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my friend wants a girlfriend.. but he dosent know anyone!
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 9:09 pm
hey,
ok well here's the problem --- see if you can do the math. Ok my friend Eric is the FUNNIEST guy i've ever met, he's my sunshine in total *u*king darkness... like i talk to him to help me deal with my oh-so-emo life. He's always there for me, and i'm always there for him. I'd help him with ALL kinds of his problems, but then he just got a new (and totally bad!) one.. that i cant seem to solve. His girlfriend broke up with him, and they went out for 2 years, the breakup was REALLY hard on him *he thought he was gonna marry her or something* and he really wants a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he's on the rebound, but i dont think so. He's 16 and driving this September, and yet he cant get a girlfriend. He's semi-hot, but looks dont...
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Trust
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 8:29 pm
Dear Advicenators,
Okay. Here's the deal. I'm a girl about to start college, and I've got problems with trust. I don't trust even my closest friends, don't trust that they actually want to be my friend. It's quite horrid, because it makes me feel like I have no friends.
Reason behind my distrust of people? I've been repeatedly burned in the past by trusting too much.
How do I allow myself to trust people who I somewhere deep down know that they only care about me and don't have ulterior motives for my friendship?
Signed,
Untrusting.
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different??
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 6:38 pm
(fourteen//female) ive been friends with a guy, Chad (also fourteen), for a bit over 2 years. in 7th grade i helped him get to know my friend b/c he liked her and they went out in 8th grade and brokeup about a week ago. anyway, since july, we havent spoken much. he changed A LOT. i didnt really agree with some of the girls he wanted to get involved with && he seemed to understand. now he likes this other girl and he is hiding it from me even tho i told him i would be supportive of whatever he wants to do. (i found evidence...he asked a question on here about it and everyone knows about it). he acts different too...i dont know whats up? we are/were close && could talk about anything but now we dont talk and when we do its li...
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a disaster or maybe a catastrophe
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 4:13 pm
I am so....depressed!!! I make a group for people who like Shaman King... then, many people joint my group... But... they don't do anything!!! They don't make any announcement... they don't make any discussion... the don't make any polling... Urgh!! They are so lazy to do anything!!! And I, I am the only person who makes announcement, discussion, and other things. They don't even care about the group!!! OH... how I hate them so much!!! They just want to join a group to make them look cool, but don't want to do anything for the group activity... So what do I have to do?? Please help!!! (And anyway, I always rate 5)
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WARNING: this may be confusing...
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 2:08 pm
hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.
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Sometimes I Cry
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 1:46 pm
I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?
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friends
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 12:54 pm
ok.. i have this friend, and she's been my friend ever since pre-k! i haven't been in her class for a while, and now i am. we've been hanging out a lot more often, and she gets really annoying!! please help! thanks!
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HELP IM WORRIED!!!
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 1:39 am
ok well i was looking at ppls xangas and i come to this one xanga and these two guys were like we are looking for two girls to fuck and eat out. they were saying how they want stuff. well i thought it would be funny to leave a comment so i did, but then i relized that they could look at my xanga when they click my comment!!! and my pic is in there!!! im afraid they might look at my xanga and talk to me about that shit, im really scared, i dont wanna talk to them idk what to do HELP I WILL RATE SOOOOOO HIGH
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a camping trip
Posted Saturday August 13 2005, 1:18 am
ok me and my friends are planning a little co-ed camping trip near these waterfalls and im just asking what are some things i should bring..like necessities and entertainment things? i was already thinking a boombox that runs on batteries and having an all night campfire of course.
any ideas on games to play..things to do?
5's for effort thanks
16/f
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I dont like it
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 8:30 pm
Well I dont know what has been wrong with me latly! I am just not as happy as I use to be and like I am lonly and I have noone to talk to.... I dont know what I should do...
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how do you get -IT-away from my life?
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 8:09 pm
I have a friend her names Sara my other friend who is really anoying!Is haten on us cuz me and sara are really tight.So how do i get Alicia to go away and ive already tried telling her to.What cannnnn iiiii ddddoooooo.I'll be sooo thankfull if you answer this question.Thanks!
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Posted Friday August 12 2005, 5:29 pm
Any ideas for 16th bday partys??
i dont wanna spend too much though..its in december and i need to invite ALOT of ppl...ill rate high, thx =)
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Posted Friday August 12 2005, 5:18 pm
Alright- so my best guy friend might like me. How do I let him know that I sort of like him too without being vulnerable to rejection? Or I guess how can I hint it to him in a subtle way?
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what does this guy want?
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 3:01 pm
Hey well me and my best guy friend have been friends for as long as i can remember. everyone says he likes me. when we went swimming (beware- this is cheesy) he was like "go deeper into the lake so i can save you". its really corny but my friends are all "he was using that as an excuse to hug you" and crap like that. my friends also think he took me to the lake as a 'date' but he didn't call it that to me. he was like all over me while swimming as well... i'm not sure what this guy wants or what's going on. i didn't even really think much of it until my friends made a big deal about it. anybody have any thoughts?
thanks
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Guy Friend being a jerk
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 1:17 pm
15/f if that helps..
The other day I was changing because I had just gotten out of the shower. My best friend (a guy) was coming over. I was just in my bra & underwear when he got to my house. My mom let him go to my room, because there hasn't been anything going on with us in the past, so she's not concerned. Well, he opened the door and saw me in just my undergarments. It's really not a big deal. but he's acting all weird about it like "hehehe i saw your underwear" and won't let it go. he didn't even apologize when he saw me he just like stared for a minute. SO how can I get him back to acting normal?!?!?! He is being such a jerk and won't cut it out.
If anybody has any advice as to get him to stop acting to stupid please, do tell!!!
thanks
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Clueless
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 12:40 pm
I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!!
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Posted Friday August 12 2005, 12:15 pm
okay so theirs this kid i like..and he likes me, and when we hang out we're gonna "hook up" i've only made out with some one once, and it was last year.. i'm kind of scared, but i want to do it. I know their really is nothing to making out, but what if i'm bad at it, or idk how he's going to approach doing it. Have any advice?
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mom
Posted Friday August 12 2005, 4:51 am
well, my mom doesnt know i am having the discharge thing, how can i tell her? i alwys email her but i dont wanna tell her though that way.... or talk to her in person eather.. or a note and that shizzz. i dont wanna tell my sister bc shel be like "okay idc" so how can i tell my mom?
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I'm tired of this...
Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 10:32 pm
My friend just apologized for blowing up at me and getting really pissed off. She said it was totally her fault and i forgave her right away because i wanted her back as a friend. Things went okay until my sexuality was brought up. She acted okay about it and said whatever i decided was okay but she wouldn't support it. Now whenever i talk to her she barely says anything and it really hurts. I thought she had forgiven me but it's almost like she said all that just to get it off her chest. She even said that this next school year she planned on making no enemies so i guess i was first on the list for her to apologize. I dont know what to do. She's really confusing me and i feel like i'm just annoying her. What's happening?!?!?
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confused over guy friend
Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 7:46 pm
my boyfriend cheated on me & my best guy friend gave me a shoulder to cry on. while i was venting to him, he just kissed me. why he did this i dont know, but Im just really confused. did he do it to make me feel better or because he likes me or what? i'm really confused.
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