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Should I tell her that I have a crush on her?
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 11:40 am
I 'm confused about my situation... I don't know what to think and I'll like to ask for someones opinion. I have a online crush...We've met on a support website, she was my listener on 7 cups of tea.com an anxiety and depression site. At the time I met her I was going through a break up and I needed someone to talk to. She was very helpful and a good adviser with my situation. Few weeks later we exchanged our Instagram and then later our facebook. One day I told my crush:
I am grateful that I've meet you. You understood me from the beginning and knew exactly what to say. I like that! Lol I love to talk...about anything! And if someone can keep up with my Gemini side it is a major plus! It is nice to share many things with so...
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Two guys like me and I like them; Very confused
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 11:28 am
17/Female
I'll start from the beginning of this.
A few months ago I started making new friends, and talking to two guys who are both friends with each other already. I started talking to Guy 1 through text, and we hit it off pretty well, talking about our interests and having fun making jokes, talking nonstop, although we are both kinda awkward individuals in person, and has a hard time with other subjects out of that, but after while we started to like each other, slowly telling him about some issues I have within myself, to which he just listens, to which I can appreciate. Now, going back, Guy 2 and me first started talking he was mostly helping me vent and give me advice, and listening to my problems, to which I told him so...
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Gay- How to confront him and ask him about what we are
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 12:05 am
I started college and these months I developed a friendship with a classmate who's really different than me.I'm gay, he supposedly straight, and hates gay people? but we're friends, I mean. The thing is we're getting closer and closer but I don't know what's going on between us, everything so contradictory. He's really insecure and doesn't like to show his feelings. I'm going crazy because I think maybe it's all in my head. But if it is in my head then why he never complains when I say that I love him and I send him hearts and kisses and stuff, even though he always telling their mates how he hates gay people, even though I'm out to everyone. I don't know what to believe. He tries to be with me every time we have on campus. We do everything...
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Confusing Thoughts on an Older Boy
Posted Saturday December 26 2015, 3:35 am
Hello! I am a 17 year old girl who has no idea what to think about this 19 year old boy I'm talking to. I started talking to him over the summer, and we only hung out twice. We texted a lot when I left the area because I was only staying there for a summer program for school. We texted a lot at first, but it started to die off. He invited me to go to a few parties he was having, but they were always late at night, and my parents didn't want me driving 45 minutes to a party that late. The one time I actually drove up to go to one (I'm surprised my parents even gave me permission) he wouldn't answer my calls or texts so I was alone in a different city at midnight with nowhere to go. I eventually just drove back home, and he texted me right wh...
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I have a bf but I have feelings for my guy friend too
Posted Friday December 25 2015, 11:13 pm
So I'm 19/f and I have an amazing boyfriend. He is literally so amazing to me and loves me and I love him too. But throughout our relationship, which has lasted for almost a year now, I think about this other guy I used to like. He's been my friend for a few years now and a little over a year ago I started to like him. He was negative sometimes, and he did somethings that I didnt like but I still felt that there was this light in him and I thought about him all the time and just liked him so much. But I always thought that it wouldnt work out cause I didnt want to ruin my friendship with him and I didnt feel he was mature enough to be in a relationship. Then I met my now boyfriend and hes just been so amazing and surpasses my friend tenfold...
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How to be feminim?
Posted Friday December 25 2015, 2:16 pm
I fall in love with a guy who loves feminim girls but I'm tomboy. How to be feminim and not tomboy?
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My crush is shy in front of me
Posted Thursday December 24 2015, 5:59 am
Hi,I leave in a traditional,conservative country.
I have just entered university,it's been 3 months.
At the beginning I met a girl who was really similar to me.
we spend almost all our free time chatting by telegram.
we have just started going out.BUT the problem is that she is completely different in the real world.
she is too shy(just in front of me)that we can not talk AT ALL!
she told me yesterday that she is scared of talking to me face to face
What I have to do GUYZ???????
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i feel bad
Posted Wednesday December 23 2015, 4:28 am
so currently I found out that my friend likes. I never thought of him as boyfriend, just a close friend. At the same time, I've been having a crush on this other guy, and we are friends too. And the thing is that after my crush broke up with his girlfriend, he told me that he used to like me, but didn't tell me because he don't think I'll like him back. Now the ideal thing is to be in a relationship with my crush, but he didn't make any moves to show he wants to date me but maybe it is because he just ended a relationship?? I want to be in a relationship with my crush (obviously) more than my friend who said he likes me. I've never been in a relationship before but I want to try it, but I don't want my first relationship to be with my frien...
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a crush since forever
Posted Tuesday December 22 2015, 8:55 pm
I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class(he is in no way shy), but he is so sweet and kind and honest that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite(extremely...) shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He is always hanging around with this one group of girls, but he would never date any of them, so I know that's not an iss...
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I think a friend likes me?
Posted Tuesday December 22 2015, 7:31 pm
So this girl I've been friends with since 6th grade, so only a year (I'm a 12 year old female) we are both in 7th grade. Not long, but we've become close. She has acted a little "I like you" around me. So in Gym we were playing basketball with some other friends. So my team which was me, her, M (I'm calling people by the first letter of their name) and M #2 who got hit in the head and was at the nurse with M #3 from the other team. Long story short, A asked if we wanted to switch teams. A #2 (the girl mentioned at the beggining) automatically said,"I want M (me) on my team!" And took my hand. Gently...I held it because I didn't want to hurt her feelings...I am attracted to girls, but there is this other girl I like. Even...
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my friend has I crush on a guy that I use to like
Posted Tuesday December 22 2015, 6:15 pm
My friend likes a guy that broke my heart and he likes her back. I'm not sure if I totally moved on. What do I tell her?
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im so screwed
Posted Tuesday December 22 2015, 6:40 am
okay i know the situation im in is pretty fucked up.
so im a 14 year old girl and i have this crush on a dude who is 10 years older than me. he tends to be really sweet, we met on a school trip and hes a trip leader. since its a trip, its just a temporary stay but we still kept in touch via fb. hes really sweet and will say he misses me. someone said that i shouldnt be liking him since we are so different nut i dont know. apparently i am developing a love for him which i know i shouldnt.
on the same hand, theres a close friend (boy) that confessed to me. i never thought of liking him in that way, but ive never been in a relationship and i want to try. but i dont know should i reject my friend because i dont want anything to b...
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I like this boy and I don't know if he likes me back
Posted Monday December 21 2015, 12:23 pm
So I really like this guy and I think he might like me too bc he lets me keep his hoodie and treats me different than other girls. So I told my friend to tell him I like him. She said to him "I need to tell you something. " he said if it was abt me than he didn't want to know. What does that mean?!
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how to convince her im worth her love
Posted Monday December 21 2015, 3:08 am
Okay after I left Georgia I lived with ivory for nine months during that time I got close to all of her family but felt like an out cast during the first few months ivory caught me talking to a chick not in any sort of way bad but she freaked during my stay I did a fake fundraiser because the family forced me to to get money for her parents habits I did what I did for them but about three months into living there (we dated three months long distance before) I had a habit of making small not even rational lies to look better like saying I wasn't asleep and such we had large arguments over this eventually she got pregnant and I did cater to her every whim and got a job but when she was three months pregnant her parents who had been doing this...
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omg what is wrong with me
Posted Sunday December 20 2015, 11:20 pm
okay so i am going to give some background story to my im having this feeling
girl, 14
so during early december, our school organised a trip to places, and in that trip, we had amazing trip leaders, and so we added them on facebook to keep in touch. there are 2 leaders that are pretty awesome lets call them T and F. personally, i like F more that T and my friend likes T more than F. so i usually chat with F and i kinda like him (as in like a brother) and lately its kinda awkward since he said im his sister and being sweet. i still want to talk to him but ive started a conversation like 2 days ago and he still havent reply my message.
i want to chat with him because i dont feel lonely, but him ig...
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Pregnant or not?
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 9:35 pm
This may be a long story and I'm sorry but there really isn't a way to cut this short. I had previously posted a question about a condom breaking during sex with my boyfriend. This incident was December 1st, the condom broke the second time we had sex and it broke before he finished so when it did break, the only possible semen that was in the condom was excess from the first time. I am on birth control but at the time of the condom breaking, I was only on my third official day of ever being on it so I was not protected from that when this happened. However, like I said he didn't finish and he pulled out as soon as he heard it and that was only when he was about half way in. He also went to get Plan B for me to take because I was a bit appr...
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Dreading seeing this friend
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 8:06 pm
In a few days I have to see an old friend who I've been crazy about for years but we never ended up being a thing. I've gone about a year now since seeing him last and have become a new person and don't want to fall back into the sense of admiration and respect and I used to have for him. He's overall a nice guy and a really good friend but also kind of an asshole and I'm SURE I still have feelings for him and they will all come rushing back once I see him and I'll be back to square one, trapped in this unrequited love I dealt with for years. I'm DREADING seeing him.
I just got out of another situation in which I experienced heartache with this other sleaze ball and I just feel really delicate and insecure and like this feel...
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Should I confess to him?
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 4:56 pm
Hi i'm 16 years old and i am from the Philippines but i live in Holland. I really like this boy and i want to ask if i should confess to him. I like him for about 5 years and i just can't my hide my feelings anymore it's like mmy heart is going to explode. I can't talk to him privately because he is always with his friends. Please gelp me!!! (Sorry fpr my bad English)
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Questioning boyfriend
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 10:22 am
25 female. My boyfriend and his ex share a pet together. Last night I was over at his house and the dog was over because his ex had to do something. She called him when she was going to come pick him up and he answered the phone said "hi" and then walked out of the room. This made me weary becuase why would he have to walk out of the room to talk with her? When he came back in I asked where he went and he said "Away from Cooper (their dogs) ears like joking around. He then said Cooper your mom is weird. I just left it at that.
I didn't want to start questioning why he walked out of the room to speak with her. But it makes me wonder now. Why couldn't he just speak with her when I was right there?
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i dont know about my bf.
Posted Thursday December 17 2015, 12:53 am
Ok so my bf is 20 and I'm 19.
He said that he was a Virgin and I was a virgin.
But he tells me about his ex's and he was engaged to her at the same time as me but she is all the way in new York and he broke up with her for me which I'm living with him now.
I am worried that he still has feelings for her.
I also know its wrong but I looked were he talked to his brother in law and it stated that she was going to be using condoms with him to be "safe".
I have also caught him looking at porn flaming that he was getting ideas for us.
I need help because he is getting married to me and going to have a baby boy with me.
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