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Is my boyfriend controlling?
Posted Saturday June 25 2016, 11:24 pm
Hi I'm Jay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now, he's 18 and I'm 16 and I don't know if it's me but I just have a small feeling my boyfriend is little bit too controlling. He always tells me that I'm a child and that I act grown and if i joke around and say he's a child too he gets a bit defensive and claims he's not a child and that's he's grown. Whenever I might express something or do something he doesn't do or agree with he tells me i need to get it together, and i feel it's like his line for me like he tells me this more than he says he loves me but i know he does, and he says it as if i dont have my life in one piece and i do and for some reason he finds it necessary to tell me that more than once weekly that i dont have...
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Am I bisexual or homosexual?
Posted Saturday June 25 2016, 8:30 pm
So I am a girl and I've dated 3 guys and 3 girls. I identify as bisexual but have a major preference of girls. I 100% want to end up with a girl in the long term, but I would consider experimenting with guys before settling down- but I don't think I'd ever want to sexually experiment with a guy. And the only guys I have 'crushes' on are celebrities. So if I can be attracted to guys, but only want to end up with a girl- does this mean I'm bi or gay? Opinions would be appreciated- but please no hate. Thanks ^_^
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To "Razhie" RE: "Should I tell him? Why is he acting like this?"
Posted Friday June 24 2016, 3:56 pm
Razhie,
If you as an advicenator like to give advice, why do you feel the need to criticize people and use objectifying words in your "advice". Sure you can explain your thoughts how it is, and how you feel but using curse words to make a point and belittling issues is not a right way to do so. Now regarding your advice about my car, he already does know the make of both of my cars, I was referring to him asking about the year of my car. I felt this was not important to tell him because he feels that we are always in a competition of who is better. Before giving advice, I would advise you to thoroughly read and try to understand the asker before criticizing and cursing. Will not be monitoring your answers anymore. Good luck.
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Should I tell him? Why is he acting he like this?
Posted Thursday June 23 2016, 6:39 pm
My boyfriend and I have been arguing about random things lately now and then. I sometimes feel that he is trying to find an excuse, I don't know why. Recently he just asked me about my car, and what year it is. (Its a mercedes s550 2007). I told him I don't think a person's car or what they have is what should be important but the person themselves. I said I don't ask about your car or your business. We had fought about my previous car as well, as he wanted to use it for a few days since I am no longer using that one. I feel like he is always analyzing me and trying to figure something out from my answers. Shouldn't the women be doing this? Anyway, today he asked again and I still did not tell him, I asked what does it matter, it doesn't ma...
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i need advice on getting over someone I liked for five years?
Posted Wednesday June 22 2016, 9:22 pm
How do i get over someone that I liked for 5 years?
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Where to turn
Posted Wednesday June 22 2016, 6:08 am
22 f my boyfriend is 23. We have been dating for almost 2 years and we live together. Recently, things have been rather rocky and I could forsee the relationship ending within the next few months. I want to make things work, but he doesn't and he goes back on his word all the time.
Here's where my issue is: I'm so broke right now I would have absolutey no way I could afford to go elsewhere. Neither of my parents are involved with my life so I don't feel like I have somewhere to go and like I said I absolutely do not have the financial means to live elsewhere because I have a car payment and am also a full time student.
If our relationship is over I want to have a plan on where I can go...
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Fiancé is making it hard for my family
Posted Tuesday June 21 2016, 7:01 pm
I am 23/f and my fiancé is 21/m- we have been together for almost three years. Here recently my parents have had talks with me about his obsessive cursing and talking rudely to my 12 year old brother. My mom has the most issues with my fiancés cursing because he drops the "f" bomb very frequently. As of my brother, he is always cursing at him, claiming he can't stand him because he doesn't listen and he is annoying. Don't get me wrong- my brother bothers the heck out of me but I know it's his age. I have had a few talks with him about this issues but it doesn't seem to change. I need advice on what to do. My parents don't believe I should leave him- and I don't want too. He treats me like a princess and has yet to ever make me c...
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I want to try again with my ex
Posted Monday June 20 2016, 5:34 pm
My boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. He ended it with me although I knew things were on the rocks and I knew we both weren't very happy, but I wanted to stick with it. Prior to the break up we had been dating for 6 months in the same state and 4 months long distance before that.
I've been thinking about it a lot, looking back at our relationship as a whole. I was able to see with an open mind what things I could have & should have done differently - things I said, the way I acted, etc. It makes sense that he ended it with me and I can see that now.
We have mutual friends so I have seen him a couple times since the break up. I want him to see how much things have changed on my end and how at peace I am...
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can't get over a crush
Posted Monday June 20 2016, 11:02 am
3 months ago, my crush of 3 years started dating someone
I'm 17, F
I miss him so much sometimes, and it feels like i've gone through a breakup but he never knew how much he meant to me
i still want to be his friend, because we've been sort of friendly acquaintances for the past 2ish years, but it hurts too much to talk to him. Also his girlfriend used to be my sorta friend, but now I can hardly handle talking to her...and she's with him most of the time which makes it worse...and now i've hardly talked to her for an entire semester
Some days I feel like I'm totally over him, but a lot of days I see him or think of him, or see something that reminds me of him, and then I want to cry...
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YES, NO, MAYBE SO
Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 1:48 pm
people tend to think im a teen still in high school, but im a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as hell....and today he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like "hey little lady"....I said hi, smiled and sat down...and as I got off the bus he looked at me again and told me to have a nice day.....should I tell him how old I really am, I do like him.... but I have vowed to never approach a man again...cuz things didn't turn out the way I had hoped the last time I did that.......I was almost on an episode of cheaters..lol
today he was just smiling with his head down when he seen me....should I ask him why does he act all giddy around me? he looks to be about 36 yrs old
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boyfriend lied to me.
Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 2:27 am
My boyfriend lied to me about this girl. I found that he poked her on facebook and when i confronted him about it- he told me he did it on purpose to see if i was viewing his activity log. I Told him that was childish and that he could have just asked me flat out- but after that i let it go and everything was fine. Then i found him searching her on his phone once and he told me he doesn't even know her and that he just wanted to show his friend someting-- so i let that go too. Then we got into an argument and went a whole day without talking and i see that he sent her a friend request both on instagram and facebook- and when i confronted him and asked him why he did that he said it was normal and i said if you dont know her then how is tha...
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what does this bulge mean?
Posted Thursday June 16 2016, 12:13 am
My bf came over my house and we layer on my bed with a lil space between us I sat up and noticed a huge bulge in his pants and his my face he didn't seem to notice. What does that mean though?
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How can I make sure I don't chicken out?
Posted Wednesday June 15 2016, 10:17 am
28/f, 27m. We've been together for a bit more than a year.
I posted this question awhile back, if you'd like background: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=659929
Basically, I have concluded that for whatever reason, things aren't right, and I need to end this relationship. Problem is, I've tried three times to do so, and every time either I push him into saying what I want to hear, or he talks me back into his arms.
But, AskAuntEmma was right - if I loved him, I would accept him for who he is AS he is. It's not right that I want him to change. I think it's almost that he was so close to what I thought my ideal partner was... I thought on some level if I pushed him, he could be that. But all he can be is,...
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Should I take viagra?
Posted Tuesday June 14 2016, 12:50 pm
I'm a 21 year old male, in decent health who doesn't smoke or drink, but ever since I started having sex with my GF 3 months ago, I have trouble maintaining my erection. At first I could not get one at all, but after a few weeks I was having sex successfully and normally. But just recently, it started getting difficult again. I was able to do it once last weekend, but failed 3 other times after that.
During foreplay, I get an erection with no problem, but as soon as the underwear comes off, my erection starts to crawl back into its hole. It's extremely frustrating especially considering that it hasn't been a problem before.
If this info helps, I've been taking Horny Goat Weed supplements ever since I started w...
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how do i explain to someone that i've lost feelings for them?
Posted Thursday June 9 2016, 10:54 pm
i'm in an unofficial relationship with this really great guy. we aren't formally together, but everyone pretty much already knows that we have a thing. he's charming, eloquent and attractive; i was attracted to him from the very start. upon finding out that the feelings were mutual, we both decided to unofficially 'get together'. now we talk to each other everyday, converse with all kinds of romantic words and all that jazz.
but this all changed when i met someone else. this other guy was incredibly persistent, he liked me from the moment we talked. even though i tried to tell him that i was emotionally unavailable, he wouldn't give up. and if i were to be honest, i enjoy conversations with him much more than i do when talkin...
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Ex?
Posted Thursday June 9 2016, 2:35 am
Ex blocke me off whatsapp during our heated break up but kept me on everything else? Facebook? Instagram? Even though he specifically told me if we ever broke up he would have no reason to keep me on his social media. He blocked me out of spite because I Hurt and left him ( he obviously did something to provoke it) but i wont get into details. If he just wanted to remove me from his life wouldnt he completely delete me everywhere? I mean, i have done that to a few of my exes when i was seriously DONE. but what do you guys think? he still searches me and goes through my stuff everyday (I know this for a fact) but it just makes me feel like he has some kind of hope we'll be together, and i actually hope so cause i do too..
thanks all. x
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I really like me classmate
Posted Wednesday June 8 2016, 5:44 pm
Hi :) im in high school 3rd and i really like my classmate ...and i want to tell him , i want to tell him how i feel about him in person and also in private but the problem is even we go to same class we dont have many lessons together(our class is divided into three groups and according that we have lessons)but sometimes we have class together... so i dont see him very often :( ....i dont know how to catch him alone when at our school is very busy during breaks and he is also surronded by his friends...and im also shy but he is outgoing....so please help me how can i talk to him alone ? Should i wrote him some note ? I really like him ....on valentines day he sent message saying: "im glad you are" ..what did he mean by that ? ...
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Why would he text me first if he's not going to reply my messages after?
Posted Wednesday June 8 2016, 6:40 am
Hi, I'm from Turkey, I'm a female, and I'm 16, whereas my crush is 18.
So my crush texted me last night about an artist we both like, and he sent me some youtube videos about that artist. I replied him saying I really liked the videos, he didn't answer although he saw my messages. Then I sent him a video similar to his, he didn't reply that either. It would be quite normal if I texted him first then he didn't answer none of my messages, because it would mean he doesn't want to talk. But why did he text me in the first place if he doesn't want to talk? And if he wants to talk, why does he keep ignoring my messages?
Also if I see him at school, should I say anything to him? Or should I just say hi and go?
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Jealous and out of control
Posted Tuesday June 7 2016, 2:16 am
There is a guy at my college that i really like and have since before attending college together and he's just the most gorgeous guy i have ever come to know and we are nothing to each other at the moment but whenever he talks to a girl i freak out and get jealous and not because i feel intimidated because i know he doesn't like them and he's just such a friendly person but i can't help it, and i stalk him on social media trying to see the girls he associates with and i just can't deal with it and i want to express that i just don't want him to show attention to other girls because i feel that he's mine and he's no one else's and I've become so possessive but i can't say shit because he's not my man but then i think the girls should back of...
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I like a guy?
Posted Friday June 3 2016, 4:49 pm
So I like this guy (he's a junior, I'm a freshman) but I don't know how to talk to him :(
School is over... he knows me, like he knows that I exist, we talked VERY briefly before, but he doesn't remember. I don't know how to talk to him... I have him on Instagram & Facebook... but it's weird to just message someone you don't know out of the blue.
My friend is dating one of his best friends and I talked to him once briefly as well, but she won't set me up because I know she's gonna think I don't have a chance with that guy (which I don't) but I wanna talk to him on my own somehow.
What should I do? I don't wanna seem weird or creepy. Please help. :(
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