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What's the best way to get my ex back?


Posted Saturday December 31 2016, 3:04 am

Hello, long story short back in October I broke up with my ex of only 4 months. Looking back on it now I probably shouldn't have and I want to give things another chance. At the time I was with him I was still fighting in court with my ex before him, trying to get a restraining order if that tells you anything. I was going through that as well as medical issues, and having to move to a new city and start a new job. It was just too much for me with a relatively new boyfriend and he was also going through a bunch of crap that had him all stressed out and the combination was a bad one at the time.

Now everything in my life has cleared up and I want him back. I know how selfish that sounds, but I still think about him and think m...

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Is it over, should I say anything?


Posted Friday December 30 2016, 11:37 pm

I'm sorry this is long. First of all my boyfriend and I did love each other very much and were very jealous of each other, we had intentions of getting married very soon.
My boyfriend and I have been broken up, got back together, broke up again and back together recently. We believed we were destined and that's why no matter what, we still wanted to keep trying. There's been no other serious issues other than constant arguing, occasional distrust, and feelings of neglect. We said we would try to work on it. I recently asked my boyfriend why he his status still says single on facebook and its public. (PS I have no facebook). I asked him to change it, and asked why he publicly wrote single in the first place. I wasn't looking for anyo...

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What is my teacher really thinking


Posted Tuesday December 27 2016, 5:21 pm

I have a teacher that I think flirts with me A LOT, but then again I'm not sure, I feel like he's interested in me but can someone please tell me some signs to look for? Or how can I really tell he's flirting with me, I like him a lot but would never do anything bad. I just would like to know.

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Sledding "date?" What to wear?


Posted Tuesday December 27 2016, 2:38 pm

(F13) So, I like this guy quite a bit. I asked him if he wanted to go sledding with me, and he said yes. Our plan is to go sledding and what not. But I'm not sure if this is a date (We are in middle school) and if it is, or if it isn't, what do I wear? The temperatures will be around 30F but I'm not so sure about wearing my snow gear, because I am afraid I will look clunky if I wear it all. Furthermore, do we hang out at the sledding place or do we go to one of the others houses? Would it be weird if I brought hot chocolate to sledding?

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Kissing Advice


Posted Saturday December 24 2016, 9:50 am

Hello, I'm Laura, I'm 17 and I need a little advice. I've scoured the internet high and low and I can't seem to find anyone else with this problem. No matter who I'm kissing, I can't kiss their bottom lip. It's very hard to explain, but I can't really angle myself to be able to kiss it right? I've been kissing since 14 and I've kissed quite a few people and I still struggle with it. Anyone else have this issue?

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im confused


Posted Saturday December 24 2016, 5:14 am

so im a freshman in high school and a girl,there is this boy i like about a month now and when im with him i really feel the feeling and he makes me smile and laugh and feeling in love in some way (because im only 15) but i never had the need of kissing him and anyway do such things with him and even though i want to be with him because im not sure but i thnik that he likes me too now that schools closed and im somehow away even though we chat via facebook im kind of confused about my feelings and i dont know if the fact that i feel proud of him and i know i like him in a romantic way but i dont have that need i dont know if it is good or not maybe it is because i never had a boyfriend before but i dont know if that has to do something with it please answer me

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Is it bad that I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend?


Posted Friday December 23 2016, 7:45 pm

I don't understand what the big deal is, literally everyone I know is in my ear telling me it's time for me to start dating and get a boyfriend. Even my own dad! He wanted me to get a prom date (but I couldn't which is a long story) now he wants me to have a boyfriend by my second year of university. Then today my sisters friends (they're all 16) we asking my sister about my first year in university then they started asking "does she have a boyfriend?" Or "is she seeing/talking to anyone" or "is she partying" or "is she experimenting" or "did she see any guy she likes?" Of course all my sisters answers were no and they all felt sorry for me saying it's my first year and I should put myself o...

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I recently met someone who used to love me and I wonder if he still does?


Posted Friday December 23 2016, 8:07 am

There is this guy who used to love me very much a long time ago. He loved me for about 4-5 years or so despite me being in love with some other idiot back then. We were in highschool and I was a very big idiot because I ignored him despite him being so kind and nice to me all those years. He tried his best despite me always talking about that other guy who treated me very badly. I was blind to him. After I finished highschool, I decided I wanted a clean start and cut contact with everyone I knew back then. Now it's been 6 years since then, and I know he had a girlfriend but he recently broke up with her. I also had a few boyfriends since then but I am single now. About a couple weeks ago I've talked with my sister about him and last week he...

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What does this mean?


Posted Thursday December 22 2016, 8:18 pm

So, yesterday I got the courage to tell the guy that I like that I like him. I knew that he didn't like me back since we were barely friends.

Anyway, after I told him, he said this: "I'm flattered (my name)!!! But you know you and me don't talk a lot. Trust me, u don't wanna like me lol"

Then I said: "I know we don't talk much, that's why I said me liking you is stupid."

He said: "Yea, we should talk more. Hmu sometime!"

^^ I don't know whether he said that to just be nice or whether he actually meant it. I'm scared to talk to him :(

Was he being for real or just to be nice?


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Should I confess?


Posted Wednesday December 21 2016, 12:00 am

So, there's this guy I like. He's in two of my classes. We're not friends who talk everyday, but we're on friendly terms. I want to tell him that I like him.

I was planning to do so tomorrow. I just want to let him know. I know he doesn't like me back.

After discussing this with a few of my friends, some of them said I shouldn't tell him because it'll "ruin everything" and why should I even tell him if I don't care what the outcome is.

I don't know what to do... tomorrow is the last day I see him before break... should I do it? Are my friends right? Is it pointless?

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MEN, IS IT WRONG FOR A WOMAN TO PURSUE A MAN IF HE IS SHOWING INTEREST????


Posted Monday December 19 2016, 2:49 pm

people keep saying the man is supposed to pursue the woman...when a woman asks out a man it shows that they are desperate. is this true? how would you feel if a woman asked you out?

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For love affairs


Posted Sunday December 18 2016, 2:10 pm

Sir my friend has fingered his girlfriend and after her girlfriend is suffering in fever with high pain what they should do ?


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I like this guy at schools


Posted Saturday December 17 2016, 4:51 pm

Hey so I'm 13 f and I have a crush on this guy he 13 too! But I think he likes my friend! He put his arm around her the one day but then friday decmeber 16th he put his arm around me and now all my friends are like ooooo he likes you! Does that mean he does should I do something and I think he had a boner too cuz I felt something hard on my leg the one time when he did that what shoud I do!???

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Should i try to stay with my ex girlfriend


Posted Saturday December 17 2016, 5:12 am

Should I try and stay with my ex girlfriend?

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Friends concerned about boyfriend


Posted Friday December 16 2016, 3:45 am

My boyfriend and I met my junior year his senior year of college and we have now been dating for a little over a year. We actually met each other through two close friends who were dating each other. He is doing a fifth year of college so we are both still at school this year. Things started to get a little sour this past semester. We had three really big fights that left me really upset and my friends saw this. This semester four of my friends all broke up with their boyfriends. The combination of my friends seeing my boyfriend hurt me with the fact that I refrained from talking about the good things he did (not wanting to come home to a group of girls grieving relationships and brag about mine...) made it so that at this point some of my ...

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for my crush what should i write in his card


Posted Tuesday December 13 2016, 6:55 pm

well I seen the bus driver I have a crush on, who is always shy but nice towards me and talks very low and mild mannered....so as I am getting on the bus today, he just cheeses and grins with all 32 teeth and proceeded to ask me was that package I had for him, I said no this is mine all giddy and he laughed and I said my boss gave this 2 me as a gift...all the folks on the bus just lol and smiled at the two of us and mr. cutey said congrats and I said thanks and as i was about 2 get off the bus he just kept staring at me and smiling and said loudly/confidently for the first time ever have a great day while still smiling, i proceeded to say thanks and i asked will you be driving again next week, he said yes smiling, i said ill bring you a Ch...

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What are the signs of a long distance friend wants to be more than friends?


Posted Monday December 12 2016, 12:59 am


We've met online became close friends fairly quickly. Stayed in touch via chat, text and only video chat a few times this whole year. We both truly care for each other and check up on one another. We are always there for each other for emotional support and encourgment. She and I talked about a possiable relationship but we want to spend time together in person to see if we have potential.

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Need answers: I texted my ex and never got a response.


Posted Thursday December 8 2016, 10:25 pm

I texted my ex and never got a response. He's never not responded to a text from me. I told him I wanted to check in and wish him luck on his job hunt and that I hoped he was doing well. He read it but never responded. We reconnected a few months ago. It's always been me reaching out first but I always had a reasonable time frame in between. I never bombarded him with texts and our conversations were mutually receptive we still have feelings for each other. He mentioned that I can call him anytime I want but he has also mentioned needing time because of factors in his life, he's also in a relationship. Why has he not responded? Is he done?

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I am under 18, would I be allowed to get a pregnancy test?


Posted Wednesday December 7 2016, 3:25 pm

I live in NJ and I am under age of 18 and I had sex would I Be aloud to get a pregncey test?

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he was showing signs he found me attractive but..?


Posted Tuesday December 6 2016, 12:51 pm

So theres this guy in three of my classes in university. So i didnt notice him at first but i noticed that he watched me everytime i would walk past him to my seat, then the next week he kept glancing in my direction mind you he sits in the upper far left while i sit in upper middle if that makes sense. Then the week after one time he looked back to listen to my convo and then smiled turning around. Which made me loose my train of thought cause i noticed he was actually kind of cute and then my friend made a joke saying "your boyfriend is looking at you again" because she noticed from that first day of walking past him that he was looking at me, so now in the second class hes in he used to sit in the back and i know this because i...

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