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We slow danced now what!?
Posted Monday January 4 2016, 12:24 am
I recently met this guy at university... We went out for coffee and for walks almost every day 9 times in two weeks. Then he asked me to slow dance with him at the school dance. This caused conflict as there is another one of my friends who apparently liked him. Anyways, the guy and I went out and he said that he just wants to take it slow. He recently came out of his one and only relationship (a short 6 month relationship) and I want to respect his space. He never was intimate with her or kissed her so I am pretty hopeful. I am unsure of what to do next... I keep remembering the dance and all of our conversations. I have never dated anyone before and would love some pointers. He seems like a great guy! He had his head on straight and i...
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I am unsure what is actually going on with me.
Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 5:01 pm
I have crushed on this guy since 7th grade. He's absolutely perfect. We started talking last summer, but then I went back to my ex and told the guy I was talking to that my ex came first because I had strong feelings for him, even though my ex was not the better pick. So i left the other guy hanging. Me and my ex broke up and then I started talking to the other guy again. I was head over heels for him, even when I was with my ex. After we talked for a while and got to know each other, we started dating. We have been dating for almost 3 months. He's so amazing. He's the perfect guy. But i'm not sure I want to be with him anymore. I have doubted this since a couple days after we started dating. When he's away, I always have thoughts about bre...
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He dont want to have sex...
Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 3:24 am
He don't ever want to have sex anymore unless we are drunk. He says he is always tired.
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It seems like he cant stand anything i do.
Posted Sunday January 3 2016, 1:39 am
It was great at first but now any little thing i do he cant stand it or it annoys him. He acts distant till it is time to lay down and even after that he is right back to the distant act. I caught him in a lie the other day by telling me he didnt go to his friends house when he did.He said he didnt want to tell me cause i would be mad. Im so confused because this is never what i expected from him.
Im 21 felmale and he is 27 male
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developing feelings and not sure if they are mutual
Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 7:35 pm
21/f
So about a week ago I stepped out of my comfort zone and went on a blind date with someone I met online. I have never done this before and I was so worried that he would look nothing like his pictures or be really weird. He picked me up and we went for drinks and it was so easy to talk to him and everything felt so natural. He was very open and said he has met up with 2 other girls about a month ago on a blind date and it was very awkward and nothing ever happened. One red flag i discovered was that he got out of a 2 year engagement about 4 months ago. When he dropped me off he kissed me goodbye and texted me right away saying he had a great time. He lives about 5 hours away but was in my city because all of his family lives her...
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new year new me right....?!
Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 11:41 am
so i have this recent crush which i know we will never be together since we are like 10 years apart and living in different cities... ive often dream of him but i try not to think of him during the day although 90% of the time everything that i do will make me relate to him...
so since its 2016 new year, are there any ways to forget this crush?
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My Bf ignores me
Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 5:51 am
Hi!I am a girl of 20years and I've been trying to be in a serious relationship but I keep on failing. I am in a relationship for 1 month with a guy who is 24years.I thought he is serious but I was just fooling my self.I love him so much and I told my family about him. my bf don't talk to me and I did nothing wrong .I tried to talk to him but he don't care.I tried to raise this issue to him but he keeps on ignoring him.he dont talk,call,texts or reply nor answer my calls.I don't know what I did to deserve this and I don't know what to do.please help me and give me advice
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ex bf on new years
Posted Friday January 1 2016, 2:44 am
My ex bf and i are seeing each other for almost two years on a monthly basis and yes we do have sex we use to speak almst everyday but then thmmgs just suddenly change so we dnt speak so much anymore anywayz i saw him 3 weeks ago i havent heard from him since sunday so i textd hm tuesday and told him about a movie he musnt forget to download for me coz my pc is broken he read it but ddnt reply i texd him new year eve again he ddnt read or reply i thnk he just deleted it so when it came to new year i decided to phone him bt then asked if he got my text and he said yes he ignored it on purpose and then i said ok happy new year..he ddnt even wish me and stuff..what does that mean? Am i right when i say he wants nothing to do with anymore i dnt...
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I need advice
Posted Friday January 1 2016, 1:55 am
My ex bf and i are seeing each other for almst two years now i saw him 3 weeks ago havent heard from him since sunday so i texted him tuesday and told him about a movie that the msnt forget to get he read it but ddnt reply i then texted hm before new years to he ddnt read it or reply i thnk he deleted it..when it striked new yearz i phone him and then asked if he got my text and he told me yes he ignored it on purpose and then i said ok and wished him happy new year he didnt even wish me.. what does it mean,am i right when i say he wants nothing to do with me anymore he probably moved on,I found myself crying so much on new year it really sucked :'(
I dont knw what to do or think,was hm tlng me that hs way of saying leave me alone it...
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i still love my ex-boyfriends,but he like someone else...what should i do?
Posted Thursday December 31 2015, 8:48 am
i'm not easy to fall in love but when i do i can't move on...i love my ex but he already love someone else...well he's a player he also smoking even tough he's in 7grade he say it's was natural for manado people but when we in realation ship i even didn't know he's smoking well i still love him tough...what should i do???????i love him so much
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Getting felt up & doing the motion of sex w/ clothes on a sin?
Posted Thursday December 31 2015, 8:23 am
I've been dating this guy for almost ) months now, we met at church and we both said that we would wait and have sex for marriage. He is my first real boyfriend and we are both seniors in high school. As we started dating we began to make out a lot, soon it turned into him putting his penis in my vagina and vice versa but we both still had our clothes on. One day he began to put his hands toward my bra while we were making out, it has now gotten to the point where my bra is off and he kisses my boobs. He make sures and asks me if it's okay if he does it. I tell him that it's weird cause no other person has touched me there expect a doctor, parents or me. He says it's fine cause I haven't gotten used to it yet and we aren't going to have sex...
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My relationship with my boyfriend is becoming a thing of great distress
Posted Thursday December 31 2015, 5:40 am
So, my boyfriend and I got together freshman year. We're now seniors. He's broken up with me three total times and every time comes back saying he regrets it and still loves me. This most recent time he told me we just cant let his family know we're together. Anyway, I've started feeling insecure about the fact we're not having sex/talking about having sex when nobody is a virgin it seems. I just feel like it would be a terrible idea to have sex with how unstable our relationship is? Should I just get over my fear and do it or am I right that I should hold off?
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What should i do in my situation?
Posted Wednesday December 30 2015, 11:44 pm
hello,y name is joel and im from the philippines and i just want to hear another person's advice about our relationship. my situation is that my girlfriend broke up with me but she said that she'll give me another a chance. but not as a bf anymore, she said that we need to start over and i need to court her again. after a few weeks, were just getting along just fine but one day our problems just kept on coming and we're fighting day by day so she said that she wants some space between us. so i gave her the time and space that she wanted.
then one day, i discovered that she is super sweet to his guy bestfriend based on what my 2 trusted friends told me when they saw their conversation at the phone. and they are even saying i ...
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I don't understand his behaviour does he like me or what?
Posted Tuesday December 29 2015, 5:18 pm
Hi, known him for few months and we work together. Nice person. We joke and flirt now and then but he's like that to everyone. He sometimes sings me to when he sees me and the other day same thing happened, he sang to me getting closer and I told my colleague, he loves me jokingly and he immediately said, I do and I just looked at him, he was just looking at right at me then we just smiled. Mens opinion, please.
Cheers
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I think she is interested...
Posted Tuesday December 29 2015, 2:53 pm
Thank you for replying to my pervious question "should I tell her that I have a crush on her?" I completely understand what you were saying before. This is why I am asking for help with this...I really like this girl and I don't want to end up hurting each other if this didn't work out if she and I decided to become an LDR. I like our friendship but also I like to give it a try.
I told her a few days ago that I have a crush on her...
I sent her message on Facebook
I feel like I can tell you anything, you're like my best friend! I want to tell you that I have a crush on you.
She replied: Well I'm glad you've been honest. Who knows what happens in the future?!
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Old Crush...
Posted Tuesday December 29 2015, 1:48 pm
Hello,
F/22
Little bit of a long story here. Me this guy through my dad, they happened to work together. I was 17 turning 18.. He was 26. Lets call him Pete. Well Pete also liked me, he would text me all the time and make sure I was doing well in school, hanging out once in a while.. My dad is super protective and of course my dad didn't know anything but he would always mess with my dad saying he would one day be his son-in-law. Well we lost contact, he got a gf got engaged and then things didn't work out and they parted ways. Years after that I saw him again and we were just talking and we kissed and odd enough that spark was still there. Every time I was around him it was like I was legit on cloud 9... And it would...
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a crush since forever
Posted Monday December 28 2015, 12:04 pm
I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this one guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class(he is in no way shy), but he is so sweet and kind and honest that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite(extremely...) shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He is always hanging around with this one group of girls, but he would never date any of them, so I know that's not an...
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Does he like me?
Posted Monday December 28 2015, 1:22 am
Ok me and my friends were talking about this cute guy when all of sudden a couple of boys come up to me and they say the boy over there thinks I'm cute and he likes me. So I walk over I didn't say anything because I was scared he didn't say anything either but he said I don't like her and he tried to run away but his friends wouldn't let him they keep saying that he liked me one of them said he had a girlfriend but I don't know. Do you think he likes me or nah? Or do you think they were messing with me?
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What should I do?
Posted Monday December 28 2015, 12:03 am
I met this guy at few months ago and the next morning he texted me, saying that he wanted to get dinner. So the next friday I invited him to my house which was empty because the rest of my family was out of town. After that we kept talking and hung out at my house one night and we did homework. However, he began being very unresponsive in texts so I assumed he was't interested in me, but he'll occasionally message me saying he wants to hang out soon, but never really making any plans. Like he'll text me late at night saying he's free then and I don't know what to do because I do kind of like him but I don't want to be lead off if he isn't actually interested. From your point of view does it seem like he actually likes me or is he just messi...
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So there's this boy.... Updated
Posted Sunday December 27 2015, 12:55 pm
Since I first wrote the 'So there's this boy...' advice pieces, the liking for the boy has only gotten stronger. I like him soooooo much. Every time I look a him it is like my heart is breaking. How do I know if he likes me. He has given me some reasons as to think this, but how can I be sure? We text fairly often, whenever we are both online, and he is constantly looking at me at school. I am quite close with his best friend, and he seems to think that he likes me or will like me if he knows that I like him. Is there a chance with him? If so, how do I know?
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