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he's my best friend
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 11:44 pm
My best friend likes me and says he is in love with me and i dont know what to do. I like him but just as a friend even a brother. i dont know what to do and its hard because i dont want things to change between us. so can anyone help me?
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Rude Friends.
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 10:31 pm
Two of my girlfriends have a problem with me. Apparently I am always flirting with guys they are interested in. One of my friends insists I am prettier then her (not, in my opinion true) and the other says I'm stealing them away because I am more sexually experienced.
Whenever they invite guys over to hang out with all our friends in a group I try to be friendly. We are a very tight group of friends and it can be awkward for a stranger so I talk to them and they are generally interesting guys. I have a boyfriend, and he has been present for a lot of these conversations and he doesn't feel I was flirting or being a tease, just being myself.
Anyways, I told my friends I thought that this was completely their bagg...
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My Sister Has Problems...
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 9:55 pm
I am 13 and my sister is 28, married and has 1 child. She is very clean, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke (Anymore). But she is depressed. She is in debt, and her husband is never home because of his job. He is a truck driver, so it's usually her and her baby which is 2 years old.
Every week that her husbands not home I have to go spend the night with her. It feels like a second home. One night, not to long ago, I went to her house to spend the night (of course) and she was crying. I asked her why and she started to tell me but didn't and I took it as if she was depressed or that she was alone and afraid because I wasn't there.
People have tried to steal things from her and her husband many times. Her neightbor th...
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what happens.
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 8:45 pm
what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart?
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BEST FRIEND FORGIVE??
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 8:15 pm
ok so this is like the first time ive ever used this site but i need some advice & sorry if this is long but i will rate all 5s. =]
so recently my best friend and i got in a fight -we'll call her Jamie. well she saw these emails i was sending with this girl "Amy" that were talking about her and this boy BUT i really was trying to help her out, i prob shouldnt have been talkin about it but i was like joking around and tryin to find out who the guy likes. but she saw them and thought i was betraying her which i was not trying to do at all. she was mad at me for like 4 days and wouldn't talk to me, and she doesn't know this i dont think but i cried so much because i really thought i was loosing my best friend an...
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lunch time
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 7:49 pm
ok so me and a friend are really upset and tuesday shes in my lunch and i sit with her but i dont want to because im mad i dont have anyone else to sit with b/c everyone else im friends w/ either eats lunch w/ her too or got there lunch changed to the one after ours. anyways what should i do? plz help!
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a best friend is lieing to me.. and i dont know how to handl
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 2:37 pm
me and four other friends had a really strong friendship.. and now one person has a boyfriend.. for a few months now. lately she has been ditching us for him.. and lying about it. she has been saying she is going with her family.. when she is really with him. the lying has really gotten out of hand.. so we talked to her and told her how we felt.. and she said last week that she was going to stop.. and she is really gonna stop ditching and lieing to us.. and then this weekend she lied and ditched us again fo him. i dont know what to do... i cant think of anything that will work to get through to her. it is upsetting all of us.. and its getting really hard. we dont want to lose her as a friend.. and we feel like we are. we have run out of i...
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lieing..
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 12:13 pm
well the thing is ive told her this plenty of times.. all she says is yeah im sorry im gonna change. and i say you never do. its the same thing. i always tell her how hurt i am by this and sick of it. but she doesnt stop. i dont know what to do though! i've already tried talking to her and it doesnt make a difference.. i really have no clue what i should do though? do you have any ideas?
thank you so much for reading my question.
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friends wife smoked for 40 years!
Posted Saturday January 28 2006, 9:44 am
I'm curious about something. If a person has been a smoker since they've been 12 years old, what long term effects would it have on the person? I'm asking because my friends wife is 54 and has been smoking since she was 12. She smokes about 2 packs a day. I think he is worried about her health. I already know that it has prematurely aged her from the outside. She has a very wrinkled face and horrible black and yellow stained teeth. Also does anyone have any solutions as to how she could quit? I hear it's very hard but possible.
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lieing.. =/
Posted Friday January 27 2006, 11:53 pm
i would really appretiat it if you take the time to read this.. because im in tears right now..all i want is my best friend back. okay so me and this girl (we'll call her chelsea..) chelsea have been best friends for years.. closer than like anyone.. we hung out like almost every day. never got sick of each other, and had the best times. but then she got this boyfriend from a different school. and started talking to him constantly and i felt left out a lot. and then she has ditched me a lot.. like ive caught her in a million lies. so many.. she wont stop.. and i wasnt talking to her like a week ago.. but then we started slowly talking and today we were laughing and stuff together.. then i find out she went with her boyfriend to dinner with ...
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ugh
Posted Friday January 27 2006, 9:25 pm
My ex-best friend is trying to move in on my best friends. She's being moody, and since her mother is a witch, (like her, and overprotective) she's "brainwashed" her into just...being that way. I'm getting so tired of it. She's already moody and protective of everything she does. She's not all that pretty, and I'm not saying I'm better than her, but everything about her is ANNOYING. Andd I have to see her every single freakin day at school. What should I do. It's really getting old. I hate her.
Signed,
Frustrated >:(
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pain!
Posted Friday January 27 2006, 5:52 pm
okay, the only reason I didn't put this under health or something is like I didn't think anybody would read then. Anyway, okay, I have this pain in my side every once and a while, and I am the kind of person that doesn't really tell their family anything! so I haven't told anyone, but my boyfriend and my closest friends, but my friends have been telling me that I should tell my parents,and my boyfriend is starting to freak out and really worry, but I really don't want them to know! But I feel like I just ran a mile and the only time it goes away is when I am excersising really hard, and if I stop then the pain comes back...so I guess, what should I do?
P.S.
no, it is not cramps that is what all of my friends said it c...
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True Friendship
Posted Friday January 27 2006, 5:01 pm
okay so like my best friend brandon is very emotionaly depressed because of another one of my best freinds,im always ther for him and everything and like i care so much about him and like he thinks about killing himself and everything adn he cuts sometimes when he doesnt feel like he wants to live..nad i tell him not to cause i use to cut and it sucks it is hard to stop and everything but he has it tough..I talk to him about everything and im always there for him but like whenever the tables are turned and there is something rong with me he doesnt do anything..he is one of those people who wont like fight or stick up for someone he suposivly cares about..and i dont kno what to do..my other best friend who is like a sister to me tells me not...
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why are they so jealous?
Posted Friday January 27 2006, 3:32 am
I have a problem with people being jealous of me. I don't know why they are - I'm not extremely beautiful or wealthy. I'm just an above average looking girl with average intelligence. I don't have a bf either, so this makes their jealously all the more perplexing.
I have a part time job with a union, and can afford to live on my own. I have an appartment I rent, a car, and a lot of nice furniture. I own about 150 CD's and 70 DVD's.
I by no means am rich, but only have myself to look after. So I can afford to spend my paychecks on what I please. I had saved up a bit and just bought a new futon and recliner. That made some of my friends REALLY jealous.
This one friend of mine makes just as much money as me but s...
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Seemingly hypocritical friend.
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:57 pm
This might get a little lengthy.
My friend and I got into this argument last week in which we realized we both thought the other a bad friend and we had been kind of been unknowingly avoiding each other because one thought the other would be a bitch and all of that fun stuff. Typical female passive aggressive bullshit. We talked it out and made up. Then I invited her to see this concert with me of one of her favorite bands, since I had some free tickets.
Today we were sitting in English and she starts ranting and raving about how shes going to a really good place to eat right after class gets out. We both don't have any class after English. I kind of hint that I want to go because it's my favorite place but I...
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friend from 5th grade
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:52 pm
When i was in 5th grade this kid had a crush on me and i had a crush on him, we never went out because we had boyfriend and girlfriends but we both knew we liked eachother.5th grade seems like we were to young but i remember this.but 5th grade he moved, and i remeber the day he moved he wrote me a note and told me hed never forget me and he wanted to keep in touch, we never talked after that day he moved.and now im in 10th grade and the other day i looked his number up in the phone book and called every person with his last name.i didnt get a hold of him then today he called me and it was weird he said ever since the day he left 5th grade he thought about me.but the problem is i have a bf who i really like and were doing good.but i really w...
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AHH!! WTH!
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 8:16 pm
omg. my best friend in the world is being a slut. i mena i love the chick to death but her ex-boyfriend who used her then broke up with her to have "fun" over the break are doing any SEXUAL THING U CAN THING OF. theyve tried haveing sex 3 times but dude. the guy doesnt even like her and isnt planning on even asking her out. and shes inlove with him. hes such a man whore and i told her that she can pick up desises and stuff like that but she acts like she didnt even do anything wrong. i dont know how to tell her to stop without coming off as a controlling freak you know. I LOVE HER TO DEATH but i dont want to yell at her and make it to where she cant tell me stuff anymore. PLEASE HELP! what do i do.
ps. SHES TWELVE.
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Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 6:48 pm
Recently, my friend Jennifer confided in me to keep a secret from her friend Lauren. Lauren is now with Jennifer's ex boyfriend and Jen told me that all Lauren ever talks about is the boyfriend(she talks about him 24/7). Jen is really annoyed and bothered by talking about him because she still has strong feelings for him. But, Jen doesn't want to hurt Lauren's feelings because she is really happy. Jen asked me what she should do and what should I tell her?
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ugh.. i guess you cant please everyone
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 5:39 pm
me and this one girl have been best friends forever.. and she got into a huge fight with my other best friend about 3 months ago.. now i hear shit from the both of them about the other ALL THE TIME and one of them is mad at me because they say that i hang out with the other one too much.. but i dont! i just try to make everyone happy!.. what should i do?
signed,
hopeless
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fight
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 4:23 pm
well there's this stupid gurl who wants to fight me. she wants to fight me because i looked at her in a dirty way. that's a bunch of bullshit because i always say i to her whenever i see her and she's the one who's always giving me dirty looks! i'm not scared to fight her it's just that i don't want to get in trouble. so what should i do? should i try talking to her? please tell me what should i do?
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