i told my other really good friend i know she won't tell because i know she would be worried about her too. i really dont want to do and i dont know if shes lying and is still cutting..and i don't want to tell anyone because ...

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To tell a friend about what others are saying...


Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 5:07 pm

MY friend is nice, but everyone talks shit about her, it's so aggreivating to listen to people talk about her in study hall. It's awful. I've said stuff to them before, but that jsut makes them talk about her more. I want to tell her, because she has a right to know, and last time I mentioned someone said something she kind of wanted to know what they said. When I did tell her, she started crying and was upset. People who make my friends cry.....they make me get all....dSFHSZXFNDFN. What should I do? Tell her when people talk about her, or keep quiet and tell her no one is?

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...


Posted Thursday May 19 2005, 4:40 pm

okay my friends..lets call them...bob, tom, joe, and billy...bob, tom and joe are mad at me because me and billy are buddys..they think were to buddyish..its so stupid...and they are my closest friend besides my buddy...they think when i go around her i get hyper if im sad befor..there all in my class except billy.. so i have no1 in class...what do i do...sorry for the langht

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best friends


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 11:19 pm

ok.. i have this best friend.. he means like the world to me.. i love him soo much.. but as a friend.. not as a stocker obsessed way.. and i always talk to him.. and my friend.. like LOVES him.. like she wants to go out with him.. and whenever im with him.. she always gets mad.. so what do i do.. shes my best friend.. do i leave him alone.. or do i stay friends with him.. just never talk to him?? do i stay friends with him.. and risk loosing my best friend?

signed congused GIRL << happy

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My close friend needs help and I need help helping her


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 9:34 pm

Ok I have a friend whos in college and she has a bad background with her parents. They dont like that shes going to Duke and that she wants to be a lawyer. Ok so she teamed up with a boy in her class and he stopped helping so she told him she'll do all the work he can slack off. Well he didnt take that well and he started calling her names and bringing up her past with family and now she cries and thinks he's right about all this. I need advice and fast please...

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The Girl From Hell!


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 9:03 pm

There is this girl named Megan in my school.We've been friends 4 a while now. but, every once in a while, we start fighting. This is the second BIG fight we had this year! She says im annoyig and i follow her around! She tells me off and writes me mean notes, but if i say ANYTHING mean, seh'll show it 2 her friend Kaitln and they'll both be up in my face. Last night i wrote her an im and i started yelling @ her to leave me alone. She printed out the part where i yelled @ her, but left out all the swears and mean things she said about me. I'm only in the 7th grade, and i dnt want thins going on 4 the rest of my life! i have tons of friends, but they dnt want to get involved in these fights. What should i do? Should I tell her off, or jsut i...

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I'm SO bad with these things.


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 7:55 pm

I went out with a guy Sept-Dec, and it ended very badly. I got really disinterested halfway through, but kept convincing myself I liked him, so I wouldn't have to deal with it. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore, and I basically started ignoring him. Not intentionally, it was just hard to pretend to be excited to see him. He only took about a week of this before he broke up with me. Even though I had wanted out, I was really sad, especially when I heard he was dating someone else. I got comepletely over it very quickly though.

A couple weeks into x-mas break, he called me and told me he'd screwed up really badly, and he asked me back out. I was totally disinterested by that point, so I flat-out said no. When school was back ...

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scary movies


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 7:30 pm

ok well i have like 3 questions

1) I wanna go to the movies with my best guy friend and see a scary movie with just the 2 of us so i can get closer to him, but how do i go about asking him but not making it sound like im interested in him?

2) When my mom takes me to the movie, shes gonna be bugging me about who im going with. Should i lie and tell her im going to see a happy movie with a bunch of girls and him so she doesnt hassal me?

3) This ones not related, its for my friend lycia. Well she really likes this boy donnie, but he likes her best friend and her best friend is starting to like him even though she has a boyfriend. She wants to tell him she likes him but she doesnt want it to get back...

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peircings


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 7:08 pm

my freind has 2 holes in each ear, and she wanted another one. has been buggin her mom for like half a year. a few days ago, she peirced it. she told me that it hurt...so she only stuck the needle halfway through. now there is a reddish purple bump over where the hole should be. it is soo noticable is it infected or something?

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uncomfortable


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 6:10 pm

ok there is this kid rick at my school that is touching me inappropriately and i've told him several times to stop it. well the other day he was definitely touching and i told him to stop me friend keith was near by so i yelled to him so he could tell rick to get off me. i yelled his name and he just turned around and said bye. keith claims that rick is just kidding around be he is not. i question if keith is my friend or not cause a friend wouldn't just leave you like that. i need help ASAP!!!!

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jealous or not??!


Posted Wednesday May 18 2005, 6:07 pm

my friend (let's call him Fred) told me that my other friend (let's call him jake) was pissed at me because i did something. so i said "okay?!" i asked jake if he was mad at me and he wasn't. so i think my friend is tryin to start a fight anc cause drama. what should i do?? i already told fred that he needs to knock off the drama with jake and me. i also told him that i think he's jealous of me hanging out with jake.


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love and hate relationship?


Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:35 pm

okay so im best friends with this girl. we always get into really stupid fights and stuff and she ALWAYS talks about me behind my back, or even when im looking straight at her. tons of people in the school hate her and always ask me why im best friends with her. she also treats me like crap, uses me, and walks all over me...everybody tells me that. except for some reason i keep making plans with her. ive never really said anything bad about her, except when we got in this huge fight last week. i was talking with her on the phone with her boy-toy (this guy who shes obsessed with whos just usuing her) and then i say brb and i set down the phone and when i come back i hear her saying to him "omg shes so annoying she acts like 2 different ...

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why?!


Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 10:07 pm

Why would a guy go around saying i was going to screw him and that i was making out with him when we were playing video games and listening 2 muzic.....i lost a best friend bc of his little lies..so how the hell do i get threw to everyoen that its a lie..and how do i get threw to him that he will NEVER SPREAD RUMORS ABOUT ME, TOUCH ME OR TALK TO ME AGAIN....! ( he was also sick & stoned)...and ive already got him for sexual harasment in the 6th grade...so what do i do?!

Please help asap


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my best friend


Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 9:57 pm

my best friend has a girlfriend and i'm not use to him having a girlfriend .I keep geting pissed off i try not to show it but ,my friend cobly can tell when i look away or don't speak to any one . She (joc) asked me if i would get mad if they went out and i said no i was lying it does ,and we went to the movies the other day he begged me to go becasue his girlfriend couldn't go unless i did. So i went and his brother went his brother is about 16 almost 17. And we well we just started making out and tyler got mad ..and i don't know why i didn't say anything when him and his girlfriend kiss or hug or do that kinda stuff ..i don't know what to do know and oppitons ?

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shes such a bitch!


Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 9:18 pm

ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?

and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it?

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ugly :-(


Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:09 pm

There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

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Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:08 pm

My male friend (he has a girlfriend, i dont date) and i were really close for quite some time and then he told me that he liked me (for some time now) and then a few weeks later that he loved his girlfriend, the entire situation was aweful and i tried to stay away from it best i could, but now we arent as colse...actually now we are more of aquaintences than friends and im starting to doubt what our friendship was. what do i do? how do i know we werent just close because he like me?

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