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Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:40 pm
i have two friends and one of these friends i like much more than the other. the friend i like more is called "rosie" and the friend that im not fond of is called "mary". so mary is really boring and not very social, im only friends with her through rosie. when im with both rosie and mary mary kind of shuts down and it looks as if she is very uncomfortable. i dont want to her to feel uncomfortable anymore. we dont really have a lot of stuff in common. what are some things that i can do to make mary feel more comfortable around rosie and me? thanks so much. i rate.
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Me, my friend, and my lover
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:33 pm
Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and...
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ignored
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:30 pm
OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!
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still friends?
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 8:28 pm
when i got my first boyfriend i felt loved but then, i realized how rude he was and broke up with him. after that he always cussed at me and glared. when we talked we always ended up yelling and now, i feel like we can't be friends because of something HE put on him self. i mean, he was nice and cool when he wanted me and was just friends, but after that...BOOM!!! should i still be friends with him or ditch him. i rate high...if its useful k
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moving Party
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 6:46 pm
okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??
i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend
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rele :(
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 5:14 pm
okay so i have 3 EXTREMELY close friends that are moving to a different country this summer and it is rele hard because it's all at the same time and everything and i love them all to death. well i have been rele sad b/c of it lately, and b/c i never let anyone see me cry, i cry myself to sleep, EVERY NIGHT. i am rele sad all the time and even my family and friends noticed it a bit. i don't know what to do, I AM SOOOOOOOO Sad!!
-what should i do b/c i probably won't ever get to see them again? -help please!
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I sort of feel bad
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:33 pm
My good friend is having a pool party tomorrow and she invited many people to go. One of the people going is her boyfriend. I don't think I have ever hated anyone more than I hate her boyfriend. He treats me like shit, he treats HER like shit and they honestly make me sick when I see them together. I originally wasn't going to go because of the fact that he was going to be there, but then my friend Cara convinced me to go as well as my boyfriend. I made the decision not to go because I don't want to start anything with them. I know everyone is going to be there to have a good time, and I want to have fun but I CANNOT have fun if he is near me. I can't even begin to describe how much I loathe her boyfriend. I sort of feel bad that I'm not go...
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lost a friend
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 2:39 pm
i was on vacation for a while and i came back and tried to talk to my best friend who i havnt been able to talk to in a while and he told me he wasnt ever my friend and stuff and i dont no what to do it seems everything is dieing he was the only one i could talk to him about anything and everything and i miss him and i dont no what to do help me please
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people are calling me a slut!
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 11:52 am
i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!!
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hated by almost everybody
Posted Tuesday June 21 2005, 11:14 am
ok well last year in 7th grade was the most roughest time ever i could think of!! i was so liked at the begining of the year and people started making rumors up about me and i lost almost every friend....i also got beat up once well i didnt get beat up thats what everybody says i just got in a fight ok and i am just having such a miserable summer bc thats all i ever think about is next year how im not going to have any friends to be with and where im going to sit for lunch and all that ughh i dont know what to do and all my mom says is "i dont know what to tell you" all im really worried about it one person bc she was friends with all the 8th graders and all the 6th graders and shes mean to me and hates me and she could prolly ge...
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what the hell is going on?
Posted Monday June 20 2005, 1:24 pm
hey okay i ahve this best friend or did im not sure okay i kno this person olivia and like she is such a bitch to me we were best friends in 6th adn then in 7th we did nothign but fight now she had taken my best friends boy friend and my best friend didnt kno that they were broken up no one told her nething and like all olivia could say was sorry now corey the same dude says he still ahs feelings for my best friend and like broke olivias heart not my beset friend hates olivia but now since the same guy hurt them its like im out the picture and there bf's now i dont kno what to say to my best friend in stead of talking to me she was on the phone wiht olivia comforting her but like i understand but man she does nothign but talk about olivia a...
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emotional bombs are being thrown at me!!!
Posted Monday June 20 2005, 12:56 am
ok, well all my friends have secrets. Everyone does.. right? well i dont know why but EVERYONE tells me their problems and secrets, sometimes it can be something really small that i can stand like "i like _____" but sometimes they're REALLY big like "i've been raped! dont tell anyone!". Now i'm really popular when it comes to friends so i'm holding ALL of THEIR secrets! one of these days i'm gonna combust and tell everyone all these secrets. I want to be there for my friends, but i dont want to go crazy holding everyone thought, secrets, and personal problems. What do i do?!
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Posted Sunday June 19 2005, 10:38 pm
hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie <3
by the way mary and beth rnt my friends real names i just used like different names
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love/hate friendship???
Posted Sunday June 19 2005, 8:50 pm
Ok i have this friend...Kerry. We were unseprable in the beginging of the year,always got each others back. But now...we tottaallyy split apart. She got mean to me..so i went into another group..and told them my experience with her. I hate her..and i never want kerry to be friends with my other friends..because i dont want her in my life and i dont want them to get hurt like me. I like my other group..they really do got my back there nice and i think i'll stay with them forever. I like kerry..kinda..but not when shes around them. and i hate her for what she dose to me and she is a poser. She poses my friends and copys them all the time. I hate her for this..but i feel bad for her i dont no why.
I feel sad around her to...and i bdo...
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Posted Sunday June 19 2005, 7:26 pm
hey ok..thers this girl and shes my best friend well we just started being best friend and like she is always telling me i am her best friend and she doesnt tell people that often. but lately she hasnt been puting me in her profile and listing all these other girls under friends. like is she trying to not be my friend or something? because i asked her if she was mad and she is like no. and she asked why i asked and i said just wondering. but really if i tell her why i think that shell think im overreacting because this happened before with some other girl that wasnt really a bff but thought she was...like what should i do im so confused! please help and if your gonna be mean you get a one other than that 5 ratings!
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my friend's dad rapes her and abuses her!!
Posted Sunday June 19 2005, 12:20 am
ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!
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He's moving
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 10:53 pm
13/f
ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away?
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am i bi?
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 9:00 pm
okay well my best friend is bi. im a girl and i kno i like boys. i was also pretty sure i didnt like girls like that but then it was on my mind a lot. a lot of people at school thought i was bi because my friend snd i are so different but we're really close but not like that. shes never liked me like that. but then i got really confused when i had a dream that she kissed me and i liked it i think but i told her not to kiss me now but later. so now im kinda confused. it bothers me a lot. any helpful thoughts?
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Is my friendship Breaking up?
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 4:06 pm
Hey my friend and I have been friends for a long time. We promised to be best friends forever. Lately though, I feel as if we've grown apart. Just recently we have been going to different middle schools and we won't be meeting up until high school. We haven't been talking to each other much lately, even though we're out for summer break. How can I help improve our relationship?
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old best friend
Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 3:45 pm
i had this best friend named ryley when i was about 5 years old years old!! we lived next door to me and we did EVERYTHING together!but then when i was 8 he moved and i never saw him again and now i am really starting to miss him. My boyfriend goes to his church and a few weeks ago he said his best friend ryley from church asked if he knew me!he said yes and ryley told him we used to be best friends!now i really want to call him since i know now that he remembers me! but i dont know what i would say!i sure did change alot from when i was 8 til now im 14.i dont even know if he cares or wants to talk to me..what should i do?
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