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Seeking a Warm Body (Settling in order to get pregnant in time)
Posted Sunday July 17 2016, 10:48 pm
Please help!
I'm a successful 35-year-old woman suffering from a rapidly ticking biological clock. I have spent the better part of the last 15 years in the dating trenches and have been in relationships with several men who didn't treat me well, which is a big reason I am still single.
Over the last few years I have become really lonely and sick to death of dating, and I recently decided it was time to "settle". Enter my current boyfriend, "James," who I met online. While James is gentle and kind, he hasn't got much going for him beyond that: he's not particularly attractive, he's not financially successful and I have to admit that he's not that interesting. On top of that, some of his manne...
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Period Sex
Posted Sunday July 17 2016, 2:35 am
I've been talking to this guy for months now and we aren't official yet. He needs more time to make me his girlfriend. I don't know why but all I can do is wait. We've had sex more than five times and i've always been clean and fresh down there. I barely get to see him so its understood without saying that when we see each other we will become intimate. This time I wasn't so sure. It was my last day on my period. As most women know, your last day is very iffy. You can have possible spotting or discharge. At the time I was wearing a panty liner just in case that I began to spot. I didn't see spotting the whole day and I even used the bathroom and all the signs showed me that I was clear to have sex. We begin to get intimate and I start to no...
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Picking between two guys
Posted Saturday July 16 2016, 1:23 am
A lot of things have happened over the past year. I've had a lot of up's and down's. My ex boyfriend of three years cheated on me, hence ex-boyfriend. Its funny how things happen. I never thought that I would get cheated on. I guess I fell off my high horse. It hurts to know that the person you thought you'd spend the rest of your life with would betray you in such a manner. In results to the infidelity, I decided to move on. I gave it my all! I did everything in my power to save my relationship but I couldn't do it alone. I've always had insecurity problems and this situation made me feel worse about myself. I released my anger in the wrong way. In order to move on, I decided to get with another person. I've always found this person attrac...
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How do I tell him I'm pregnant?
Posted Wednesday July 13 2016, 3:02 pm
I just found out I am 8 weeks pregnant with my (ex?) boyfriends baby. We both wanted to save ourselves for marriage and then we took it too far. That is why we decided to take a break. I am going to be a senior in high school and he is going to be a freshman in college. He doesn't really talk to me anymore, but his mom and I are still really close. How should I go about telling him I am expecting his child?
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Does he like me?
Posted Tuesday July 12 2016, 5:28 pm
So my frined... let's say her name is Sally. Sally dated this guy and then they broke up. While they dated, Sally introduced me to him and we became sort of friends, kind of.
We talk a little bit sometimes. It's never casual though, we only text each other if one of us has a question for the other. When him and Sally broke up, they remained to be best friends.
Anyway, all three of us are in a group chat. The other day I posted a Facebook pic and he asked me a question about it in the chat. I realized that he didn't like the pic, but saw it, so I told him to like it. When he did, he said "Like it just for u" and my friend was liek "Omg betrayed <\3".
Later on, I was leaving...
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He says he does not have unprotected sex with anyone. What does this mean?
Posted Tuesday July 12 2016, 12:26 am
I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months and him and I have occasional sex. The very first time we used protection and went to the clinic and both came out clean. Every other time since then has been unprotected and he has came in me twice. I am on the Mirena IUD but my doctor has said she cannot locate it and I have an ultrasound appt soon. He says he does not have unprotected sex with anyone as he has not practiced it so why is he doing it with me. What does this mean?
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Does he like me?
Posted Monday July 11 2016, 8:03 pm
So my friend's ex-boyfriend and I talk sometimes a little bit. My friend and him remained to be best friends. When we talk, it's never casual. We don't text each other just to talk. It's either he has a question about something for me, or I have a question about something for him.
Anyway, my friend, me, and him are all in a group chat. And I posted a Facebook pic yesterday and he asked me if a question about it and blah blah but he didn't like the pic. So I told him to like it and he did and said "I liked it just for you." And my friend was like "Omg betrayed </3"
But moving on, I was about to leave somewhere and he texted into the group chat "(My friend's name) call me." Then...
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Should i stop loving him?
Posted Saturday July 9 2016, 8:30 am
Heey..! Sometimes i feel scared to just open myself to some random stranger but it feels really good and usually i get really great advice so for that Thank you darlig.. ♥♥
Now my problem. So i have this one boy i really like we used to text a lot like every night and he was so sweet. Our messages were like i won because u wish me good look (thats what he sent me) or he used ro pretend that he was mad at me and then said how he can never be mad at me and he was generally so sweet. He is actually really shy but he opened to me, he talks about his family,music his problems and we gossip a little heh.. And all my freinds say you are really cute together he likes you 100% hes just to shy to ask you out. But i cant trust that if he d...
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Him reaching out is confusing to me
Posted Wednesday July 6 2016, 8:22 pm
26/F
He's 33
He and I started talking on Facebook in 2013. We lived across the country from one another, and kept it going for almost 2 1/2 years. It was basically a long distance relationship without the actual title. Phone sex, FaceTime sex, sexting, nude photos, etc. We were both busy with our lives and couldn't seem to make a visit happen either way. We had talked about me moving there to be with him and we had exchanged "I love you's" for over a year. I began making plans to move there, but didn't tell him because I wanted it to be a surprise. Right before I was going to tell him and follow through with the move, he admitted he began seeing someone there. I backed off immediately, but still moved anyway ...
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Having a trust issue
Posted Tuesday July 5 2016, 8:07 pm
My boyfriend just went to Mexico for 10 days to visit family. He said it will be hard to contact me with his cell service not working out there. We knew we werent going to talk to each other for 10 days. So he leaves and I see location activity on Facebook which basically tells me he is not in Mexico to my understanding. Now him and his dad own a business so maybe be left his phone with the dad. The thing I don't understand is active FB activity. Why would anyone else be on his FB? He contacted me mid trip on FB messenger to say hi. Telling me it was hard to get on wifi because it was slow. I wanna believe him but his traveling mobile activity on FB is making me very questionable. Why should he go out of his way to lie to me? Maybe I am o...
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Stuck between love & family
Posted Tuesday July 5 2016, 5:31 pm
My family and some of my friends hate the guy I love for reasons that in my mind, end up being superficial. My parents told me I end things or they cut me off and won't help with law school. So I kinda did. I'm still in contact with my guy because I'm madly in love with him. I truly believe he's the one for me. The situation is heated with my family right now so I have to pretend I cut him out of my life. I want him in my life and I need my family and their help. What would you do or say to my parents and my guy if you were me?
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should I have a last talk with my ex
Posted Tuesday July 5 2016, 3:57 am
I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for 2 years and soon to be 2years and 3 months . But the thing is, I feel I'm still stuck on my ex . I don't always think about him but sometimes it bugs me that were not together. Me and my ex only talk like on mine and his bday.I had him for a class this school year and I feel he still likes me because he would look at me often .... but then he has a gf.... this upcoming year were both going to be seniors and might not see each other m his birthday is coming up . Should I invite somewhere public so we can juts talk for the last time or so I can tell him my mixed feeling or should I just have a long conversation on his birthday witch is july31st. ? I know it may be wrong at some point but I feel if...
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Have I been Friendzoned? Should I give up?
Posted Sunday July 3 2016, 5:50 am
I'm turning 16 soon and I like a 17 year old exchange student who will be here until March 2017.
We speak most nights on Facebook (I've almost always been the first to talk) and his English is quite good but there is some mistranslations here and there. I have never actually spoken to him in real life, I tend to avoid eye contact with him, but we have smiled at eachother and he brought it up as a Conversation starter.
Last night was Prom night and I didn't end up going because I'm a year below. He asked if I was going to go next year and I said I think I would and he replied with "I hope you'll go with your boyfriend haha" (RIP)
But at the after party he had gotten quite drunk and befriended my brot...
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Does He Like Me
Posted Thursday June 30 2016, 12:03 pm
Hello! I am 17 (about to be 18 in a month), and I have recently been talking to a family friend who I have known for over 5 years now. I graduated high school in May, and he came up with my cousins to go to my graduation party. We have known each other for so long because he's been my cousin's best friend since they were children, and he is almost seen as part of the family at this point. They live a few towns over (about 3 hours away) so we see each other a lot at family events, but not too much otherwise. Since my graduation party late May he has reached out to me on multiple occasions just to talk. He gave me his number, and we've been texting a lot this past month. He is usually always the one to initiate a conversation by texting first...
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xastin dexamethasome side effect
Posted Thursday June 30 2016, 8:34 am
If a man is taken xastin dexamethasome tablets often and often what will be the side effect
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I need 2 know if we are related
Posted Wednesday June 29 2016, 11:05 pm
My name is Rachel Strickland so I have been talking to this guy lets call him Jimmy Strickland and we are both 27how do find out if we are related before we start dating because their are a lot of different sets of Stricklands in my town?
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Emotionally abusive relationship or just a jerk?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2016, 2:48 pm
23/f, 29/m
My boyfriend made this comment about me trying out my new toner and he said, “why? your face is already breaking out. Wouldn’t that make you break out more?” Is that supposed to make me feel better? Is that supposed to be some kind of a joke? Because I don’t understand. He tends to make comments like this here and there. Does he expect me to not have a reaction to it? He subtly puts me down and it makes me lose my self-esteem.
The more I started thinking, I know that my counselor told me the signs and her thoughts on him not respecting my boundaries, but I guess that’s true. I keep thinking back on how he was hurting me during sex and I told him, “I thought you’re supposed to be turning...
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Do I have to tell my boyfriend about my eating disorder?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2016, 12:04 am
Hey there. I'm a 21 year old female and I have struggled with bulimia off and on for about 4 years. It started when I got to college and used it as a way to deal with stress. I was dating a guy at the time and he was the only one who realized that I had a problem because I was mostly bulimic with anorexic periods mixed in so it was pretty easy to hide and I got very good at it. Leaning on my boyfriend and only my boyfriend made me very dependent on him. I should have seeked help much earlier on but refused to admit that it was a real problem until after we broke up. In a way I think this issue was part of our breakup. I have never been in counseling but I confused in my doctor and he will often put me on a very mild dose of Prozac when I'm ...
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Tempted to call my boyfriend's ex
Posted Tuesday June 28 2016, 8:26 pm
23/f, 29/m
My boyfriend spoke highly of his ex-girlfriend, also complained a lot about her, mentioned her many times before, she became quite a bit of a problem in our 2-year relationship.
He has broken my trust a few times, lied to me about talking to her a few times, etc. Right now he's being secretive and he's hiding me. Every time he had spoken to her, she had shut down the conversation or had refused to see or talk to him in person.
Because of that, I sensed that there was more to the breakup story than he had told me. He had told me that she wanted to "experience the college life" when they broke up. But I caught his message to her when he wanted to meet with her in person to &qu...
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What's wrong with me?
Posted Tuesday June 28 2016, 6:46 am
I think I am either attracted to unavailable men or just something wrong with me.
I never had a great relationship until the summer after senior year of high school, I met the love of my life. It ended after four years when I found out on valentine's day that the reason why he was always so distant was he was cheating. Meanwhile I was home crying and missing him since he was away deployed and etc. He told me he realized he didn't love me and I was shattered.
Forward to now I'm dating a guy for a year now who I dated before, he cheated when we dated in high school and I've caught him cheating three times in the year we have now been back together. I don't love him and I can guarantee he is still cheating...
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