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incest dreams all these years later
Posted Friday June 6 2014, 4:35 am
I was a very large teen,not fat just extremely large chested.No one ever believed my age I always had to pay full price for the movies. We were very poor my father was very abusive and drank.
mom worked very hard and I had 2 younger brothers that I looked out for.I didn't want to finish high school because everyone would tease me about my chest so I took care of the house and my brothers
My father would come home from work 3:30 mom would get in at nine. My brothers would stay with family after school and come in by 7pm. I'll try to make this short my father raped me from 13-18 when he died. I never told and I didn't have any problems.
I started working I met my husband and had a wonderful life. M...
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Help me....please
Posted Sunday June 1 2014, 10:03 pm
I've been with this man, since March 2013. We're getting married next year, he proposed to me and I'm so excited...but, there are things that I never told him...about myself. I was raped in 2006 by a guy I knew...somewhat. I mean I've known him for a long time, I hadn't talked to him though...I don't know, if I can bring this up to him... He gets...really protective and that's really good in a man. But he STILL calls, and texts...he won't leave me alone. I tell him not to talk to me, to leave me alone. He just won't stop. But my fiancé knows nothing about this. I'm scared to let him know. My fiancé works at night...and I'm here alone with our two kids. I keep the door double locked ALWAYS. But he's come over and waited outside for me to c...
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My Girlfriend is abused
Posted Sunday May 18 2014, 1:47 am
I started dating a girl in December, I'm not going to say all the normal love stuff, because, this was a normal relationship, we believed we were perfect for eachother, we loved eachother, ect. Her parents liked me, I went to church and all with them, they were Catholic I'm Baptist.
Well, she would always say how she's always hungry, she doesn't eat as much (later finding out they sometimes don't give her food for like a day or two), her parents call her names like slut, whore, bitch, just cause their mad or so, or they'd slap her, like, they slap her all the time when they don't get their way basically. Sometimes they whip them (her and her sister) with a belt I believe, but it never leaves bruises so she thinks it's "n...
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how do i make my boyfriend see how much he hurts me?
Posted Friday May 9 2014, 9:07 pm
My question is that i have changed my entire life to be the girl he wants. I have only one friend i can talkto and see on his terms and no family at all.I dont want to leave him necause i love him with all my heart but the name calling and hitting i thought was getting easier but now i think i am losing my 2 week unborn child. He swears i cheated on him anyway. Do you think it is going to get easier or should i just stay quiet and change sime more? I know its my fault. Thank you for listening.
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Bad dad: My Dad is a jerk.
Posted Thursday May 1 2014, 8:21 pm
My dad is a jerk. My mom had to stay with him while going through medical school because she had us kids. She couldn't leave him bc she had no money and no place to go. I just know that during fights he gets violent and he's rude and doesn't help. Recently there was a brush fire. I was transferred to another middle school, my sister to a different elementary, and other sister (high school) was let go. My dad just left home to go to work when this happened . My mum called and told him to pick us up because my mom had to get things from the house and evacuate. InsteAd he tells her she can do it and continues to work. Bitch. My mom instead calls my friends mom and asks her to pick me up. We meet up at a buffet. In see my group of friends and ...
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I am being intimidated and i dont know what to do.
Posted Tuesday April 22 2014, 5:14 pm
I am being intimidated and i dont know what to do.
I cant give you the specifics because it seems so unbelievable.
and everyone I know has turned a blind eye to this issue so I don't know how to complain about it.
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Love actually?
Posted Thursday April 17 2014, 8:47 pm
I had been staying with wife for almost a year. Then suddenly she leaves house and has been really abusive verbally ever since. She has filed a divorce case against me. But, I cannot stop liking her. I tried to convey my liking to her in many ways, but nothing seems to work. Can you please advice what to do next/ how to get over it?
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abuse
Posted Wednesday March 5 2014, 6:41 pm
why douse my dad abuse me ? can someone please tell me why ?
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IS this something to be concerned about? should i report this as abuse
Posted Tuesday March 4 2014, 11:37 am
i work for a adult day care and i started to notice a serious pattern with the owner. She seems to complain all the time! at the clients or at her staff. she seems very impatient with the people that are there and they seem afraid of her. Meaning during meal times if i am feeding one of the clients and its taking a while she want me to rush them to eat. I also saw her having a full on cursing argument with one of the clients with dimentia. there is another client with advanced dimentia that she almost pulls up the hall and they have a hard time balancing themselves. What do i do? Im not sure is she is just finging a reason to pick with me or the clients.
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Do I call Adult protective services?
Posted Saturday March 1 2014, 4:27 pm
So I have a friend that has been through a lot. Lost his mother, promptly gained inheritance and lost it just as quickly, and to top it all off he has a girlfriend who is emotionally abusive and is also bed ridden. He has so many responsibilities piling up he has been neglecting his duties with the house. I mean it seems like he is losing more grasp on reality and is not being able to provide the appropriate care for himself let alone his GF. I want to have a talk with him and convince him that he might not be able to care for her properly and with that might end up losing her ( death or otherwise) and I am afraid he won't listen to what I am telling him. What should I do?
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Survivor quotes
Posted Friday February 28 2014, 2:38 pm
Sorry to ask here but I have been through a lot recently and am having a hard time keeping going. :( Do you have any quotes that have inspired you to keep on going when it seems like there really isn't much of a point to trying anymore?
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How do i kill myself?
Posted Saturday February 15 2014, 4:28 pm
I am a selfish jerk and a cheat. i have no skill sets to get a job. everybody around me is very judegemental so i cant tell truth about what is going on in my life. i just want to end it. please suggest me ways to kill myself. Dont try to talk me out of it.
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My mom says she doesn't want to be a mother anymore.
Posted Monday December 23 2013, 8:25 pm
I was wondering what I could possibly do to make my mom like me again. It seems like after the "child" stage, she stops liking her children. My mother isn't horrible. I don't think of her as the devil or anything but she is very very mean sometimes. Ever since I was about 12 she started talking about me. Not like a mother should talk about a daughter either. She used to make fun of my weight (I had thyroid problems we found out..) She would say that I would turn out like my aunt (she's overweight but not like she needs to be in a hospital sort of way) or that I would be 500 pounds by the time i'm 16. I'm currently 17 right now and my weight still isn't the best but I do try. She's stopped saying all that kind of stuff now. Occasio...
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Stalking Laws?
Posted Monday November 11 2013, 9:06 pm
I'm 19 years old, and i live in Quebec
and I what to now what you can do if a Boy is touching and starring at my boobs.
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how to not get asked if youre married
Posted Sunday November 10 2013, 9:51 pm
it makes me mad to think of those things i mean ive been asked several times if i was married or dating which im neither and im not exactly ready for marraige and i do not know if im going to date or not but i dont like those kind of questions thatb idiotic people have asked im just not obsessed with dating or marraige so how can you make people stop asking you those questions
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I dream about killing my mom.
Posted Sunday November 10 2013, 11:19 am
My parents are not divorced but they don;t like living together. My dad lived in Egypt for 4 years and then came back to live with us. 5 years ago, my mom started beating me. she started screaming and throwing her high heels at me.. and i eventually got use to the pain. I hate my mom... and so a month ago i started having these episodes while i was sleeping of me standing in my mothers room holding a knife in my hand wearing a hoodie, i would go across to her side of the bed and stab her till i was happy. blood would be all over my hands and splattered all over my face, and i would laugh and cry and scream. The dream usually ends with my sister coming and shaking me to wake the fuck up. my mom has put me in therapy for problems in the past...
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Bf threatened to hit me but later apologised
Posted Thursday October 24 2013, 5:17 pm
I'm a 22yr old female from India . I've been in a relationship since the past 3 yrs and never has my bf abused me despite being short tempered. 2 days back we had an argument in his car, and he pushed me to the point where I couldn't stand sitting there any longer. I asked his driver to stop the car but my bf wouldn't let me out.I tried opening the door slightly, only so it would force his driver to stop. It was then that my bf threatened to slap me if I did it again saying I could cause an accident . I was too humiliated and angry to think rationally and he threatening me only made me do it again wanting to get out immediately . He then raised his hand as if he was going to strike. I was too shocked and hurt to react any more. He late...
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I might of been abused but I don't know
Posted Monday October 14 2013, 9:14 am
Well, idk where to start but for a long time I've had this kind of memory of my dad taking me to the toilet when I was 2/3 and was only just really getting used to going by myself and i just remember him sitting me down on it and telling me to keep my legs open, i can't remember if I actually needed to use the toilet but I remember it was uncomfortable sitting like that...
I'm 21 now and still remember this but I don't know if I've made it up and if I haven't I don't really know if it counts as any kind of violation. I've remembered this image for a long time though, and it's only like 3 seconds long but it always jumps into my head at random times :s
So I don't know what to think about it to be honest.
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Really Struggling--- ASAP
Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 7:46 pm
Ok so here is the situation I have been wit my bf for 3 yrs now. We have a beautiful baby boy and he is always so happy. My bf is an alcoholic and he has slowed way way down but every once in awhile wen something is going bad he relapses n he is mean. In the past it was terrible miserable I can't even find the right words for it. it was a full blown abusive relationship. We broke up he got better and I accepted him to be in our life. for the note he is an AWESOME daddy. So he cheated a lot in the past with about 16 different girls and I still have my fears that he will do it again. I do push and question a lot and he swears he hasn't done it and I haven't heard anything which I usually do because people like to start drama. But it still hur...
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Need to know why women can say a man did something and he go to jail for it
Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 2:02 am
I have just been abandoned by a woman of which I spent 17 years with. She was diagnosed as having bi-polar disease. I did not have much experience with women prior to meeting this woman. I did not know what really to expect from a relationship with a woman, so much of her behavior I assumed was just how women were, moody etc... but now in hind sight I have found that she was lying, cheating and mentally abusive to me and made me believe that I was the one that was making her be the way she was, called me a trigger. Well I have since read up on bi-polar and the symptoms etc. and have found that they can have manic episodes for months, even up to a year or more. Well, during one of her episodes she decided to set me up for an argument, gets h...
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