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My boyfriend is homophobic. Should I dump him?
Posted Friday January 22 2016, 8:10 pm
21/f
I was on the phone with my boyfriend last night. I was at my best friend's birthday party before he called. My best friend is gay and my boyfriend knows that. He said how being gay is sick and how those people should be killed. Needless to say I was shocked. I tried reasoning with him but to no avail. He even got mad and wanted to skip meeting me for about a week. I called him out on that and he said he will meet me after all. I just won't ever feel comfortable around him again. I love him very much,but him saying such things about my best friend is disgusting. He would hurt a gay person for no reason. What if he kills me too? I am,quite honestly,terrified. Do you think this is a red flag? Should I run from him while I still can?
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Posted Friday January 22 2016, 5:50 pm
Do guys ever go after the girls even though they know that they have a boyfriend? And flirts brazenly. Oh, we're mates by the way, and known each other for few years.
Thanks
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Never thought id ask a question on this site again, but here I am.
Posted Friday January 22 2016, 7:33 am
I would like to share a hurtful story of mine to you all, and anyone who takes the time to read this will be greatly appreciated. I started dating this guy, I'm 22 and hes 29. We were good friends before we started dating, but ever since he met me hes tried to get me to be with him and I always used to mess around and was never really interested. To keep it short, we got together and I fell incredibly in-love with him. He is a judge and I am still a student in college. His job means everything to him and its his number 1 priority. That, I can understand, but let me further explain our situation. He has a perfect life, hes gotten everything hes ever wanted since the day he was born. I on the other hand have a very difficult life. Family prob...
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How do I find a boyfriend
Posted Thursday January 21 2016, 9:32 pm
How do I find a boyfriend?
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Finding a man
Posted Wednesday January 20 2016, 11:33 am
I need a man should I go to a gay bar to find him yes or no?
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my bf is ashamed of me.
Posted Tuesday January 19 2016, 5:05 pm
So I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He was kind and affectionate and we met each others parents and everything. All of a sudden he says its "inappropriate" to hold my hand in public or hug me in public. He refuses to let me meet his friends, and when we walk together he likes to walk like 10 billion feet a head of me. Lately I feel like I have been doing everything wrong cause all he does is complain about all the things I do wrong, but yet he said I am his soulmate and loves me to death. He doesn't want me talking to certain people and attend events with him. I feel like he is shamed to be seen with me. We are both in our 20s so this is all just too strange to me. When he said he didn't want to hold my hand in public, felt like I got stabbed.
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please advice from mature persons only thanks :)
Posted Tuesday January 19 2016, 3:30 pm
17 _female
hi I am in my last year at highschool and I have only had 3 boyfriends.... my last bf who i currently talk to is 8 yrs old than me and we have been together off and on since I was 14....we are both virgins still because I dont want do that as yet ....but sometimes things get umm sexual and he gets angry sometimes and may sleep then he is normal when he awakes or he masturbates....with both methods I feel bad ....honestly I think maybe I should leave him but I dont know how to,,, because eventually I have to face this again since I dont want to be single forever.
what do u guya think...if I should leave how can I?....ps we have talk already and he says I am too childish.....but it ia my religion that I respect
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Gay boyfriend
Posted Tuesday January 19 2016, 3:13 pm
Should I join a gay dating site to find guys?
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relationship trouble ):
Posted Tuesday January 19 2016, 9:59 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months since yesterday. He's a senior, me a sophomore. Lately, we've been fighting and arguing a lot. Last night, we were fine texting each other , but today at school was our Disney homecoming day (I dressed up, he didn't) and this morning he told me was embarrassed of me. I tried walking with him, but he was giving me attitude and I yelled at him. Now he's telling me he ripped up the note I wrote him for our 5 months and that he gave away the candy he was going to give me today at school . He sometimes brings up things I did and the past and tries binging them up (screenshots) and I try my best not to talk about them because they're in the past and I'm so frustrated and I just don't know hat to do...
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advice please??
Posted Tuesday January 19 2016, 1:27 am
Well he havent responded back yet i dont know wheather or not he got the msg so like its been 4 days that we havent spoken..i think il just leave him alone, and leave my thngs he can do whateva he wants to..im done it really sucks being ignored like this we use to speak everyday but now its once a month that we speak bt i gues its okay..he was neva mine yet my heart is broken
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rules about being 18
Posted Monday January 18 2016, 8:53 pm
This is not a personal question, just a general enquiry because I am curious.
So it is against the law for a guy over 18 to sleep with a girl under 18. True?
So what if a guy is like 5 months older than a girl. They are both 17 now, and they have slept together a number of times. Totally legal? and then the instant he turns 18, it's illegal? and they have to wait 5 months for her to turn 18 before they can do it again? How does that make any kind of sense? Or am I misinterpreting something?
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Help me please??
Posted Saturday January 16 2016, 12:35 pm
Well u hav read my previous posts and stuff and uhm the latest update is that he textd me on tuesday saying hi stranger and askn how i am and thngs we then spoke for a few days bt then he just stoppd replying on wednesday night so i havent heard from hm since then bt then yesterday which was friday he textd me askn whats my plans for the evening bt i got the msg to late so i got home and replied to him bt then ddnt knw if my msgs went thru so i phoned him and axd so he said no he ddnt bt so the phne went off coz of the airtym so i textd him and tld hm my airtym was up and the signal is bad seeing that he ddnt gt my text and then askd if he is enjoying hs weekend so far coz he told me he was off and stuf from work..i thnk he wantd to see me ...
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Help me please??
Posted Saturday January 16 2016, 12:28 pm
Well u hav read my previous posts and stuff and uhm the latest update is that he textd me on tuesday saying hi stranger and askn how i am and thngs we then spoke for a few days bt then he just stoppd replying on wednesday night so i havent heard from hm since then bt then yesterday which was friday he textd me askn whats my plans for the evening bt i got the msg to late so i got home and replied to him bt then ddnt knw if my msgs went thru so i phoned him and axd so he said no he ddnt bt so the phne went off coz of the airtym so i textd him and tld hm my airtym was up and the signal is bad seeing that he ddnt gt my text and then askd if he is enjoying hs weekend so far coz he told me he was off and stuf from work..i thnk he wantd to see me ...
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The Two Girls
Posted Saturday January 16 2016, 3:27 am
Alright, so this is something I have been dealing with internally for a couple weeks now. But I suppose the advice i'm looking for requires a bit of set-up.
Right now, I am in college and recently entered my first relationship. Recently as in "this past week" to clarify. We live about 2 hours from each other but we live and attend at the same college when the term/semester is ongoing. We met the second-to-last week of the semester and we hit it off. It came to a surprise to me because it was unexpected and unintentional, as things escalated in only a few days.
However, there is another girl. We aren't dating, we are just good friends. I think it's clear to both of us that while we are good friends, we...
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Will anyone be my boyfriend?
Posted Friday January 15 2016, 4:09 pm
Will anyone be my boyfriend?
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He removed every trace of me on his Facebook
Posted Thursday January 14 2016, 10:11 pm
22/f, 29/m
I just recently got out of a relationship. He was the one who broke up with me. The thing about this, is that it's confusing about what he wants. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares about me. He keeps talking about the "future" when we don't have a future.
But the one thing that bothers me a lot, is that he has removed any trace of me on his Facebook. All the posts that he tagged me in--removed. He hid the photos that I took of him, too. It shouldn't bother me, but it really does. It hurts.
The one thing I don't understand is that he removed any trace that I ever existed in public, but I'm still his background photo on his phone, etc. But yet, he kept up the photos...
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Why would a guy asks this?
Posted Thursday January 14 2016, 6:22 pm
My good friend asked me if I want to stay in contact with him after he's transferred to another place? Aso another thing, he didn't ask me directly but pointed at me telling our friend in front of us, he said, she's going to miss me few times and I asked back, do u want me to miss u, and he just smiled. So, what's trying to say? Trying to hint something? We do flirt and u reckon he likes km es me. Please help me. Different point of view are appreciated.
Cheers
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Reevaluating our relationship.
Posted Wednesday January 13 2016, 7:41 pm
So, I've talked myself into a rut and now I can't get myself out. I'm 21 and female and presently in a funk. See, my boyfriend, of eight months, left on a three week long excursion with his best friend out to California. It's something they've always talked about doing so I'm happy for him and I can't wait until he comes back and shows me all of his photos and tells me all of the stories of the memories he made.
Today was the first day he and I talked on the phone since he left a little more than a week ago because something happened with his phone and last night, he finally got a new one. Today's conversation was great and he told me how it was finally nice to hear my voice because he missed me. But he made no mention of mis...
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How to look more attractive?
Posted Tuesday January 12 2016, 6:40 pm
Okay I'm turning 18 this year and enough is enough I'm tired of feeling unattractive and I'm tired of being unattractive. I know most teen girls go through this but I can't help it. My whole life nobody has really called me pretty and if they did it was to be nice or its because they called someone beside me pretty. In 6th grade when I started developing crushes on guys this one guy that I liked actually liked me back, he was gonna ask me out but then this girl that liked him was like "eww you chose her over me? She's so ugly" mind you that girl was my friend. After that he never asked me out and blocked me on Facebook lol. My eyebrows not that they're bushy they're just uneven, that same year in grade 6 this guy told me his broth...
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Will he ever get some courage and ask me out?
Posted Tuesday January 12 2016, 1:42 pm
im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i said no.....and he looked up at me and then put his head down....anyway he is shorter than me im 5'3 and he is 5'0 and he is fluffy ( I normally don't date men of that stature ) but if he was to ask me out id give him a chance, he seems like a very nice guy..he picks on me constantly, he knows I like to cook so now he asks me what am I going to cook him......lmao.....even my brother was like that dude wants you.....well today I went up to him and I was like, hey and he turned around and stared at me with this shocked/stunned looked on his face and I said ...
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