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I cant die but i want to. somebody please, have mercy on me.


Posted Tuesday September 24 2013, 5:42 pm

( Im 16 year old female. I feel like i hurt my mother. If shes disappointed in me and you want to say she'll always love me but i dont care. I dont want love. I feel selfish wanting love from someone who i hurt. I didnt even hurt her, she saw something that wasnt related to her at all and she went through it. Why did she stop is a question i cant bring myself to think about. I get sick to my stomach. I could pass out from the pain ) I want to die. Im sad. Im scared. Im worthless. I have nothing to do. Nothing to give. I cause other people pain just by existing an i dont want to do that. I dont want to hurt people. I stopped doing everythig. Its hard to just get myself to sower. Whats the point. Some of the reason why i honestly didnt cause....

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my mom saw things never ment to be seen.My biggest fear has become reality


Posted Tuesday September 24 2013, 4:49 pm

i am a 16 year old female. Im going to be honest and just sate that im a teenager, im bored, im really shy and spend alot of time alone. Im not the best at socializing so being alone just seems more comfortable for my personal persona. Now that i have that out of the way heres what happened. I have an ipad, and i downloaded an app. The app is a video chat room, the kind where you meet random strangers. Yes it sounds bad, but its just seeing your face. Id never even give out my full name let alone personal info. There was no reason for me to just not go on this because ive heard its bad even though i was seeing first hand its fine and its honestly really fun, plus i wasnt participating in dangerous activities.. Im sorry, but its true. well i...

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My mum has stopped caring now I'm older


Posted Sunday September 22 2013, 2:08 pm

Basically it's always just been my mum & I at home.
But for ten years she's been married to my stepdad. He's the only guy of hers I've ever liked. He was like a dad to me.

I'm 17, and going to university next year.
My mum & stepdad split up two months ago. I won't go into details, but it was messy, and I was there for all of it. It was horrible.

When they were together, my mum never really 'went out'. She met her best friend for coffee every now and then.

But since they broke out she goes out every weekend and a lot of weeknights. She goes to the pub or god knows where else (she often doesn't tell me) and doesn't come home until 4am sometimes, when I'm sat up waiting for...

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How to tell a secret?


Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 9:39 pm

So I am 14 years old and I write poetry. I have like a thousand notebooks full of my poems. I don't know why but I can't show them to anyone, I'm shy and embarrassed. It's like a secret, no one knows that I write them. So my problem is that I recently won a poetry contest and the prize is 500 dollars and I'll be published in a magazine but I don't know how to tell my parents. I know they will be proud but I like my poetry being a secret (ill be published under the name "unknown") so how do i tell them?

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Supporting my mother


Posted Tuesday September 17 2013, 7:12 pm

20,f. My mom has gotten ill. I'm not sure for how long.
At first her doctors were saying it was Multiple Sclerosis but now they are saying it is Lupus

I've done a little research on the disease, and it looks like there's a lot more treatment for people living with Lupus.

My mom and I talk at least once a week but I only see her every other week. I am in college and live in the same town as my mother. We have never been super close, but since she has gotten sick I want to do everything I can to help her. I am really afraid for her right now and she doesn't know what to expect.

What can I do to be the most supportive of my mom?
What can I expect from her with her disease?


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I Want to Help My Girlfriend Come Out to Her Family.


Posted Sunday September 15 2013, 1:44 pm

My girlfriend and I are both teenage girls, and we're in a long distance relationship. She's bisexual. I used to label myself, but now I just say I like girls.

I have already come out to my parents, but my girlfriend has not. We want to be able to see each other in November, and she wants to have told her parents about her sexuality by then.

I care about her deeply and would do anything to help her. I have already given her a few suggestions on how to tell her parents. For example, I told her that she could write them a note or give subtle hints that she's bisexual.

However, she told me that her dad would be a drama queen about it, and her mom seems slightly grossed out by the idea. How could she...

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fuck my cousin sister


Posted Saturday September 14 2013, 3:34 pm

My sister is21 years old &I am19 years old. My cousin name is rajanti.she wearing bra 34 andpentyy 85 cm. One day I touch her ass then she angry on me but do not tell anyone. I want to fuck her. I seen her at time of bathing but she dont show her boobs me. One day she taken bath complete &change clothes then I go there she wear her upper shut but dont wear her lower pazma and remove her penty then I can't seen her vagina but seen her those region. Many time I seen her some part of boobs but cannot clearly. One day I make her clip of changing clothes. She remove her shut shown clearly in bra. I seen that video I crazy about her. I want to fuck her so please advise me for fucking her

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My Parent Does Not Feed Me .


Posted Thursday September 12 2013, 3:54 pm

I am 16 years old and there are four residents in this house ; myself , my cousin , my sister and my grandmother , who is our guardian .
She has a job and works almost every day . Me my sis and my cousin are very mutch under weight . our bones are very visible . we get no allowance at all . the only thing we do receive , if we are lucky , is pocket change . our fridge is almost empty completely . i Dont understand . if she has a job and get paid , why are we starving . i got so used to being starving all the time . my cousin used to 'steal' food or money from my grandmother . i would do the same . i mean , hes only human and hes hungry .
we all go to sleep with empty bellies . my digestive system even slowed down . idk what t...

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Trouble with my step-dad and leaving his house. :/ The story is a long one.


Posted Thursday September 12 2013, 6:58 am

Hello to everyone who reads this. It's going to be long. Sorry about that.

I'm a girl who just turned 18 this July of 2013 and I have been having to deal with the issues I've had with my step-dad for five years now. Well, I guess not counting the two years I went to live with my biological father...so I guess three years. Almost four counting this year.

Moving on...I just can't bring myself to get along with him. We don't argue on a daily basis or anything, but when we do have a disagreement, it's heated and he always ends up being the one to break off the conversation and walk away. I never cuss at him or swing at him or anything like that, but he will occasionally cuss at me or cuss out my family members. (I...

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Favorite Memories of Grandparents


Posted Wednesday September 11 2013, 10:01 pm

What is your favorite memory of a grandparent or elderly friend?

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Dad is criticizing me- my relationship is over with him


Posted Sunday September 8 2013, 9:18 am

Please pardon me as this is a bit long although I have tried to keep it as brief as possible.

I am a 27 year old working woman.
My problem is how my aging dad treats me.

I do not like how he taunts me on things that hurt a lot. For example, I had once lost my job four years ago although I never had a problem getting a good job after that.

Funnily though, since then, if I were to for example, disagree with my dad on something and talk strictly with him over the phone if he is adamant on something he wants me to do which I do not want to, or if we disagree on something and he is constantly arguing, then he would start telling on how I got fired once from my job and that if I continue arguin...

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Parents took my child


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 7:22 pm

I am a 22 yr old male. I need advice in dealing with the relationship between my parents & I. One year ago I had my first child, my girlfriend & I were living with my parents at the time. My mother said some really hurtful things to my girlfriend and then called the law on us. Our newborn son was removed from us for one month and my parents had him during that time. My parents took me to court to try and get custody of my son. They told us they weren't, but I did not trust them, still don't. They cheated me of a month of my son's life. I'm angry that they called the law on me & my girlfriend and feel that they are wrong and could have handled things differently. I feel that my mother is trying to control my life and take away my...

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I feel like I have no reason to live


Posted Friday September 6 2013, 2:09 pm

Im 15 Female, my mom constantly yells at me takes her anger out on me by saying mean and hateful things I don't have a dad my older sister moved out and my brother is moving in with his dad in 3 weeks I feel like I have no reason to live I'm homeschooled and have no friends I feel ugly every body picks on me because I don't have straight teeth my mom doesn't have money for braces I'm sick of everything and everyone

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Is it wrong of me not to want these relatives around?


Posted Thursday September 5 2013, 8:34 pm

I have a frickin' complex because of how my sister always manages to be the center of my dad's and his side of the family's attention. It's like they do their best to make me feel ignored and never shut up about her.

Saturday is my birthday and my dad wants my grandmother and probably my cousins to be there. I don't because it's the one day of the year when I'm the center of attention and can make my family do what I want, but not if they're there. They'll all be more interested in my sister and they'll probably try to change our plans. For example, my cousin will surely want to change the restaurant we're going to eat at from my favorite place to whatever rat hole she likes. They probably won't want to go to the movie I want...

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my mom is holding a grudge against my dad's side of the family


Posted Thursday September 5 2013, 6:02 pm

Hey i am 24 years old and my mom has been holding a grudge against my dad's side of the family for years now ever since I was little and over the years it has gotten a lot worse when I 5 my dad molested me and ever since then my mom has been holding a grudge against my dad and his family even though my dad died when I was 12 she is still holding a grudge against him the reason she is holding a grudge against my aunt and one of my cousins is because they were really mean to her when she reported my dad and then they wouldn't talk to me for years because I had moved out and I have managed to forgive them but my mom hasn't and I have just started talking to them again about a year ago because I had moved out because my cousin who is autistic w...

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Me and My Mom


Posted Monday September 2 2013, 3:49 pm

I'm 14 and a female.. I asked a question about 2 months ago about me not sure if I should go to Mexico or not, and well I did go. It was an unforgettable experience. unfortunately my grandmother passed away and my mom and I have been having issues since then. I've always had this anger towards my mom. I try to let it go but the thought of what she did/does makes me sick. A few years back i was a lot younger and my older sister caught her sexting on webcam with a man. I was too young to really be upset but a few months ago she left her phone in my room and she left to the store and I also did something I shouldn't have. I snooped through her phone and saw she was sexting and had pictures of a man's area.. I haven't told her anything, my sist...

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my sister moved back in


Posted Monday September 2 2013, 12:27 am

well let's see here it goes i am 21 years old female my sister is 30 years old and she moved in on Thursday mom made a special trip to Florida to get her after she beat up my mom and beat me up and she only wants to live with us when she has know where else to and when she doesn't have a girl friend that she can move in with yes I said girlfriend she is gay . she has a 10 year old son and a 12 year old daughter that my mom have custody of because she had her kids walking in a drug infested neighborhood at night with no shoes no jacket and we were not allowed to see them . she has showed her 12 year old daughter sex toys in the past while she has stayed with us. I think that she is on drugs she doesn't care about anybody but herself . my ot...

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My cousin won't talk to me


Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 7:29 pm

A few years ago, me, my brother, and my two cousins would hang out a lot. But i would sometimes complain. When an accident would happen, i would blame it on my cousin (its a guy cousin). But in reality it wasn't his fault. I would keep insisting it was. But this would happen frequently. we were about ten years old. And now its about for years later. Were teens. I really want to apologize because i truly, deeply regret it. But the problem its he stopped talking to me. I don't know if its too late to apologize. He doesn't seem to hate me too much but i don't know what to do.

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Can't forgive emotional affair.


Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 8:19 am

Hi. About 6 months back I found that my husband had an emotional affair. I confronted him and he claimed is not true. later I found proof that he in fact was emotionally attached to a woman who was also married. It turned into an ugly fight and we were seperate for a month. He asked me to return for the sake of our children. He had still not acknowledged nor apologised for his cheating. I can't sleep at times thinking about this. I start crying mid day when no one is at home.
He still had contact with her but for completely different reasons,and I believe it 100%. But I cannot believe and accept the fact that he was emotionally intimate with another woman. I don't know how to forget and foregive him. We are back in our relationship...

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my brother in law likes me and hes way older than me but i like him to


Posted Monday August 26 2013, 10:34 pm

If He Says He Wants To Give A Bad Kiss. What Does That Mean ?? 13 Female

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