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Friendship gone sour
Posted Monday September 23 2013, 6:50 pm
22/f
Okay so I've been best friends with my friend for about 15 years. almost 2 years ago we had an argument (I went away for college and she stayed home for hair school). I was upset whenever I came home she would never see me or didn't have time to see me on my breaks from school. So we stopped talking. I've tried reaching out to her before through a text maybe 3 times last year to hang out or to talk about what happened but I got no response back, yet she still managed to say happy birthday to me last year. Well today I decided to try one last time to reach out to her I said I wouldn't be back from school till thanksgiving but I asked if we could get lunch and catch up and she never responded back. I honestly don't know wh...
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Ideas for clubs or stuff for nerds
Posted Saturday September 21 2013, 10:49 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl, and I want to do something I find fun with other like minded people. Any suggestions?
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In need of some advice! My crush is driving me crazy!?
Posted Monday September 16 2013, 8:04 pm
Okay so im going to explain this the best that I can. So i have a neighbor who i have known since i was 9 and im now 17 on Thursday! :p okay so we were best friends and we kissed! So we have made up a couple of times and it just hasnt worked out too well. So just about a month ago he messaged me on Facebook out of no where (i like him so i was super excited) and he wanted to ride bikes like we used to do every night! So we rode bikes 3 different times and i thought all was going well and we were friends again and we were gonna work on this. But then out of no where he just started ignoring me. I didnt do anything at all.. And he had his keychain at my house and i found it and so i told him and he asked me if i could put it in him mailbox! W...
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I hate my wife's best friend
Posted Monday September 16 2013, 2:21 pm
So I would like to know if I'm wrong or right and what to do.... My wife has her best friend of about fifteen years....her friend has always been a bit of trouble .....if it wasn't drugs it was partying and being the village bicycle....my wife and I have been together for 11 of those and I've tried over the years to be ok with her friend in the picture but as soon as I start warming up to her she does something like cheats on her husband not to mention she is lazy treats her husband like servant and is so immature and when her and my wife get together they act like dumb little girls....now my wife and I met in high school and I'm two years older. We have each done our fair share of dumb shit but she 27 and me 29 now , have settled down, hav...
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what to do
Posted Monday September 16 2013, 12:18 am
what do i do when my friend thinks im flrting with a guy that she just met and is sayin that hes her bf
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how to talk to a friend that thinking sucide.
Posted Saturday September 14 2013, 9:40 pm
im a 13/f that have a friend that thinking about killing himself. He seem like the most happy person. But i just found out that he have problems. We been friends for a long time. But he also liked me too. But i dont like him like that. So he said he had death in his family and also had a really bad relationship. So i dont know how to talk to him. So help me.
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This girl has got to go.
Posted Thursday September 12 2013, 9:46 pm
Sorry for the length. So I'm 21/f and since I met my boyfriend three years ago we've formed our own little group with the two of us and three other guys around the same age. There was no conflict, good times and my boyfriend and I would always talk about how we had a great group of friends. About a year ago one of the guys had entered a relationship with a girl that was already dating someone else (she cheated on her, now, ex with our friend). At first the rest of the group was very skeptical but our friend seemed happy so we welcomed her into the group. As time went on we noticed that she was extremely insecure, she lies constantly about things that just don't matter, she is a constant flirt with the rest of the guys, and whenever her and ...
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Should i message this guy on Facebook?
Posted Wednesday September 11 2013, 1:16 pm
Me and my neighbor started talking again like 3 weeks ago but we only talked like 3 times and then i went to his youth group and he totally ignored me. Should i message him on Facebook or should i just keep ignoring him like he is ignoring me? I was told to just send him "." and say it was on accident. Should i do that? o.O Also i like him and ive known him for about 8 years and we used to be best friends!
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Why would my guy friend start talking to me again then out of no where..?
Posted Monday September 9 2013, 9:19 pm
Completely ignore me? Okay so i have this neighbor who is 15 and im 16 and we used to be best friends! We were inseparable. But we kissed and things just didnt work out anymore. Well we have tried being friends again and it worked out for a small amount of time but thats it. So just about 3 weeks ago he messaged me on facebook and we were talking and we ended up going out and riding bikes together like we used to do! That only happened about 3 times. We wrestled on my trampoline and this boy likes making things seem sexual because of course hes a teenage boy. But i was invited to his youth group by my friend and when i got there and he saw me he really didnt look that happy. Well he said hey and thats the only thing he said to me the whole ...
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They always stare..?
Posted Sunday September 8 2013, 1:38 am
Hi I am a fourteen year old and I am in High School. I don't want to sound vain or anything but I think I'm cute. But anyways, boys stare at me but they never talk to me..like NEVER. Why is that? It really kinda makes me think there is something wrong with me, and I've even cried my eyes out because of this. It's not only boys who stare at me but its also girls..some of the girls look at me with hatred in their eyes. You may think this is a stupid question but is there something wrong with me? I always try to be very nice to everyone and give them a smile or ask how there day was. Thanks in advance.(:
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I feel different..?
Posted Friday September 6 2013, 9:11 pm
Hi, I am a teenage girl. Outgoing, cute, fun-loving, ,softspoken, good sense of humor. Anyways, I had a peprally at my school today and my friend and I were looking for seats but we found some beside this guy(let's call him Ryan). So my cousin told me a couple months back Ryan likes me(as a girlfriend) but I wasn't sure because, you know, I never talked to Ryan before then. My friend and I got seated and I ended up sitting beside Ryan. Ryan and I got to talking. He made me feel so different, special, weird, good, and, well, it's hard to explain. I know, I know what you're going to say "Pay attention in school" or "get your head out of your butt"(not that I've heard those phrases alot around my house) But anyhoo, he made ...
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Dont know what to think
Posted Monday September 2 2013, 12:46 am
An old friend of mine whom I have known for 13 years fell out with me 3 years ago. My ex friend has been dating a very manipulative guy for the past 8 years and since, I have seen her loose her friends over the years.
Well, Too keep this short, I haven't seen or spoken to her in 3 years.
In the past month or two another old friend of mine found where I live (I live in the next building over from my ex friend ) We all used to be friends in high school back 10 years ago. I noticed since I got back in contact with this old friend, My ex friend has been seemingly nice all of the sudden.
The other day I was walking and she waved from a distance, I stood there for a few seconds dumb f...
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Posted Friday August 30 2013, 7:03 pm
When I started high school I've been with this very large group of 9 people. But then the group slip into two because of some fight. I hung out with one of these sub-groups for a while but then, I became close friends with someone from the other group and well- eventually I started hanging out with her group a lot more.
Then, when I noticed that I had dumped my friends. I can back but when I did- I was already a stranger. I had no idea what and who they were talking about and no longer know anything about them.
My presence became so small among them. No one hears me when I talk and they all forget about me.
I try really hard to fit back in but today was the breaking point. I can't believe I have to talk...
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What should i do about her?
Posted Thursday August 29 2013, 6:44 pm
Hi a while back she dumped me as a friend and we are no longer friends anymore:( A while back i was kind of okay with not being friends. Now i am getting really sad and jealous of her being friends with my other friends on facebook and in real life. everytime i see her i feel sad and i miss her sooo much. Yeserday i saw her it was the first day of school i was scared to see her i hide behind a teacher so she would not see me. but i think she and her friends saw me. Her friend was talking very loud for some odd reason. Then today i was another friend of her she did not wave back to me when i waved to her. But i saw another friend of her she said hi to me when i waved to her. My question is why am i a bad person to her why does she hate me for i did nothing wrong! please help
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Lonely at college this summer :(
Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 9:32 pm
Hi,
I'm 18 f - I got into college this year. I decided to start college early and registered for classes during the summer quarter. Now I'm here and I've been taking classes for 3 weeks. I have a problem that's been giving me a lot of trouble lately- I feel like such a loner because I'm always eating by myself in the dining hall.
I love my classes and the campus is amazing. My problem is that there aren't many people here over the summer. So there are no student clubs and all of the student centers around campus are closed until the Fall Quarter. So I only meet people in class, the dorm and at a church.
My classmates are nice- sometimes I hang out with a few of them- but all of them are sophomores or old...
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Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 2:48 am
Okay. So. I met this guy named Maik( but you just pronounce it Mike) I met him on Omegle. Its a online chatting thing. And well he looked older.. He lookes about 16.. So when he asked me how old i was. I said 16.. But turned out he was 14. And im 12.. I never knew that we would become such good friends.. But we did... And i want to tell him. But i dont know how. I just dont want to loose him.. </3 Please help. :c
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I think im attached to his guy and i need help!!
Posted Monday August 26 2013, 9:51 pm
So me and my neighbor havent talked in 2 years until last tuesday (we used to be best friends) and we started riding bikes again and now i feel like were supposed to ride every night and i just get upset and aggravated if we dont. Idk what to do but now ive been feeling like this everynight and its just depressing!! What can i do to stop constantly hoping were gonna ride bikes every night so i wont be so depressed about it?? Help please!?
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My friends curse
Posted Friday August 23 2013, 9:57 pm
I'm in middle school and i know a lot of people change in middle school but my friends have changed a lot. A lot of them curse now and it's really annoying because I HATE unnecessary cursing! And the just curse for know reason! And then one of my friends who actually goes to church with me used the f word and then put god right after it. I was like "REALLY?!?!". I mean I understand there's a lot going on with her parents and stuff and I've been supportive of that but know she curses and it's really annoying some of my friends have stopped when I don't them I don't like it but I would hate to loose a friend because the curse. :(
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Want to fix my friendship up!
Posted Friday August 23 2013, 9:50 pm
I have a friend and she's been like my best friend since kindergarten, I think (let call her T)! But this year we had like maybe a couple of little bickerings, I guess you can call it. And this summer our friend came back from Texas ( let's call her C). That just made T a little uneasy because when we were little T got jealous of me and C's friendship!
Finally I got T and C to get together and we had a sleepover for C's birthday. It was fun but T got offended when me and C laughed when T told us she was going to start a photography business (we are only 12 that's why I laughed).
A couple days later we talked about it and i tried to say sorry and explain why I laughed but my phone died and we didnt talk for about 3...
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Friend problems
Posted Friday August 23 2013, 2:04 pm
Hi, I'm a 18 year old girl in a college in the US. I'd REALLY appreciate any advice.
I am not sure what to do this Saturday. A few days ago, I invited two girls I met at church called Sally and Christina to hang out this Saturday. Sally is Chinese and in charge of international outreach at church, and she wanted to invite my 4 hallmates who happen to be Chinese International students too. I said that was fine and we decided to hang out downtown and have lunch together this Saturday.
Now one of my hallmates wants to invite her Chinese friend, and Sally wants to bring along about 3 more Chinese students. I like Chinese people, especially my hallmates, but the problem is whenever they are together they like to spe...
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