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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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oh boy here i go..


Posted Monday June 6 2005, 3:26 pm

ok so my best friend was in love with this guy (she's 14 so it didn't mean a whole whole lot) but anyways he liked her in the way beginning of the year but it didn't work out. then he like my other friend but she didn't like him. next he liked me and i liked this guy a lot too. my best friend was supportive and got us to go out. now we're happily together and have been for awhile. but my best friend has been depressed and everytime we get into a fight she'll bring this up (that i stole him from her). she still wants to be my friend but how do i eventually solve this situation. i know i caused it but how do i fix it without breaking up with him?

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i don't wanna go


Posted Monday June 6 2005, 2:15 pm

My friend Felicia just invited me over her house in like 30 minutes..the problem is, I don't want to go. I just don't feel like going...What excuse could I possibly use? I can't say my parents are making me go somewhere because they're both at work. I can't say I'm hanging out with friends because all my friends are out of town. Please help!

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fIgHt


Posted Monday June 6 2005, 12:08 pm

Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?

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Friends


Posted Monday June 6 2005, 11:12 am

Hi, Im Andrea 15/f Ok, i've basically lost my best friends. I dont know what to do at all. I love them so much and I hate just not talking to them for a DAY so whats it gonna be like the rest of my life? And I mean, I just wish one of them would text me or IM me or try to talk to me because I feel like they don't even miss me. I don't know what to do, and right now I have NOONE to go to because i dont have any friends now. So how can I get them back? And what should I do? AAAA. This is ruining my life. I cry every 10 minutes and I've NEVER cried over friend problems before. I just dont wanna lose them, they mean so much to me. OMG. HELP!

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Posted Monday June 6 2005, 1:29 am

well, i have this friend and she recently a break down in drama class and the teacher let us go outside and just sit and talk, but i didnt know if i should talk about her problems or just try to distract her since there wasnt really anything to do about them (family problems). i ended up asking her what she wanted from me, (in a less demanding way than that) but i feel like i was making the situation more about me and less about making her feel better by doing that. anyone have any advice on how i could have handled this situation better?

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How do I act?


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 9:03 pm

I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!

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I feel .. different


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 6:28 pm

I have two best friends, one is more in the "popular range" and I love her to death and I have the best of times when I hang out with her and some of her other friends. My other best friend isn't popular, and doesnt realy like popular people. She always listens to depressing music and acts a little like a slut now. She makes me feel guilty when I hang out with my other best friend. I dont wanna be best friends with her anymore but I dont know how to tell her. Any tips?

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:-(


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 5:13 pm

Ok, I have 2 best friends, Jackie and Mary. Even though they are both my best friends, I think of Jackie as more of a BEST BEST friend, you know?<P> Someone I can call everyday and talk to her. Recently, all 3 of us got in a big fight because of something stupid I got mad at, and Mary and Jackie are growing really close. Now, I CANT call Jackie every day and I CANT talk to her because I feel like we arent even friends anymore and I feel like she doenst like me. I really dont want to lose either one of them as friends, but I dont want Jackie and Mary to become best friends and leave me out. <p>I know Im being really selfish, but I want things back to how they were. I get jealous so easily when Mary does things with Jackie cause i...

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quotes


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 3:46 pm

i dont really know what category to put this under...but does anybody have any good quotes/ sites to find them? i want some for my pro...thanks *i rate

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Caught in the Middle {I Know this is long but it's worth it)


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 1:44 pm

Ok, this is how it is. Have 2 bestfriends at school; we have been friends 4ever. Anyway one of my friends {Lets call her Karla}found out that my other bf {Lets call her Tisha} was talking about her behind her back. It's very hard 4 me because everytime I talk to 1 of them the other 1 asks if she said anything about her. It's driving me nuts! I don't know if I can take it anymore. Anyway I've been friends with "Karla" longer than I have "Tisha". I've known "Karla" 4 about 8 years, and I've been friends with "Tisha" 4 about 2 years. I'm so confused and I cannot deal with it any longer. Anyway school is almost out, so maybe everything will get solved. {We only have 4 days left} But I really need help! Si...

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uhh wicked annoyed


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 12:09 pm

I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven..

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my friend


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 1:58 am

ok well i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and then i have this guy friend that i like ONLY as a friend but see the thing is HE LOVES ME and he is always telling that he wishes i was with him and that he would treat me right. i know he would but he isnt my type of guy. his looks arent the best and i know looks arent everything because he is a great guy but i just cant see myself with him. i have tryed tellign him but it is still the samething . he always says o i wish i was ur boyfriend i know i would treat you right. can someone plz help me!! sometimes he makes me feel like i am a bad person and make me hate myself because i cant choice the right guy to go out with.:'(

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Best friends and boyfriends


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 1:49 am

Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f

p.s. i really really like him!

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uh oh...


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 1:07 am

my cousin and i are best friends and i wouldnt be able to live w/o her.One night at our school dance, her ex boyfriend that she dumped TWICE asked me to dance with him so i did. she saw us and ran into the bathroom crying and i tried talking to her and said "whats wrong?" and she said "NOTHING!" and then i siad "i dont like him!" and shes like "I DONT CARE!" because i like this boy so much but i dont think that clicked in her head. Anyways, now her ex likes me and i dont know what to do because i cant go out with him and do that to her and i'm still trying to straighten things out with one of the guys ive liked forever and im sorta waiting on him. What should i do???
my cousins 11/f I'm 13/f and her ex is 14/m

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i am so sad about this


Posted Sunday June 5 2005, 12:43 am

okay my mom had a bestfriend and they knew eachother for 3 years lets call the freind (paula) okay well she got lung cancer about 2 months ago and we thought she would live we even went out and did a benifet for her and we thought she would survive on may 13 2005 she died we got the news when her two boys were over i was so sad and started crieing the boys need help and they are hard to care for and always real hiper i mean they are like brothers to me but i dont know what to do to help them out i am 15 and need your help on how to handle things p.s my mom made their mom a promise saying if somthing happened to her that she would care for them i cant drive but my mom can and i need some help on where to take them or still stay at the house...

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Date


Posted Saturday June 4 2005, 11:26 pm

My guy friend (who I kind of like) & I are going to see Star Wars. I'm thinking this'll be the night when I admit to having feelings for him. Is this a good movie for that? It sounds crazy but is there anything I can do during the movie to hint I like him? Are there any romantic scenes in the movie that might turn him on or get his mind on relationships?

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i cant believe her!!


Posted Saturday June 4 2005, 11:16 pm

i have this one friend who steals guys. first she steals my friend jackies friend who was about to ask her out and she liked him back. then my friend ashlie has a boyfriend and she told him she likes him. now my friend and i like the same guy (and we have no problem about that) and now she said that she`s starting to like him. and she promised she wouldn`t. this guy i like i don`t exactly know and he doesn`t know that i like him and i don`t see him a lot. so what should i do about her?? not in just my situation, but in other things that she does. she`s just that kind of flirt person. any suggestions or thoughts?

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Posted Saturday June 4 2005, 11:11 pm

ok..I've known this guy for about 9 months. Ever since i met him, i've liked him a lot. when i told him i had feelings for him, we went out immediately. we were crazy about each other until another kid, *nick* started hanging out with me. i dumped the guy for *nick*, which i knew would be a huge mistake. the other guy was heartbroken, and to be honest i was too. i went out with *nick* for about 2 week then broke up with him because i still had really strong feelings for the other guy. so then me and the other guy went back out with each other for about 2 weeks total and then he broke up with me. He was the first guy i actually cried over. so now hes going out with another girl and i feel like a piece of crap because i still REALLY like him ...

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jappy friend


Posted Saturday June 4 2005, 10:59 pm

my best best best friend in the whole world since kindergarten is turning into a big JAP! she has so many fricken juicy hollister abercrombie etc clothes its soo annoying. we'll call her sally. so i'm not the most popular girl in the world but i'm not a complete loser. i'm a little ditzy and crazy and dorky but thats who i am. thats how all my firneds are. she doesnt seem to accept us though. all she cares about is being popular so she doesnt even say hi to us anymore. she doesnt care when we leave, and she follows her rly popular friends around. she doesnt hang out with me and my other friends anymore. its like she doesnt care that we exist. but shes so fun and nice when shes not busy being careful about being popular. i want her to be the...

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The other girl


Posted Saturday June 4 2005, 10:13 pm

Hey i have this friend and we've been friends scince kindergarten and about two years ago she started hanging out with this girl and this girl is a witch she gossips about my other best friends and she gossips about my friend whos friends with her and my friend knows she does and she still calls her Her BFF and when i want to hang out with my friend her other friend AKA (Witch) who i hate is always around her and me and my friend always argue when were around the witch and when ever she comes over my house shes soooooooooooooooo !!!! annoying!!!! she routes through my stuff and makes fun of my clothes and the music i like and i just got done remodleing my room and i didnt have enough time to dust and she said your rooms soooo dusty and dir...

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