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I haven't felt anything for a year and now I'm being overwhelmed b y emotio


Posted Saturday September 10 2011, 10:02 am

I haven't felt ANYTHING for a year even when my Mum had a miscarriage I didn't feel sad now I look back on it I feel guilty for not feeling sad. I don't know when I lost the ability to feel emotions but for a year now I didn't feel anything but all of a sudden I'm thrust into feeling emotions again all just because my Mum told me off. I don't know whats happening to me and I can't identify half of the emotions.

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how to control sexual urges


Posted Monday September 5 2011, 7:30 pm

how do you stop watching pornography,sexual urges etc.
if christian, feel free to add any usable bible quotes to memorise to abstain from these things

AGE: 13
GENDER: MALE

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I want to die


Posted Sunday September 4 2011, 12:14 am

I used to be so happy...what can I do for immediate relief? No drugs or booze...

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marijuana induced panic attack


Posted Saturday September 3 2011, 4:44 pm

last night, my friend and i went to a party. she only got high but i got drunk. we went home after awhile and i smoked. i felt extremely relaxed and tired so i passed out. around six this morning, i woke up feeling restless so she and i smoked a bowl. i took 4, maybe 5 hits off the bowl and then we tried to go back to sleep. i had my eyes shut for about 15 seconds before i realized something didn't feel right. my eyes and brain felt like they were swelling and my heart beat felt like is was beating at an extremely rapid rate. i sat up and woke up my friend, who proceeded to calm me down until i felt like i could fall asleep. also, before i fell asleep again, she informed me that my heart beat was going at a normal rate, it was just pounding...

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Am i a lesbian?


Posted Tuesday August 30 2011, 8:32 pm

I'm 13 and this is my friends account she's 18
I always watch lesbian porn and I wanna masturbate but I don't, and idk if I'm a les because I still love guys

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therapists


Posted Monday August 29 2011, 11:56 pm

I'm really struggling with my life. I don't really have anyone to go to for advice, so most of the time I just come on this website and ask for advice. But its not always the best method. I really want someone to help me.. in person. I want to stop bottling up my thoughts and feelings, and I want to be able to go to someone with help. I've had best friends and told them things and expected them to help, but they never do or some of them just backstab me or betray me. I just want someone honest, trust worthy, and loyal to listen to me and help me. That is why I'm considering getting a therapist/counselor. I've never had one before but I am just so sick of not having someone there for me and being able to talk to them about my problems. I've ...

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Why am I mean to people I want to be friends with, and nice to people I don


Posted Monday August 29 2011, 8:10 pm

I'm so mad at myself, cause idk why I keep doing it. I'm socially inept, seriously. like people I feel like I could get along with it's like I'm just self sabotaging things and I hate it. and I've been doing this for years. like I see myself as a nice person so why do I keep freezing up and not being able to be myself around people I know I can get along with????

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crazy or bewitched?


Posted Thursday August 25 2011, 3:08 pm

one of my closest friends (and my favourite ex) had a mental breakdown recently. he was hearing things, extremely paranoid, even tried to attack his brother. my first thought was "schitzophrenia". the breakdown was induced by legal incense, or fake weed. (fweed, as my friends call it.) apparently, he took one hit and thought he was losing his mind. this is when the voices and paranoia started. and even after he came down from his high, he didn't get any better. i went to his house last night and saw him for the first time in awhile and his mother grabbed me aside and told me that a witch is terrorizing him. now, i believe in witches and demons, but that is NOT what is wrong with my friend. he is extremely ill. his family is keepin...

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where do I belong?


Posted Tuesday August 23 2011, 8:24 pm

I really need someone to talk to and need advice. I've been in college for about a week and I'm not enjoying it. Today was a really bad day for me. School doesn't actually start until the first week in september, but I moved in early because of fall sports. We are in preseason right now and its taking up the majority of my time. My roommate is one of my friends. I've known her for 5 years and we play on the same fall sport, so we pretty much see each other every minute. We get along okay... We don't hate each other but there are some things I don't like about her. She is boy-obsessed- meaning she already has a boyfriend but is already flirting with the football team and getting guys numbers and possibly hooking up with them later. She doesn...

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i think i have bulimia and i dont know what to do


Posted Tuesday August 23 2011, 10:00 am

i think i have bulimia and im frightened of the fact that maybe in the future i might not be able to conceive. is there anything i can do about it? and one that does not involve taking drugs.

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body concious


Posted Tuesday August 23 2011, 5:34 am

well im 15 and about 120 pounds.
recently i have become VERY self concious about my body. everytime im with my friends I'm always comparing myself to them without thinking about it.
Everytime i look in the mirror or even think about my body i get this really weird feeling like dizzyness and just like a shallow feeling in my chest and I know it's not good t think about that stuff but I can't help it?
does anyone know why this is happening or why i feel like this
i hate to even look in the mirror so i decided to just stop because I just feel so disgusted :/

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Over-thinking


Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 10:03 pm

I always over-think things. I always feel like I need to be on top when it comes to school. If I don't get A's or B's, but more so A's, I panic. I cry. If I do bad in a class, I feel like a loser. I feel like I'm not worth anything. I haven't had good luck in jobs. But, I've worked at these random offices and couldn't handle the work-load with school and all my other priorities. I was working close to 30 hours a week. I start working at school tomorrow and I'm so excited that I'll be at school. I've been looking for a job at school for 2 years! And it's only 15 hours a week. So, I can handle my classes and activities and enjoy my college years... just with a little money in my pocket. But, I'm scared because I've just over-thought it. I wan...

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How can I move forward?


Posted Sunday August 21 2011, 6:56 pm

Since surviving a natural disater two weeks ago and losing everything I own but thanks be to God I did not lose my life, I am having a hard time getting past my fears. We have had sever weather for several days an my nerves are on edge. I can not sleep. I can not stop thinking about this at all. I'm living in constant fear. I know that the chances are slim that this happen again, I know I have no control over it and I know I need to move forward but I don't know how. I sit up worrying all night. I slept in my unfinished basement one night because of my fears. I can not continue living this way. I don't want to live in the basement everytime there is a storm. I don't want to avoid certain activites because of this fear. What can I do? Have a...

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How does getting braces feel?


Posted Saturday August 20 2011, 8:56 pm

how does it feel whenn your putting on your braces


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Phobia of people?


Posted Saturday August 20 2011, 5:57 am

So, I used to be a rather social child, even with strangers (not safe, I know), but I had tons of friends and I was a bit of a wild child. For some reason, at the beginning of this year, I suddenly don't like people. I mean, I don't mind watching people, but it's being around them. Like, if I go to the mall, I get super nervous and I've almost hyperventilated once. My mom says I'm just being a dramatic teenager, but I don't think so. I just get afraid that people are watching me or that something bad is gonna happen and it twists up in my gut and everything. And I always go with my gut instincts because a couple years ago, I got a bad feeling in my stomach the day someone jumped me at school (for hanging out with someone else). Do I have a ...

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How do I survive residential treatment?


Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:37 am

My name's Blair and I'm a 16 yr old girl who happens to have ednos (a mix of anorexia and bulimia) and have a self-injury addiction. As my health has deteriorated, my shrink and doctor (with the full agreement of my family) have decided to send me to RTC. I'm very scared. I'm garunteed to be the youngest resident and the farthest away from my home and my friends. How am I gonna do this? I have to go in a week.
Much love and grattitude--

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Am I losing it??


Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:07 am

OK, I'm in high school and I don't have any friends, or a boyfriend.. and my family pretty much hates me and my mom and dad are convinced that I'm not gonna get anywhere in life. And they make sure to keep telling me that. So now I kinda breakdown everyday. Even for the stupidest things.. Like I start crying all the time. And I feel so.. incomplete. I sit down and try to study but I always feel like something is missing.. and I can't concentrate. Also, I'm always worrying about what others are saying about me.. (my class is FULL of bitchy snobby girls).. I think about it all the time. Like I literally spend half my day thinking about what they say about me and how mean they are to me.. And I keep wondering how I can make it better. Am I rea...

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What does this dream mean?.....im so confused.


Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 6:26 am

well last night i had the strangest dream that is really confusing me, i am 12 and female.
the dreams are all involving my friends neve, dom, ben and myself plus some random guy that came with the dream, BTW i am in puppy love with dom and neve is 2.
OK so i was in a train with ben looking out the window and i had my hand around him and he had his hand around my waist, then wen we finally got to our destination there was this sort of compotition thing about who could kiss for the longest while holding their breath and you get 3 goes and the first 2 it is just a peck but the 3rd one is making out and dom and 2 other random people had done it. so far dom was winning then it was neves turn and she got to do it with dom :( and she...

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I'm seriously lacking motivation


Posted Friday August 12 2011, 5:10 am

F/17

I know what needs to be done. Do good in school so as to get into a good college, then get a great job, happy family, happily ever after. The end. Problem is, I just don't feel motivated enough. I tell myself I know what I need to do and that I can do it, but when I get to actual 'what needs to be done', I just don't wanna do it. I don't feel like it, I rather do something else that peaks my interest. I'm really stubborn and it makes me a bit upset that I can't just buckle down and do what needs to be done. My mind wonders way too much and I just can't concentrate. I tried ADD medication, but I ended up falling asleep everywhere I went, basically a zombie, so I stopped taking it. So pills don't help at all. How do I tell...

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My sister is insane, what do I do?


Posted Friday August 12 2011, 1:00 am

My sister is a fifteen-year-old girl dealing with severe depression and is currently taking medication for it. I've also asked this question in the past, but now it's just getting worse and I'm afraid it's grown far too serious.
My sister is still obsessed with the same older boy who just graduated from our high school and she can no longer see him and she also 'claims' she hates him one second, then loves him the next. She was molesting him with Facebook messages and everything. She got her little friend in on bugging him too and he's freaking out, so he messaged me on what to do. He says she's driving him crazy because she's warning his girlfriend that he is a 'dirty manwhore' and to break up with him. He's extremely angry about th...

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