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Friend can't take a hint!
Posted Friday August 23 2013, 1:52 pm
My friends and I are going to St louis for the weekend. One of our friends invited himself to go. We're goin to the cardnial game and he doesnt have a ticket, but yet he still coming?? Our friend can't take a hint..... Background he has red hair and his name is Keith and wears everyone out! PLEASE HELP
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How to break the tension?
Posted Friday August 23 2013, 12:21 am
Okay i am a 13/f and i have this problem. Okay so my best friend somehow became my boyfriend last year. Then we broke up and now he want me back and i keep saying no just friends. But now at school evrytime we past each other we just seem like strangers and this is our third week of school and we didn't even make eye contact.
My question is i just want to break the tension.
So should i say anything first or just wait
thanks
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moving in with friend = possible problem
Posted Tuesday August 20 2013, 3:33 am
My boyfriend and I wanna move in with our friend Bob. Only problem is, bob has four dogs. This makes things complicated for moving because not a lot of places will accept that many dogs.
Also, we don't really wanna live with that many dogs. They're not the most potty trained and even if they were, someone would still have to clean up after them, and our friend bob is disabled so he'd probably ask one of us to do it, which we don't wanna do/don't think we should have too. Also obviously, 4 dougs=a lot of noise.
he's VERY attached to his dogs and doesn't wanna get rid of any of them. We don't want to give ultimatums but we feel like something needs to be said/done. We just don't know how to approach the problem...
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Very concerned
Posted Monday August 19 2013, 5:31 pm
Lately I have noticed that of my really good friends has gotten quite skinny. Yesterday really threw me off though because she was in the bathroom and I heard her coughing- a LOT. To me, I could never think of her being a bulimic, and if she was I would be really shocked. I mean, maybe she has some other health problem but I'm not sure. I'm concerned for her well being lately and while she was in the bathroom I yelled "are you okay?" When she came out she said "yeah I'm fine" but the tone of her voice or something told me that there was something wrong. Lately she has seemed and acted so down. I'm not sure what's wrong, can someone help me out? Should I sit her down and talk to her?
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One friend in group stopped talking to me?
Posted Sunday August 18 2013, 11:44 pm
This is such an old story. I'm writing here to get insights and to just externalize a few things that I've been holding in. I'll try to be as concise.
Basically, Mary has stopped talking to me. We were college teammates and graduated in 2012. I'm from a big city, different part of the country from where we went to school. About five of my teammates have ended up in the city over the years. We weren't closest of friends while in school, but we had a typical teammate bond and we get together periodically, some get together with every few weeks. Mary and I hung out EVERY WEEKEND and texted daily for four months until she overnight stopped talking to me 3 months ago. We didn't see each other until a group event a few weeks after...
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my
Posted Sunday August 18 2013, 11:05 pm
my school starts soon. Luckily my mothers case is not a big one so it wasn't on the news or anything. I told one of my friends but haven't told two others. If I invite them over they will probably notice my mom not there. Do you think if people find out they will be all cruel or teasing like you usually see on television shows or understandable and just mind their own business? I am optimistic and believe they will be understandable and won't act in the way you usually see like on TV
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Want to be this boys friend but don't know how
Posted Friday August 16 2013, 5:14 pm
Hey there's this boy that goes to my school who seems like a pretty cool guy and I want to be his friend but don't know how I could. I mean he knows I exist and he'll say stuff to me from time to time, he'll point his foot at me and he'll stretch his legs out one going under my desk almost. . How can I offer him to be my friend? (Btw: I'm a girl)
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I need advice ASAP. ASAP!
Posted Friday August 16 2013, 3:12 am
So... My friend came to my house with nothing, a few hours later she had a pack of cigars. The same ones my parents smoke. She had some story of how she got them, but I'm positive she's lying. I don't smoke and I don't want it blamed on me when it's found they're missing. I want her to give them back, and tell the truth... How do I do it?
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Friend vs. Foe
Posted Thursday August 15 2013, 5:32 pm
Let's just start off with a background story of my friend Sarah. Sarah's always been the type of person who asks you for a dollar everyday so she can afford to get cigarettes. She steals from clothing stores and mooches off of everyone. She's never worked a day in her life,she lives off of her boyfriend - basically you get the point. All in all, I haven't ever really considered sarah a "friend" but I certainly never considered her an enemy, even after she started using heroin and other serious drugs. In all honesty I'd stay the hell away from her if she wasn't dating one of my friends.
Now, I'm not a loud person, I'm the type of person people go to to spill out all of their secrets, to get advice from. I never knew...
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what does one do?
Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 6:06 pm
Hello advicenators, I have a question about one of my friends.Today was my first day of 8th grade.I went up to one of what I thought was friends, and she shot me dirty looks and refused to speak.We have been very close in the last few years and she and I told everything to eachother.We were inseperable.Another one of my friends asked her why she wasnt speaking to me, and she said she was not my friend anymore.When I said this to my other pals, everyone was shocked.Im not angry about all of this or even mad at her.I did nothing, nothing at all.I even tried to talk to her over the summer many times.Why would she just drop me now as a friend? Im very confused as I loved her as my sister.Is it me?I am a self harmer and recovering bulimic, maybe...
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I need an advice about my relationship with my Best friend.
Posted Wednesday August 14 2013, 4:08 am
First off, my best friend and I have been friends for a about 2 years now. We have been close ever since, but suddenly this couple months she started dating this guy I hate, she loved him so what can I do? I told her how I felt about him, but I'm not sure if she did anything... 5-6 months or so, they broke up. She dumped him for several reasons; I rather not say what. But thing is after that we talk for many hours!! I mean like hours!! and all she talks about is her bf at times, of how she misses him.
I just feel like she comes to me when she needs something, before she doesnt talk to me much when they started dating. So in the past couple months she met some new friends, and she makes up excuses to be with them rather than be with me... I don't know I'm so confuse :(
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What the heck?!
Posted Friday August 9 2013, 10:55 pm
I was doing laundry and the laundry facility is on the outaide of my apartment building. Some dude around my age was locked out if the building behind me and said "Hi" in the distance and I said Hi back. Then he scratched his his head and asked if I lived in the building and I said yes. So he asked if we wanted to go inside and hang out and I turned down his offer because I dont know him. Then he looked at me and said "ohh you have a boyfriend?" And i responded uhh yeah lol..
What was he thinking? Was he flirting? ... Or just a whacko?
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School and friends advice
Posted Friday August 9 2013, 5:52 pm
Please read School and friends advice help?
The story is confusing I asked this question twice and no one answered because it was too long.
So I am going to try and make this really short.
School is starting up I am going into 4th year and this Is a really important year I have exams ! So I am going to study ALOT this year and last year was the first year we all got different people in different classes that is when It all changed and me as a person. I drifted from my best friend and during that summer I got a lot closer to one of our friend and we have been friends for like over a year. Everything changed it use to be me ,lara ,morgan and then lara started speaking from our old friend from primary and then she ...
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match maker
Posted Thursday August 8 2013, 8:55 am
My girlfriend divorced her husband of 20 yrs for his best friend and they now live together. they seem happy.I set her ex husband up with my next door neighbor and they hit it off and fell in love. I was up front with my girlfriend and told her that I set them up. She got upset and does not want to be friendly anymore. Was I wrong for being a match maker for her ex? Should I have not been up front and told her that I was the match maker? My husband and I care about both of them.
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losing my best friend
Posted Wednesday August 7 2013, 10:56 am
So I've got a bit of depression and I've bEen really down and whatever so today my best friend asked me why I've been so down lately and I said I'm sick so she said she finds it really hard to be my best friend(probably because of me being down) now her and the other girl In our group is becoming best friends, they doing everything together and I don't know how to get my best friend back. I find it so hard to not cut anymore because she was my reason to stop. The reason I don't tell her what's wrong anymore is because she's said things about me being attention seeking, that I must leave the earth and that I'm not really suicdal, stuff like that. I really don't want to lose her :( please help get her back?
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Bestie to boyfriend to _____?
Posted Thursday August 1 2013, 5:00 am
Okay sorry if the story really long. I really need your advice.
Okay im 13 and my friend T( the person im talkin bout) okay we been friends ever since 3rd grade to now. And he was kinda in the friendzone. Cause he told me he liked me ever since 3rd so then i developed feelings. so we were going out. So we never had fight or anything. But a few months later he texted me saying we should break up cause we not the same. So i said o.......k. Now he saying that he want me back. He never told me the truth why he did what he did . So my friend Ty she called me tellin me the real reason why we broke up. (truth had a dream bout Ty and said he broke up with me).
So for now i dont know wat to do. Should i get back with him. Cause i do ...
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real friendship or not
Posted Tuesday July 30 2013, 10:47 pm
I had a friend I considered to be my best friend. But for my bday 30th she called an hr before some of us were going out to celebrate to tell me she wasn't going because she felt akward around my friends she didn't even know.. but she can go out with other friends with their friends no problem. And she also had a get together and invited other friends that ive hung out with but didnt invite me. We haven't talked since, and she is making it look like to others I was the bad guy. Over it? Wouldn't you be?
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A best friend that turned to a boyfriend back to friend.
Posted Monday July 29 2013, 12:40 am
Okay i am 13/f. But my story might be long but sorry if it is. I really need answers.
So anyway, i had a friend he was a year older and we been friends every since 3rd to 8th grade and he were in the Friend zone ever since 3rd and i started liking him in 6th then he finally told me at the beginning of 8th grade and we started going together. We was doing great we never had fight. But he broke up with me one day and texted me that the relationship wasn't the same. And i was hurt and we were together for 10 months. He mad me feel bad. But i got over it and a few hours later a friend of mines told me the truth about him and the break up. And because he had a dream about being with my friend. So a few weeks later he asked me you want to g...
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Husband trying to break marriage because his family doesn't approve?
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 9:27 am
One of my best friend is done the court marriage before 5 months ago. but few days back his husband is traying to breke with her because his family is not allowing . so what should she have to do??
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Tell me what can I do with my friendship
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 4:55 am
So I ask my friend a question..and she answered it wrong...she really acts like she know it all.. She answered me quickly without thinking. And she said, "you tricked me". It was really an easy question like 15 minus 12~ so I said it is a revenge* ... Now she told me stuffs that I didn't said or did. And she got mad bcoz of what she said I did which is really did not do. After few days not replying her because it was tupid and I got angry.. She texted me it was just for fun and it was revenge.... We fight over that, because I think what she did wasn't right or fair~ she didn't apologize and she talks to me I was the wrong one.. Sorry for making it too long..just a summarization :) thanks and please tell me what should I do to make it better..
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