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people picking on me= destroy self esteem


Posted Saturday July 23 2011, 7:22 pm

I feel like a lot of people pick on me. My parents will pick on me. For example, I went shopping with my mom, she picked out a shirt for me but I didn't like it. She started making fun of me and saying how I have no taste and how awful I am for not liking her style. My older brother will pick on me because one time I was really sad and he thought I was pretending to be sad so I could get attention.. which is not at all what I was doing. I was sitting in the corner just all quiet.. My friends pick on me because one time I asked a really dumb question and now whenever I ask a question they laugh at me and bring it up. This "friend" of mine picked on me because my boobs were smaller than hers. My family picked on me because I had to ...

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21 and haven't gotten my period yet


Posted Friday July 22 2011, 3:24 am

Im 21 and I have not gotten a period yet and im also having sex, what can I do to make me get my frist period help please........

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Feeling bad for no reason.


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 8:38 pm

Me and my brother have NEVER gotten along at all really. We don't care much for each other one way or another. He is bipolar as well as the rest of my family. My oldest brother and I are the only ones who aren't.(Yes I know what bipolar-ism is.)
Yet anytime anything bad happens to the brother I've come to not care for I feel horrible. Like just today, he ordered a new cell phone and waited forever for it due to horrible shipping and horrid salesman work. He was excited to have it today. When he opened the package it didn't work. He looked so disappointed, to the point he even looked as if he just didn't wanna talk to anyone.
Suddenly I get this deep horrid feeling it's my fault when I consciously know I've done NOTHING...

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I feel like I have no personality.


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 9:31 am

So most people have a personal style, a look, etc.

I feel like I don't. On some days, I'll look I crawled out of the deepest depths of Hot Topic and on others my look will be more Forever 21. I like my band tees and I like being girly.

This is just one example. I can't help but feel like I am a clone of EVERYTHING that's out there. Everything that I see that looks really cool, I suddenly want to do.

For example, I like to draw a lot. I've been doing it since I was a kid. But my style is EXTREMELY influenced by my surroundings. For example, I was a big fan of one graphic novel for a while; my drawing style soon became very similar to the art in the book. The way I draw people heavily reflects what...

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Calming down


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 8:54 am

I get really paranoid & stressed out about the littlest things. How can I calm my nerves & get my mind off of things?.

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Why do I hate the world ? If I tell them what will happen


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 4:25 am

My family always asks me this question ... The dont understand why I don't like the world ... I
Not always mad only with her .. My mom I guess ... But how do I get over this how do I get help ? Is there med.s ??? Im 16 & I've cut myself more than once but what can they do is there anything that can help me I don't understand ? If I tell them whats going to happen with I go to jail , go into a rehab thingy , take pills ... ? Idk what will happen

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i'm really paranoid


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 12:40 am

i have weird dreams sometimes. Some include my house burning down (twice) and being kidnapped and dying. With all the crime and stuff going around, I get paranoid. I am super freaked out and scared. This is really weird, but what should I do about my paranoia about dying?


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sometimes i'm really sad


Posted Wednesday July 20 2011, 12:36 am

If i compare mine to others, i have a good life, but sometimes I get really sad. I know what sometimes causes it like my parents making me feel like I only do things wrong, my friends saying stuff behind my back then acting like it was a joke, and feeling like I'm worthless. I try to stay positive, but it rarely works. I always end up thinking about the bad stuff and I can never get it out. It's like all my imperfections in my life and me are mocking me. A year and a half ago, I got so depressed that I resorted to cutting myself. I crumbled to the pain I constantly felt. And I couldn't talk to anybody about it. I can't tell my parents about it because they think that i'm too dramatic. Maybe I am, but I can't help it. I've stopped d...

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Odd feeeling no matter whom I date.


Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 6:34 pm

No matter which girl I date, Once I have met their father, I feel as if they are going to rape them. It's an odd fear I've developed and I don't know why. I've never been raped. Nor have I dated a girl whose father raped them.(That I know of) But I feel like I have to watch their fathers and be sure that he doesn't get fresh and doesn't do anything sexual with them. Yet I don't mind her having male friends or hanging around other guys without me. Just their father.

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how did i become a person tahat cut myself?


Posted Tuesday July 19 2011, 1:53 am

i know that once i was happy and loved the air going into my lungs now.. i hate the air i wanna die.. i cut myself .. i wanna know why .. why mee ... me and my mom fight so much but thats not a reson for me to do this to myself ... i wanna stop and get hep yet i cant seem to open my mouth .. whyyy.. i wanna i really do.. but im to weak i cant tell no one.. i feel like cryin just thinking about it.. i cant stay strong anymore.. i wanna die i wanna go to sleep and not wake up ...

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should i tell my grandma i cut myself ?


Posted Monday July 18 2011, 5:46 pm

im 16 and scared to death to open my mouth that i cut myself about 3 different times .. i still hav cuts on my wristbut there not that bad ... do i still have to tell them i havent did it in like 2 mouths but i think about it sometimes.. i still cry myself to sleep .. i took pills to try to goto sleep forever but they didnt work ... do i tell them or not .. i think im ok now tho

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How do i tell my parents i cut myself ?


Posted Monday July 18 2011, 5:38 pm

i dont know how to tell them.. the only person i was thinking of telling was my grandma .. but now idk i think i shouldnt . this will kill them how will the rest of my family will look at me.. but i know they wont take me to get help .. my little brother has cancer they dont need this on top of everything.. im scared to death to tell them .. ill be okay right ? im just so scared why did i have to do this to myself why me ... why.. i dont understand why i cant be like a kid and dont have to do this...

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Feeling extremely lonely, but why?


Posted Monday July 18 2011, 2:13 am

Being raised on a good family, I am loved by so many. I am a good child, a friendly person, and I do have a lot of friends to turn to and trust. I don't think life could be any better. I'm so happy, despite the fact I just got over a nasty breakup. I have a normal, decent social life and I don't think I have any reason to feel lonely, but I do. I tend to get depressed at times but I don't understand why. I am the happiest I have ever been in my sixteen years.

Lately I have been feeling alone and scared. But I don't even know why. I started crying before I wrote this and I don't even know the reason for it. Why do I feel so lonely? I have such a wonderful family and a lot of friends and I know that I don't have anything holdi...

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do i have depersion ?


Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 11:29 pm

how do you know if you have it ... ive cut myself about 3 differet times..
ive took pills to try to put me to sleep foever


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How do i tell my parents i cut myself ?


Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 11:23 pm

i always fight with my mom and i cant take it anymore... there was this fight we had about something stupid then i ran in my room and cyed ... i saw started to cut myself it wasnt take bad but i still have the marks on my wrist.. im 16.. then an other time i took kots of pills i wanted to go sleep and not wake up but that didnt happen.. i just felt like throwin up & i felt high.. no one knew & we had a family party that day too... i want to tell my grandma but how ???

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i want to stop self harming


Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 8:38 pm

when i was 10 yrs old i cut my wrist for the first time. it was only to see how it felt, then i did it again when i was 12. my mom was dating this guy who abused her&i didn't like it at all. i even told her&all she said to me was 'be nice'. he moved in&i was furious, they both fought all the time&everyone else hated him. i've been self harming since the day he moved in.
im now 14&just recently cut&burned my right arm. i want to stop but it feels like im addicted
please tell me how i can stop.?

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How can i deal with a uncle dying of cancer?


Posted Sunday July 17 2011, 2:22 am



The doctor said that he doesnt have long to live. He just lays on his couch everyday looking sick and he has gotten really skinny. My family brings him tons of food everyday. He doesnt eat anything, he says he doesnt have an apetite and the food doesnt taste like anything. He also says he's in pain everywhere and he falls if he tries. I don't want my favorite unlce to die :(

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Desire to hurt my kitten and my family members


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 6:05 pm

I love animals -- and I've always loved animals. Now, I have a kitten and he's absolutely sweet, and adorable though he likes to bite and scratch me sometimes.

Regardless, I honestly just feel like hurting him but I don't know why! All sorts of things come into my mind on how I can hit him, or kill him.

And I've already a couple of times, roughly thrown him or shoved him off of me when he was jumping on my hand/fingers to bite.

I mean I also get these thoughts about my family members from time to time as well like my brother. I love him, but even sometimes I want to kill him and I get really odd thoughts like wanting to stab him while he's asleep, or this one time when I was renovating my cl...

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Smoking weed side effects?


Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 3:59 pm

I love smoking weed ..it makes me feel elated..n makes my brain feel to be the smartest guy ever...

i feel baked right now after a long time....but besides my red eyes and cotton mouth...i feel like my heart rate has also risen...is this paranoia or a natural feeling people are ashmed of admitting?

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Should I end my life.


Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 3:53 pm

Well basically life is pointless for me all i do is live in a world full of People who can't see outside the box. And push me around because i do. I have no friends really and I don't really care to live anymore. I plan on an OD on pain killers. But I just am scared I will live and have to explain to my parents (who have caught me cutting twice) any suggestions?

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