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I am jelous of my best friend
Posted Wednesday June 20 2012, 7:18 pm
Ok so me and my best friend have been friends for about two years. I am one year older than her. I have always been a little jelous of her because she is really pretty, but this past spring she got a new really cute puppy, got her first boyfriend(I haven't had a boyfriend). Also she used to be kind of shy, but now she says the funniest things and I can just tell that everyone loves her. But the thing that REALLY gets on my nerves is how much she shows off, for example shes always showing off how she owns like three horses at her farm, which may i add she goes to for 4 weeks every year, AND they arnt even her horses, they are her neighbors, which she just convinintly leaves out to our other friends, I actually own horses and can ride, but I ...
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friend 'bitching' about me
Posted Wednesday June 20 2012, 6:05 pm
Recently, me and a friend stopped talking. We're still civil though, but there is tension in the air. A mutual friend is very close to her and to me it looks like he has decided to take her side, despite that fact that 1. She told him that he shouldn't feel the need to, and 2. It simply didn't concern him.
Recently, another mutual friend of ours (who has managed to stay completely neutral in this) was talking to them on the phone. The fellow who decided to takes sides said "I need to know if I can trust you. I need to bitch about Matt" (matt being me).
He also stated that he wasn't planning to invite me to his birthday party, despite the fact that i've known him longer than anyone else.
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How to stop a fight between my two best friends?
Posted Tuesday June 19 2012, 12:42 pm
Okay, so the other day my two best friends got into a fight and they haven't talked since. My other friend and I have something to do, and the other one is inviting me to do something, and I know that if I choose a side, I'll end up losing one of the two, and honestly, I just want them to get over it, and we could be okay again. Any help on this?
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Posted Monday June 18 2012, 4:30 pm
I dreamt about a friend betrayal but in my case it was true. She started texting my boyfriend one night. She text him 3 times he didn't respond then she calls him @ 2:00 am (he works nights) he doesn't answer he shows me her text & phone call she made. Then she texts again the next morning saying " you don't want to talk to me :( ". (I work days) he tells me she keeps texting & calling him. Then after 3 days of harassing him she texts me saying I'm thinking wrong she comment to a friend she liked my bf. So to me this dream was a warning of something going to happen soon. I just completely ignored her at all cost. She had also came to my home & started talking bad about me to my boyfriend i found out later. I think s...
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I'm getting very lonely and I don't feel right
Posted Monday June 18 2012, 2:24 pm
For a while I was talking to one good friend every day. About 3 days ago we stopped talking and I don't feel right not talking to him. I talk to my girlfriends still, but we don't talk long. I would like to meet new friends but summer just started and I don't know what to do when I feel out of place except watch television and eat.
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Mutual friends of an exboyfriend
Posted Saturday June 16 2012, 11:38 pm
A few months ago my exboyfriend and I split up after he cheated on me. I've forgiven him for his transgressions (for my sake, not his--hatred is toxic), but for some reason it still really bothers me that we have some mutual friends. I guess the vindictive side of me wanted everyone to turn against him after he hurt me. Why is this? How can I get these feelings to go away? I feel more anger towards my friends for still speaking to him than I do towards him for cheating on me at this point.
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My best friend's mum wants me to pay $1200
Posted Saturday June 16 2012, 1:11 pm
So the other one of my best friends gave me this troll link. When you click that link, you'll be redirected to a page with this screaming ghost girl and a scary bgm. Obviously I got scared. Afterwards she told me to go troll my other friends and so I did since it sounded fun. Most of my other friends got scared but laughed it off but when I gave the link to my other best friend, HE TOTALLY FLIPPED OUT. Like, I was in Skype call with him so I heard him screaming and throwing something. At first I thought he fainted or something so I called him a few times. Then he told me he just asked his maid to help close the page because he was too scared. Now though, it seems like he actually THREW his headphones to the computer screen and it broke. He ...
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My friend is constantly complains and overreacts.
Posted Friday June 15 2012, 1:39 pm
My bestfriend is starting to annoy me. She constantly complains about her life being terrible but I know for a fact it isn't that bad. Her family is so nice and she treats them like shit. I know she just wants attention so I'm not giving it to her. It's starting to ruin our friendship though because she's clingy and doesn't want me to have other friends. I'm hanging out with new people because she's not fun to be around anymore. I want to tell her life isn't that bad but I know she's going to freak out and I don't want to deal with it. She's selfish and thinks she's the only one with problems but all her problems could be solved if she tried. I'm going through a lot and I can't deal with this anymore. It's to the point where I don't want to...
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what the hell happened? My Friend just stopped talking to me!
Posted Friday June 15 2012, 12:58 am
okay, I've had this friend for almost 4 years on and off;
well about three weeks ago, she came over and stayed the night; and everything was fine. I took her home the next morning; and we talked a little bit after that;
which is normal; we don't talk every single day; just here and there.
well, today I get on facebook and I was going to tell her I missed her on her wall; and when I did, I realized we weren't friends on there anymore.
So I texted her, and I asked her how come we weren't friends on FB anymore, and NO TEXT BACK.
I sent two more about an hour apart; and nothing.
Well, I found out that she has a new facebook because she is still fri...
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Is this considered backstabbing?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2012, 7:41 pm
When 2 people are fighting & then one of the people goes off & vents/talks to someone & says what the other person got mad at them about & just keeps talking to them about it & say the other person theyre fighting with is bitching at them. & this person vents & does this whenever they fight. They always tell another person why the other person got mad at them about. Even one time they told another person that they're fighting with that they can never take a joke. Is that considered backstabbing ?
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Do This Guy Likes Me ?
Posted Wednesday June 13 2012, 2:09 pm
Welll, Im Friends with this guy and i been talking on the phone with em for couple Days we dont sleep at alljust to stay on the phone and uhh we be talking dirty like him getting boners and im telling em im bi and stuff like that but i dont know if he likes me . he told me that my voice is sexy im like ahh weird <-- my mind soo what does this mean?
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Neighbour's kids.. Pissing me off.
Posted Monday June 11 2012, 10:22 pm
I've posted an earlier question about being annoyed with the neighbour's kids because they keep coming over, and staying over at my house, and entering without knocking or anything.
Everyone has advised me earlier to speak to the parents, but I am extremely shy and I feel bad having to speak to the parents because I feel I shouldn't have to because 1) it might create animosity 2) i feel absolutely terrible
Just literally less than 5 minutes ago. I've had another experience that has me extremely annoyed.
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should i tell my mom
Posted Monday June 11 2012, 1:20 pm
my friend just got a new boyfriend and he lives close to me ,so my friend wants to come to my house and go for a walk so she can meet up with him. But my mom always tells me before we go on walks to not run into any boys (I'm 13). So if we do go on the walk and my mom figures out what happened my mom will probably not trust me any more. but if I tell her before the walk she could say anything (she could maybe allow us to go but i don't know). So do you think i should tell my mom or keep it a secret.
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I have feelings for a friend who has a girlfriend and I told him I cldnt do
Posted Sunday June 10 2012, 8:49 pm
I like this guy he has a girlfriend but asks to see me and asks me to kiss him and I won't..he says his relationship is complicated. I finally told him I am worth more than a secret and we have to stop talking he acted like he didn't even care. I do want to b around him. Should I ignore him.. Help.. I think he has feelings for me as well
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Does my friend not respect my boundaries or is she manipulative?
Posted Saturday June 9 2012, 3:13 am
I do photography as a hobby. I started my own website and started to build my portfolio. My friend is a hairstylist and I asked her if she wanted she could do the hair, and that way she could have photos for her hair portfolio. She said fine. Then I asked if she could got to people's houses with me, kinda like an impromptu mobile photo op thing. She said fine. Next thing I know she bought a camera and wants to start taking the pictures. I said I wouldn't feel comfortable with that because I only needed assistance with the hair. I take the photos and I consider it to be an artistic exercise for me and having her jump around, rapidly snapping shots would be distracting and I would never get the shots I need. I much rather we keep our work sep...
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Becoming more outgoing
Posted Tuesday June 5 2012, 2:09 pm
18/f
I'm going to college in the fall and want to make a lot of friends. I'm generally shy but I'd like to push myself out of my comfort zone and become more outgoing. What can I do to be a more outgoing person?
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Older friends wanting to be more: I am 13, and he is 27
Posted Monday June 4 2012, 2:12 pm
I am 13 years old. I have a friend that is 27 years old. In a month or less I will be moving to California . My friend is supposed to be moving with us. BUT a few days ago he had told me he's good at making out and I should try it with him. And I'm like huh ? And then he told me how he liked me and stuff. But my mom had just asked 3 days before, if Dustin (the friend) was weird or if he made me feel uncomfortable,etc. (basically if he was a pervert). And I'm like no , because I didn't know yet and she's like okay . Because he claims to be gay also BTW. And he has this crappy job with crappy people and lives in a small crappy hotel too. And IDK if I should tell my mom 'cause I would be the reason his life sucks and I don't think I'm in the...
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Why isn't he texting and calling anymore?
Posted Monday June 4 2012, 1:41 pm
I am only 17(female) and there's this boy I've been talking to for about 3 weeks now and we talk and text non stop. He texts me goodmorning and everything. He makes an effort to come see me, he always compliments me. He said that he enjoys talking to me because I know how to keep a conversation going. He says all these positive things to me, he even told my
friend how much he really likes me. But a situation occurred recently, we were suppose to go to the movies around 9, mind you it was his graduation day. He texts me like "are the plans still on for the night?" I responded yes but how are we going to meet up? His response was, "I will ask my mother if I can borrow her car. " I'm like ok, text me back later to te...
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why did he lead me on?
Posted Monday May 28 2012, 3:25 pm
There's this guy, who moved to my school not long ago. We started talking as friends and we exchanged numbers, we still continued to talk as friends until our conversations got abit more flirty, he would call me “princess” he basically made me feel really special. I started to really like him, so I told him. His repsonse was “I'm too busy for this” and when I asked him what it meant he would say “I'm just too busy for all this, I can't be bothered” so I was left confused, he told me to meet him to speak face to face but then said something came up. I left it for about 2 weeks, then I sent him another message, asking him why he had made me feel special and then just dropped me all of a sudden and how much he meant to me. He repli...
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I Need New Friends
Posted Monday May 28 2012, 12:37 am
Just so you know, I'm 15. I really want to make new friends, but the problem is that I live in a small town and by now everyone at my school knows everyone else and has formed their own cliques and aren't interested in being my friend. I don't want to be friends with these people anyway, because they really aren't very good people. So I don't know how to make new friends, what to do or where to go. Advice, please.
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