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Am I back there again!


Posted Sunday January 22 2012, 3:40 pm

in september 2010 i hit a state of depression really bad and i was in that state till march 2011, that was due to an ex harrasing me and 3 close family and friends passing away.... i now feel how i did then always down only laughing with others to fit in, this time it all started due to me finding out im pregnant and having alot of complications (e.g. 3/6 tests positive and an inconclusive blood test) this has caused my to so called best friends who i considered family and whoi trusted with all my heart to fall out with me! its got to the point i cant even go into college anymore so i have work sent home and i struggle to go to my job... do this mean i am bk in the state of depression? if no why do i feel this way?

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Running dream: I keep dreaming I am trying to run away from something but I can't. Anyone else have this?


Posted Saturday January 21 2012, 8:56 pm

The falling sensation is pretty common with many people, but this is different and I don't know how common it is. In my sleep I'll feel like I'm desperately trying to run away from something but I can't budge. Its weird. The falling thing is the only comparable thing. Any idea what this "can't run away" feeling is? Has it happened to anyone?

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Tell me what the point of living is


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 9:03 pm

When just about everything and anything has gone wrong in life. What is the point in going on. When all you find is saddness and despair all the time

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am i a slut? why do i crave/have sex so much?


Posted Friday January 20 2012, 7:11 am

17)F. i lost my virginity to a guy id known a couple weeks when i was 14, he was 19. we had sex just that once. i had a relationship with an 18yr old when i was 15 sex was a big part in the relationship. also 15, i got intimate with a 30yr old married guy with kids :( we did not have sex. }6yrs old 20yr old bf, sex almost 3+ times a day, we lived together. i went clubbing at 16 and went home with a guy i met. found out after sex he was 30 TT'. i had a 17yr old bf this year, we had sex once. and now i have

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my family tell people im crazy and going to end up in a crazy home! am i really THAT strange?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 11:45 pm

hey i need help on something... okay im not slow,mentaly confused have add and or adhd and im not bipolar,but sometimes out of nowhere i have people try and make me cry or i feel out of normal untill i cry or i have the strange moments where im wathing tv with my older sister having a good time then she starts messing around with my dog and i dont know i just flip out and go crazy like i get out top of her scream strape her down and i have the urge to littrly kill her but there is something holding me back then i just get up and walk out like i never did anything then say sorry i feel like i cant control my self it happens like 5 times a month and my family tell people im crazy and going to end up in a crazy home but i dont kno whats rong w...

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I Lie? I don't want to go to college next year if I am going to still be lying all the time! How do I stop?


Posted Thursday January 19 2012, 1:51 pm

I'm 17, a Female, and Last year i was a junior in high school. I had, since freshman year, stuck close with one girl and our friends were mutual friends. We spent every second together and were "best friends". Not really, because she made me feel terrible about myself and Junior year she started doing drugs and i tried to stop her. She didn't listen to me, ditched me for other people, and that is when I got very sick. So sick that I was out for half a year. Now here is where the lying came in- I wasn't THAT sick. But i was out for half of the school year on home-bound school. My stomach had problems emptying and I couldn't eat, I was weak and lost hair and weight. I visited the school to take midterms and the kids told me how good...

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Unexplained memory loss & innability to associate faces with names


Posted Sunday January 15 2012, 12:34 pm

I'm a sixteen year old girl, and, for the past three years, I have been dealing with unexplained memory loss and difficulty with facial recognition. This problem of mine began in 2009 when I started having difficulty visualizing events that I should be able to remember (like birthday parties and family trips). My parents didn't take me seriously, so I tried to ignore it. By mid-2010, however, all of my memories of everything prior to 2008 had vanished. At this point, I've learned to cope with it.. I just figured that, if I'm happy and successful today, my past isn't a big deal. It bothers me, though, because not only do I have to live in the constant fear of losing my memory again, but it also takes me anywhere from days to months to create...

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addicted to pot


Posted Saturday January 14 2012, 9:14 pm

im addicted to pot.
im not ur average pothead. im a girl and look normal. i have friends and im extremly normal i just LOVE weed. all my frineds know it. i dont buy pounds like extreme addictes do but i try to have a gram on my at all times and i just alwyas smoke whenevr I can. I smoke so many times a day , everyday. i dont know what it means how why i do it and i want to stop but i enjoy it. the downfall is that i gained a lot of weight.
it got so bad that i brought weed with me when i was babysitting 2 kids and i smoked inside the familys house.
no one knows when i do things that shady but i dont know what to do because i love weed, its not killing me and i love the feelong but i waste money on it, gaiend weight and...

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gender identity disorder


Posted Friday January 13 2012, 2:49 pm

i first felt i am different when i was about 7 years old. it was after watching a play in which transgender actors played the female parts.few years later i started using my sister's nail polish but i never crossdressed at that time. and when i was 12 i used to admire female breasts and always wanted to have breasts like them. by thetime i was 17 i discovered a lot about transgenderism through internet and i started crossdressing in secret. those days i always entertained the thought of running away from home and joining some transgender group. i still crossdress in secret and now i'm 23 years old. my penis is very small and i always want to have breasts. i always masturbate thinking of myself as female and i get really turn on wearing fema...

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parents and therapy


Posted Thursday January 12 2012, 8:20 pm

how do i tell my Dad i need therapy?

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what is it called when you can not feel the emotion love?


Posted Thursday January 12 2012, 7:08 pm

I have this problem, you see, i dont feel love. I dont have that emotion.. I currently dumped my pregnant gf because i was tired of living the lie of love. I feel lust. but i really thought that maybe a while after being with her and experiencing everything with her i would feel love. but no. i feel no love towards my family members, friends, or exs, not even my son who is due in april. im saddened that i cant even feel love for my son. ive been super depressed lately and i know ive hurt her emotionally but i still can honestly say ive never felt love, ive felt loved, but i cant love anyone. Ive been this way since i was a teen. My childs mother has tried helping me, shes not really concerned that i dont love her but shes concerned that i f...

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Why do I keep isolating myself from everybody, when I need help?


Posted Monday January 9 2012, 6:49 am

why do I keep isolating myself from everybody, when I need help?

why do I keep refusing help?

why do I keep doing the same self destructive behaviors over and over?

why can't I get out of this cycle? I've been in it for the past 2 years

I used to be a good student

and now I don't know what's wrong with me

it's like I've become okay with bending the rules..expecting that teachers will take work late

skipping school because going to school is just painful

nobody in my town even really understands me, I don't really have friends here

I've lived here for nearly 2 years and I'm still an outsider.

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im confused: ive had bad sexual feelings towards children


Posted Monday January 9 2012, 5:32 am

27 f australiarecently i gave up smoking.ive been without a drink 3 yrs go to regula meetings.ive had bad sexual feeling towards children before have not wil not do anything like this.until the last year i had no friends and it was dark and stil is sometimes.my life difrent now .i come from a midle clas family.im starting to isolate ta lot lately its been really hard giving up smk and ive finished a course i was pasionateabout.im in a relationship that kils me but i m to afaid to leave.im going insane.iput fingers dwn my throat like to punish my self heaps and it hurts..ive been wondering if my father abused me as a child.i spent the most time with him when we moved first then the rest of the family.i was 3 or 4.i remember wondering this be...

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umm.... i watch porn. i am a girl who watches porn, is this badd?


Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 9:05 pm

Im a 12 year old girl who watches porn, is this badd??? I dont know why but I like it, please help!!!

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MY friend cuts herself,but will always say some excuse...what should I do?


Posted Saturday January 7 2012, 1:56 am

My friend cuts herself.She did a couple of years ago too,but stopped.She has started again.I noticed today in math on her wrist she had about 10 tiny slits.I asked her what happened,but she said her cat attacked her,but she looked and answered nervous.What should I do?

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i have been cutting myself for a really long time


Posted Friday January 6 2012, 5:09 pm

i have been cutting myself for a really long time and i wan tto stop i tried but i cant i just have to itz like an addiction i have been cutting myself for about 8-9 monthz

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Just had a baby & I don't feel like doing anything


Posted Thursday January 5 2012, 1:57 pm

18/f I just had a baby 4 weeks ago I breastfeed & it's so stressful & tiring at times. I don't ever feel like doing anything. I don't want to shower, brush my teeth, talk on the phone, go downstairs to get food or anything. I feel sooo lazy. I don't know what the problem is. I see & feel myself being lazy but I don't change it. Or I say I am & I don't do anything about it. I feel like so lost I feel like life has stopped for me now. I feel so weird & different. Idk how to deal with being a teen mom now it is hitting me I will never be normal. Idk what's my problem .

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Feeling hollow and almost depressed, but I don't know why?


Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 10:29 pm

15/f

Hi everybody, lately I've been feeling kinda down about myself. I'm empty and aching and I don't know why, to quote Simon & Garfunkel... Usually during the day I'm happy, but at night I feel hollow and foolish and almost depressed. It's like all my dreams I know will never come true, every bad memory and every mistake I made hover over my heart and haunt me. I feel alone and unaccomplished, like I'm stuck in a rut and life is meaningless. I've been single my whole life, and a shy person without much of a social life, but I've always been content with my position. I don't like fitting in, I want to be different, and do something amazing with my best friends so we'll be remembered long after we're gone, like George Was...

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I am less boy crazy than I have been... What's wrong with me?


Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 6:03 pm

Okay so, I'm like any other teenage girl: I like boys, and is or was boy crazy. I woke up yesterday not even thinking about a bot, but then again I don't see girls that way. Is it because I'm maturing, or is it just phase.

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cutting


Posted Sunday January 1 2012, 1:10 am

ok so im a 15 year old female and i have a problem with cutting myself in the last year ive been in a mental hospitiol 3 times i just love to cutt myself and its everywhere i can find and hide and i stopped taking my meds i hate them also i like blood alot now what should i do?

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