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World ending May 21st?


Posted Friday May 20 2011, 10:25 pm

Half my friends are freaking out about tomorrow and I just heard about this! Why is the world supposed to end tomorrow? Who is saying this and should I eblieve it?

Will the world end on May 21st 2011?

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why do we seem to care


Posted Friday May 20 2011, 10:46 am

if a singular thought process is nothing more than a chemical reaction that occurs within the walls of our skull then what is so special about them? why do thoughts or feelings hold relevance they're just chemicals. and all we are is an even larger conglomeration of chemicals then why do we hold value on human life? is the chemical composition that makes my body more important that the thousands of other organisms that die every time i take a breath? why should my choice in the regards to the span of my life hold relevance to anyone?

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im depressed... How do I feel like myself again?


Posted Tuesday May 17 2011, 10:59 pm

everyday i go to school and put on a fake smile, act like everything is alright but the truth is im depressed my parents always yell at me and each other, say anything to bring me down, i have no1 i trust, im stressed out, i cant sleep, some people at school calls me names i usually dont care but when now every little thing adds up, i hate my step family, i feel out casted, alone,im tired all the time, everyday people try 2 bring me down and now its working. i tryd talking 2 my friends about this but they dont wanna hear it cause there all dealing with half of the problems i am. what do i do 2 feel like myself again?

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I'm Ugly!


Posted Tuesday May 17 2011, 10:32 pm

I think I'm really ugly...What can I do to become pretty? I think I have a big nose and I don't like the way I look at all..What should I do?

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Depression


Posted Friday May 13 2011, 4:26 pm

i have gone through depression and i am 13 i am still going to therapy and it is helping me alot and i have become alot less stressed and anxious and calmer about my life. But my father hasnt been in my life for quite some time now and i dont miss him i am much releved and happier. i dont miss him i miss having a father but i guess everyone goes through big bumps in ur road of life no matter what age you are. and times occur in the most randoom time i will strat crying becuase i see a happy fmaily or something and that make me sad and i cry and i get it out and the next day im fine. but prior to my depression while still seeing my father i had cut and smoked which i was not proud of and am proud of that i stopped, but i was not addcited to ...

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Totally messed up from too much time on the internet during childhood


Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 7:35 pm

I feel like I'm totally messed up from too much time on the internet during childhood & teenage years!

I feel like I've learned a lot of things because of it, but I also feel like I've missed out a lot and now have pretty poor social skills. I've made better friends online than with people I know IRL, ugh. But nobody ever really invites me to things or w/e IRL and I do have some activities, but just, yeah. And I'm also a terrible procrastinator. I'd do so much better in school if internet (music, forums, news articles) wasn't distracting me all the time.

How could this impact me in the long run? I'm worried. Like pros and cons wise. I really want to make up for this loss of life experiences when I'm in coll...

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Am I the only person who spent a lot of their childhood and teenage years o


Posted Thursday May 12 2011, 7:17 am

I feel like I've learned a lot of things because of it, but I also feel like I've missed out a lot and now have pretty poor social skills. I've made better friends online than with people I know IRL, ugh. But nobody ever really invites me to things or w/e IRL and I do have some activities, but just, yeah. And I'm also a terrible procrastinator. I'd do so much better in school if internet (music, forums, news articles) wasn't distracting me all the time.

How could this impact me in the long run? I'm really worried. Like pros and cons wise. I really want to make up for this loss of life experiences when I'm in college. Like I haven't even been close to getting a boyfriend or anything. I don't relate to a lot of my peers on expe...

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Is it just me, what is wrong with me?


Posted Wednesday May 11 2011, 12:45 pm

Is there something wrong with me?
I cant stay still for long (about 10-15 mins) before I have to change position and ill start movin my feet around or somethin. Especially in school when im in my lessons. Ill be sat there and ill just start moving my legs and feet and ill be messing with my hands or somethin, I get really uncomfortable. I also find it really hard to concentrate. I try telling myself that Ill concentrate this lesson, we get ten minutes in and im daydreaming. I tune out and when I come back to earth i wont've heard a word the teacher said. I also get bored really easily and this is also a slight problem in my relationship. I feel really selfish because I wont be able to keep makin out or anything because Ill get bored ...

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The Ugly Truth?


Posted Monday May 9 2011, 12:30 am

I have never been called ugly, but I've also never been called beautiful. I'm not sure. I mean, I've liked guys but none of them have ever liked me back. In the 5th grade I told a guy I used to like him but don't anymore. (It wasn't true that I didn't like him, I just wanted to test the waters. I wanted ti see his reaction.) That was thhe biggest mistake of my life because after I said I didn't like him anymore, I heard him say, "Good." My mom also once told me that the only guys that would want to hit on me would be pedophiles, (I'm really short so I look like I'm 14 even though I turned 18 in February.) the sad part is that I think she might be right. The only guys that have ever "liked" me are old guys and some of the...

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Should I Smoke Again?


Posted Wednesday May 4 2011, 8:19 pm

I'm really not sure whether I should try smoking pot again. I will absolutely, never, ever become a "pot head" but I'm not completely against doing it once in a while. I'm just a bit torn because my first experience with pot wasn't the best

My first experience with alcohol was fine. I was nervous at first being the sort of uptight, kind of anxious person I am, but it did nothing to me but made me giddy and kind of hyper. No crazy, unexpected feelings. Now, I probably drink, like once a week with friends. I went up to visit my older brother in college one weekend and he told me he wanted me to try smoking pot. I was very, very excited because I'd always wanted to feel what it's like to be high. My brother and his fri...

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Family Causing Chaos ?


Posted Tuesday May 3 2011, 11:20 pm

18/f

I was watching criminal minds one night & in the episode they said something about woman who have problems because they don't have a father figure present. . . Is there some kind of name for that? Such as a disease or something? Cause I thought they said a name for it but I can't remember. . .

Thanks in advance (:

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getting over stage fright?


Posted Monday May 2 2011, 9:48 pm

13/f
no idea if this the right catergory....
k so i sing and do musicals and solos and stuff like tat to get over stage fright (because i love singing!) i thought it was working i mean singing in front of people wasnt my absoulte worst nightmare any more.. audtions hadnt come up in awhile so i didnt sing infront of people as much.. then an audtion came up and i tried out and ALL my stage fright came flooding back! i blushed squeked forgot my words and even had to do 2 takes on my song! wat happened?? how can i get over this for good? cause i really love singing but fear holds me back..any tips advice people???

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screaming for help because the only thing left in my mind is death


Posted Monday May 2 2011, 5:43 am

i am a 28 year old male living in the uk who has suffered with mental health all his life, i have a wife that doesn't care and a 4 year old daughter. i hit my lowest of my lows ever about 2 weeks ago and everything anyone says makes me worse all i want to do is to be numb and feel nothing, im at the point that i carve chunks out of my skin with razors just to be able to feel anything but even that is fading now the only thing left in my mind is death, i've been done the line of professional help and its useless i dont know what to do anymore??????

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why do i dream of dying?


Posted Monday May 2 2011, 12:18 am

There are some nights where i dream of this girl trying to kill me. Sometimes when I wake up I feel as if she is there in my room. It gets hard to wake up some nights. What does this mean? Am I going crazy?

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what does it mean when someone keeps blacking out?


Posted Wednesday April 27 2011, 9:30 pm

what does it mean when someone keeps blacking out?
it happens all the time at the most randomest moment. im in a middle of saying something and i just freeze.0.o

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Why do I feel less confident in myself now that I'm prettier?


Posted Tuesday April 26 2011, 6:11 pm

when I was younger I was pretty ugly.. but I felt a lot better about myself than I do now. Like it's weird, I now think in my mind that I'm ugly and everything until I look in a mirror and I'm always surprised that I actually look good.. so why do I feel so bad about myself? I feel like I'm a lot harder on myself than I am with others. I feel awkward and self conscious.. I wish I could just be more confident but idk what to do.

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Is it normal? And why do I feel so gross?


Posted Monday April 25 2011, 9:50 pm

I'm sixteen and a female.

This is weird for me to post advice about this on here, but whatever.

I masturbate frequently. I mean, not crazy, like to the point it runs my life, but about two or three times a day. Sometimes it's because I'm turned on for a random reason, or just because it feels good. But sometimes I just feel so gross afterwards.

I also watched some porn last night and today. I feel so nasty afterwards and I don't want to feel that way because it is normal, right? So why do I feel so disgusted after I do those types of things?

Thanks a lot!

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why dont i like getting high?


Posted Sunday April 24 2011, 1:50 am

I smoked weed a lot this summer. I enjoyed it a LOT. I'd smoke two or three times a week and I just loved it. I had a bad high once or twice but it wasn't a big deal (I have generalized anxiety disorder so I figured this would happen sometimes).

My anxiety got really bad after that summer (I'm talking panic attacks and depersonalization, which I'd never had before), so I stopped smoking for the three months that my anxiety was very bad for. After it cleared up I tried smoking again, and it was nice, but it wasn't that great content feeling I'd had before. I mean I laughed and had fun, etc, but it wasn't that great.

I don't look forward to smoking and honestly I don't want to do it much, maybe on occasion at a ...

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i cant feel anything


Posted Saturday April 23 2011, 8:28 pm

For a long time i have felt out of place, heartless i am unable to feel any emotions, i dont mourn deaths , i can't love and i feel drained of any kind of emotion besides anger; is this normal?

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Disordered thoughts about Food.


Posted Wednesday April 20 2011, 8:55 pm

20/F
For the past two years I've had disordered thoughts about food. I don't vomit and I don't starve. I always eat at least 1200 calories, but sometimes more. I don't binge like I used to, but some days I may eat over 2000 calories and it's unnecessary considering that I'm not physically active. How do I stop eating when I'm not hungry?

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