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bfff or not?
Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 9:32 pm
hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfrien...
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hard subjects
Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 8:52 pm
how are you supposed to respond to guys when they open up to you and tell you something personal... like that their dad has cancer, they are still in love with their ex, or their parents are getting divorced? i know how to comfort my friends that are girls, but guys, i dont know what to say... i'd really appreciate any ideas.
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Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 8:23 pm
My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
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Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 7:52 pm
I hear a lot of crap about me being over weight & fat from a bunch of people. I try and brush it off like I don't care & usually I have good comebacks. I don't want to insult them back, because that's just stupid and I think arguements just full of insults are stupid, what's something I can say to them, that would make it seem like I really don't care what they have to say about me? Thanks a bunch, I'll rate you five no matter what.
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Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 7:09 pm
ok, my best girl friend(kirstin) started going out with my best guy friend(jason) a while ago and whenever i talk to jason, even for like a group project in class, kirt gets jealous and everything. now i want to make it clear to her that i DONT like jason, but i want to do it in a way that wont make her angrier at me.
please help...
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love?
Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 11:11 am
Alright, there's this kid that I've known for like more than a year. I met him when I went over one of my best friends house. He lives like next to her. So we would always go over and chill with him and his sister. We have sooo much fun. But the other night I decided to sleep over his house. So we stayed up all night and we kinda cuddled and he knows I like him a lot, but he won't tell me how he feels. Like from the other night I have a feeling he likes me, but I wanna know for sure. What should I do? I like really like him and I see him and talk to him a lot. Also I can be myself around him.
Please help, I rate high for good answers.
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This guy..
Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 11:07 am
Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
*I rate high
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what to say>>
Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 10:23 am
15/f okay this is gonna be sorta long, so im sorry... but me and my bff (or exbff) are not talking anymore... the guy i like (he likes me to, just hasnt gotten around to askin me out...) decided to talk to her and get her to stop botherin me... she decided she wanted to talk to me last night and called my house... and my phone curfew is at 10, she called at 12...adn i was still on the phone w/the guy i like... now my mom is really pissed and said that i dont need to be talkin to him anymore!! is this fair?? and if you dont think it is (because i shure as heck dont think so!!) what should i tell her... im the oldest child... and i know i want to tell her to stop treatin me like im only an expiriment... which is exactly how she treats me... u...
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losing someone
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:53 pm
i have a really nice friend but ever since my one b-day party she had met my other friend and then they started to get together and hang out ALL the time now my friend never talks to me and at school when i pass her in the hall she never says hi and she never comes over anymore too she is always with my other friend. i am not really friends anymore with the one girl my friend always hangs out with so i cant talk to her about anything. but my friend also used to sit at my table andn talk to me and my other friends but now all she does is sit with the other girl and never talks to me anymore what should i do?? thanks!:)
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Getting together...
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:42 pm
no, not like that, don't jump to conclusions, gosh...
I recently had my "driving privileges" taken away, and want to hang out with a friend that does not have a license yet. My mom works weekends (my only free time), and this particular girl's father is a southern Baptist pastor that I'd prefer not to tangle with. Any ideas?
Thanks. I rate honestly.
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feeling left out and stuff
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:59 pm
i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx.
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yeahh
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:28 pm
Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them every...
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Ganging up
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:16 pm
I have two friends that I like to hang out with seperately because they are a lot of fun and they're nice when they are not together.
Whenever we all meet up together, which is pretty often, they'll find a way to gang up on me and I never show it but it hurts me. Sometimes they'll be eating sorbet and say, "SOrry..Only the smart eat the sorbet" and they won't give me any...or we'll be having a pillow fight and they'll both gang up on me, and they do that every single time! It really makes me feel like they are just using me. When I'm with just one of them, or we're hanging out with a different group of friends when they're not together, they can be nice, but together they are inseperable and they act like they don't need me...
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i need help.
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 8:42 pm
last year. i had like a big group of friends. and now this year. it feels likes they dont think about me as much. like im just sorta there then like theyre best friend or just friend. my best guys friends are all of a sudden BEST friends with my BEST girlfriends and its like okayy what about me. every1 has a bst friend now and its like i dont. i dont want to be the center of theyre world but i mean i dont want to be invisable either
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Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:29 pm
I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that.
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Her Grandma hits her....
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:27 pm
I have a friend who has a pretty hard life.She lives with her dad,grandma and older brother.Today we were all at her house and she said f*** and her grandma walked in and started hitting her in the face.My friend tried to block her but her grandma pulled her arm away and smacked her dead on in the face.My friend got so mad that she threw her cd player and then she said "Im out of her" so of course we followed her and when she opened the door her grandma pull her by the arm and starting hitting her again.My friend pounched the wall and walked out and there was a hole in the wall.She was afraid that her dad was going to beat her when he found out and she was sooo scared.What should I do to help her out??Ill rate high for any answer!!
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Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:01 pm
So my sweet 16 is coming up. Any suggestions? I already know for sure im having a party room with a DJ.. its gunna be a dance. But like what should i do.. have a cake? or no cake.. Should the cake be a cake or should i do a big cookie from Ms. Fields (cookie shop) And what about the lighting? And what should i do during the party other then dance?
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i am confuessed
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 12:19 pm
ok last night my bestfriend made me feel like shit. she wwas talking to me about my boyfriend and how she doesnt like him and who last time she went to the mall by him that I ditched her for him which isnt true at all she ditched me nobody told her to leave and me and my boyfriend didnt do anything she left on her own and now she said she wont take me to the mall over there to meet up with him because she doesntlike him (because he black) and because of what happened last time/ i dont know what to do. she is the only person that my momm trust to let me go to the mall with (makin sure an adult is wit us) my mom wont let em go with any of my other friends because she doesnt trust them but she also wont give them a chance to get to know them...
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My friends problem.
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:26 am
One of my guy friends, Blake, is interested in one of my girl friends, Allie. Allie is like super mean to him and she tells everyone she doesn't like him. and Blake keeps asking me what he should do about it. I can't just say forget about her because he likes her a lot. What should I say to him?
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big problem with a friend (who is a girl)
Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 3:51 am
my problem is my friend who is girl, we both work in a same office and recently only(about 3& 4 month) we had become close friends (well i was atleast) in this three month we used to talk about everything, eat together with our group
but recently because of my nature i started carrying for to much or more u can say carrying like sister(my age is 22 and she is 30 un married)
but insead of what i feel about her she has taken the wrong impression of what i feel for her
i had a meeting with her told her told her my feeling
but she said she is feeling Uncomfortable with our Relationships and told me not to call her
and for work related mail her
i know y is she fellin...
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