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Friendship
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I am being replaced in my group of friends


Posted Wednesday April 3 2013, 6:47 pm

In school i have a group friends,6 to be exact I've known 1 of them (call him "M")for 11 years now. I've known (let's call him "K") for 6 years now. last year a new comer came and somehow entered our group(call him "B"), he quickly became mine , M's and B's best friend ,but suddenly this year i started feeling like I've been replaced by him. I distant away from the group a little bit to see if anyone would ask or look for me but no one did , as they where hanging out with B all the time.I didn't really mind , but it hurts pretty bad , but i thought that maybe that's just because i was he one who distant the way and maybe I'm just being jealous from all the attention B got , then one day M invited me and B to hi...

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How do I perceive my crush only as a friend?


Posted Wednesday April 3 2013, 5:16 am

Hey guys.. This is not really my first time here and the question may sound foolish but i kind of need a help in this. First off, i've been friends with an overseas guy since last two years. We're of the same age, but we don't live the same life. To be frank, we haven't even reached the age of 20 yet, and he is a very nice person.. And i don't know why, i've started to like him early of thisyear and for now, i don't even think i'm liking him but instead, loving him. Whenever i think of him, my heart starts blooming and i always hope that he'll constantly be in a fine state.. Although yeah, doesn't mean he's having the same feeling towards me. It doesn't matter if he has a girlfriend already (but one of my other friend told me he's single a...

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friend is obsessed about guys and sex


Posted Monday April 1 2013, 11:01 am

I'm A 13 YEAR-OLD AND MY FRIEND IS ALSO 13.
Ok, so my friend is ALWAYs talking about, oh, I don't know... how she 'loves with all her heart' her 19 year-old boyfriend who has cheated on her numerous times, and she has done the same, or how she lost her virginity at 11, or guys that she's made out with at waterparks, etc. She is also incredibly slutty, but I'm her friend because her personality is good and she stands up for me... but the fact that all the guys in my class and in eighth grade love her and the older guys always tell her that they want to make-out with her, while I'm standing right there (and they ignore me), and she just laughs! all of this, plus my mental disorder (I claw at myself when I'm overwhelmed) makes me extrem...

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Leaving an old friend


Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 5:33 pm

I have this friend, let's call her Ace. Well, Ace and I have known each other since we were toddlers. She moved away for two years in elementary school and we were both devastated, but she ended up coming back and we reconnected. We've been friends ever since... Or at least that's what I thought until a couple years ago when she and I went on a road trip and spent three days together.

I couldn't take it anymore. I started to notice things she did that annoyed me to no end. She would cry if she didn't get what she wanted, she would ignore me when I was talking, she would act like a child and embarrass me. She also started dating this guy who is the stereotypical "Men are better than women, get used to it" kinda guy. ...

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Best Friend and Friend Lied to me simultaneously


Posted Thursday March 28 2013, 6:34 am

there is a huge back story so I'll just bullet point in the chronological sequence of events however before that, I am M and was 16 when this happened.

1. I found out the person(lets name her X) I liked got an anonymous card for valentines day
2. I told my best friend that I liked X
3. Next day, best friend said He liked X and then told me he was the one who sent the card to X when I queried if he knew who sent the card.
4. I talked to X, if she knew who was the person who sent the card (since I know), she said no, she said she could 'wait'
5. I asked X a week later, about the card issue, turns out my best friend and X have already started going out secretly and privately for like a week after I f...

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What do I do about my best friend? He has been bullied a long time and I am worried about him.


Posted Wednesday March 27 2013, 11:27 pm

Hi I'm starting to get worried about my best friend and we're both in middle school. He has such a big heart but he has been bullied since kindergarden and I am starting to get worried about him. He has told me he thinks life stinks and he has stopped believing in happy endings and he wants to die. What if he tries/does something stupid? I have already told him how much he means to me and that I will always be here for him no matter what but I often find him putting himself down. He has told me that his brother is always picking on him or beating him up. Please help me! I really care about him and I can't stand seeing him so hard on himself all the time. What do I do about him?

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My best friend friend just told me she's bi but I dated her


Posted Wednesday March 27 2013, 8:22 pm

I'm a guy and I dated my best friend. She just told me she was bi wat should I do? I don't want to ruin this relation ship


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I'm being bullied by my closest friends


Posted Monday March 25 2013, 7:32 pm

I am i 14 year old female and for the past few years my friends who i have known since i was 3 have been constantly been making fun of me and especially now that we are in high school its worse. They do it as a joke and it really hurts my feelings and i tell them most of the time that they're hurting my feelings and they say they'll try and stop but they never do. I can't deal with it anymore please help

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Best friend wants to cheat with me over his girlfriend!


Posted Monday March 25 2013, 2:11 pm

Hey I'm 21 n have been best friends with my guy bestie for 3 years. He's also dating my friend for the past 3 years.I fell in love with him a year back,told him cz I couldn't hide it from him, he understood n then we became closer a besties. It still hurts me to see his gf with him n I cry every night. He has told me that I'm pretty n cute n once I get thin he'll date me n told me to wait for him to get single.Since the past few months he has started lusting for me. He says I'm his closest female friend n he has even wanted me to be friends with benefit with him which I refused. He says that way I'll get a piece of him.. but that's not what I had imagined...I just wanted hi to love me n to date him n be with him. From the past few months he...

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The school dance... is TODAY!


Posted Friday March 22 2013, 6:14 am

Well the school dance is TODAY. and I haven't decided if I want to go. My friend really want me to go because she doesn't talk to anyone else. But I don't want to spend my money and it not be a fun dance. But it seems that EVERYONE is going this time but when I went to the dance most of them didn't go. So the poin is I don't want to waste my money if it's gonna be a bad dance and I don't want my friend to be by herself.
P.S. I didn't do my extra credit that my dad wanted me to do so I also feel guiltily for goin to the dance without doing my extra credit.

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How do I tell her?


Posted Thursday March 21 2013, 12:25 am

13/F

So I hang out with this girl named Lucy. We met about 3 months ago.

I met these 2 girls named Christina and Jessica. We met 6 months ago. I hung out with Christina and Jessica for about 3 months, but I met Lucy then we started hanging out. But now, 3 months later, I realized I'd like to hang out with Christina and Jessica again. I told Christina about this, and she said she'd love for me to hang out with them. But here's the thing...

What do I tell Lucy? Lucy and Christina kind of know each other, but I kind of just only want it to be Jessica, Christina, and me. Lucy has a bunch of other friends she hangs out with, but I don't want to hurt her. What do I do?

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am i gay?


Posted Wednesday March 20 2013, 5:53 pm

I have been friends with my bff.(femail &so am i) for about 8 years but just recently she asked me to touch her"down there" i did it and she said it felt good. But then she asked me if she could do it to me and i let her and it felt good. Am i gay!?!?!?

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should I keep trying or just give up on my bestfriend


Posted Monday March 18 2013, 4:46 pm

My bestfriends name is Kaci, she's like a sister to me. Over the summer I basically lived at her house and I call her parents my other mom and dad. Recently our friend Katie got her license, she's not the best driver. Me and Kaci were in the car and she brought up Katies driving and was talking about how she shouldn't have passed behind the wheel , I agreed and said I feel like I'm teaching her when we are in the car. The next day Katie and Kaci didn't say a word to me, I wasn't sure why so I asked around. My friend Anna said at dance class they were upset about me saying something about Katies driving.. I asked Katie the next day and she told me Kaci said I was talking bad about her and blamed everything that was said on me. I told her wh...

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I don't know what to do about my friend,she's changed


Posted Monday March 18 2013, 3:04 pm

I have a friend and we've been best friends since preK. In third grade she got her first bf (Ik it's young but I can't control that). Well she started to leave me out and stuff but I never told her that cause I didn't want to start anything. Well now we are older and she's in all my classes so we talk a now. At the beginning of the year I met a friend and she was really nice and we started to become freinds. Well my old friend didn't like her so she got mad and stuff. Then one day I wasn't there or something and they started talkin and became good friends. I was happy at first but then I felt left out cause all the talked bout was 1D and I didn't like 1D. So now it's now and they've had a few fights and now their friends again and I feel l...

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what does adhd mena


Posted Friday March 15 2013, 10:11 pm

What does ADHD mean? Ive been talking to this guy and his best friend told me he has adhd. What is that?

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ummm...i saw my guy friend naked. how can i make it less awkward tomorrow?


Posted Wednesday March 13 2013, 8:55 pm

so we have a female gym coach and a male gym coach at our school. im a girl and the female coach told me to give the male coach a note and he was in the boys locker room so i asked her to wait until he got out but she told me to go in there and give it to him. so i walked through a room full of naked 13 year old boys all staring at me and my guy friend, who i have a crush on, was in there. once they saw me they made a dash for cover and my friend and a couple of other boys werent quick enough so they were in the open and i couldnt find the coach so i had to ask my friend where he was so it was super awkward. that was last period so we went straight home after that. so how can we talk tomorrow without it being awkward?

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I'm really worried about him!


Posted Tuesday March 12 2013, 9:30 pm

My friend likes to have sex with his dog! It's so sick! I don't even know what this kind of problem is termed. I have to help him immediately since I know he's not right. What can I do for him? I'm really sorry if this steps on someone's toes, but I just thought someone on this site might be able to help me. Thanks!

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unconfertable for my room patners


Posted Tuesday March 12 2013, 9:40 am

how to sucite without pain?
please answer my e-mail..

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Unheatlhy Friendship?


Posted Monday March 11 2013, 7:57 pm

I dated my first boyfriend for almost three years. He was my best friend since I was 8 years old. The entire time we were together he was in and out of rehab and group homes. I was 16 and he was 15. A month before his rehab stay ended, (he was in a home in Utah and I lived in Pennsylvania), I ended things with him. I was extremely overwhelmed with the idea that he would be home all the time, and that I would be partly responsible for helping to keep him sober. I was almost 18 at the time.
He came home, we didn't talk for a while, he went to jail and I moved out of state. Basically our lives just went in different directions. When I came back to Pennsylvania we started talking a bit again, and I realized that I had been carryin...

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Posted Saturday March 9 2013, 1:50 am

how do you know if a guy just wants to hang out with you & is just being nice to you to just get in your pants?

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