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Ex-friend is still ruining my life
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 1:21 am
19/f
One of my former best friends from high school and I had a huge fight at the end of our senior year. It ended our friendship. It's hard on me because she constantly talks about me/posts things about me on her blog when this all went down over a year ago. I need to move on and not be so bitter and angry over it anymore, but I don't know how to start. How can I get over this and not allow her to affect my life and how I'm feeling anymore?
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I want my old friend back!
Posted Saturday July 13 2013, 4:04 pm
I have a neighbor the same age as me, 13, and he used to be my best friend when we were three. I am a girl and when I was little I never minded the gender difference. We always used to be together since we are neighbors. Flash forward about two years. We were in kindergarden together, but then he switched schools. Over the years we talked less and less and around seven or eight stopped completely. Flash forward again to sixth grade. I met my best friend. Seventh grade she met my old best friend, and became best friends with him and started crushing on him. I tried to become friends with him again, but it never worked. I didn't have any classes with him so I never talked to him. I hope to have some with him next year, but I'm curious because...
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how to do a girl who is a friend thats being cheated on by a differet frie
Posted Wednesday July 10 2013, 1:52 pm
How do a girl who is dateing a friend but being cheated on by him without my parent knowing but satisfie her enogh where she wont tell him?
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Is this wrong?
Posted Tuesday July 9 2013, 11:59 pm
So I feel that I am losing my bestfriend to her boyfriend. She spends most of her time with him & we are only 14. Is this wrong? Like everytime I try to hangout with her, she's always with him or has plans or the next busy with him. I feel that she is way too involved with him at this age. Like 14 years old you should be having fun with your friends, not making your boyfriend your life & priority. At this age is it wrong to be hanging out with your boyfriend more then your friends?
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trust
Posted Tuesday July 9 2013, 4:59 pm
Well becaused i moved it doesnt really matter but my best friend that ive known for 7 of the 13 years of my life didnt belive me over some girl shes only known for a week. I was telling the truth about what happened but the girl made up this whole sob story and made my other two best friends side with the girl along with my 1st bff. i didnt do anything to the girl but what i really want to knoe is how come they didnt belive me?
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Does God want a Christian's to marry a Catholic's
Posted Monday July 8 2013, 2:42 pm
Does God want a Christian's to marry a Catholic
what if a Christian meet a catholic in a Christian church?
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I should have more instagram followers than her! I don't know what to do...
Posted Sunday July 7 2013, 5:53 pm
So, I have a second instagram that I use to quotes and stuff (do bacically not a personal). Well my friend just made hers this week and has more followers than me. And now she's trying to help me and its so annoying. It's like so brags when she's trying to help me.😠I should have more followers than her.😞😒 I just don't like it, but when ever I try to tell her how I feel she just doesnt listen or she'll just say " no I don't" what do I do?
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Best friend and guys
Posted Saturday July 6 2013, 3:19 pm
Im 23 f. I have a friend (girl) that I consider 1 of my best friends. but lately I’ve been upset at her and don’t know what to do.
We were at my birthday party and she was with a guy that i liked. She told me that I shouldn’t get with him and should move one. At the party she ask for his number, and now they text. Its not the only time this has happen we have had incidents in the past where Im attracted to a guy and she ends up getting really close to them. Sometimes in relationships. I don’t want to lose our friendship. But I feel like every guy is attracted to her automatically. It bugs me and I don’t think she notices it. What should I do?
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My friend is copying my ideas
Posted Thursday July 4 2013, 1:21 pm
My friend and me used to have a blog together but that didn't work out. So now I tried to be an instagram admin because I want to talk to random strangers and hod what I see other people do on my personal account. So I asked my friend if she wanted to join, because we are best friend and she's wanted to do stuff like this too. But them a week later she texting me and telling me that she made one. I was like ok cool!! But then I see that she has way more followers than me. I mean it's fine but this always happens. She always takes my ideas and does it better than me. What should I do?
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My friend is so lucky!
Posted Wednesday July 3 2013, 11:54 pm
My friend has many talents, like, sing, drawing, playing instruments. Well sometimes I feel like poop because it like she better than me. She gets random people on instagram telling her how talented and how pretty she is and sometimes it's like, wow what the heck am I. And the thing is she always like my life sucks or boring or something like that, but yet she's like the most luckiest person I know. She talks to people like Diamond White on twitter and get them saying stuff like I love you and your so amazing. And I always feel like a piece of poop when she tells me stuff like that. But I want to be happy for her, but it's just hard because I want to be able to draw and have people tell me I'm pretty ( even though I already believe it) and be able to talk to famous people too!
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Unsure of How I Should Be Feeling
Posted Wednesday July 3 2013, 4:59 pm
My children and I had plans with a friend today. We made the arrangements ahead of time and decided we would eat lunch on our own and then meet up. Around the time we were supposed to meet, this friend let me know that someone else was joining us and the two of them would be getting lunch first. I didn't think it was a big deal, so I went along with it. Then, she was 30 minutes late. She didn't start eating for another 15 minutes. By this time, my children were tired of waiting. I decided to try to calm them down, but to no avail. An hour and 15 minutes after we were supposed to meet, we finally started to do what we were there for. But, my children were in such foul moods from waiting around that I had to leave. I felt that the w...
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She always does it better than me! :(
Posted Tuesday July 2 2013, 12:08 pm
Me and my best friend started this blog last year. Then we had this big drama so we ended it and made our own seperate blogs. But she used all the stuff from OUR blog and put it on hers and she got more followers than mine and our old blog. Well now I tried to make one of those instagram admin things and I asked her if she wanted to partner up like before. She said no and then 3 days later she telling me to follow her new account. And then I kinda got mad because she had just made hers and she already had more than me. Them she started texting me saying " YAY I have 50 followers already" which wasn't fair cause she had hers for 1 day and I had mine for weeks! It feels like everytime I do stuff like this she always turns out better than me. I don't kno what to do :(
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I've got a crush on a guy quite a bit older than m, any advice?
Posted Tuesday July 2 2013, 4:13 am
I'm a thirteen year old girl, slightly insane. I have a neighbor/friend named Jonathoan. He's thirtytwo. He's a conspiracy theorist, and, although his ideas might be a little out there, I don't think they are all definitely wrong. We like the same kind of music- greenday, the beatles, matchbox 20, etc. We both enjoy learning, and want to know the truth about everything possible. He's funny, and nice. He isn't some weirdo who hangs out with little kids, I'm just kind of odd, and prefer to talk to adults over kids my age. The point of my story? I have a bit of a crush on him. I, of course, haven't told him, and don't plan on acting on my feelings.
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Advice on trust issue
Posted Sunday June 30 2013, 9:20 pm
Hi, I am a female, 30 years old. I was chatting to this 26 something year old and he asks me lots of question but avoids answering my questions. And makes a joke about things. How did I respond?
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What does this mean
Posted Saturday June 29 2013, 1:03 am
You want to be with someone abd their reply to you is "You don't want to be with me" abd when you ask them why they respond "because I am not strong enough"?
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Troubled friendships
Posted Thursday June 27 2013, 7:16 pm
This will be pretty long, I apologize
I am a 28 year old introvert who suffers from depression and anxiety. I am currently on medications and am seeing a counselor.
I still notice I seem to have trouble holding interest in friendships or even engaging in conversations with certain people. I am close with only certain fols in my own family and rarely socialize during family gatherings. I do not have friends but rather acquaintances who on days I enjoy talking to and on others I dred the thought of running into them. Why? I am always telling people who are interested in developing a friendship that I am not the type of person who likes to frequently hang out as I begin to feel overwhelmed and with...
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Losing a friend
Posted Wednesday June 26 2013, 6:10 am
To make a long story short, my friend and I drifted apart. I live across the country but moving back to where she lives very shortly. I have felt like she has distanced herself from me. I try to text and keep in touch, but felt like everything was one-sided. I wrote her an email to explain how I feel. She wrote back saying she re-evaluated the friendship because she felt that I was basically full of anxiety, and so caught up in my own issues that I was a burden on her and made her feel like the friendship was one-sided, like I wasn't there for her enough emotionally and too anxious and caught up in my own life.
I wrote back explaining that circumstances have changed-dueto changing life events as well as the fact that...
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making new friends
Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 1:50 pm
21 f.
I miss my old friends. I moved to nyc a while ago and its been hard to make friends. Ive been in school and work for so long that I never really cared about having friends. Now that summer is here all I see on facebook are people out with friends or hanging out and that makes me so sad cause I cant do the same! Im not in school right now its summer break so I cant make friends there. Is there any other way I can make friends? Places? Sites? Seriously haha. I feel horrible knowing I cant just go to the mall with a girlfriend. Im not talking about a boyfriend btw haha. Just girl friends.
Thanks for any advice in advance:)
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I really miss this boy..
Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 3:11 am
I am a 14 year old girl and I really miss my old best friend. So, it was about four years ago I was at Day Camp with my relatives for a week or so and at the end of the day we would go swimming in an inground pool and I was on the deep side but my sister pulled me under when I wasn't ready and I almost suffocated, it really scared me. Now, 2 years ago at the same Day Camp I met this very sweet boy. I was too afraid to go on the deep side because of what happened the summers earlier so I stayed on the shallow side by myself but the boy was so sweet, he would hang out with me, stay on the shallow side with me and just talk or swim with me, take goofy pictures with me and well we were best friends. He never said one mean thing to me and neithe...
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should I send this girl some poems or give them to her?
Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 5:42 pm
I am a boy and I really like (love) this girl more than I can say and have written her around 5 to 6 poems but don't know if I should send or give to her.
The poems are: (these are 3 I have chosen to give her first)
Your the smile on my face,
The happiness inside me,
you are the person that i constantly think about,
you are the only person I'm glad I met,
Your everything i ever dreamed of,
Beautiful, perfect, caring and funny,
I could go on but the page isn't long enough,
You mean so much to me,
Even more than you think you mean to me,
You are the only person that I have ever really cared about,
I've never felt this close to someone,
A...
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