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Crush on my brother´s best friend
Posted Thursday October 14 2021, 6:30 am
Hi,
I´m 22 und im in the 1st year of my master degree.
Over the past year I had several crushes,some of them lasted longer than the other. In high school i had crush on my brother´s best friend (boy). I was in the same class with my brother as we are twins, my crush was in the same class as well. I hated that i was in the same class as my brother because guys in class treated me differently. This crush of mine teased me a lot but in a different way. My classmate told me its because he liked me. I never told him anything because he was my twin brother´s best friend.
After high school, we hung out a couple of times in a group of friends. One time it was without my brother. We were in a car with other ...
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Ex boyfriend broke up with me for dropping out of nursing school
Posted Monday October 11 2021, 1:44 am
About 2 years ago, my boyfriend at the time of four years broke up with me because I dropped out of nursing school and saw me as 'unstable'. He basically did me wrong and our breakup never had that closure. All of my friends and family knew what he did to me and they all think he's an asshole. Fast forward present day we both moved on and have new relationships. But a couple days ago, my cousin texted me and said that she saw him at a bar with him and his current gf. Apparently he was drunk and thought he saw me. And he also approached my cousin and kept grabbing her face and pushing her, asking if she hated him (I'm assuming because he knows that everyone close to me know what he did to me). Ever since we've broken up I've always wanted hi...
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I'm in love with two people
Posted Tuesday October 5 2021, 6:01 pm
I have a girlfriend that I love a lot, but I've also fallen for another person. I love both of them and I don't know what to do. This new person is stuck in my head but I know they don't like me the same way.
What do I do?
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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
Posted Monday October 4 2021, 11:25 am
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a...
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Ace dating an allo
Posted Sunday October 3 2021, 3:49 pm
So, I'm asexual but my boyfriend is not. I've already told him about it, and we're both fine with it, but we haven't actually talked about the sex part of our relationship yet. I'm not interested in having sex at all, but I'm wondering what I can do instead in case if he still needs SOMETHING?
And also, how should I bring it up to him to talk about?
-Cas, 26
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OCD About Searching Somebody Up. How Do I Stop?
Posted Thursday September 30 2021, 6:20 pm
How do I stop searching up someone’s username without blocking them?
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Cheated On Twice
Posted Wednesday September 22 2021, 11:32 am
Hi everyone. I'm 24/f and my bf is 28. So a very hurtful thing happened to me. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and then I found out that he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and got her pregnant. And the worst part is that he lied about it for so long. I didn't find out until the child was already 1 year old! So I broke up with him, it was very devastating because I loved him and thought we were going to get married. He was my first serious bf. He said it was just a mistake and that he was really drunk that night, and that he still loves me. Anyway, I didn't talk to him for about two years even though he kept trying to reach out to me. After a while I decided to talk to him again, and he really seemed like he changed. He was very lov...
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Cheated on partner
Posted Tuesday September 21 2021, 10:59 am
I have a bf and I cheated on him with his best friend. He loves me and I too love him but this thing is stuck in his head and he needs my help how can I help him forget this thing. The thinks that if he leave me ever think will be okay but we cannot be without each other what shall I do I'm really sorry for the mistake
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I need advice to talk to my ex girlfriend whom I left in my hard time and m
Posted Monday September 13 2021, 2:20 pm
I want to propose my ex girlfriend again becuase I breakup with her when I was not at good mental state
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How Should I react when a think a girl has a crush on my BF?
Posted Wednesday September 8 2021, 2:52 pm
I am 27 my BF 27.
I am in a long distance relationship for five years. We see each other 2/3 times a year. My boyfriend is very caring and nice. And off course I trust him a lot.
A few months back a saw a girl commenting on few of his post. and by her comment it seems like they chat sometimes. She always reacts with love react to his post. and sometimes comments praising his singing.
Now my BF has other female friends, they are his classmates and colleagues. And I am not insecure about them at all. But this girl is not his classmate or colleague.
Now I am not saying that he is having something with her. Like I said earlier I trust him completely. But I don't know why I have this weird feeling that the girl has a...
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Why do I find this a red flag?
Posted Saturday September 4 2021, 7:20 am
28/f 32/m
I was reflecting over my last relationship and I can’t help but keep thinking that this is a red flag—
When I first met my ex, he told me that he was moving to Texas because he was building a house. Eventually it had been revealed that his MOM was building a house in Texas and he was moving into the house (but his parents are planning on staying in California).
Later on, I found out that the condo he was living (and later sold) in California was also owned by his parents. Which by the way, this was a condo that him and his ex-fiancé lived in. When it was sold, he moved back in with his parents but he lived in a separate area in the house so he could have his own privacy.
I ...
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my boyfriend and I are insecure and its destroying our relationship
Posted Monday August 30 2021, 2:09 am
No long intro, Im 22 (female) and he is 18.
We both met/got to know each other in february. I met him online and we have pretty much the same friend group. We were always kinda attracted to each other and on 29th of june he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes.
We couldnt meet up in august, which made me overthink a lot. I knew he had A LOT of work. He would basically work all day because he got 3 jobs at the same time. The only time he had was on sundays but he needs some time for himself as well, so I respected that. We still played games together, or watches tv shows.
Yesterday we had this conversation about how he is scared that I will lose interest and leave him. Im in love with him and would in alm...
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Flirting or just friendliness?
Posted Wednesday August 25 2021, 9:23 pm
I can't tell if this guy I like is flirting, or being friendly, or if he was just tired at the time. The reason why I think he's flirting is because he said things like "My are you a lovely yet deadly little rose," and "Awh that's adorable" and gave me those suggestive emoji-things.
He has flirted with me before, and it has looked like this every time. Yet he has also told me that he's weird and "annoying" when he's tired. This seems to be the actions he takes when exhausted. (And it was early for him at the time.) Is he just like this though?
I'm stuck, because I automatically reciprocate, and I don't know if I should. I have no idea what to do in this situation, especially when ...
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Should I show my viganal part to my boyfriend in the phone
Posted Sunday August 22 2021, 9:44 pm
I am 19 years old and I am a female my partner Is also 19 years and we loved each other. I and my boyfriend had been dating for a while now. Until one day we did sex . Then I moved away from him to go further my studies . One day he video call me to show him my viganal part in the phone . The problem with me I have never seen such things before nor showing it but once I told him that he was like are you shy of me ? Why are you shy if I had slept with you already?? What should I do?? Should I show it to him? And the time when am going to be with him is very far and he might think am ignoring him. I need advice please.
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is this how kissing is supposed to be?
Posted Saturday July 24 2021, 12:18 am
For context, I am a sixteen year old girl in high school. I’ve kissed a boy before, but never more than a peck. Just recently, my boyfriend and I made out for the first time. Now I know people will say that it tends to be awkward and all, but it was more than that. I feel like there was no chemistry there and there was no pleasure. It was a weird sensation because I had built up this idea in my head of a perfect romantic kiss and this was nothing like I had pictured. I feel bad saying it, but I was disappointed. It’s hard to describe because there was no buildup and no feeling attached to it.
My questions are as follows: is it normal to not feel anything at all when kissing someone? does the person you’re with truly ef...
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How do I even respond?
Posted Friday July 23 2021, 11:48 am
28/f
32/m
Has anyone ever expected you to “be fine” after your loss?
I feel like my boyfriend expects me to be that way. For example, I lost my job because of Covid, my dad passed away, then I moved out and was nomading for a bit, lived with my toxic mom sleeping on an air mattress for another month, found out that my dog is 75% blind and is dying of old age, and moved into a new place again just three weeks ago. All of this happened within a six month period.
My boyfriend was there for me for all of these things. As a matter of fact he came into my life three months before I lost my job. So he came into my life at a very strange time. And now that I’m just now starting to get back ...
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Relationship advice
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 7:34 pm
Well, my boyfriend has been acting differently, he won't say "I love you" back to me like he normally does. We argue from time to time and now I just feel sad and drained. I feel like he's cheating on me now at this point. He says he wouldn't do that, but I feel like he is.
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How did his emotions change so fast???
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 12:35 am
So I have this friend, who I set up with my other friend. He and I aren't super close, but recently we've gotten closer because he's dating my close friend now. There's not really a problem, but I'm just super confused about how he's been acting. He and my other friend have been dating for about 4-5 weeks now? And he's already said I love you, and asked her to take that step too (he was very gentlemanly about it, didn't pressure her, that's not the problem). The problem is that just a week before she confessed to him, he told me that he was crushing on another girl from his church, and he seemed pretty smitten too, but he wasn't going to do anything about it and he claimed that he was fine just being friends with her. The next day, he told...
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Guy I have been talking to has a girlfriend
Posted Saturday June 26 2021, 8:47 pm
I am 32 year old female and I have been talking to this guy I met online for about a week now so today his supposed girlfriend texts me from his phone and says this is Justin's girlfriend. I responded back and said I am sorry I didn't know he had a girlfriend and said it wouldn't happen again and I blocked the number. Did i do the right thing?
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Hugs
Posted Tuesday June 22 2021, 12:48 pm
So my boyfriend keeps getting picked up from school by his parents
He text me the other day saying that it was all his mum's fault
I asked why
He said that he was gonna do something
Without thinking I asked what
He said he was gonna kiss me
I don't know what to say!
Did he really mean it?
Was he saying that he was gonna do it but he actually wont?
I'M JUST REALLY FLUMMOXED (confused)😁
Pls can you help!!!
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