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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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My friend is changing


Posted Wednesday August 8 2012, 4:23 pm

I hav this friend last year in 4th grade and she was one of my best friends we made a club with two other girls. The next year one of the girls from our club went to a new school and the other girl was in a different class. We were in the same class and there was a new girl that moved here from Michigan. She was homesick. She also rode the same bus as my friend and she became good friends. Then towards the middle of the year the new girl was comferterble and she was wild and hitting people and stuff like that. My friend started acting like her which was weird becuz she is quiet and clam. Then soon after my friend started hitting people like the new girl. I was so mad I didn't kno what to do. But that's not where it ends. Soon my friend got...

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I met him online...Should I avoid him?


Posted Wednesday August 8 2012, 10:44 am

So I met this guy in omegle, before you think that there are horny creepy dudes there, there's actually some nice trolls, so there he was, he kinda pulled one on me, but as we talked, it was getting really serious, like on religion and racial differences. It felt like we knew each other before. We became friends in Facebook, it was nice, it's like having a best friend talk to you, it wasn't awkward. But then there's this weird feeling of talking to someone you barely even know but you get along with each other so well, like stranger danger, so what should I do?

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Annoying friend...


Posted Tuesday August 7 2012, 1:06 pm

My best friend is copying me.
Ugh it's just everything I do, everything I say.
Whenever I start obsessing over something, she obsesses over it to.
She crushes on my crushes-fine-but then she says really stupid and irritating things like "We SHARE Johnny."
Like, WHAT!?
She knows NOTHING about Harry Potter, but she claims she is a witch-like me-and goes on about it. And the worst thing is this: My OTHER friend who HATES Harry Potter asks her "do you like Harry Potter"?" and I heard her reply is "no"
She does that ALL the time. Let's call her F and my other friend A. A hates the shops that I shop in, F claims to love them (after I told her that i shop in them) and th...

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I need Advice On This Thanks.


Posted Sunday August 5 2012, 8:43 am

I have been dealing with drama with a former friend. She is harassing me, stalking me, threatening me with calling the police on me for stuff I didn't do or say to her. She is falsely accused me of things of things I didn't do or say. I have not had any contact with he since May. I have left her alone since May as she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. I have respected her wishes and made no contact on any sites, etc. She changed her email address and all because someone hacked into her account. Not me of course. Ignoring her isn't the answer as she and her friends are spying on me on sites and harassing me. There is one site that won't do anything about the bullying and harassment. I;m tired of it. I have been saving what is going on a...

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my m8 takes drugs


Posted Sunday August 5 2012, 6:31 am

My m8 takes drugs and has on more than one occasion offered me them
She smokes weed
And I don't want to tell any of the teachers at my skwl but we go out of skwl like loads for her to have a fag
We are 14
I don't know what to do?

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throwing a suprise party


Posted Thursday August 2 2012, 9:49 pm

14/f

This year, our band at school has had problems with many people quitting. We were lucky to have one specific member of our section stay. He is really talented and he brings a lot of fun to our section. Earlier, he found out that his last main friend in band has quit so now he's really depressed. I really want to cheer him up because I hate seeing him so sad. Some friends of mine and I are planning a surprise party for him on Saturday. Does anybody have any ideas for that or anything else we could do cheer him up. I really appreciate all answers

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My friend has a valuable item of mine and won't give it back


Posted Tuesday July 31 2012, 11:29 pm

I was really good friends with this girl, and one day my mom almost found out that I smoke weed, so I asked my friend to babysit my bong and bowl for a week or so until my mom's suspicions cooled down. Since then our friendship has turned into mostly bickering and it's been about 4 weeks yet she still hasn't returned my things. I've tried numerous times to set up a day and time for me to swing by and pick them up, no questions asked and just be on my way. But she always has an excuse...she's out, she's busy, her parents are home. But I can tell they're all just excuses. The past few days she has just completely ignored me.

What I want to know is if it would be considered harassment for me to knock on her door and ask for my t...

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Crush: How can I know if he likes me?


Posted Tuesday July 31 2012, 2:17 pm

I really like this guy but I dont know if he does. How can I know if he likes me?

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I hate my friend's mom. She's ruining our friendship.


Posted Monday July 30 2012, 6:04 pm

I'm starting to really hate, and despise my best friend's mother. She's too strict, and cultured. They're from Pakistan/Afghanistan. I've known her for like 5-6 years.

Anyways, I live in an apartment building. She lives 2 floors down. Her mom won't let her come over to my house because it's my step dad's day off from work.

Honestly, that is so insulting because my step dad is not a fucking rapist or a sex offender. I told my friend that him and my mom are out shopping anyways, and her mom is like "It doesn't matter, because he's going to come home anyways."

That is so insulting. Not just to my stepdad, but to ME and to my MOTHER. What kind of people does she think we are?

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My bestfriend gets mad at me for stupid things


Posted Monday July 30 2012, 8:30 am

Me and my bestfriend have been fighting more recently and I feel that the friendship isn't even worth keeping. For example I went to the pool with her and took a wine cooler with me, and there was only one more left and I was planning on drinking it the next day, I told her she couldn't have it and she didn't make a big deal out of it at all, but when we had both parted ways after we left the pool she goes and tells her mother that I'm a rude and stingy person because I don't ask her if she wants a drink at the pool, as you can understand I had bought them for myself. Also she always makes me out to be a bad friend when we argue, like she is ungodly and has never done anything that I would consider 'rude' myself, and I have done literally ...

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I told my friends secrect to one person..and how can I make them forgive me


Posted Saturday July 28 2012, 4:19 am

We were playing Bowl of Questions and it got really deep and secrect and she trusted me with all these secrects..and later on I spilled one secrect to my brother..he told a few people..and now everyone knows..I tried apologizing she just said "that doesn't change anything" what should i do?

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How is our friendship?


Posted Thursday July 26 2012, 1:29 am

Ok so I'm 14 and I have a "best friend" that's 14 also named jake ok well I'm trying to find out if he is a true best friend. So we have a pretty fun friendship, we hang out ALOT. About every 3 days we have fun play video games just do fun normal things but the thing that I think is that when you have a best friend you guys talk about everything we don't really talk about everything at least we don't talk about personal things like who we like and stuff like that and tonight I brought up the subject about like If he ever needed to talk to me about anything and he was like "ok" or something I mean he doesn't really have any CLOSE friends I can't explain it but we has lots if friends JUST FRIENDS and he hangs out with me t...

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I want to be her friend !


Posted Wednesday July 25 2012, 6:01 pm

So there's this girl who is one of my friend's close friend, she's really nice and does ballet en pointe. Only thing is I never really held a conversation with her. I really want to be her friend just cause she's seems genuine.
And honestly she's also really cute and bi curious like I am.
Id like to get to know her
Any ideas??
I only talk to her online on tumblr really.
We're both 17

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Friends girlfriend + found her in a porn = very confused me


Posted Tuesday July 24 2012, 3:09 am

So i was surfing on the interwebs.(Just doing my thing.) And i came across an add of a girl. Well looking at the short (maybe two-three seconds of video) I swear it is on of my friends girlfriendand it if for a webcamming site. (Now i knew she used to get on those sites and do things but i didn't think she did anymore) My question is, is there a way that i can find out for sure that is it her and after doing so should i tell my friend? I really don't know what to do here... And thanks for ll the advice(:

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Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 5:49 pm

lets call my friend D.
here's our conversation-ps: im keeping the fact that she had sex and shes 12 a secret. im 13)
D: dont tell anyone
me: i know i know.
D: even R -her friend- doesnt know.
me: ok. i dont get it. im secretly friends with both of you. im friends with you but she cant know. and im friends with her but you cant know. why cant we all be friends?
d: because we dont like you.

this made me cry because it hurt me because they're my only friends and schools starting soon.:( i have a disorder where the slightest insult wouldmake me cry. im not sure what its called, but this expecially hurt me. what should i say to her? I was going to say-
if you dont like me then you s...

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Do we have a good friendship?


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 8:03 pm

Alright well I'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both guys, I'm just wondering if we have a good friendship and if I should hold onto it. We have had some trouble in the past because I'm bi and I used to like him and I told him about 4 months ago but then I decided to lie and say I didn't like him so we could stay friends.. Anyways we are really good friends in my opinion we can hang out with each other for 5 days and not get sick of each other we hang out all the time, we don't really talk about EVERYTHING tho.. We talk about everything except my being bi or "used" to like him or anything sexual, but I mean we have lots of inside jokes and when we hang out we always laugh and stuff. The other day I asked him in person how go...

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Should I tell her I am a lesbian?


Posted Friday July 20 2012, 1:41 pm

I'm a lesbian and 15 and I'm hanging out with my friend tomorrow. Should I come out to her and tell her because I have the urge to tell my friends and my parents already know and they're ok with me but I've never told any of my friends yet and I have this huge urge to. My parentes are just nervous for me to tell People blecaute of how homophobic People are. Should i come out?

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Friends and Mean Girls


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 6:46 pm

Hi... there are 2 mean girls named Olivia and Rachel in my school. And i have a group of 3 friends, (me, Alyssa, Ally, and Hayley). My mom said that she will request something: Either if Olivia and Rachel NOT be in my class and having the chance that no friends of mine will be in my class, or having one of my best friends (preferably Alyssa) to be in my class with the chance of Olivia and Rachel in my class. I dont know which to ask for. Please help!!!

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my boyfriend and my bestfriend


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 9:02 am

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. We are happy together and it has been a great relationship. There is only one problem. My bestfriend that I have been bestfriends with for years dosen't act very supportive of our relationship. She likes my boyfriend and we have all hung out together before but whenever I have exciting news she just says "oh cool" without any real response. It makes me upset because we are also friends with this other girl lauren. Lauren and her boyfriend have been dating for about a year now and my bestfriend always talks about how cute they are, saying how he is the best boyfriend ever, liking their pictures on facebook together, when lauren and her boyfriend fight all the time. Call ...

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Quotes about loosing a friend who likes you but you do not like him back.


Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 1:01 am

Hello,
I'm Libby and I need some help.
So i have a friend who likes me ,but i do not like him more then a friend. He tells me he is tired of trying to get with me when he recently finds out that i have a boyfriend. He also got mad at the fact that I like him a lot more then my friend, and doesnt want anything to do with me. My question is : Can anyone give me some quotes about loosing a best friend?

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