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Traveling to Florida
Posted Tuesday November 12 2013, 10:37 pm
21/F
Hi everyone! I am in need for some help. I'm the type of person who makes everyone else happy over themselves. I beat myself up over everything overthink everything and look really down on myself. So what my issue is my grandparents have a place in florida they live for the winter. They invited me and my cousin down to come in like january. My grandparents are getting really old and my cousin offered to drive their car down. My grandfather is hard of hearing and kind of just told her yeah. So for months she is thinking she is driving their car down with her friend and im like okay I will just fly. So up until recently I keep telling my grandmother that my cousin says shes driving her car and she denies it everytime. To ...
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Do male students get crushes on female teachers?
Posted Tuesday November 5 2013, 4:21 pm
I always read about girls getting crushes on their male teachers but I wonder if the same thing happened with boys and female teachers
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girl friend calls me shorty questioning me in text.
Posted Saturday November 2 2013, 12:53 pm
why did someone i thought was a friend from florida, who i have literally been looking out for fianically. Always giving her support mentally, makes this not make sense. No romanic feelings are there. She hates men & sex. (so she says) but is overly friendly to anyone & everyone as if trying to show interest. Came out of bad relationship, got her bank account stolen by her sibling...alianated & was constantly getting things stolen, by her ibling, (an adult) w/children & married living up stairs. All of a sudden when i cannot attend to her due to a funeral, she says that. Makes no sense. Any clue?
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Best friend treats me horribly
Posted Friday November 1 2013, 6:43 pm
Okay, where do I start....
I have two freinds. I'll call them M, and D.
Now starting with M. She is, in short, a spoiled immature brat. We have been freinds for five years and she has always been mean to me. But lately, its been getting worse. Shes a great girl to be around (when shes not a brat) but her father drinks and shes ben having some problems at home. But I feel like shes controling my life! I cant do so may things I like to do becquse I feel like shes about to walk in the door and judge me for it. She never listens to me and does stuff i ask her not to just to make me mad. She always tells me im dumb and that im usless if I dont do something perfectly. I know im not the perfect friend, but I cant tak...
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Just a friend, or interested in me...?
Posted Wednesday October 30 2013, 4:32 am
Well, this might be a little long, but I'll start at the beginning and try to summarize it as much as I can without making this pointless.
There's this girl a year younger than me who has been kind of a friend since a few years ago in high school. We met through some mutual friends in freshman year, and we were both kind of quiet, like we both were with pretty much everyone.
After a while she started to sort of open up just a little bit, and talk with me(which was rare for her to do with anyone but close friends). We had basically identical interests(music, art, adrenaline rushes, Japanese culture, a general loathing of most humans, etc.). Then in my senior year we had a class together with a bunch of horribly ...
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Many girls talk bad about me but I don't even know most of them...
Posted Tuesday October 29 2013, 12:40 am
I'm a girl and I'm 15 There is a lot of girls that are in my school that don't like me . Many girls talk bad about me but I don't even know most of them . I'm am nice to them but they don't like me how can I make friendships that would last?
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Friend Selfishness
Posted Saturday October 26 2013, 11:57 pm
(Female, 13) I have 2 friend groups who I hang out with, one is funny and the other is popular ish and funny. The one who I used to hang out with way more was the first, but there is a girl in there who takes up all the attention I could be getting and is way better and prettier than me and who has many suitors. She makes me feel like I am her shadow, especially because we both draw and she is more talented and is very recognized for it. I hate myself because if her, and have been cutting since 12. I decided to leave the group for my other, and hang out with them at our only social time,lunch. I sit by them. Ever since, I have felt way better and it is really fun over there. My old group is convinced they use people and are mean, a...
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21st bday w/o friends
Posted Thursday October 24 2013, 4:42 pm
My 21st birthday is in a week and a half. I have no close friends who I want to spend it with... and my family is in another country.
I want to have a memorable 21st birthday because all my other birthdays were crappy. I don't want to be alone so I'm asking my boyfriend to be with me that night. but I doubt he has any plans for us. What should I do? He's only 20 so he can't come with me to bars or clubs. I dont want to spend the night "in' watching movies. we always do that.
I dont want to get my hopes up about somebody planning a party or a fun event because it NEVER turns out the way I expected and it just always turns into a disaster.
help!
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I am confused on the point that whether i am falling for my friend or not.
Posted Thursday October 24 2013, 12:01 pm
i am from India. I am 21 years old. i met this guy two and a half months before and we turned out to be very good friends. after one month, i realized that this person is falling for me. i ignored this fact to the greatest extent possible. but now his behavior is changing. and now i miss all those things which he used to do for me. no doubt, he still does everything which i tell him to do. many a times i become possessive for him and even after knowing this fact, he continues to do whatever i say. he calls me whenever i ask him to. in short, he rarely makes efforts from his side. but equally he never ignores what i tell him. suggest me what should i do now and is it right for me to continue making the efforts from my level..?
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on his birthday?
Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 5:38 pm
Okay so if you've answered any of my previous questions its a yes I decided to ask and actually talk to him but I'm wondering if I should ask him on his birthday?
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As a woman, I can't talk to women.
Posted Wednesday October 23 2013, 4:47 pm
I'm 18 years old and I just started school at an women's college. I'm starting to think it was a mistake.
I wanted to go to this school because I really want to make close girl friends. I can't seem to do it. I just don't know how to talk to girls. I feel like I never know what to say, or how to respond to things they say that can continue the conversation. Maybe it's because I'm too used to being around my close group of male friends, but how can it really be that different?
I don't know what could make me so... awkward around women. I know it's not nervousness because of romantic or sexual feelings- I am in a relationship and not interested in dating or sex.
I have social anxiety as well, which I had been doin...
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should I ask him?
Posted Monday October 14 2013, 9:55 am
Okay so I'm a junior girl and I'm trying to find someone decent to prom, I know its a long ways away but I don't want to have a slim picking to choose from. So he's a freshman. I don't know if I should ask him or not because we have only been talking to each other non-stop for the past 3 days. Please help! I need to know if I should ask him and if so, in a cute way.
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Bff material or boyfriend material?
Posted Saturday October 12 2013, 7:47 pm
Hello! Well, I have a guy friend and he is the sweetest thing in the world. He protects and is very gingerly around me. We've dated like on and off the last 2 years but we are just friends and have been for a while now. He wants to date me but I do to but I can't date him because I have relationship issues and I love our bff friendship. We say everyday we love each other and we sit with each other everyday on the bus. He is my everything but I'm not sure if he's a good bf because I've had problems in the past about him but we have a friendship no one could ever break apart. So any advice?
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texting each other all day, every day
Posted Saturday October 12 2013, 3:39 pm
Okay so I'm a junior girl in high school and there's this guy who is a freshmen and is like my best friend. We started texting each other basically all day for the past 2 days and is continuing on. I'm not saying I don't like the texts but I can't tell if he's just being really close friends or wants to be bf & gf? You know what I'm saying? anyway I guess my question in a short story would have to be what does it mean when a guy texts you all the time?
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How to i become friends with this girl?
Posted Saturday October 12 2013, 10:00 am
Hi , I'm Aisling , I'm 14 and I'm in 3rd year at secondary school.
The reason I asked this question is because I want to become friends with this girl called Niamh . She is in my class and she hangs round with a group of girls - not being stereo typical- but if I had to describe them , I would call them popular girls! I like Niamh very much and I really want to be her friend , but unfortunately I'm very scared to talk to her - especially when she is with her friends- I feel awkward. Everyday I say hello to her , and I like most of her pictures on Instagram and I retweeted one of her tweets and I would send her a snapchat but she never replies - even if it does say she opened it- . I pray every night that I will be her friend but I d...
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When I go to school I go to the bathroom and wait until class starts. How do I make friends?
Posted Monday October 7 2013, 9:25 am
Someone help I just wanna have friends make new friends I barley am around people because usually stay home babysitting I can't go out on certain days. The people I babysit are my siblings so it no problem I just can't join any clubs in school because of it I just wish there was a way I could make friends that understand my babysitting situation. I love bing there for others and talking to people but when I arrive to school I can't socialize I usually go to the bathroom and wait till class starts :/ I also have a boyfriend he understands but he also doesn't have many friends. The friends I have don't really have that connection with me :/
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My Friends and I can't Communicate Anymore
Posted Saturday October 5 2013, 2:11 pm
I am going through a rough time. Everday at recess me and my friends go to the swings. The problem is that none of us talk, we try and the conversation runs dry. We always used to try and fix things and engage, but lately it seems like we don't care. What should we do to fix this failing friendship?
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Boy Help: My parents don't like his parents, his parents don't like my parents... what do we do?
Posted Thursday October 3 2013, 7:44 pm
Well, my best friend in the entire world is a guy. He is my everything. Yes, we've dated multiple time on and off for a while but we haven't dated for 7 months and we decided just to be friends. Well, he is a gentleman. He makes me laugh, he is so nice. He sits with me o my bus like i"m the only person her ever sits with and he is plainly awesome. He was my first kiss and it's really hard just to forget about that person. Anyways, his parents are very rude towards me and he dispises his parents for being so mean to me but my parents don't like his parents and his parents don't get along with my parents so I don't want to date him but we can only really hangout on the bus and he lives right next to me. Like 100 feet away from my house. ...
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My best friend moved
Posted Thursday October 3 2013, 4:58 am
Okay, well 274 days ago my best friend moved back to Thailand. Ive had friends move before- 7to be exact- but i never missed them so much. She moved here 4 years ago (her father is a diplomat) and had to move back. Before she moved, we were in a trio. Me, Erica and her. I remember the day she told us she was moving back. We cried all day and had to go home from school because we were disrupting other students. Needless to say, we were heartbroken. We Skype every week and I've asked my mum if next year when I'm fourteen I can go to Thailand to visit her. I've been saving for two years, because I knew she was going to leave some time. My mum says no because I'm too young. I miss her so much and cry about it every night. I don't know what to d...
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I'm 13 and a nerdgirl and have a crush on my nerdfriend. Should I tell him?
Posted Tuesday October 1 2013, 9:29 pm
How do I know if he likes me? What would I say? How do I talk to him alone and sound smart if I do? Why is it so complicated?
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