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Truth & Right: mother of my kids and child support
Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 5:08 pm
so I just want some understanding is it possible that the mother of my kids. mother put me on child support even tho I support my kids an I'm always there for them she wants to put me on child support cause I don't help out with the pregnancy bills but the job I have cant afford them an only have money for my kids an my bills. I live in Alabama I don't see why she think she can put me on child support when 1.i have no kids by you
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Insecurity
Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 11:07 am
I'm really insecure in my relationship because of what happened to me in my past relationship. He cheated on me after 4 years together.
Now I feel like I'm much more paranoid in my new relationship. Every text he gets, every snapchat he receives, I'm thinking "who is that" becuase I'm so insecure from what happened to me in the past.
How can I try to overcome this? I know I need to try and take his word for things but I just can't help and feel like he's going behind my back doing something he's not supposed to. It all stems from my past relationship and how hurt I really was and how it just shattered my trust with any guy. My boyfriend reminds me how much I mean to him and how he would never do anyth...
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Trust issues
Posted Wednesday December 16 2015, 10:46 am
I'm 25, boyfriend is 23. My past relationship didn't end well, he lied to me about talking to another girl and ended up breaking up with me and dating that new girl right away. Our trust was broken. And now that I'm in a new relationship I feel as though this has become a problem for me.
When my now boyfriend first started seeing each other (not officially) he would always tell me that I was the only girl in his life and the only girl he talked to but I found out he was texting another girl as well. He did not hang out with her though. I couldn't really be that mad becuase we weren't exclusive at this point. But I was still weary. We talked about it and moved on from that. Well he still keeps in contact with his ex because t...
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Would you trust someone who cheated once in the past?
Posted Tuesday December 15 2015, 1:35 am
Two years ago, I was in a very bad relationship. It was long distance, with a huge age gap, and we definitely should not have been together. For whatever reason, I just could not cope with the thought of breaking up. Two weeks before finally ending it, I cheated on him whilst drunk; I made out with another guy at a bar. I had to be carried out of the bar crying from how guilty I felt, and I told my then boyfriend right away. He forgave me immediately, and I broke up with him two weeks later.
My current romantic interest was cheated on once in the past. He HATES cheaters and whenever infidelity is brought up he mentions how awful cheating is. I have casually brought up my past infidelity before and he didn't really seem bother...
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Can't Change His Feelings
Posted Monday December 14 2015, 9:00 pm
So I met this amazing guy in June. He's literally everything I want and I fell so hard for him right off the bat. We met at a bar and then he traveled for the rest of the summer so we have been texting ever since. From the start the relationship has been one sided which was usually me reaching out and us having good conversations but him never making an effort. So in September I decided to stop trying and make him come to me.. Then we didn't talk for two straight months and out of a moment of weakness I reached out again. To my surprise ever since we have gotten REALLY close. We unfortunately live in different cities but nothing too major. He's made more of an effort and instead of going from talking every 3-5 days we talked everyday. He st...
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Boyfriend's mom on Facebook
Posted Monday December 14 2015, 9:24 am
I'm 25 my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for a couple months now. Yesterday I requested his mom on facebook and she declined it and disabled me from being able to request her again. I have met her multiple times and my boyfriend told me she said I was nice and last time I saw her she gave me a hug when I left. She's friends with my boyfriends brothers girlfriends as well. She would also comment and like things I posted when I tagged my boyfriend in them. It just really bothers me for some reason that she would decline it. Now I feel like it will be really awkward next time I see her. I don't know if she has something against me or what. I don't know if I should bring it up to my boyfriend that this happened and that it's bothering me. Any suggestions? :/
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Age Doesn't Matter
Posted Monday December 14 2015, 5:31 am
So I have a 37 year old boyfriend and I'm 16. We've been dating for more than a year now. We do love each other and he says he'll wait for me till I'm grown up and wants me to finish college first. In short he's a good man. I'm just afraid of our future ,it really bothers me wondering if our relationship would work out and be successful. Plus the fact that everyone doesn't want us to be together because of age. People who have the same relationships out there please give me advice? Everyone's welcome to comment what's in your mind.
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A girl that I have seen a future with.
Posted Monday December 14 2015, 1:30 am
I have meet this girl at my school and have known her for a while now, and have went on a date with her once then she called it off, due to a busy semester. I understood this but it really hurt and a couple of weeks later she asked if I wanted to date again and of course I said yes, and she has asked for us to take it slow and I understand completely, I don't understand by what she means as slow, because like I have remorse after leaving her apartment after talking and hanging out with her. I have always been a cuddler, and that is how I want to be, not like in bed for sex or anything of that manner but closeness, and like all of my relations with people I am extremely protective over her. I need some information about slow relationship and...
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omg middle school love
Posted Saturday December 12 2015, 12:24 am
My friend lets call her kim so kim likes this boy lets call him jess so i told her that he likes her and so yesterday i called him chimichangas cus of something and then later on i told kim that i will dare him to ask kim out but he even admited that he likes kim and at afterschool i waved by chimichangas and so did kim and our other friend and he smiled and waved back at us and mostly looked at her i told her that is a sign and everytime he looks at her and today when i was eating popcorn he dropped it all over me and i waited for a moment and got the bag and droped everthing on his head and My friend started laughing and so did he so u think that they are a good match they pretty muchos hace stuff un common and i knw he tries to hide his feelings when he is around kim lol help
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Trouble or not?
Posted Wednesday December 9 2015, 12:58 pm
SO i like this boy and he seems to like me too. At times anyways. We have been through alot together, he is my best friend. We dont talk in person like ever and if we do its a little weird. He is in a relationship and says he happy. I know we shouldnt but we have sexual conversations and he talks to me about his relationship. We planned on having sex but i decided agianst it. He doesnt know what he wants and its really bothersome. His gf pretty much hates me in my opinion. But she keeps telling me she didnt. We dont talk that much anymore. But i believe he still likes me. Side Chick? He says even if he was single he wouldnt date me because if he hurt me that would be the end, because i would hate him and he couldnt live with out me...I dont know anymore.
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i want you to analyze my iambic pentameter in this poem
Posted Tuesday December 8 2015, 7:32 pm
Remember me in sun splash-silvered hills,
In pensive moments lazing by a stream,
In reveries that flow in gilded rills
To foaming seas and to the land of dream.
Remember me, but only with a smile,
And sigh at myosotis in the lea;
Partake of its sweet blossoming a while,
Its blue corolla and its mystery.
Remember me beside a dusty lane
Of twilight-ribboned indigo and gray
Aglint in fading shades of ochre stain
Belonging neither to the night nor day.
Live in these things for all eternity
And I will know that you remember me…
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Not in Love Anymore
Posted Tuesday December 8 2015, 11:55 am
Early 20s/F
I have been married for four years to my partner. Due to some tricky circumstances, we got married very soon after we started dating. We moved in together very quickly, merged finances, etc. I have a kid from a previous relationship that now calls him dad as the child was very young when he entered the picture.
When we first were together, he had jealousy/control issues that he worked on and overcame. We were both sexually attracted to each other and I felt like I was in love.
Fast forward two years from then, I begin to feel that my romantic and sexual attraction for him beginning to fade. Even though he worked through the jealousy/control issues, it was something always in the back of my mind that ...
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Can someone please help me figure out what is wrong with me?
Posted Monday December 7 2015, 9:09 pm
I have always been a very weird person.
I am loud
I laugh loud
I laugh long
I dance through the hallways at my school
I love to sing
I suck at singing
I'm extremely clumsy
I am very bothered by certain things, to the point where I get emotional (when I feel disrespected, when things are very, very unorganized, when I feel excluded)
I would delete and add my ex's number from and to my phone a lot of times
I'm just a generally over-the-top happy person. But something makes me think there is more to it than just that. Something happened to me 2 years ago that just fucked me up.
It was a boy. Of course. How predictable right? I fell in love with a boy t...
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I dont know what I must do
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 11:23 am
Saw my ex bf 2 weeks ago havent heard from him for a week texted him twice but no response and he is almost always online texted him yesterday but i lied and made up a story cause i wanted to see if he was going to mayb reply i told him that he must let me knw when he wants the learners bonks cause im moving today and then il just fetch it at home (this was a lie) few minutes later he replied saying that that he wl be needing it soon i then said ok he mst let me knw then il drop it off during his lunch time he then asked where im going (i had to continue the lie) i told him 3weeks in PE he then said i must njoy it and im going to misS the mountains alot i then said that the time will go kwik and me going away will do everyone good including...
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Help with my sex life
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 7:00 am
Female
So me and my bf have been together for a year. We broke up for a couple of days but got back together. Ever since we have gotten back together our sex life has been different. He's been putting the cookies in the oven before the oven is even warm. He used to give me head all the time but stopped once we got back together. What seems to be the issue?
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Why does dating suck?
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 1:57 am
Why does dating always have to be such a negative experience? I've never had a boyfriend and haven't had much experience dating because every time it sucks. It crushes my heart and soul in some way and I always end up disappointed or disgusted, by guys who treat me like shit. My mom says "dating is supposed to be fun and at your age (24) you should be dating a lot of people at once." Yeah I wish. That would be nice, for it to be just fun and that's it. Unfortunately, after going out and/or making out with a guy, what follows is debilitating sadness and disappointment. And cynicism. It is just never "fun." It's never a good experience. How am I going to reach the "destination" of having a good, trustworthy boyfr...
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Still attracted to someone who is bad news
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 1:49 am
There's a guy I dated a few times who I thought I liked but it turns out it's just attraction and fun (something that is missing in my life). We hang out in the same social circle sometimes and tonight a few of us got together and he was there. We went to a bar and he met up with this girl, whom prior to this he and two of my friends were saying is really dumb and other mean stuff. Meanwhile I'm just sitting there feeling totally awkward and honestly very hurt. I'm supposed to just sit there and be totally ok with it? Clearly this guy is a douchebag and doesn't know how to treat a woman right? Please tell me yes, because if I have to feel for one more second like I'm overreacting I'll go crazy. Please don't tell me that a man has the "...
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Dating while having a friend with benefits?
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 1:43 am
I am friends with benefits (FWB) with an ex. I know - terrible idea, but I really had trouble letting go after we broke up. He just didn't have feelings for me. Aside from sex, we kiss, cuddle, speak on a daily basis, and spend a lot of time together. From the outside looking in, what we have greatly resembles a relationship.
My FWB is not a jealous person and has actually encouraged me to go out and start dating again - but I have been very hesitant because I do not want to end our relationship. I know that we can obviously just be friends with no physical intimacy, but it will certainly be different not being able to cuddle while we watch TV or kiss him or even just hold hands. I really don't want to let go, for fear that ...
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What are good reasons to stop dating a man?
Posted Sunday December 6 2015, 12:36 am
I'm 21/F and currently single. I got out of a 3 year long relationship early this year and tried dating again for several months. I went the online route because that's how I met my first fiance and also because I currently live in a small town where it's very difficult to meet people.
I went on dates with men in the age range of 21-50 though only went on dates with 9 men.
In turn I only really dated 5 of these men for very short periods of time as by the third date things always took a turn for the worse.
The two guys I liked the most both wound up lying to me about more than one thing and got caught. One of them I thought I was in love with, I liked him so much and he wound up lying to me abo...
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Thinking about giving a hot girl my number
Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 3:12 pm
So I'm 12 female. At the end of the school year (ik that's a long time from now but I want to make my decision quickly) I want to give a girl my number. I chose the end of the year so if she denys I'll have a long time to not see her and get over it. I'm not going to let her know my intentions, ill tell her it's to be friends, just in case we don't get in the same classes next year. What I'm worried about is she's rich, and has rich friends, in the rich side of town. I'm kind of lower middle class, everyone in my town is lower middle class or poor. We talk and I know she doesn't look down on me, but idk my life is so basic compared to hers. She probably lives in a house rather than a shitty apartment in a house with three bedrooms a bathr...
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