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Best Friends
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:45 pm
I'm 26 years old and pretty lonely. I'm finding it harder as I grow older to make and keep good, healthy friends. My best friend has a problem communicating and being around when I need her. I always feel like I'm only here for her comfort and it really sucks. She's always just so flighty and in and out of my life. I guess we are friends when it suits her needs. I don't know how to go about telling her how I feel about it.
I guess the bigger problem is that I really don't have any other friends. I don't know where to start making them either. I am a queer femme and it seems my community is pretty cliquish. It sucks and I hate being lonely.
I would love it if you had any advice to offer.
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Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:57 pm
I like this girl and she used to like me to, but we haven't see each other in a while because she lives in a different town and now I don't know how I can get her to like me again. We talk on the internet but its hard to impress someone online. What can I do or say to get her to like me again?
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yo
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:20 pm
All Colombianos Holla Back !
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Bad friends
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 8:40 pm
so i have these friends well i thought they were and one is really mean and stuff that isnt true, i cant take them and this girl gets everyone else mad at me i dont know what i can do. she has gotten 3 of my best friends mad at me and they ALWAYS talk about me behind my back, and they look at me and make fun of me. they were my friends but i dont know now. they always give me really mean glares, and then my other friend always says how much she hates these girls but then the next day she hangs out with them and talk about me. i dont know what to do and im about to have a total break down. all my friends say they will be the crap out of them if they wont stop, but i dont want anyone to get hurt, i just want the rumors to stop. please help any advice would be helpful. please.
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What to say to someone who has just lost a loved one
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 7:49 pm
How do I steer the conversation while at lunch with someone whose wife has just died? I am in a club at work. I am meeting a man from this club for lunch and it is strictly club related. This man retired to care for his ailing wife. The day after he retired she died. What do you say to someone who just lost a loved one? I feel funny asking how he is doing...obviously he is doing horrible, his wife just died. My first impulse is to not mention her death at all but I have yet to offer my personal condolences. Outside of the club I do not know this man.
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my best friend doesnt like me!! plz help.
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 7:24 pm
o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???
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*~!desperate for help!~*
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my best friend s me!! plz help.
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 7:23 pm
o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she s me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???
i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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Say Good-bye or stay and try?
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:28 pm
My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do?
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...im not sure
Posted Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:20 am
alright well i got into a fight with my best of best friends last night and he was yelling at me for something i didnt do, and he said some stuff about me to my friend that was really sweet and she thinks he likes me and i dont.. he was like, "i appologized [i didnt see him appologize cuz it was in a chat and i wasnt looking] and she didnt even say anything i guess im the one who cares and she doesnt" and then he was like, "i know i guess we treat each other bad sometimes but your not with us every second we dont treat eachother that bad" and then i was talking to him and it was when i was super mad and i was like, im starting to think you never liked me in the first place" and hes like, "yeah thats right _ _ _...
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 11:08 pm
My best friend jade is getting mad at me because i am freinds with this girl kayla who she got in a fight with. now she wont talk to me unless i stop being kaylas friend, and then we
stoped talking, now yesterday she called me saying that she wants to be my friend again should i forgive her?
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break out
Posted Monday June 13 2005, 9:59 pm
man i've been pretty much hanging out with the same people from a long time. the way its set up at our school, we pretty much have the same classes with the same people every year. and people kinda just hang out with the same people over time. what are soem good ways to make new friends, to break out of my same old same old circle of people, or meet some new friends or girls. thanks alot
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 8:17 pm
theres this girl and her mom died like in november and i live right down the street from her and she is seriosly every where i turn: my house, school, swim team, bus,my brain, i mean seriously she ia everywhere. she is so weird and annoying but when she was at my house once she said that i am her very best friend so now i cant do anything about that because my mom would kill me, id feel guilty, and id practically be the meanest person on the planet. i really do not want to be her friend anymore but i cant get away from her. any suggestions? ill rate you
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 7:05 pm
15/F ok..Well I have a few girls that I used to be friends with that like to call me a slut because they hear about stuff from people that I have supposedly done with guys (they got the whole idea from when they found out I had sex with 2 guys),..And they tell people at school about it then it gets around to everyone eventually..so now my name at school is "slut girl"..How do I get people to stop talking crap on me about that?
Thanx!
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i live in a boring place!
Posted Monday June 13 2005, 6:27 pm
okay well im a teenager and i live in Tampa florida.
my friends and i use to go to the mall every friday. pretty lame huh? yeah thats why we stopped going.
well since we stopped going there isnt really much to do around here.
does anyone have any ideas of what to do on a friday or saturday night? thanks alot.
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 5:30 pm
AHH ..Im sick =/ because i get dehydrated and water isnt working!! What do i do?! i have my period so i cant take a bath right now and im home alone and thrwoing up..im afraid if i pass out no one wil know and no one is available to help me..what do i do?! I dont have Air conditioning.
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 5:07 pm
Hey,14-15 yr, old girls
me and my friends want to take a trip anywhere like kings dominion or the movies or sumthing but we all have other friends that we want to invit. what activity should we do that wouldnt involve the friends to group off? help, i want a memorable freshman trip w/ my best friends
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 4:07 pm
I have this friend and she is awesome! Me and her have a lot in common and i kind of want to be bfs with her but she`s bfs with my other friend and i dont no what to do. I think that her bf is not good enough for her and i just dont get it. I mean she`s nice and everything but sometimes she treats her like shit and like i no that i dont do that. I dont want to talk to her about it and it makes me really mad b/c sometimes she gets fed up w/ her and says that she`s not a good bf but then later something happens and she`s back to being bfs w/ her. WTF! What should i do b/c im tired of being pushed out of the picture everytime she wants to be her bf again?
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Looking up
Posted Monday June 13 2005, 3:51 pm
Ok well im a 13/f and my mom gets someone to babysit my brother whom is 8 just because im always out havin fun and doing stuff and i dont want to watch him. but anyways the point is lately his babysitter and me are like good friends. So well anyways she is 18 and I really i guess i could say i look up to her. I really do i love her like a sister and right now i know she is going thought a hard time and she started smoking and she said im gonna quit im just having a hard time well i dont think shes gonna quit because smoking is addicting and she might not be able to quit and im scared for her and myself because i look up to her so whats happens if i start to and i also dont think shes getting paid enought a week i added up all the time she ...
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Posted Monday June 13 2005, 3:49 pm
yo right my SUPOSE to be BESTFRIEND i think is hiding from me that she goes out with one of my ex boyfriends and im really pissed....like me and the boy and me were REAL serious and it would hurt me to see her with him...I think this cause she be walkin wit him in the hallway he be over her house and they be on the phone and she said she wont tell me who she go wit..oh and plz dont say no lil smart comments cause its not cute people come on here for advice not smart comments well thanx in advance i rate high
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friend or cheerleading .. ?
Posted Monday June 13 2005, 3:46 pm
hello yall uhh i recently just foudn out that this saturday there is a cheerleading stunt clinic thing it helps you with your stunt groups and everything and it suppose to be really good my coaches daughter does it and she is like a really good cheerleader from it but my friends party is on the same day and at the same time and there is no way i could go to both and the cheerleading clinic is only one day and so isnt my friends party l;ike its not a sleepover or anything so i couldnt go after or the morning everyone wakes up i dont know what to do i love my friend but i love cheerleading and my friend will get mad please help i will rate 5
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